FabSwingers.com forum: For Thumper. X

By *affeine Dusk OP Man
over a year ago

Caerphilly

*I'm posting this on behalf of some friends. Forgive me for not having much to add to it or if I'm quiet. I'm a bit broken right now and their words are far better than anything I could attempt to say.*

Xxxx

It's with the saddest and most heartbroken hearts that we are the bearer of this message.

We are struggling to even find the words, but we will try.

Our amazing, loveable and beautiful soul of a friend 'Thumper' passed away last night.

He was an absolute belter (a word he used) of a man. The most honest, sincere, down to earth, funny as hell guy, who would drop anything and everything to anyone in need.

His forum posts ranged from pegging to opening his heart about his past demons and sharing them with this amazing community.

One thing you could always rely on Thumper for was honesty.

He didn't shy away from 'the unusual' - why? Because he was unusual, uniquely, outstandingly, breathtakingly, unusual.

One of the rare ones, the ones that don't come around often.

Our hearts are broken.

From an Internet stranger to 'family'.

We will miss our daily chats, our late night phone calls, the epic face times and of course your funny as fuck videos.

Oh how we fucking laughed together.

We love you Thumper

We will miss you more than our hearts can take.

We will always remember you

Our friend, our soul mate,

See you on the other side

S and J

Xxxx

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Wow

this is really shocking and difficult to get my head around

I hope he’s at peace

RIP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus fucking christ. I was literally about to reply to him going through messages.

He was such a great dude. Shocked. Rest in piece Thumper you legend.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I'm so sad to hear this. We're pretty new to the forums but he seemed such a nice, funny guy. Thoughts are with all his friends.

J x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Omg! How so very sad! X

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

What awful tragic news.

An absolute diamond of a man.

My thoughts are with his friends, family & his beloved children.

He will be sorely missed.

RIP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck.

That's pretty much all I can manage atm.

A great loss. Poor kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is shocking and very sad news.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nice man

RIP

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

This is unexpected.

He is a forumite who made a positive difference to the experiences of all.

Thank you for bringing the news. It cannot have been easy for you xx

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

Saddened to hear this. He was a lovely person

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Holy fuck, this is awful. So sad. RIP Thumper

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

He was just talking about his son the other day. Hope he can find peace now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad news sorry for your loss RIP

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By *ritIndianCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

So sorry to hear this. Loved his forum posts and he was was a lovely man. Thoughts are with his family and friends x

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

What! That is unbelievably sad news. He was a real gent.

No words, but hope you're ok too, OP.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

That’s truly shocked me to the core, I’m not sure I have the words, I was only chatting to him Monday, he was such a sensitive soul, loveable, funny and liked him for being open and honest in our conversations, so very very sad, his poor family. RIP.

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Shit. I mean, shit. I’m relatively new to the forums so I didn’t know him that well, but I liked reading anything he posted and he seemed like such a good guy. Stunned.

Deepest condolences to his family and friends. RIP Thumper.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Thank you for sharing this CD

Such awful news, lost for words. A positive influence around the forums

My thoughts are with his children, family and friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How tragic.

He always seemed to come across as a kind soul. His poor family and friends. Love to all who were close to him on here.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Oh fuck.

I’m at a loss. Not Thumper. Fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is such sad news, he was such a lovely man.

May you find peace thumper

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

There really aren't words to express the shock and sadness.

Thank you for posting and letting the forum know, CD. And I hope it is some comfort to you and all his friends to know that he was so well thought of and touched so many here.

Rest in peace, beautiful soul.

Posh and Bob

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"*I'm posting this on behalf of some friends. Forgive me for not having much to add to it or if I'm quiet. I'm a bit broken right now and their words are far better than anything I could attempt to say.*

Xxxx

It's with the saddest and most heartbroken hearts that we are the bearer of this message.

We are struggling to even find the words, but we will try.

Our amazing, loveable and beautiful soul of a friend 'Thumper' passed away last night.

He was an absolute belter (a word he used) of a man. The most honest, sincere, down to earth, funny as hell guy, who would drop anything and everything to anyone in need.

His forum posts ranged from pegging to opening his heart about his past demons and sharing them with this amazing community.

One thing you could always rely on Thumper for was honesty.

He didn't shy away from 'the unusual' - why? Because he was unusual, uniquely, outstandingly, breathtakingly, unusual.

One of the rare ones, the ones that don't come around often.

Our hearts are broken.

From an Internet stranger to 'family'.

We will miss our daily chats, our late night phone calls, the epic face times and of course your funny as fuck videos.

Oh how we fucking laughed together.

We love you Thumper

We will miss you more than our hearts can take.

We will always remember you

Our friend, our soul mate,

See you on the other side

S and J

Xxxx"

Fly Free, you beautiful man. Too young. too soon. The candle that burns twice as bright, burns half as long.

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

This is so very sad, he was such a lovely human, my heart breaks for his poor family.

RIP T xx

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

He seemed a beautiful person.

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Totally shocked by this news.

Thoughts are with his family and close friends.

Another fab gent that will be missed by lots.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

This is so tragic - May he rest in peace

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I am so shocked and saddened by this news. He seemed such a lovely, honest and open man. No words. So sorry for his family and children..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How awful to hear. He always had such positivity in his posts and was so open about his journey that seems like it was only just beginning. I hope he manages to find peace

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

RIP

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

This such tragic news, words just can't be found, rest easy Thumper and I hope you have found your peace x

Tinder and Marc x

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

We are both so shocked…

We spent time with Thumper on this and his last profile..

really saddened to hear this.

Spent an amazing weekend with him last year and popped so many cherries for him.

Rest well my friend. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow.... I am so shocked... It just shows that you never know what is happening in someone's head.

I'm glad he had his holiday and bonding time with his dad and made peace and was able to be himself.

RIP Thumper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my. I have no words, this is very sad.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Oh my goodness no...! He was such a lovely guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh fuck.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Wow.... I am so shocked... It just shows that you never know what is happening in someone's head.

I'm glad he had his holiday and bonding time with his dad and made peace and was able to be himself.

RIP Thumper

Midnight has said what we're thinking too.

It's tragic and very sad to hear this

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Christ, that made my heart drop reading it, what a shock

So bloody sad to read

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Absolutely speechless.

Only speaking to him on Monday.

Fucking gutted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Christ. This is just awful news.

He wrote some beautiful things on here.

Fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Thumper. So incredibly sad to read this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t know him, and never really interacted but was always aware of his forum contributions. To read this is really sad.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

That's so sad and my thoughts are with all of his family and friends on here. I never chatted to him but he came across as a decent guy on the forums . RIP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So utterly shocked. His poor loved ones.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

RIP Thumper. I didn't know you apart from reading a few brave and very open threads. Very sad news.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Oh god, this is really shocking and awful news. I really admired his open and honest posting. RIP Thumper x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m saddened to read this and also shocked. He truly was a lovely guy…. He always had a listening ear…. Such a beautiful soul…. Sleep easy now.

R.I.P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im shocked.

Actually dont have the words right now.

R.I.P

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Jess and I just had a moment over this.

This is awful and tragic. I’m so sorry to hear this.

My deepest condolences to everyone that knew him

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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat

Unbelievably sad news. Love and strength to his family and friends.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Fly high x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg my heart dropped hearing this. He seemed such a lovely bloke, loved his posts on here. RIP Thumper xxx

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Wow.... I am so shocked... It just shows that you never know what is happening in someone's head.

I'm glad he had his holiday and bonding time with his dad and made peace and was able to be himself.

RIP Thumper

Yeah saw the post about his holiday with his Dad. What I saw of him briefly on the forum and site was like a breath of fresh air. Neurodivergent me is feeling crushed mind, body, heart and soul.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

RIP thumper i never knew him but recognise his name, sad when anybody dies.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

This is truly tragic news.

Thumper was a great poster on here.

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

RIP Thumper you will be greatly missed x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

No way

he will be missed

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Oh god this is unbelievable, thoughts are with his family and friends!

We did speak briefly, RIP x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So very sorry to read this. May he rest in peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So very sad my heart goes out to his family and friends

Rip Thumper

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Oh no this is a complete shock. He was such a nice, funny fella on the forums. I’m lost for words right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am deeply saddened to hear of his passing. He was a lovely guy who I had the honour and pleasure of chatting to. He will be greatly missed. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stunned. So very, very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is so sad

Sending love to all who need it right now

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over a year ago

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Jesus.

Very sad news

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Wow…shows how much someone can mean to people who they have never met. Also shows how much is under the surface and doesn’t get revealed.

Thumper was someone who I could read his posts and resonate with…he will be sadly missed.

Tell people who you care about that you do care about them - you never know what difference it can make.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Oh, God, that is so awful. Thank you for letting us know - what a terrible task, and what trust it shows. I've been on internet forums of one kind and another since 2004 and I genuinely can't think of a man so universally liked. Most people have their particular friends, understandably, and stick to mostly that group. But Thumper was just lovely to everyone, and in return everyone loved him. We joke about it, but if ever someone could have been a lifetime member of The Clique it was Thumper, and yet he was always utterly lacking in arrogance.

What a terrible reminder of how vulnerable we can be. Ask not for whom the bell tolls.

So much love to his friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tragic, Hope you find peace Thumper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, God, that is so awful. Thank you for letting us know - what a terrible task, and what trust it shows. I've been on internet forums of one kind and another since 2004 and I genuinely can't think of a man so universally liked. Most people have their particular friends, understandably, and stick to mostly that group. But Thumper was just lovely to everyone, and in return everyone loved him. We joke about it, but if ever someone could have been a lifetime member of The Clique it was Thumper, and yet he was always utterly lacking in arrogance.

What a terrible reminder of how vulnerable we can be. Ask not for whom the bell tolls.

So much love to his friends and family."

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'm so sorry

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

That's such sad news.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Heartbreaking to read this.

RIP Thumper

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Such awful news! Hope Thumper is at peace now and his family and friends will find their own peace in their own time too!

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I am so sad to read this. RIP Thumper such a nice genuine man.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

So sad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That beautiful man, so sad, RIP

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

It’s taken me a while to post tonight as this news has incredibly saddened me. RIP Thumper. You will be sorely missed here and to all whose lives you have touched

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

Rip Thumper.

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By *hino890Man
over a year ago

Berwick

Hi thank you so much for the kind message about thumper, means a lot am one of his best friends thanks for the love you have shown him much appreciated

Rhino

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

Such incredibly sad news.

My thoughts are with his family and friends.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

RIP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just seen this and I am so sorry for his family and friends.

Didn't really know him well, but liked what I knew

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

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By *nselfishpleaserMan
over a year ago

kent

Extremely saddened, my sympathies to his family and friends. I know how it must feel for them having lost someone very close to me last week.

RIP Thumper

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

He was a gem of a fellow. I will miss him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thumper was around back in the day when I first started using fab years ago...and was also the reason the forums became an area to say Hi and mix in with others.

Oh man, you will be missed by so many in your life, thank you for your insights, humour and acceptance of all of us freaks

RIP Thumper dude

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Am absolutely stunned and gutted. PM’d each other a lot. He seemed in a good place after his holiday.

RIP Thumper you lovely guy. Xxxxxxxx

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Very sad news, my heart goes out to those around him.

I haven't met him but I truly hope he is at peace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such sad news. RIP Thumper. Sending hugs & love to all grieving for him

xox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly a forum lurker but enjoyed his posts.

Reading through this thread you can see how much he was thought of.

RIP Thumper

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

How incredibly sad.

Rest in peace x

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

So sorry to read this had many a wonderful message exchange RIP Thumper xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such very sad news.

Your star will always shine bright.

Rip xx

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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Oh wow

that is such shocking news and my love to his friends and family during this time...I'm not one to find the right words so I'll just leave that my inbox is always open for anyone wanting to chat/someone to listen

OP, I can't imagine what you're going through but sending love to you and I hope you have lots of memories to cherish and look back on of how wonderful he was

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

What horribly sad news. Thoughts are with all who grieve a lovely soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Extremely saddened, my sympathies to his family and friends. I know how it must feel for them having lost someone very close to me last week.

RIP Thumper "

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

Fuck.

Echoing what everyone else has said.

RIP dear chap, time to rest, sleep easy.....

Winston and Lady Astor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We didn’t know him but this is such sad news! Our thoughts are with all his family and friends

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

So sad to hear this, he came across as such a genuinely lovely guy x

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’ve just had to backtrack to find this after Brucey’s post. I’m really sad to hear this

We chatted now and then and as everyone else has said, he was a lovely chap

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,

So so saddened and shocked by this news. He was a very special person who reached many people with his openness and honesty. I’ll miss him loads, my love to those who need it.

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By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester

Such sad news.

I lurked for a long time before posting, and I loved reading his posts.

He will be missed. Thoughts and condolences to his loved ones. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a tragic news, I still can’t get my head around it.

It truly makes you think. Some of us are really struggling.

I have no words really.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Such a tragic news, I still can’t get my head around it.

It truly makes you think. Some of us are really struggling.

I have no words really.

This.

I’m guessing those of us who ‘knew’ him via pm are thinking like I am now. You look back at your recent messages - at his recent posts - and look for/see ‘signs’ - things you feel you should’ve picked up on - something you should have said - to make things better and make it different.

Just devastating

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Hi thank you so much for the kind message about thumper, means a lot am one of his best friends thanks for the love you have shown him much appreciated

Rhino "

So sorry for your loss Rhino, sending hugs x

I came on this morning hoping to read there had been a mistake. It’s completely knocked me sideways, I would say I can’t believe it but more I don’t want to believe it, it’s truly saddened. Peoples posts on here show the love for him, he was a very very special guy, I shall miss him immensely as I’m sure everyone will. He will be the star shining brightest in the sky xx

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

How very sad.

My sincere condolences to all.

RIP Thumper x

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By *ilBWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Thumper, but he most definitely touched the hearts of a few close friends, so I'll thank him for that.

Rest easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so sorry and shocked by this. May he rest in peace x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know him very well, but did often read threads and posts. All I can say is my thoughts are with his family and friends, which I sincerely mean

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

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Echoing everything that's already been said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my goodness, what awful news. Rest in peace xx

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

Hope he finally has the peace he could never find in life rest in peace Thumper you beautiful soul.

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By *ifewantsmore777Couple
over a year ago

North West

Just sad, we only chatted to him the other day seeing if we were going to be at the same event as him in Feb. He was an ever present on our own journey and we chatted relatively frequently. We hope he is now at peace and wish his friends and family our most sincere condolences

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

So sad, and such a loss.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

This is so sad

I hope whatever happened he's now resting in peace ,gone far too soon .x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We have no words.

It’s such sad news.

We hope he is in a better place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So very sorry for yours, and his family's loss. God bless. X

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No words. Tragic

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

This is so sad

Rest in peace, Thumper x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading his profile it's as though he's still here. He had an awesome presence. He came across as very open & authentic.

RIP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg, so shocked reading this.

Such a nice guy. Another one gone to soon.

Have chatted to him briefly, didn't know him as much as others.

Prayers going out to those on here that were close to him and his family.

R.I.P Thumber

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

Didn't know him but seeing this and Brucey's post is heart wrenching.. so sorry to hear about this tragic loss.

Mental health is so so so important. Never suffer in silence y'all. Be kind to yourselves xx

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By *rolicUsCouple
over a year ago

Alluringly mysterious

Im remember I him for his openness and his he even fingered plant tips he and I shared last week. I hope someone looks after his beautifully tended houseplants.

Colossal love and compassion to anyone affected by this- whether directly or as a trigger for trauma. We see you and you’re welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus. This is utterly heartbreaking news. If only he could have seen himself as others clearly did, from the lovely messages here alone. So very, very sad.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Awful, very sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Colossal love and compassion to anyone affected by this- whether directly or as a trigger for trauma. We see you and you’re welcome.

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By *uiet LightMan
over a year ago

Hove

So sorry to hear of this loss, the amount of people on here that Thumper made an impression on on is truly touching.

R.I.P.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

Terrible news. He came across as a lovely chap.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

So sad, poor guy. Its very difficult to get over a sudden loss like this, condolences to his friends on here. Look after yourselves x

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By *hino890Man
over a year ago

Berwick

"We are both so shocked…

We spent time with Thumper on this and his last profile..

really saddened to hear this.

Spent an amazing weekend with him last year and popped so many cherries for him.

Rest well my friend. X"

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

Hope you’re keeping ok Rhino.

Sorry that you’ve lost your wingman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

RIP

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

R.I.P Thumper...xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rip

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By *untimes8Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

RIP mate you were one of the good ones and will be missed.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

Shocked to the core about Thumper. Only chatted briefly with him at the club but he was always cheery. RIP sir and hope his friends and family find comfort knowing he is at peace now x

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Ar dheis de go raibh a anam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unbelievable. Truly shocked and saddened x

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By *oggingnfloggingCouple
over a year ago

fife

Rip. You were a true gent.

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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Sad sad news. RIP.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Oh wow

. Only just seen this.... so very sad and tragic.

Rip thumper.

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By *pank-me-harderWoman
over a year ago

close to leven

Wow

Such sad news

Only recently met him and Rhino at afterdark. Some good nights were had,

Rip. You're were a hoot

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