FabSwingers.com forum: Give yourself a credit!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Reflecting on the last year with couple of friends, made me think that sometimes it is hard to give yourself a positive credit for what you achieved and if it's not tangible, then it might be harder to recognise.

Considering we are still somewhat in the transition period between '22 and '23 - what would you give yourself a good credit for, when attempting to summarise last year ?

It's going to be a one word answer from me, as it's too intimate to share in detail:

Courage.

What's yours ?

Tones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perseverance.

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

Kindness

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By *aveyIOM1970Man
over a year ago

douglas

Pleased

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Thankfulness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pete

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

More from my private than fab life I’m going for perseverance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reflecting on the last year with couple of friends, made me think that sometimes it is hard to give yourself a positive credit for what you achieved and if it's not tangible, then it might be harder to recognise.

Considering we are still somewhat in the transition period between '22 and '23 - what would you give yourself a good credit for, when attempting to summarise last year ?

It's going to be a one word answer from me, as it's too intimate to share in detail:

Courage.

What's yours ?

Tones"
mines not getting into trouble at work as I can't keep my gob shut hahaha

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By *arryclone1Man
over a year ago

South West

Achievement

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Consistency.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Can I say courage as well

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By *elix SightedMan
over a year ago

Cloud 8

Endeavour

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More from my private than fab life I’m going for perseverance "

Same here really. Spent most of last year outside of fab

Proud of you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I say courage as well"

Of course

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Kind

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Friendship and support.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm thinking now I like tenacity

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Work life ......

Success!

Gbat

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Strength to keep going....

Major house renovations gone wrong

And sudden near death illness/complications for my father.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pete"

Seconded

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"More from my private than fab life I’m going for perseverance

Same here really. Spent most of last year outside of fab

Proud of you x"

Likewise my lovely friend

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

I'm going 'Victor Meldrew' I've lost patience with people and let them know it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Strength to keep going....

Major house renovations gone wrong

And sudden near death illness/complications for my father. "

You rock in face of adversity..

Hope 2023 is easier. On all of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thankfulness

My Grandaughter was born 6weeks early in May after a difficult pregnancy

And she's an absolute gem and a very healthy 7 month old

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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester

Trusting myself, I decided to move jobs and ply my trade as a consultant which has been an easy transition so far

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Keeping boundaries

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Endurance

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keeping boundaries "

That is crucial.

May it continue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Endurance "

One of my favourite English words

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"Endurance

One of my favourite English words

Not one of my favourite years haha

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I survived. I think resilience sums it up best

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I think I continue to be a good mother to my grown kids.

I'm told I'm a good lover.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I survived. I think resilience sums it up best"

Kudos.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for an inspiring collection of achievements, pats on the back and self hugs. Especially to those who I didn't reply to individually.

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Listening, I hope.

If I am allowed a few more...

Connecting

Learning

Understanding

Empathising

But listening is at the heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Building stronger emotional and mental resilience for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listening, I hope.

If I am allowed a few more...

Connecting

Learning

Understanding

Empathising

But listening is at the heart."

I like how they happened to align vertically to make up CLUE B.

What's the mystery ?

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

Evolving

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By *lephantisMan
over a year ago

Oxford

"Listening, I hope.

If I am allowed a few more...

Connecting

Learning

Understanding

Empathising

But listening is at the heart.

I like how they happened to align vertically to make up CLUE B.

What's the mystery ?

Brilliant spot!

You have passed the test.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Listening, I hope.

If I am allowed a few more...

Connecting

Learning

Understanding

Empathising

But listening is at the heart.

I like how they happened to align vertically to make up CLUE B.

What's the mystery ?

It’s a code

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Listening, I hope.

If I am allowed a few more...

Connecting

Learning

Understanding

Empathising

But listening is at the heart.

I like how they happened to align vertically to make up CLUE B.

What's the mystery ?

Brilliant spot!

You have passed the test.

How very dare you. 2022 was testing enough.

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