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"Shirley" Haha! What about Sheila? | |||
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"Mate Can't fucking stand it I don't even like gen friends using it " Lol, I use this a lot at work | |||
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"Penis wallet. My husband uses that when he wants to irritate me " Ah shit... I like that one and if I didn't want to fuck you, I'd have said it by now... eternal dilemma | |||
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"Penis wallet. My husband uses that when he wants to irritate me Ah shit... I like that one and if I didn't want to fuck you, I'd have said it by now... eternal dilemma " My husband says it and he still gets to fuck me. I'm eternally generous and forgiving | |||
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"Don't tell me what you don't like! That's a sure way for me to start calling you it. " I hate being called a sex god, really winds me up | |||
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"What names make you cringe?? I can’t stand being called Love, Dear or Hun!! " Babe. Especially by blokes. | |||
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"Don't tell me what you don't like! That's a sure way for me to start calling you it. I hate being called a sex god, really winds me up " Ladies! This man is a complete and utter sex god! Don't be fooled by him, he is a 100% grade A sex god. Just watch yourselves around the sex god, you know what they are like. | |||
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"You can call me anything you want, it's really not a problem for me " Same for me, all about the context and intent (as per usual) | |||
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"Don't tell me what you don't like! That's a sure way for me to start calling you it. I hate being called a sex god, really winds me up Ladies! This man is a complete and utter sex god! Don't be fooled by him, he is a 100% grade A sex god. Just watch yourselves around the sex god, you know what they are like. " My day is completely ruined now, I need time to get over this | |||
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"A wet hole" Can see how that'd be a no, or more than likely a right hook!! | |||
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"A wet hole" Is your hole dry, like cotton wool? | |||
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"A wet hole" Is that open (pun not intended) to other variations to being acceptable? A hole? A moist hole? (sorry! I know that word triggers people) A wholesome hole? | |||
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"You can call me anything you want, it's really not a problem for me Same for me, all about the context and intent (as per usual) " Exactly that. | |||
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"Shirley" You can't be serious | |||
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"A wet hole Is your hole dry, like cotton wool?" More often than not, yes | |||
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"Mistress, goddess just ick " Any messages that call me that, earn the sender a one way ticket to my block list. XX | |||
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"A wet hole Is that open (pun not intended) to other variations to being acceptable? A hole? A moist hole? (sorry! I know that word triggers people) A wholesome hole?" No. I hate any orifice being referred to as a hole. If someone says to me “which one of your holes do you want me in” all of my “holes” are now closed to you except the door. Goodbye. | |||
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"Female, or girl. Gah. I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg. " While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. | |||
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"A wet hole Is that open (pun not intended) to other variations to being acceptable? A hole? A moist hole? (sorry! I know that word triggers people) A wholesome hole? No. I hate any orifice being referred to as a hole. If someone says to me “which one of your holes do you want me in” all of my “holes” are now closed to you except the door. Goodbye. " Mystical cave of wonders it is then! | |||
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"Female, or girl. Gah. I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg. While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. " Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name. | |||
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" While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. " Why do I have to keep their theoretical intentions in mind, and not that they instead should consider such labels might be unwelcome? | |||
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"A wet hole Is your hole dry, like cotton wool? More often than not, yes " I shall squirt some lube your way *splurging noises* | |||
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"Mistress, goddess just ick " It would totally depend on who is doing the talking Some would be cute/funny/sexy others would be a bit creepy or just wrong. Yeah, these above wouldn't ever fit me or feel right even as a bit of fun. Just odd sounding to me. | |||
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"Female, or girl. Gah. I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg. While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name. " I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days | |||
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" While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. Why do I have to keep their theoretical intentions in mind, and not that they instead should consider such labels might be unwelcome? " Communication skills? | |||
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" While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. Why do I have to keep their theoretical intentions in mind, and not that they instead should consider such labels might be unwelcome? " Well partially because you said yourself one guy gets a pass for it because you feel it is meant nicely. So you are doing that with him. | |||
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"Female, or girl. Gah. I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg. While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name. I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days " I pretty much use love for everyone. And pal seems masculine | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 09/02/23 12:52:27]" Where do you wear your name badge? | |||
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"Female, or girl. Gah. I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg. While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name. I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days " A friend of mine just calls everyone "sausage" now. His words "everyone is equal, there is no hesitation, you are getting sausage or nothing" | |||
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" Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name. " In the setting I'm talking about, I'm required to wear a name badge displayed prominently, if they really really feel a need to refer to me. Also, I manage to get through every single one of these interactions without using pet names, it is in fact possible to have a whole exchange without them. | |||
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"A wet hole" A wet blanket? | |||
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" Well partially because you said yourself one guy gets a pass for it because you feel it is meant nicely. So you are doing that with him. " Sure, based on two years of interpersonal interactions that have gone beyond 99% of the other interactions I have in that setting. There is context, and appropriateness. | |||
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" Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name. In the setting I'm talking about, I'm required to wear a name badge displayed prominently, if they really really feel a need to refer to me. Also, I manage to get through every single one of these interactions without using pet names, it is in fact possible to have a whole exchange without them. " OK. | |||
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"Female, or girl. Gah. I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg. While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name. I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days A friend of mine just calls everyone "sausage" now. His words "everyone is equal, there is no hesitation, you are getting sausage or nothing" " The sausage and the hole... An aesops fable. | |||
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"The defendant! Please rise. " Only when I’m turned on! | |||
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"Female, or girl. Gah. I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg. While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name. I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days I pretty much use love for everyone. And pal seems masculine " Yeah granted pal doesn't go down well for all especially if they're interested in you, can't really win these days | |||
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"Female, or girl. Gah. I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg. While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name. I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days A friend of mine just calls everyone "sausage" now. His words "everyone is equal, there is no hesitation, you are getting sausage or nothing" " Jesus, this dude sounds class tbf least you know what you're getting called if you know him, can imagine causes strange looks of strangers | |||
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"What names make you cringe?? I can’t stand being called Love, Dear or Hun!! " all of them you mentioned + “hen” “hun/hunni” “babe/baby” | |||
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"I have recently been called dear by a couple of twentysomethings on here, made me feel so old! " Oh dear | |||
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"Baby or naughty girl Actually, anything involving girl - I'm a fully grown woman who can tie my own shoelaces and everything. Where I live people use 'duck', I don't dislike it per se, I just find it strange. " Stoke! | |||
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"I have recently been called dear by a couple of twentysomethings on here, made me feel so old! Oh dear " | |||
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"Baby or naughty girl Actually, anything involving girl - I'm a fully grown woman who can tie my own shoelaces and everything. Where I live people use 'duck', I don't dislike it per se, I just find it strange. Stoke!" ALL RISE FOR THE STOKE ON TRENT NATIONAL ANTHEM | |||
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"Cute. I don't want to be cute, I want to be sexy dammit!" Awww that's cute! | |||
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"Baby or naughty girl Actually, anything involving girl - I'm a fully grown woman who can tie my own shoelaces and everything. Where I live people use 'duck', I don't dislike it per se, I just find it strange. " Being told I'm a good girl...ick | |||
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"Cute. I don't want to be cute, I want to be sexy dammit! Awww that's cute! " No! Stop antagonising me | |||
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"Mate Can't fucking stand it I don't even like gen friends using it " From London originally and everyone we meet and don’t know their name get called Mate. Been in Derbyshire four years still not used to being called Duck especially by men | |||
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