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By *urvyK87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bourne

What names make you cringe?? I can’t stand being called Love, Dear or Hun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shirley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shirley"

I misheard you and I’ve already apologised

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Jolene. She’s a right bitch

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By *urvyK87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Bourne


"Shirley"

Haha! What about Sheila?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good girl..

One it's incorrect.

Two it's not normal.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Fat cow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe, hun , sweetie .

I mean if we’ve built up a rapport than that’s different , but any of these kind of things in a first message is just creepy.

And never ever called me slut , that’s just a straight block no matter what.

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By *oastal1968Man
over a year ago

London

Fella! Bruv! Bro!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

On here any derogatory terms. It’s not something that turns me on with a stranger.

In real life, nothing really bothers me.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Daddy... for my kids it's fine creeps me out when it's not quickest way make man lose an erection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mistress, goddess just ick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stupid

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Geezer, boss, guv - that sort of thing.

I don’t hate it as such but typically find that such as mentioned are invariably uttered by rather uncouth individuals who dwell well beneath one’s social standing….

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Nice!

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

I mainly just hate being called any time before 10.30 or by anyone wanting me to do some work…neither being pleasant experiences

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I hate it when doctors call me by my middle name because they can't pronounce my first name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr! thats my dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daddy. It’s just wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love does me in. Instant ick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You sexy cunt!"

Is a go to for a few different guys ive met. Sounds aggressive more than anything. It doesn't stop play though.

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Mate

Can't fucking stand it

I don't even like gen friends using it

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

^ he's not the Daddy

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Penis wallet. My husband uses that when he wants to irritate me

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By *ub... girlWoman
over a year ago

worcester


"Mate

Can't fucking stand it

I don't even like gen friends using it "

Lol, I use this a lot at work

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Don't tell me what you don't like! That's a sure way for me to start calling you it.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Penis wallet. My husband uses that when he wants to irritate me "

Ah shit... I like that one and if I didn't want to fuck you, I'd have said it by now... eternal dilemma

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Penis wallet. My husband uses that when he wants to irritate me

Ah shit... I like that one and if I didn't want to fuck you, I'd have said it by now... eternal dilemma "

My husband says it and he still gets to fuck me. I'm eternally generous and forgiving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name. I don't like been called my actual name

Mrs C

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Don't tell me what you don't like! That's a sure way for me to start calling you it. "

I hate being called a sex god, really winds me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe, hun, Elizabeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What names make you cringe?? I can’t stand being called Love, Dear or Hun!! "

Babe. Especially by blokes.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Dude

Buddy

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Don't tell me what you don't like! That's a sure way for me to start calling you it.

I hate being called a sex god, really winds me up "

Ladies! This man is a complete and utter sex god! Don't be fooled by him, he is a 100% grade A sex god.

Just watch yourselves around the sex god, you know what they are like.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Sue! My old man's gone, so can't even have it out with him!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Jeremy

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

You can call me anything you want, it's really not a problem for me

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London

The defendant!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"You can call me anything you want, it's really not a problem for me "

Same for me, all about the context and intent (as per usual)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The defendant! "

Please rise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wet hole

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By *ory_xWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way Syndey

Female unless it's followed by human they could be referencing all of the animals/mammals of the earth.

Much prefer being called a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lad. It just makes me think of arseholes who do and say horrible things and pass it off as bantz.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Don't tell me what you don't like! That's a sure way for me to start calling you it.

I hate being called a sex god, really winds me up

Ladies! This man is a complete and utter sex god! Don't be fooled by him, he is a 100% grade A sex god.

Just watch yourselves around the sex god, you know what they are like. "

My day is completely ruined now, I need time to get over this

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester


"A wet hole"

Can see how that'd be a no, or more than likely a right hook!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"A wet hole"

Is your hole dry, like cotton wool?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"A wet hole"

Is that open (pun not intended) to other variations to being acceptable?

A hole?

A moist hole? (sorry! I know that word triggers people)

A wholesome hole?

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"You can call me anything you want, it's really not a problem for me

Same for me, all about the context and intent (as per usual) "

Exactly that.

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood


"Shirley"

You can't be serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can call me whatever you like but don't call me late for my dinner

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Female, or girl. Gah.

I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s ‘Bro’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wet hole

Is your hole dry, like cotton wool?"

More often than not, yes

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Mistress, goddess just ick "

Any messages that call me that, earn the sender a one way ticket to my block list.

XX

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By *ames stoneMan
over a year ago

bristol

Bruv fucking annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A wet hole

Is that open (pun not intended) to other variations to being acceptable?

A hole?

A moist hole? (sorry! I know that word triggers people)

A wholesome hole?"

No. I hate any orifice being referred to as a hole. If someone says to me “which one of your holes do you want me in” all of my “holes” are now closed to you except the door. Goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe...

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Female, or girl. Gah.

I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg. "

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"A wet hole

Is that open (pun not intended) to other variations to being acceptable?

A hole?

A moist hole? (sorry! I know that word triggers people)

A wholesome hole?

No. I hate any orifice being referred to as a hole. If someone says to me “which one of your holes do you want me in” all of my “holes” are now closed to you except the door. Goodbye. "

Mystical cave of wonders it is then!

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Daddy, Sir - puts me right off for different reasons or Master too yuk

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

John...... Well its not my name ffs

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By *lemFandango23TV/TS
over a year ago

Sou City Centre

I hate being called Sissy or slut, I not they type, I’m a guy that likes to dress in woman’s clothes, that dose. It make me a sissy or a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female, or girl. Gah.

I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg.

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. "

Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name.

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


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While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind. "

Why do I have to keep their theoretical intentions in mind, and not that they instead should consider such labels might be unwelcome?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Any standard term of endearment. Both from strangers and partners.

I don't mind a sarcastic cupcake or sweetheart to flavour a backhanded compliment, but never used anywhere else for me please.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"A wet hole

Is your hole dry, like cotton wool?

More often than not, yes "

I shall squirt some lube your way *splurging noises*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mistress, goddess just ick "

It would totally depend on who is doing the talking

Some would be cute/funny/sexy others would be a bit creepy or just wrong.

Yeah, these above wouldn't ever fit me or feel right even as a bit of fun. Just odd sounding to me.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.


"Female, or girl. Gah.

I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg.

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind.

Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name.

"

I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind.

Why do I have to keep their theoretical intentions in mind, and not that they instead should consider such labels might be unwelcome? "

Communication skills?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind.

Why do I have to keep their theoretical intentions in mind, and not that they instead should consider such labels might be unwelcome? "

Well partially because you said yourself one guy gets a pass for it because you feel it is meant nicely. So you are doing that with him.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.

Pervert.... just go and sit somewhere else on the train and mind your own business

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Female, or girl. Gah.

I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg.

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind.

Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name.

I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days "

I pretty much use love for everyone. And pal seems masculine

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"[Removed by poster at 09/02/23 12:52:27]"

Where do you wear your name badge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shirley"

Gotcha

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Female, or girl. Gah.

I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg.

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind.

Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name.

I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days "

A friend of mine just calls everyone "sausage" now. His words "everyone is equal, there is no hesitation, you are getting sausage or nothing"

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"

Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name.

"

In the setting I'm talking about, I'm required to wear a name badge displayed prominently, if they really really feel a need to refer to me. Also, I manage to get through every single one of these interactions without using pet names, it is in fact possible to have a whole exchange without them.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"A wet hole"

A wet blanket?

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"

Well partially because you said yourself one guy gets a pass for it because you feel it is meant nicely. So you are doing that with him. "

Sure, based on two years of interpersonal interactions that have gone beyond 99% of the other interactions I have in that setting. There is context, and appropriateness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name.

In the setting I'm talking about, I'm required to wear a name badge displayed prominently, if they really really feel a need to refer to me. Also, I manage to get through every single one of these interactions without using pet names, it is in fact possible to have a whole exchange without them. "

OK.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Female, or girl. Gah.

I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg.

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind.

Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name.

I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days

A friend of mine just calls everyone "sausage" now. His words "everyone is equal, there is no hesitation, you are getting sausage or nothing" "

The sausage and the hole... An aesops fable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He.him.

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By *angler 321Man
over a year ago

Hereford

Babe and bro irritate me, I hate them!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Baby cringe or hun,I hate hun in everyday life too .

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy bastard…

I’m not a piece of meat and I was born into wedlock

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Baby girl or hun

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Reginald, I really don't like it especially as it isn't even my name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe. Hate it.

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By *linyMan
over a year ago

Manchester/London


"The defendant!

Please rise. "

Only when I’m turned on!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Baby or naughty girl

Actually, anything involving girl - I'm a fully grown woman who can tie my own shoelaces and everything.

Where I live people use 'duck', I don't dislike it per se, I just find it strange.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Babe or bbe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Madam winds me right up...it just sounds like they're taking the piss.

I like being called by the shortened version of my name.

Don't really mind about babe, luv, hun or any of that...better than some other words!

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.


"Female, or girl. Gah.

I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg.

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind.

Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name.

I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days

I pretty much use love for everyone. And pal seems masculine "

Yeah granted pal doesn't go down well for all especially if they're interested in you, can't really win these days

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

nae danger.


"Female, or girl. Gah.

I don't mind people I have a connection with using pet names with me, if they want to, but at work I despise customers calling me sweetheart, love, darling, dear, mate, etc etc I am none of those things to those people! The one exception is a particular customer who always calls me 'flower', and he gets a pass because it is very clearly meant very nicely, and he seems like a good egg.

While I'm not dismissing the validness of your dislike for those names from strangers, 9/10 it will be meant nicely by those people too. People just have their words that are used to express appreciation - a lot of the time we should all keep this in mind.

Started typing similar response. Men and women use mate, love, dear. Because they're not rude names and they likely don't know you're actual name.

I admittedly used hun and man a lot like a whole lot and after wrong gendering someone thanks to a driver change over everyone is now just called pal these days

A friend of mine just calls everyone "sausage" now. His words "everyone is equal, there is no hesitation, you are getting sausage or nothing" "

Jesus, this dude sounds class tbf least you know what you're getting called if you know him, can imagine causes strange looks of strangers

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Babe is slightly off-putting.

I think as I've got older I'm less fussed/bothered about terms of endearment.

Some names will always come across as a bit patronising but meh. I'm getting softer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What names make you cringe?? I can’t stand being called Love, Dear or Hun!! "

all of them you mentioned + “hen” “hun/hunni” “babe/baby”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty old man, certainly not old, that is ageist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as I'm not called something offensive then I could not care less what I'm called. Love, luvvie, bud, dude, mate, bro, dear, darling, pal. Will just make sure Im not known as the Karen.

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By *ashedMan
over a year ago

hemel

Late for dinner

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By *unCycleGymRepeatMan
over a year ago

Greater London

I normally get away with calling girls darling or sweetheart. On the odd occasion it's not gone down too well TBH but generally, if I smile, it seems to be acceptable.

On here, not sure I would dare try it. Usually difficult to convey a smile via text.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I have recently been called dear by a couple of twentysomethings on here, made me feel so old!

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By *uskysoundsCouple
over a year ago

Mazarrón, Spain

Hun is the one that irritates the most here

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I have recently been called dear by a couple of twentysomethings on here, made me feel so old! "

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe, hun, love

Actually, anything that's not my name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baby or naughty girl

Actually, anything involving girl - I'm a fully grown woman who can tie my own shoelaces and everything.

Where I live people use 'duck', I don't dislike it per se, I just find it strange. "

Stoke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My real answer is you can call me anything so long as I'm horny and feeling some nerve endings being massaged

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"I have recently been called dear by a couple of twentysomethings on here, made me feel so old!

Oh dear "

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I have a real bee in my bonnet when someone lads me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Baby or naughty girl

Actually, anything involving girl - I'm a fully grown woman who can tie my own shoelaces and everything.

Where I live people use 'duck', I don't dislike it per se, I just find it strange.

Stoke!"

ALL RISE FOR THE STOKE ON TRENT NATIONAL ANTHEM

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Honey or hun...you could be as hot as..but you call me either of those and my innards curl up and die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bitch or slag.

absolutely infuriates me.

i will punch you in the neck if you call me that Px

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cute. I don't want to be cute, I want to be sexy dammit!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Cute. I don't want to be cute, I want to be sexy dammit!"

Awww that's cute!

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By *ab FunstersCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Baby or naughty girl

Actually, anything involving girl - I'm a fully grown woman who can tie my own shoelaces and everything.

Where I live people use 'duck', I don't dislike it per se, I just find it strange. "

Being told I'm a good girl...ick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m good with anything x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

My full first name. That’s saved for my mother when she’s telling me off.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you wanna see Mrs KJ see red call her 'Pet'

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I hate buddy grr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cute. I don't want to be cute, I want to be sexy dammit!

Awww that's cute! "

No! Stop antagonising me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Squeezable

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By *escourtesMan
over a year ago

hereford

Hate being called Donkey...every time I go to the pub a man at the bar Eeyore Eeyore E always calls me Donkey...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got called a spunk bucket once

He did apologised and we laughed it off think he was too inexperienced being so young at the time. Thought he’d blown it but nearly 22 years later we are still together. Still makes us laugh

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Squeezable"

You’re not letting this one go, are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huni

Honey

Babe

Darling

Sweetheart

And yet I don't mind grumpy cow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honey

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Stormageddon, Dark Lord of All

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Squeezable

"

you're being such a hater!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beaut

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

Wolly wombat lol

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Hun

.. 'coz I'm not fucking German okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate

Can't fucking stand it

I don't even like gen friends using it "

From London originally and everyone we meet and don’t know their name get called Mate. Been in Derbyshire four years still not used to being called Duck especially by men

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Wow you guys mix with some really amazing and nice people I do not feel what they have been calling you is too bad...

People I know go straight for the kill but the one I dislike the most hast to be Cunt.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Honey "

Alright treacle calm down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit

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