FabSwingers.com forum: Bad Experiences

By *ts_Business_Time OP Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

What are some of the worst experiences people have had on meets?

Catfish, no show, bad smells, let’s hear them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfully, only had two bad experiences that I can remember. One was turning up to a house that was obviously wrong address (chances were he was looking out of a nearby window having played his prank), and another was turning up to a house with claimant totally unlike he depicted himself in his profile which led me to quick turn on my heels and get away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a bad experience on a meet but most people who I've met say they have.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

No shows… several…. Kipper fanny - two - blowjob with teeth once… drew blood ffs!!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Had sex once.

It was awful, all that moving around.

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By *ts_Business_Time OP Couple
over a year ago

Berkshire

"No shows… several…. Kipper fanny - two - blowjob with teeth once… drew blood ffs!!

Jesus, who the fuck uses teeth on a blowie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yeah, others would be guys who give it the large and can't last more than 5-15mins. unable to repeat. Thankfully, not that many anymore since stopped doing 1-2-1's involving my having to travel afar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No shows… several…. Kipper fanny - two - blowjob with teeth once… drew blood ffs!!

Jesus, who the fuck uses teeth on a blowie "

Mmmm teeth nibbling the foreskin then dragged up and down the shaft.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Apart from being punched in the face and kneed in the balls by a woman who wanted me to retaliate it has been grand.

That was her kink but had never mentioned it before so I told her she had picked the wrong guy and left her there.

That was my first fab meet 6 years ago and I left the site a few days later thinking everyone was a loon like her.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"No shows… several…. Kipper fanny - two - blowjob with teeth once… drew blood ffs!!

Jesus, who the fuck uses teeth on a blowie "

I don’t think they meant to - they just had shit technique and kept catching me - but I had to stop them as it kept happening and started bleeding.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"No shows… several…. Kipper fanny - two - blowjob with teeth once… drew blood ffs!!

Jesus, who the fuck uses teeth on a blowie

Mmmm teeth nibbling the foreskin then dragged up and down the shaft.

Sometimes I wonder about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from being punched in the face and kneed in the balls by a woman who wanted me to retaliate it has been grand.

That was her kink but had never mentioned it before so I told her she had picked the wrong guy and left her there.

That was my first fab meet 6 years ago and I left the site a few days later thinking everyone was a loon like her. "

Wow, I knew a gurl like that; her name was Eva and she was from Newcastle (hard as nails), very pretty and a lovely lady once you got to know her. Some women can be very feisty which can be fun but agree to being punched in the face and kneed in the balls is a step too far before sex. Still, if that's their kink good on them since sure there maybe others out there who enjoy similar but agree not for me. Being hand spanked on the arse cheeks is about my limit.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Honestly othervthan a couple of socials where there was no chemistry, I don't think I've ever had a bad meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from being punched in the face and kneed in the balls by a woman who wanted me to retaliate it has been grand.

That was her kink but had never mentioned it before so I told her she had picked the wrong guy and left her there.

That was my first fab meet 6 years ago and I left the site a few days later thinking everyone was a loon like her. "

Good God,I hope you have had better experiences

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had a guy get extremely pushy when we went back to our cars after a coffee meet thinking he guaranteed sex to the point I had to physically use force to get him off me. He was someone I had chatted to for a day before I met him and the reason why I won't meet quickly again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only bad experience I had maybe was going to a woman house and seeing mess all over the house and her hair covering her bathroom and toilet. While I did have sex with her, it put me off seeing her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders"
Now thats digusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders"

Is bewildering how some peeps don't make an effort to look after their personal hygiene before play. These kind of peeps I try to avoid like the plague. Had similar experience and before I went anywhere near his cock said sorry I can't do this since your B.O. is unbearable and makes me feel ill. Fortunately no drama and hopefully he learnt a lesson that it's not ok to smell bad when going out to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders Now thats digusting"

Me vomiting ,are the smell of him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders Now thats digusting

Me vomiting ,are the smell of him?"
well both really lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders Now thats digusting

Me vomiting ,are the smell of him?"

Without doubt, the smell of him which triggered reaction.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Apart from being punched in the face and kneed in the balls by a woman who wanted me to retaliate it has been grand.

That was her kink but had never mentioned it before so I told her she had picked the wrong guy and left her there.

That was my first fab meet 6 years ago and I left the site a few days later thinking everyone was a loon like her.

Funny enough I didn't see it as feisty. She crossed serious boundaries which if the roles had been reversed wouldn't be acceptable at any level.

If she had mentioned it beforehand we never would have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders Now thats digusting

Me vomiting ,are the smell of him? well both really lol"

I really couldn't help it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders Now thats digusting

Me vomiting ,are the smell of him?

Without doubt, the smell of him which triggered reaction.

Exactly it really was horrendous

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

Never a bad experience, always a learning one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders Now thats digusting

Me vomiting ,are the smell of him? well both really lol

I really couldn't help it though

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Lol I get that but did you not notice he had a wash before you went down there?? And what happened after you were sick on him like that?? Must of being awkward during that scenario lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders Now thats digusting

Me vomiting ,are the smell of him? well both really lol

I really couldn't help it though

Lol I get that but did you not notice he had a wash before you went down there?? And what happened after you were sick on him like that?? Must of being awkward during that scenario lool"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders Now thats digusting

Me vomiting ,are the smell of him? well both really lol

I really couldn't help it though

Lol I get that but did you not notice he had a wash before you went down there?? And what happened after you were sick on him like that?? Must of being awkward during that scenario lool

No his top half actually smelled lovely and it wasn't our first meet(we had had a social) smell started when I got to his waist ,but he pulled his pants off and two late,well I just said sorry and legged it"
Oh right ok and you didnt bother to clean him up after you vomited on him?? Just sorry and left, just incredible lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on fab, but a guys banjo string snapped when i was in my twenties

Once of my scariest experiences

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Has a couple of meets where they'd clearly lied about age, just a waste of everyone's time really.

Mrs

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

My first meet, which wasn't through Fab. Went to a guys house after talking and setting boundaries. We talked for a while and it was all going well until we went upstairs. He then said he didn't want sexy just me to finger him and nothing else. When I said he was leaving he sat on the end of the bed crying. Saying he never got meets and if he had to travel ot cost him a fortune in bus fare. At that point i made my excuses and left very quickly.

Another was a guy who seemed really nice. Whilst giving him a BJ he asked if he could cum in my face, to which I said no. Said I was happy to swallow, and he said OK. So just as he cums he pulls away and sprays all over my face. By the time I knew what had happened he had got his trousers up, and was down the stairs and out the front door. We're talking Olympic speen sprinting here.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Going to a meet when got there get a txt saying can’t beleive you thought I would turn up loser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apart from being punched in the face and kneed in the balls by a woman who wanted me to retaliate it has been grand.

That was her kink but had never mentioned it before so I told her she had picked the wrong guy and left her there.

That was my first fab meet 6 years ago and I left the site a few days later thinking everyone was a loon like her.

Funny enough I didn't see it as feisty. She crossed serious boundaries which if the roles had been reversed wouldn't be acceptable at any level.

If she had mentioned it beforehand we never would have met."

It's good to talk (good level of communication and honesty being key ingredients to having any chance of a successful outcome)

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

Chatting to a cpl on fab about a week. Arranged to meet up at attic on the Saturday. Lots of flirty banter all week. Finally met on the Saturday as arranged. They spent at least an hour talking about the toilet habits of his mother who'd moved in with them. My Mrs is far to polite sometimes, was jabbing her in the ribs after 5 mins hoping she'd get the hint. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first meet on my previous profile.about a month in and I wasn't clued in on the site i was still navigating it.but had Been chatting for a month to five weeks with a man and had good messages. so when I said yea come round for a chat, I meant exactly that, however, he came in, sat down, I got one word answers, I felt uncomfortable that he wouldn't look at me. Within five min he asked to use the loo and when he came back his jeans were open with his cock out, he dove on me, went straight for the boobs and fanny and i said stupidly i thought it was just a chat, he said nah 'an invite round means fucking' and i said i dont want that. So he said ok, then you shouldn't ask men round, left and two min later his status was' need to go to the socials that's where all the fit ones are and will fuck'

I left the site immediately it was only my next door neighbour that said join again and I'll help you with the site.

My next meet after months of re joining I'd made it clear it was just a chat. But he came with a backpack of sex toys and said you never know. I thought this site isn't for me

Until my next meet who was absolutely the opposite and i wanted to jump him

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By *icassolifelikeMan
over a year ago

Luton

"My first meet on my previous profile.about a month in and I wasn't clued in on the site i was still navigating it.but had Been chatting for a month to five weeks with a man and had good messages. so when I said yea come round for a chat, I meant exactly that, however, he came in, sat down, I got one word answers, I felt uncomfortable that he wouldn't look at me. Within five min he asked to use the loo and when he came back his jeans were open with his cock out, he dove on me, went straight for the boobs and fanny and i said stupidly i thought it was just a chat, he said nah 'an invite round means fucking' and i said i dont want that. So he said ok, then you shouldn't ask men round, left and two min later his status was' need to go to the socials that's where all the fit ones are and will fuck'

I left the site immediately it was only my next door neighbour that said join again and I'll help you with the site.

My next meet after months of re joining I'd made it clear it was just a chat. But he came with a backpack of sex toys and said you never know. I thought this site isn't for me

Until my next meet who was absolutely the opposite and i wanted to jump him

And that’s the pitfall’s of the site. People from all walks of life and all types of agendas.

Personally I will only ever meet for a coffee first in a public place. Furthermore I’d never meet at a female’s place until she’s assured me all her safety measures are in situ. Someone else knows, she checks in etc etc. There’s only so much you can do but do it nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just the one off another site

I can't believe I'm going to say this but what the heck

I vomited all over his dick the smell of it was disgusting so bad it really put me off bjs for along time,shudders Now thats digusting

Me vomiting ,are the smell of him? well both really lol

I really couldn't help it though

Lol I get that but did you not notice he had a wash before you went down there?? And what happened after you were sick on him like that?? Must of being awkward during that scenario lool

No his top half actually smelled lovely and it wasn't our first meet(we had had a social) smell started when I got to his waist ,but he pulled his pants off and two late,well I just said sorry and legged it Oh right ok and you didnt bother to clean him up after you vomited on him?? Just sorry and left, just incredible lool"

Well I certainly wasn't going anywhere neat his nob again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Six years ago we went on fab as a couple. To find my wife an exclusive 'Man friend with benefits', specifically for her sexual satisfaction, as I prefer blokes and enjoy the Cuckold element. We made it very clear we were only interested in mature guys 55+ and my wife was insistent we would only meet single unattached guys. Not married or partnered as she did not want to be a party to cheating.

After a couple of social meets we met a nice single guy from Teesside. We had a couple of social meets with him, before he joined us for an afternoon at our hotel in Harrogate. He and my wife had some enjoyable intimate fun and I later joined them, when all three of us had fun.

We didn't hear from him again for several months. He sometimes used to text my wife and message me on fab but we never arranged another meet with him.

Five years later out of the blue my wife got a random text message from a woman claiming to be his wife. She messaged to say her husband had a brain tumour and she had power of attorney. She had found his secret phone and discovered about all the women he had seen behind her back, during their marriage and she was now divorcing him.

It was an unexpected and bizarre communication, which certainly tainted our fab experience. It completely discouraged my wife from any further adventures on fab, which is a great shame for her.

A sad outcome all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did write about it once here and it put the heebie jeebies up a lot of folk

I won't recount but let's just say it still scares me now, 15 or 16 years on and I count myself lucky to still be here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not from here but fb dating

Gorgeous pic of this guy looking all sultry on what looked like bondi beach or somewhere , my mates were all like ‘ please ask for more pics, you are so going to get cat fished here ‘

So I asked and the original pic was obviously bullshit as this guy looked like he had been dug up .

Thankfully I never actually met him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did write about it once here and it put the heebie jeebies up a lot of folk

I won't recount but let's just say it still scares me now, 15 or 16 years on and I count myself lucky to still be here"

Awww I want to know now

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I would say that the worst experience has been when I was contacted afterwards and told that I may want to get myself to the clinic!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

None from here, but when I was on a different site before this one I made the mistake of meeting someone who firstly was extremely difficult to get out of my home, so much so that panic started to set in (which is why I now never accommodate) and who then went on to try and coerce me into giving him another chance by threatening me.

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By *icktMan
over a year ago

hockley

"I did write about it once here and it put the heebie jeebies up a lot of folk

I won't recount but let's just say it still scares me now, 15 or 16 years on and I count myself lucky to still be here

Awww I want to know now "

Me too!!

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By *icktMan
over a year ago

hockley

"None from here, but when I was on a different site before this one I made the mistake of meeting someone who firstly was extremely difficult to get out of my home, so much so that panic started to set in (which is why I now never accommodate) and who then went on to try and coerce me into giving him another chance by threatening me.

Wow! Sorry you had to go through that! What is wrong with some people? Xx

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Plenty of catfish and timewastes here .lots and few no shows. but never had disappointment on an actual meet .

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Children in their home

no way.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Many years ago, we had a great meet in a club with a couple. Afterwards we talked and decided we’d be happy to full swap with them.

When we explained that we don’t do bareback, they got really, really shitty with us

They got blocked pretty damn quickly.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Ornament fell off a shelf onto my head

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

"Ornament fell off a shelf onto my head "

Not the kind of bonking you were looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being ch*ked and spit into my mouth without my consent.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Not on fab, but a guys banjo string snapped when i was in my twenties

Once of my scariest experiences "

This happened to Mr KC when we had sex in the back of my car, when we were at the start of our relationship

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

I got on pretty well with a woman I met for a social, so I invited her round for the evening later that week.

She turned up with two overnight bags. One was literally full of outfits and sex toys. The other was her normal kit and she announced she was staying the night.

Ha! Nope.

Her next bombshell was that she had got chatting to another guy and had invited him round. To my house! She’d actually given him my address and he was on his way.

Fuck right off!!

Unbelievable.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Fell over and broke my ankle

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Had a meet totally disregard the boundries put in place before the meet up, he wanted me to call him daddy, then came in my mouth, when I had told him explicitely no before hand.

Another one I had to leave quickly, he was very weird, no privacy to get changed, no chemistry at all.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never had a no show. Cancellation or bad meet from this site and I've been here since the beginning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my finger went through the toilet paper, the shame

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