FabSwingers.com forum: Ever payed a compliment and then got blocked

By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

How many times has this happened to ya’ll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t pay compliments to anyone but myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww, no never OP. Has it happened to you?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got blocked the quickest imaginable way. I sent a message saying I'd been to her town and know how damn ugly it is so it must be thought being a rose amongst thorns and honestly, the speed in which she read and blocked was baffling. Maybe 3 seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, happened once. Shrug and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has, just seen your status...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many times has this happened to ya’ll"

I've been blocked by people I've not directly communicated with

I don't need to waste time with compliments.

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By *.R.MMan
over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes

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By *ukeuk888Man
over a year ago

hastings

"How many times has this happened to ya’ll

I've been blocked by people I've not directly communicated with

I don't need to waste time with compliments. "

I thought it was just me

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Aww, no never OP. Has it happened to you?"

Oh yes literally just 5 minutes ago

Guess some people just can’t take them that well

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

I assumed compliments would be a good way to break the ice

How wrong was I to even think that

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I always find ‘Hi, nice tits luv’ always goes down well

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 08/02/23 21:40:33]"

You’ll get there _viatrix

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Ok, third time’s a charm…

I was told this morning I was quite chubby, but still edible. In broken Spanish….

Blocked. He could have made a better job at translating. Pendejo.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"[Removed by poster at 08/02/23 21:40:33]

You’ll get there _viatrix "

Me and jetlag don’t get on very well… should be getting ready for the long slog home instead of fabbing!

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

"I always find ‘Hi, nice tits luv’ always goes down well

Followed by: I’m passing thru your town for work n im hrny. FAF??

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Personally, I don't really want random compliments, from people I'm not interested in.

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"[Removed by poster at 08/02/23 21:40:33]

You’ll get there _viatrix

Me and jetlag don’t get on very well… should be getting ready for the long slog home instead of fabbing!

You look stunning…. Happy to get blocked by you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 08/02/23 21:40:33]

You’ll get there _viatrix

Me and jetlag don’t get on very well… should be getting ready for the long slog home instead of fabbing!

well I am glad you posted so as to have a perv at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I once gave a friendly bit of advice to a woman who mentioned she only meets guys at her place even though she had a very young child.

I simply told her to be very careful who you invite home.

Her response was "Don't patronise me!"

and then I was blocked.

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Personally, I don't really want random compliments, from people I'm not interested in.

So would you prefer to make the initial contact to save you from getting compliments and avoid unwanted attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I once gave a friendly bit of advice to a woman who mentioned she only meets guys at her place even though she had a very young child.

I simply told her to be very careful who you invite home.

Her response was "Don't patronise me!"

and then I was blocked."

She was right though, you were patronising her a tad

She'd have already weighed everything up, as an adult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't pay compliments.

Problem solved.

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"Don't pay compliments.

Problem solved."

How does one get your attention or do you call the shots

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I'm not directing this specifically at you OP as I have no idea what you said, but I fear what a lot of men on here consider a compliment may not be received as one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dint mind getting compliments. It’s just when they are the sleazy make you cringe one’s that I either ignore or block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't pay compliments.

Problem solved.

How does one get your attention or do you call the shots "

Do you only announce your arrival with a complimentary?

Hello is pretty reliable.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Yes. Once.

Which was interesting due to the fact that she messaged me first. She was, however, kind enough in her temerity to inform me that it was my loss.

That last part always confuses me because I struggle to reason with stupidity.

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

"I'm not directing this specifically at you OP as I have no idea what you said, but I fear what a lot of men on here consider a compliment may not be received as one"

Ok so this is what I had said

“It’s a shame your so far away”

Response

“You’ve never been with a Nepalese woman”

My response

“Didn’t even realise you were Nepalese but your very beautiful”

Next thing I’m blocked

I guess I deserved it coz I’ve never been with a Nepalese woman before

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Should have missed off the but, makes it sound like it's a surprise she's attractive given her ethnicity

Tinder

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Happy to name them on here but in all seriousness each to their own

No point really

I’m sure there folks out there whom take compliments well and can result breaking the ice

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

She just didn't like the cut of your jib

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Pile of times. Apparently being nice to some people is an extremely horrible thing to do to them hence the block

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

I’ll keep the compliments to myself next time and hopefully can catch someone’s attention

Lesson learned don’t pay compliments

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By *exysoul888TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've had someone give me a really nice compliment, to which I replied thank you very much. Then they blocked me...

Takes all sorts, and don't take it to heart

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"She just didn't like the cut of your jib"

^^ this

Don’t give it a second thought OP. You were too far away for a start, and probably not what she was looking for either.

Please don’t name on the forum though as it is against the rules for a good reason and you will be put on the naughty step I’m sure.

Grasp the positives. She wasn’t for you and now you can’t message her again

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By *esi_maverick OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Anyway bedtime for me I’ll catch up with this thread tomorrow

Have a great night folks sweet dreams xx

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Unwanted attention is harassment

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's yet to happen to me

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"Unwanted attention is harassment

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so I have been harassing every cool car I see, my bad.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

Maybe it was a creepy compliment.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Maybe it was a creepy compliment."

You have beautiful eyes, I'd love to pop them out of your skull with my penis.

Something like that?

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"Maybe it was a creepy compliment.

You have beautiful eyes, I'd love to pop them out of your skull with my penis.

Something like that? "

You forgot the part where you offer me money to hide my knickers up a tree or in a dog poo bin or whatever.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Maybe it was a creepy compliment.

You have beautiful eyes, I'd love to pop them out of your skull with my penis.

Something like that?

You forgot the part where you offer me money to hide my knickers up a tree or in a dog poo bin or whatever."

I never offer money, that is really creepy

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Yep and then I realised I messaged myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost count

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Many times, just block them back and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one on here who is surprised by how surprised others get by what happens on here ?

It’s Fab. No rules. No rhyme. No reason.

Just play the game. Ask no questions. Hear no lies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck get blocked without paying a compliment.....that's fab life

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I don’t often pay compliments but actually did today. I wasn’t interested in the guy but thought he had a superb profile, so I told him so but prefaced it by saying it wasn’t a come on.

Receiving compliments can be lovely, but like the person said above I don’t really enjoy it if it’s from someone I don’t find attractive. My experience is that, like you OP, a compliment is often used as an icebreaker. If that person isn’t what I’m looking for I want to avoid the conversation escalating so I do use the block button.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Fuck get blocked without paying a compliment.....that's fab life "

Nice ass

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

Er, nope

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"Personally, I don't really want random compliments, from people I'm not interested in.

So would you prefer to make the initial contact to save you from getting compliments and avoid unwanted attention "

Oh.

Yes please.

Safely assume that if I haven't contacted you then I'm not interested in compliments from you. It sounds perfectly reasonable to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pile of times. Apparently being nice to some people is an extremely horrible thing to do to them hence the block "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not directing this specifically at you OP as I have no idea what you said, but I fear what a lot of men on here consider a compliment may not be received as one

Ok so this is what I had said

“It’s a shame your so far away”

Response

“You’ve never been with a Nepalese woman”

My response

“Didn’t even realise you were Nepalese but your very beautiful”

Next thing I’m blocked

I guess I deserved it coz I’ve never been with a Nepalese woman before

Perhaps it was mentioned in her profile so it was clear that you hadn't read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, but it was my fault as I didn't read the bio so I'm only to blame

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

All the time apparently “ you have a cracking minge” is not a compliment.

The mr

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

Don't know about blocked but I've been ghosted a couple of times recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably lots.

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By *anillaboyMan
over a year ago

london

"How many times has this happened to ya’ll"

I was blocked after they winked me, what else i can say????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many times has this happened to ya’ll"

Pretty much happens all the time. Either blocked of deleted without any form of response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once got blocked the quickest imaginable way. I sent a message saying I'd been to her town and know how damn ugly it is so it must be thought being a rose amongst thorns and honestly, the speed in which she read and blocked was baffling. Maybe 3 seconds."

We've thought about it and you've never paid either of us a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arsey status updates are so childish that we sometimes block just to stop us being the victim of one somewhere down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought OP.

Some here, block just to avoid contact.

If they feel they won't have interest, rather than be pulled into a conversation, and feel pressured to say no thank you, they block.

It's nothing personal to you, for some reason you're not what they're looking for.

I wonder what the compliment was, because that's another thing, they might not have seen it the way you have.

We all deal with things differently, and maybe they were correct to block, as your response of a status and forum thread to rejection is enough to put many off.

They chose to do what they wanted with their profile.

Unfortunately, that mean in this case, restricting contact with you.

I wonder how many others they blocked on the same day.

Enjoy the positive aspect this site can bring, don't allow how others use it to offend you.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

Saying it's a shame they are so far away isn't a compliment really though is it.....

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

I get randomly blocked for no apparent reason, very puzzling.

There certainly are some very odd people on fab….

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times , or you have friends that never answer questions...why be friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fuck get blocked without paying a compliment.....that's fab life

Nice ass

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blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I've payed a compliment and then blocked them. I hope you understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but I've payed a compliment and then blocked them. I hope you understand."

You got bashful, it happens to us all. And Disney cartoons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've thought about it and you've never paid either of us a compliment

I said the Mr was a sweetie once. Mrs gets none on account of being an ASS

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

"No but I've payed a compliment and then blocked them. I hope you understand."

Errr, no. Please expand.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol... Yet another thread on this. It very obviously happens constantly to us guys. Follow all the advice on here from the ladies and get blocked straight off... It's really quite demoralising isn't it (qué the white knight brigade appearing to offer further advice!) ..

Wouldn't waste so much of your time creating literary nirvana for your readers OP, short and sweet and introduce yourself is the best ... Leave it at that. The genuine nice attractive ladies do reply in fact .. so shows it can be done.

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By *D - CharlieMan
over a year ago

wirral

Yep

Also had the arranged meet, comes to the day and boom… blocked. Like seriously, you go out of your way to arrange your days for people to just drop you

Grinds my gears

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I’ve blocked people who consistently send me messages even though I’d made it clear they’re not my type. Most of the messages were compliments but I didn’t want to keep getting daily messages from them

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

A friendly message showing you have read their profile, not just looked at the pictures is the best way. A random compliment knowing she lived miles away is a bit weird and the wording you used is dreadful. Despite being from that country you thought she was beautiful. That's actually a huge insult.

Moaning about it on here and on your status isn't a good move either.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I’ve blocked people who consistently send me messages even though I’d made it clear they’re not my type. Most of the messages were compliments but I didn’t want to keep getting daily messages from them "

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JåmiePånts, you forgot to insert a full stop at the end of that lamenting remark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often, I complimented someone just this morning on there beard. Then sure enough she blocked me, my flabber was well and truly gastered

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

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JåmiePånts, you forgot to insert a full stop at the end of that lamenting remark.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

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JåmiePånts, you forgot to insert a full stop at the end of that lamenting remark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only give compliments to those I'm already talking to. Other than that, I'll rarely send the first and if I do, I might compliment them on their profile but won't specify any body part because I imagine they can only read "your tits are wicked" so many times.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"I only give compliments to those I'm already talking to. Other than that, I'll rarely send the first and if I do, I might compliment them on their profile but won't specify any body part because I imagine they can only read "your tits are wicked" so many times."

I’ve never once been told my tits are wicked and now I’m pissed off that I haven’t. What a day ruiner

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By *heoneandonlyEJCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Someone winked me then immediately blocked me, wtf?

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I’ve never once been told my tits are wicked and now I’m pissed off that I haven’t. What a day ruiner "

don't worry I'm sure you will in 5... 4... 3... 2... 1...

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Personally, I don't really want random compliments, from people I'm not interested in.

So would you prefer to make the initial contact to save you from getting compliments and avoid unwanted attention "

If someone read my profile, and could tell they weren't my type/what I'm looking for/lived too far away... I'd rather they just didn't say anything. There's thousands of women with hot pics they can Fab and pay compliments to.

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

How can a compliment be genuine,of you can't respect what's said on my profile?

So yes,I block a lot of compliments here on fab

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Compliment does not exclude you from being block

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

You get blocked for anything and everything these days...... A compliment to you but an everyday 50 times occurrence to them

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

"Lol... Yet another thread on this. It very obviously happens constantly to us guys. Follow all the advice on here from the ladies and get blocked straight off... It's really quite demoralising isn't it (qué the white knight brigade appearing to offer further advice!) ..

Ohhhh, so it’s only non genuine, unpleasant, unattractive ladies that don’t reply/block? Got it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All part and parcel of playing on Fabs. The benefits far outweigh the negatives. Opportunity to meet and connect with like minded peeps to have an abundance (NSA discreet) fun of getting down and sticky, makes it all worthwhile. A good few blocks, who cares. The peeps we connect with and meet is what really matters.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've been blocked for trying to be funny.

I guess I need a new joke book.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Sometimes what people (mainly men) think is a compliment, very much isn’t. You may not like this, you may weep and wail about how women can’t take a joke or are ‘up themselves’ but you don’t get to decide what other people think.

Move on and realise they just aren’t a good fit for you.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Maybe it wasn’t about a compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send compliments. But I do block ppl that sent one if not my type

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I block people all the time

Generally it's people arranging and then not showing up

Tbh as annoying as it can be getting blocked , what can you really do

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

It could be worse!

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