FabSwingers.com forum: Narcissus Megan

By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Lots of reports that seem to ridicule Meghan Markle for being narcissistic.

If this is true then isn't it a mental disorder?

If she is ill then why use narcissism as an insult.

What is a narcissist anyway?

What's going on here peoples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is married to old money of course she going to get narcissistic.

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

Narcissism is more of a personality disorder than a mental illness.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

That word seems to be thrown around so much these days it has little meaning, everyone anyone doesn't like or whoever's ex seems to be a narcissist.

Mrs

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Narcissism is more of a personality disorder than a mental illness."

Personality disorders are considered a group of mental illnesses.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

She's not a nice person, simple as that.

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Tom sticking up for Meghan. It’s a Christmas miracle.

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"Tom sticking up for Meghan. It’s a Christmas miracle."

But is she ill.

If she is ill then the papers should leave her alone...

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Tom sticking up for Meghan. It’s a Christmas miracle.

But is she ill.

If she is ill then the papers should leave her alone..."

Even if she isn’t ill they probably should. They should have learned from Caroline Flack but the British press are scum.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

People who don't know her diagnosing her with a personality disorder seems quite strange to me. However as I said earlier lots of people feel they know her personally for some odd reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's not a nice person, simple as that."

Do you know her personally ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has she done?

Really, genuinely, what has she done that is heinous and detestable?

Take your feelings out of this and deal in facts.

I don't know her. I don't think we'd have anything in common if I had to sit next to her on a bus. But I doubt she'd have me yelling to escape a convo.

The crimes pinned to her appear to be the trifecta of 'how fucking dare she' = female, successful in life, mixedrace.

Like Ricky Gervais says:

"How arrogant are you to think that you deserve to go through life with no one ever saying anything that you don't agree with or like."

This goes for liking people too.

Others can be and do and get along. Like them? Don't like them? Fine.

Not justification for death threats etc

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

"She's not a nice person, simple as that."

Have you met her?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"If she is ill then the papers should leave her alone..."

Someone being ill and someone being an asshole are not mutually exclusive things. People should be called out on being assholes regardless of the circumstances.

With that said, I don't even know what she's done that's apparently so bad.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

She is lovely! People need to stop hating on her! Her Harry and their little family are lovely! X

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

She doesn't annoy me as I care not one jot about her. But , she doesn't seem a nice person to me.

My reasons are. She's a successful intelligent woman. So I don't believe for a second that she would have been shocked by the customs of the royal family. The curtsy for instance .

It's come to light recently that she is on film actually doing one in an episode of ' suits'

And her treatment of her father is disgraceful. Phoning, texting. He's in hospital! Fly the f$@k over and see him yourself.

My thoughts , may be correct. May be wrong.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Is there such thing as a Jonquilist?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only know if someone is a narcissist if they impact your life and they are poison.

Celebrity strangers don't impact my life.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"She's not a nice person, simple as that."

'Information from a passing tabloid newspaper'.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

To be honest if I were her I'd ignore everyone except my mother too.

Blood sucking leeches the rest of them......The dad tried to make money off her

The half sister is a gold digger and gets her few quid off the papers for saying stuff about her that can't be true as she hasn't seen her since she was 2

You don't need family its just that you're born into one

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

"To be honest if I were her I'd ignore everyone except my mother too.

Blood sucking leeches the rest of them......The dad tried to make money off her

The half sister is a gold digger and gets her few quid off the papers for saying stuff about her that can't be true as she hasn't seen her since she was 2

You don't need family its just that you're born into one "

And some say she is making money out of the in-laws

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I don’t understand the obsession with Meghan.

It’s almost as if it’s a distraction from the heir apparent having a longstanding mistress and reportedly enjoying being pegged.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"I don’t understand the obsession with Meghan.

It’s almost as if it’s a distraction from the heir apparent having a longstanding mistress and reportedly enjoying being pegged. "

'being pegged'? You'd think that in return for living a highly privileged existence at the expense of the taxpayer they might at least behave in a seemly manner!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I don’t understand the obsession with Meghan.

It’s almost as if it’s a distraction from the heir apparent having a longstanding mistress and reportedly enjoying being pegged.

'being pegged'? You'd think that in return for living a highly privileged existence at the expense of the taxpayer they might at least behave in a seemly manner!"

Whats wrong with being pegged ....probably a golden dildo

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

The taxpayer has probably funded the purchase of that strap-on.

It being a royal strap-on its likely to be a pretty pricey, premium appendage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Too many people are too quick to diagnose a mental health condition or illness based on their own agenda and them use that baseless diagnosis as a reason to insult a person.

This is in no way limited to Meghan but speaks volumes of many people's views on mental health as they jump to stigmatise people.

It's a shame that people think supporting mental health is about sharing memes and saying be kind on social media. When in reality it's obviously a lot more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think she's quite sexy. A man eater.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Too many people are too quick to diagnose a mental health condition or illness based on their own agenda and them use that baseless diagnosis as a reason to insult a person.

This is in no way limited to Meghan but speaks volumes of many people's views on mental health as they jump to stigmatise people.

It's a shame that people think supporting mental health is about sharing memes and saying be kind on social media. When in reality it's obviously a lot more. "

I agree with this totally but on the other hand too many people are quick to use mental health as an excuse too. In my opinion I should add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom Bowers book about Meghan did not paint her in a good light at all.

Interestingly the highly litigious couple have done nothing at all about the book ….. if it was untrue their lawyer would have been all over it

Interestingly of all the books Bower has written he’s never been successfully sued

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"To be honest if I were her I'd ignore everyone except my mother too.

Blood sucking leeches the rest of them......The dad tried to make money off her

The half sister is a gold digger and gets her few quid off the papers for saying stuff about her that can't be true as she hasn't seen her since she was 2

You don't need family its just that you're born into one "

The father was left high and dry. She complained that she received no help. what help did he have from the press and numerous leeches around him. The father of at that time one of the most famous women in the world. He raised her , but apparently now is not worthy to even see his grandchildren. He's not a bloody murderer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be honest if I were her I'd ignore everyone except my mother too.

Blood sucking leeches the rest of them......The dad tried to make money off her

The half sister is a gold digger and gets her few quid off the papers for saying stuff about her that can't be true as she hasn't seen her since she was 2

You don't need family its just that you're born into one

He's an utter dick, same as the scummy half sister etc. Slagging her off at every opportunity (when papers throw money at them).

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Lots of reports that seem to ridicule Meghan Markle for being narcissistic.

If this is true then isn't it a mental disorder?

If she is ill then why use narcissism as an insult.

What is a narcissist anyway?

What's going on here peoples?

She'll toss Harry on the scrapheap before long and he'll be back at the palace again whilst trying to be as much of a weekend dad as he's allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of reports that seem to ridicule Meghan Markle for being narcissistic.

If this is true then isn't it a mental disorder?

If she is ill then why use narcissism as an insult.

What is a narcissist anyway?

What's going on here peoples?

She'll toss Harry on the scrapheap before long and he'll be back at the palace again whilst trying to be as much of a weekend dad as he's allowed "

Since you can see into the future. Can you just give me the next Euro Lottery numbers please.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"To be honest if I were her I'd ignore everyone except my mother too.

Blood sucking leeches the rest of them......The dad tried to make money off her

The half sister is a gold digger and gets her few quid off the papers for saying stuff about her that can't be true as she hasn't seen her since she was 2

You don't need family its just that you're born into one

He's an utter dick, same as the scummy half sister etc. Slagging her off at every opportunity (when papers throw money at them). "

And their behaviour is so admiral is it ?

80 million quid from Netflix for stabbing Harry's family in the back.

And, remember, they also wanted to retain their royal titles to sponge off for the rest of their lives.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

And their behaviour is so admiral is it ?

That sounds more like Andrew!

Except, of course, he was a Vice Admiral!

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By *corpiomanMan
over a year ago

harrogate

"She's not a nice person, simple as that."

I take it you know her personally?

Or did a friend of a friend who knows her tell you?

Or did the Mail/Sun and other media outlets tell you?

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

And their behaviour is so admiral is it ?

That sounds more like Andrew!

Except, of course, he was a Vice Admiral!"

Silly me , not very admirable of me. Was it.

BTW I think Andrew gets bad press, a little undeserved. He romps with a 17 Yr old and gets labelled a paedo.

A 16 yr old is allowed , no , encouraged to join our armed forces.

Go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And their behaviour is so admiral is it ?

That sounds more like Andrew!

Except, of course, he was a Vice Admiral!

Silly me , not very admirable of me. Was it.

BTW I think Andrew gets bad press, a little undeserved. He romps with a 17 Yr old and gets labelled a paedo.

A 16 yr old is allowed , no , encouraged to join our armed forces.

Go figure.

It doesn’t matter whether she was 17 or 37, she was sex trafficked and used by him, in the same way that hundreds of other young girls and women were by Epstein and Maxwell, to people like him, like chattel.

But that’s fine eh? As long as the one he was with was over the legal age.

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By *uke-de-PleasureMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I don’t understand the obsession with Meghan.

It’s almost as if it’s a distraction from the heir apparent having a longstanding mistress and reportedly enjoying being pegged. "

You are probably nearer the truth than you might believe. The Royal Family is carefully marketed brand and doesn't like any "awkward" details being known.

The media, as scathing and heartless as it often is, is highly controlled. We only get the "stories" we are permitted. If something does leak? Cause a distraction.

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

She ate my hamster....

she probably ate all the corgis too..and she wasn't even corgi registered

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

"She ate my hamster....

she probably ate all the corgis too..and she wasn't even corgi registered

And as everyone knows , corgis suffer from very bad flatulence ..and she isn't gas safe registered either

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

"She's not a nice person, simple as that.

'Information from a passing tabloid newspaper'."

She's told provable lies, had puctures taken in Buckingham palace without permission, implied that pictures of the press were them harassing her but the pictures were from a film premiere.

She wants privacy but willing to throw his and her family under the bus for money.

Need I go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's not a nice person, simple as that.

'Information from a passing tabloid newspaper'.

She's told provable lies, had puctures taken in Buckingham palace without permission, implied that pictures of the press were them harassing her but the pictures were from a film premiere.

She wants privacy but willing to throw his and her family under the bus for money.

Need I go on?"

Yes please, its so entertaining

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Are there any qualified doctors of the mind, psychiatrists, or psychologists on fab that have an informed opinion. In Essex speak, is she Barking...

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By *r_North-EastMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Are there any qualified doctors of the mind, psychiatrists, or psychologists on fab that have an informed opinion. In Essex speak, is she Barking..."

As in Dagenham?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

So much this! Everything classed as 'mental disorder/illness' nowadays.

What is the 'correct way to think/act/do'? And who exactly set those parameters?!

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

So much this! Everything classed as 'mental disorder/illness' nowadays.

What is the 'correct way to think/act/do'? And who exactly set those parameters?! "

Maybe as a society we have a better understanding and in sone cases axdeotave of mental health and mental illness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

So much this! Everything classed as 'mental disorder/illness' nowadays.

What is the 'correct way to think/act/do'? And who exactly set those parameters?!

Maybe as a society we have a better understanding and in sone cases axdeotave of mental health and mental illness?"

Who's 'we'? And 'who' has a better understanding? I could say you're 'mentally ill/unwell'

because you think differently to me. These labels are all about control. No more, no less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

So much this! Everything classed as 'mental disorder/illness' nowadays.

What is the 'correct way to think/act/do'? And who exactly set those parameters?!

Maybe as a society we have a better understanding and in sone cases axdeotave of mental health and mental illness?

Who's 'we'? And 'who' has a better understanding? I could say you're 'mentally ill/unwell'

because you think differently to me. These labels are all about control. No more, no less

We are the wee people.

Dr Who gas a better understanding, because he is a time traveller and knows about action and outcomes.

Labels are for organised people. Hence you are a Dollymix because you don't use labels.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Lots of reports that seem to ridicule Meghan Markle for being narcissistic.

If this is true then isn't it a mental disorder?

If she is ill then why use narcissism as an insult.

What is a narcissist anyway?

What's going on here peoples?

Don't know her at all. She comes across in her media as needing to have her own way and on her terms... But.. Could probably say that about a fair few folk on here so... So what? I'd really rather not hear from her for a while but her machine ensures she's front and centre of the money go round.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I thought this thread was about a new variety of daffodil

Big, brash,blousie but fades quickly

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I have formed a opinion where she is the boss in that relationship and is not scared to use the race card sadly.

Although I must say she is a great looking lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

So much this! Everything classed as 'mental disorder/illness' nowadays.

What is the 'correct way to think/act/do'? And who exactly set those parameters?!

Maybe as a society we have a better understanding and in sone cases axdeotave of mental health and mental illness?

Who's 'we'? And 'who' has a better understanding? I could say you're 'mentally ill/unwell'

because you think differently to me. These labels are all about control. No more, no less

We are the wee people.

Dr Who gas a better understanding, because he is a time traveller and knows about action and outcomes.

Labels are for organised people. Hence you are a Dollymix because you don't use labels.

And therein lies the problem, thinking people can be 'organised''put into boxes'

people are constantly in a state of flux (oxymoron I know!)

But yes, you're bang on the money re my username

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

You don't have an illness to be an asshole.

But you can have an illness and be an asshole.

Being an asshole isn't exclusive.

I'm not talking in general not aimed at Megan as I have no thoughts either way about her.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"You don't have an illness to be an asshole.

But you can have an illness and be an asshole.

Being an asshole isn't exclusive.

I'm not talking in general not aimed at Megan as I have no thoughts either way about her.

Sorry I'm mean I'm talking in general and not aimed at her specifically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so vain.. probably thinks this thread is about her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

So much this! Everything classed as 'mental disorder/illness' nowadays.

What is the 'correct way to think/act/do'? And who exactly set those parameters?!

Maybe as a society we have a better understanding and in sone cases axdeotave of mental health and mental illness?

Who's 'we'? And 'who' has a better understanding? I could say you're 'mentally ill/unwell'

because you think differently to me. These labels are all about control. No more, no less

We are the wee people.

Dr Who gas a better understanding, because he is a time traveller and knows about action and outcomes.

Labels are for organised people. Hence you are a Dollymix because you don't use labels.

And therein lies the problem, thinking people can be 'organised''put into boxes'

people are constantly in a state of flux (oxymoron I know!)

But yes, you're bang on the money re my username

I think I better shut up. Putting "people in boxes" sounds like mafia language.

Sounds like you have some connections i should be wary off.

On that bombshell am out..

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By *ustyMilfxxxCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

"What has she done?

Really, genuinely, what has she done that is heinous and detestable?

Take your feelings out of this and deal in facts.

I don't know her. I don't think we'd have anything in common if I had to sit next to her on a bus. But I doubt she'd have me yelling to escape a convo.

The crimes pinned to her appear to be the trifecta of 'how fucking dare she' = female, successful in life, mixedrace.

Like Ricky Gervais says:

"How arrogant are you to think that you deserve to go through life with no one ever saying anything that you don't agree with or like."

This goes for liking people too.

Others can be and do and get along. Like them? Don't like them? Fine.

Not justification for death threats etc

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Haters gonna hate, it's a favourite British pastime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What has she done?

Really, genuinely, what has she done that is heinous and detestable?

Take your feelings out of this and deal in facts.

I don't know her. I don't think we'd have anything in common if I had to sit next to her on a bus. But I doubt she'd have me yelling to escape a convo.

The crimes pinned to her appear to be the trifecta of 'how fucking dare she' = female, successful in life, mixedrace.

Like Ricky Gervais says:

"How arrogant are you to think that you deserve to go through life with no one ever saying anything that you don't agree with or like."

This goes for liking people too.

Others can be and do and get along. Like them? Don't like them? Fine.

Not justification for death threats etc

She and Harry seemed to say in their net flicks show is that the press firstly made her more popular than Kate or there were more stories in the press of Megan and with their the competing press offices went into a sort of popularity contest which turned nasty.

Sounds simple but I gather its more complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such thing as a Jonquilist?"

I too thought that this was a daffodil thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's not a nice person, simple as that."

And you know this how? You know her personally, or you know her through the distorted view the media feeds you? Just Google newspaper front page comparisons that show the sainted Kate and Megan doing exactly the same thing, and yet the headlines demonize Megan. And these headlines are from the same paper (usually the Daily Nazi).

No-one in this sorry story is nice. But there does seem to be a concerted effort by all to pile the blame onto one person.

And before everyone dogpiles on me, I'm a republican when it comes to the royals. The whole leaching lot if them should be abolished.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"She's not a nice person, simple as that.

No-one in this sorry story is nice. But there does seem to be a concerted effort by all to pile the blame onto one person.

And before everyone dogpiles on me, I'm a republican when it comes to the royals. The whole leaching lot if them should be abolished. "

Totally mate, no one on this forum knows anything about her, other than what they read in the papers or see on the news.

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Well to be fair if you spend an hour being interviewed by Oprah and 6 hours producing content then it does give a little insight into your character I guess..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Narcissist is really misused in general and especially on here.

It does not mean someone who thinks they look great or about someone who thinks about themselves all the time.

It's best people do a little learning before labelling others.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"She is lovely! People need to stop hating on her! Her Harry and their little family are lovely! X"

I think she’s a very special person, can totally see why Harry fell in love with her. I don’t think anyone couldn’t have predicted the brutal & sustained attacks from the media, they honestly seem intent on killing her

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

Not in wokeworld it seems.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

Not in wokeworld it seems.

Years ago we would have said "He/she is not right in the head".

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

Not in wokeworld it seems.

Years ago we would have said "He/she is not right in the head".

Putting it mildly ..... We called a gardening implement a gardening implement and if someone's behaviour was off the fucking wall we said it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a c##t .. fruitloop n a evil b#####d .. she's going to fuck "H" off sooner or later n he'll be back in family .. well that's after he's had to beg ..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"She's a c##t .. fruitloop n a evil b#####d .. she's going to fuck "H" off sooner or later n he'll be back in family .. well that's after he's had to beg .."

Evil, really?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"She's a c##t .. fruitloop n a evil b#####d .. she's going to fuck "H" off sooner or later n he'll be back in family .. well that's after he's had to beg .."

WOW!!!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"That word seems to be thrown around so much these days it has little meaning, everyone anyone doesn't like or whoever's ex seems to be a narcissist.

Mrs "

I hear this so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That word seems to be thrown around so much these days it has little meaning, everyone anyone doesn't like or whoever's ex seems to be a narcissist.

Mrs

I hear this so much. "

Having been married to a diagnosed narcissist, let me tell you… most people don’t have a clue.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"That word seems to be thrown around so much these days it has little meaning, everyone anyone doesn't like or whoever's ex seems to be a narcissist.

Mrs "

Agreed. I don't quite understand the sheer vitriol Meghan inspires in people, well I can guess at a few reasons. It's really rather sad to be polite.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Am I alone in being massively uncomfortable with sone of the derogatory terms being used to describe mental health/illness while speculating that sone you dint like must have mental health/illness issues?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That word seems to be thrown around so much these days it has little meaning, everyone anyone doesn't like or whoever's ex seems to be a narcissist.

Mrs

I hear this so much.

Having been married to a diagnosed narcissist, let me tell you… most people don’t have a clue. "
I totally agree

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Am I alone in being massively uncomfortable with sone of the derogatory terms being used to describe mental health/illness while speculating that sone you dint like must have mental health/illness issues?"

No you're not

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes don't sit well with me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That word seems to be thrown around so much these days it has little meaning, everyone anyone doesn't like or whoever's ex seems to be a narcissist.

Mrs

I hear this so much.

Having been married to a diagnosed narcissist, let me tell you… most people don’t have a clue. I totally agree

You weren’t meant to be quite that obvious about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That word seems to be thrown around so much these days it has little meaning, everyone anyone doesn't like or whoever's ex seems to be a narcissist.

Mrs

I hear this so much.

Having been married to a diagnosed narcissist, let me tell you… most people don’t have a clue. I totally agree

You weren’t meant to be quite that obvious about it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. You’re not

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Not at all. Typical social media keyboard warriors, just spouting hate with no thought to its impact. Trouble is if you make your living by garnering as much publicity as possible people feel they can type anything they want.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The level of vitriol aimed at one woman who happens to be in the public eye for various reasons is shocking and to my mind frightening. She has little or no effect on our lives.

Her husband who lost his mother at a young age and has seen active service is painted as some poor sap dragged along behind this woman who has absolute power over him.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"That word seems to be thrown around so much these days it has little meaning, everyone anyone doesn't like or whoever's ex seems to be a narcissist.

Mrs

I hear this so much.

Having been married to a diagnosed narcissist, let me tell you… most people don’t have a clue. "

They really dont have a clue! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like amateur diagnosis of conditions. It seemed to be the trend of this decade.

And I'm uncomfortable with the lack of empathy if you think someone has a condition. It's like we have grown out of vilifying some as "bad" and replaced it with "medical condition". It's not an insult, it's a diagnosis. Someone shouldn't be called a narcisist imo, but said to have a NPD.

(I'm not even sure Meghan show signs of NPD tbh to even start guessing).

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

They do. Many times I've heard 'she courts publicity and puts herself in the public eye, she deserves it'.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyway someone will start a 'be kind' thread soon and everyone will agree that it's a good thing

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"She is lovely! People need to stop hating on her! Her Harry and their little family are lovely! X

I think the fact that they seem so very close and supportive of each other is testament to them having a solid relationship and they have clearly made a satisfactory decision for them and their little family. Frankly, it's absolutely fuck all to do with me or any of us, as to who Harry married, why they got married, where they live etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's a c##t .. fruitloop n a evil b#####d .. she's going to fuck "H" off sooner or later n he'll be back in family .. well that's after he's had to beg .."

Your family must be so proud of you!

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

My thoughts on the whole story

Google 15 headlines kate & megan and see the way the country has been manipulated into hating her by the right wing press aided and abetted by the palace .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"My thoughts on the whole story

Google 15 headlines kate & megan and see the way the country has been manipulated into hating her by the right wing press aided and abetted by the palace .

The institution of the monarchy will chuck its own members under a bus without a second thought in order to ensure its survival.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No your not alone.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"The level of vitriol aimed at one woman who happens to be in the public eye for various reasons is shocking and to my mind frightening. She has little or no effect on our lives.

Her husband who lost his mother at a young age and has seen active service is painted as some poor sap dragged along behind this woman who has absolute power over him. "

Very very true. As well as her being some awful machiavellian harpy intent on destroying everything for her own pleasure.

But as you say, the be kind/kindness threads are only a day or so away so yay for that virtue signalling.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"Anyway someone will start a 'be kind' thread soon and everyone will agree that it's a good thing

Oh definitely, the same people piling on probably posted all manner of cliched memes when Caroline Flavk killed herself.

There were some awful ableist comments directed at Greta Thunberg on the Andrew Tate threads too.

The reality is of course that the people who these comments are directed at will never see the comments but forumites living with mental illness and mental health issues will read them, and it's sad to see how other forumites view us

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"The level of vitriol aimed at one woman who happens to be in the public eye for various reasons is shocking and to my mind frightening. She has little or no effect on our lives.

Her husband who lost his mother at a young age and has seen active service is painted as some poor sap dragged along behind this woman who has absolute power over him. "

The question then is, who is manipulating the public message, persona and image that they are creating, that media create and why? Nobody does nothing without there being a reason. If it serves them to withdraw from the public eye I'm sure they are more than capable of doing so. If it serves them to be omnipresent, imm sure they are capable of doing that. In either case our response is the only thing we can control.

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By *ent in BlackMan
over a year ago

Silsden

"She's a c##t .. fruitloop n a evil b#####d .. she's going to fuck "H" off sooner or later n he'll be back in family .. well that's after he's had to beg ..

Your family must be so proud of you!

I thought similar.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Anyway someone will start a 'be kind' thread soon and everyone will agree that it's a good thing

Oh definitely, the same people piling on probably posted all manner of cliched memes when Caroline Flavk killed herself.

There were some awful ableist comments directed at Greta Thunberg on the Andrew Tate threads too.

I doubt people would actually say the things they do to an actual living, breathing, in the flesh human. People in the public eye (often but not exclusively women) are seen as somehow other and a target for all the prejudices people hold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is lovely! People need to stop hating on her! Her Harry and their little family are lovely! X

I agree with your post, but..... there is always one ha.

On the Netflix show Harry explained the royals relationship with the press.

Do not know if you viewed It

Harry states that this relationship depends on the press being allowed to report royal news and scoops, and if a royal is seen as difficult that royal will receive bad press, and the royal purse depends on that relationship as well.

I was surprised to hear that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The level of vitriol aimed at one woman who happens to be in the public eye for various reasons is shocking and to my mind frightening. She has little or no effect on our lives.

Her husband who lost his mother at a young age and has seen active service is painted as some poor sap dragged along behind this woman who has absolute power over him.

I don't think it 'serves them' to be demonised. I do think they have careers that require media to achieve certain goals within the realm of lending their profiles to charitable causes or women's rights issues and such. I know they know there is currency in that. To do good things.

I also know their needs are not simple, they are complex. They need security and PR and admin. These things are money pits.

How would they raise money overnight to be safe and create a new life? Options are few.

Harry had limited funds of his own. Not as far as what I could exist on but in terms of what would fund security long-term etc.

It seems to me they made these deals with Oprah and Netflix to meet two needs. Financial (and therefore personal) security and to have a voice unedited by the palace or the Mail.

Like I said above, you don't have to like them to be able to say 'go live your best life, be safe'.

The whole Royal family have let themselves down terribly over the last decades. Shows they're no different to any other strand of society. Full of weaknesses and human foibles and bad choices.

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By *entleman of FortuneMan
over a year ago

Hull

The most alarming thing is people forming an opinion, one they have been driven to by invested talking heads and scummy journalists, with no other evidence.

Before Harry she did lots of stuff for small charities in Africa. I don't care about any of them, for me the monarchy is an outdated concept that needs abolishing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never once thought of her as a narcissistic. I don't exactly follow them closely, but from what I've seen of her she doesn't exactly give off that vibe. I can't say I hold a negative view of her, and I'm unsure why so people do.

Whenever I hear people batching about her, it's always for the most ridiculous reasons that make no sense. She gets so much shite over absolutely nothing, it can't be easy dealing with all that hatred. She speaks up about it, and it does nothing but make people hate her even more. I think a lot of it is racism, but what do I know.

I wish them nothing but the best.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I've never once thought of her as a narcissistic. I don't exactly follow them closely, but from what I've seen of her she doesn't exactly give off that vibe. I can't say I hold a negative view of her, and I'm unsure why so people do.

I wish them nothing but the best.

Couldn’t agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish them nothing but the best.

Looks like you know something in my view.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I wish them nothing but the best.

1000 % agree! X

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Colours were shown at the wedding..

Who turns up with one relative and personal friend invites to folk who'd never met her.

Megan gets what Megan wants and when she doesn't she throws her toys out of the pram.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The most alarming thing is people forming an opinion, one they have been driven to by invested talking heads and scummy journalists, with no other evidence.

Before Harry she did lots of stuff for small charities in Africa. I don't care about any of them, for me the monarchy is an outdated concept that needs abolishing."

Do you mean the tabloids are making up porkies. Who would have guessed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Colours were shown at the wedding..

Who turns up with one relative and personal friend invites to folk who'd never met her.

Megan gets what Megan wants and when she doesn't she throws her toys out of the pram."

Loads of people don’t have huge families/fractured families and keep their friendship circles small because they struggle to trust people. I went to two weddings like that last year - wonderful people.

And wasn’t it Harry who said she should get what she wants? I’d love a husband who championed me and my needs like that.

Why shouldn’t we get what we want in life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is lovely! People need to stop hating on her! Her Harry and their little family are lovely! X

I agree with your post, but..... there is always one ha.

On the Netflix show Harry explained the royals relationship with the press.

Do not know if you viewed It

I was surprised to hear that."

Why were you surprised?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Colours were shown at the wedding..

Who turns up with one relative and personal friend invites to folk who'd never met her.

Megan gets what Megan wants and when she doesn't she throws her toys out of the pram."

What absolute bollocks!!!

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"Colours were shown at the wedding..

Who turns up with one relative and personal friend invites to folk who'd never met her.

Megan gets what Megan wants and when she doesn't she throws her toys out of the pram."

Literally every royal wedding, and the Queens funeral for thst matter includes a guest list of dignitaries and VIPs that are hardly close connections and I guess in some cases have never been met. Or is that different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is lovely! People need to stop hating on her! Her Harry and their little family are lovely! X

I agree with your post, but..... there is always one ha.

On the Netflix show Harry explained the royals relationship with the press.

Do not know if you viewed It

I was surprised to hear that.

Why were you surprised?

I was surprised as the royals are at the mercy of the press, and hearing a little of how they make money due to that relationship.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Colours were shown at the wedding..

Who turns up with one relative and personal friend invites to folk who'd never met her.

Megan gets what Megan wants and when she doesn't she throws her toys out of the pram."

Utter nonsense!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I do think she tells porkies to make herself seem more innocent than she is and exaggerates or takes things out of context to make the Royals seem more toxic than they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are being slagged off they shouldn't try and stick up for themselves. They should just put up with the utter shite that's being said about them, and say nothing at all. Bullies should always win.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

"I do think she tells porkies to make herself seem more innocent than she is and exaggerates or takes things out of context to make the Royals seem more toxic than they are."

With you

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"Narcissism is more of a personality disorder than a mental illness.

Personality disorders are considered a group of mental illnesses. "

I thought “mental illnesses” could be cured.

Narcissism is more a condition or s trait which cannot be cured.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing."

Being invited means they can monetise it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike the way she carries herself in the interviews. Watched a little of the documentary and at some point it occurred to me she was almost mirroring Diana behaviour in a Bashir interview. That's about it.

I don't feel genuine vibe, I do not trust her presentation of events as we all know other side needs to keep mouth shut so they do not have the opportunity to defend themselves without making it a big accusations match back and forth. Well played.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Narcissism is more of a personality disorder than a mental illness.

Personality disorders are considered a group of mental illnesses.

I thought “mental illnesses” could be cured.

Narcissism is more a condition or s trait which cannot be cured. "

I am no expert in the field. Saying that.. You can present antisocial behaviour and not be a sociopath I guess. You can behave occasionally like a narciss or megalomaniac but not have a disorder.

And no not every illness can be cured.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Colours were shown at the wedding..

Who turns up with one relative and personal friend invites to folk who'd never met her.

Megan gets what Megan wants and when she doesn't she throws her toys out of the pram.

And wasn’t it Harry who said she should get what she wants? I’d love a husband who championed me and my needs like that.

Why shouldn’t we get what we want in life?"

We absolutely should all have what we want in life. I want to play golf off scratch and have a loving family. Make it so.

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By *illybeachboyMan
over a year ago

Guernsey

She's a gold digger in my opinion, give it a year or so & she will dispose of Harry whilst at the same time claiming a very decent settlement from him.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I dislike the way she carries herself in the interviews. Watched a little of the documentary and at some point it occurred to me she was almost mirroring Diana behaviour in a Bashir interview. That's about it.

The chin tuck with doe eyes. I spotted that.

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By *arcteggMan
over a year ago

grays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing."

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many people are too quick to diagnose a mental health condition or illness based on their own agenda and them use that baseless diagnosis as a reason to insult a person. "

I agree; Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a serious mental health condition -- the only people qualified to diagnose it are professional psychiatrists or psychologists who are specialist within that field.

Typically, it's just fashionable for everyone to diagnose their ex nowadays, usually as a cop out for not owning their own part in the relationship problems.

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However, the term narcissist itself isn't necessarily the same as the above, and people can have narcissistic traits that have nothing to do with the diagnosis -- there's a bit of narcissism in anyone who ever posted a selfie.

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By *arcteggMan
over a year ago

grays

Harry was quite open about his mental

Illness , and we all liked him for that ) your illness don’t just disappear . Their marriage is of possibly two people with a mental illness . I’m certain her actions are derived from aspects of her childhood .

We really should try and understand instead of slagging them off I guess . But it’s in all our nature

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it "

Why?

If you want to question motives ask yourself why so many dislike someone just because they are black, pretty, successful married to a prince….hate / negativity always says more about the person feeling it than who it’s aimed at

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it "

The motive behind a person whose mother suffered from intense press intrusion and speculation and was eventually killed in a car crash while being chased by paparazzi on bikes (not their fault the car crashed) wanting to control the access the press has to his family?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Done with this thread and unnecessary hated.

Pretty vile in my humble opinion.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it

One thing that I found incredibly troubling, when they were in the car Meghan kept looking out of the windows and saying "there's pap on a scooter, there's a pap here, a pap there"

Instead of remaining calm and leaving the security to do their job, it almost felt like she was trying to keep Harry on edge and traumatised.

If there were no paparazzi (which is how it felt watching) and they were using the drive to recreate how it is for them usually, then all it achieved was coming across as forced or acting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it

One thing that I found incredibly troubling, when they were in the car Meghan kept looking out of the windows and saying "there's pap on a scooter, there's a pap here, a pap there"

Instead of remaining calm and leaving the security to do their job, it almost felt like she was trying to keep Harry on edge and traumatised.

If there were no paparazzi (which is how it felt watching) and they were using the drive to recreate how it is for them usually, then all it achieved was coming across as forced or acting."

I find the entire thing incredibly troubling for many reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it

Why?

Like I said I have no opinion either way, but their actions do seem questionable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it

I don't know, that is why I question it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it

One thing that I found incredibly troubling, when they were in the car Meghan kept looking out of the windows and saying "there's pap on a scooter, there's a pap here, a pap there"

Instead of remaining calm and leaving the security to do their job, it almost felt like she was trying to keep Harry on edge and traumatised.

If there were no paparazzi (which is how it felt watching) and they were using the drive to recreate how it is for them usually, then all it achieved was coming across as forced or acting."

Agreed. I just find it all very odd

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it

I don't know, that is why I question it. "

I suggest his and his family's previous experiences with the press make him want to control how much access the press has to him, his wife and children and make that access under his terms. Whether this is a good thing or not I don't know but I think it's understandable because whether or not they invite the press in there will always be speculation and Intrusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it

I don't know, that is why I question it.

I can understand why they would want to control what the media see but I don't think they are doing themselves any favours

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Megan and Harry want the quiet life away from the press and media attention so that is what they should do now, without the media and press attention

I am on the fence with it, I watched the documentary and the cynic in me is wondering why they invited

cameras to film intimate moments of their life. When they protest so much about the press.

Being invited is completely different to gatecrashing.

Of course it is but one questions the motive behind it

I don't know, that is why I question it.

I can understand why they would want to control what the media see but I don't think they are doing themselves any favours"

Frankly I really don't know what they could do to do themselves any favours apart from don sackcloth and ashes.

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By *1876Man
over a year ago

Dudley

"Can't someone be a self obsessed asshole without being classified as having a mental illness?

Spot on...that's how those tree-hugging "group huddlers" make excuses for horrible people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's a gold digger in my opinion, give it a year or so & she will dispose of Harry whilst at the same time claiming a very decent settlement from him. "

You're assuming he has more money than she does.....

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

If you don't want to be in the public eye and the object of public scrutiny. Might be an idea not to make a netflix series?

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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Would they have a joint account and who earns the most...

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"If you don't want to be in the public eye and the object of public scrutiny. Might be an idea not to make a netflix series? "

Bloody miracle they're not on facebook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be in the public eye and the object of public scrutiny. Might be an idea not to make a netflix series? "

You're not that naive.

Harry was born in to it. Hated it all his days. Given zero choice.

Before meeting him Meghan had a low media profile. If she was a headline whore by nature she'd have been milking her tv successes a hell of a lot more than ever happened.

The steps they take are (imho) through necessity and expeditious.

And it's about taking back control. Don't knock how vital that is. Perhaps you've never had it denied you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want to be in the public eye and the object of public scrutiny. Might be an idea not to make a netflix series?

You're not that naive.

Harry was born in to it. Hated it all his days. Given zero choice.

Before meeting him Meghan had a low media profile. If she was a headline whore by nature she'd have been milking her tv successes a hell of a lot more than ever happened.

The steps they take are (imho) through necessity and expeditious.

And it's about taking back control. Don't knock how vital that is. Perhaps you've never had it denied you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a personality trait, not a mental disorder and as such not treated. Just like psychopathy. It actually shares some characteristics with it, such as extreme self-focus, an inflated sense of self, and a strong desire for recognition and praise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's a c##t .. fruitloop n a evil b#####d .. she's going to fuck "H" off sooner or later n he'll be back in family .. well that's after he's had to beg ..

Evil, really? "

Yes pure evil 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely they have another car crash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely they carnt have another car crash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely they have another car crash

Fuck that’s horrible

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By *old HoopsWoman
over a year ago

Near Chester

"If you don't want to be in the public eye and the object of public scrutiny. Might be an idea not to make a netflix series?

You're not that naive.

Harry was born in to it. Hated it all his days. Given zero choice.

Before meeting him Meghan had a low media profile. If she was a headline whore by nature she'd have been milking her tv successes a hell of a lot more than ever happened.

The steps they take are (imho) through necessity and expeditious.

And it's about taking back control. Don't knock how vital that is. Perhaps you've never had it denied you."

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can people not just leave them be, can anyone remember Caroline Flack, hounded and hunted, yes people make mistakes, some people are media whores, just let them be, no need for judgement, live your own life and let them live theirs

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"If you don't want to be in the public eye and the object of public scrutiny. Might be an idea not to make a netflix series?

You're not that naive.

Harry was born in to it. Hated it all his days. Given zero choice.

Before meeting him Meghan had a low media profile. If she was a headline whore by nature she'd have been milking her tv successes a hell of a lot more than ever happened.

The steps they take are (imho) through necessity and expeditious.

And it's about taking back control. Don't knock how vital that is. Perhaps you've never had it denied you."

Megan possibly had a low profile in the UK. She was huge in the states. Which is where she was living at the time.

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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago

1950's Original

"Would they have a joint account and who earns the most..."
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The Lawyers..

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"If you don't want to be in the public eye and the object of public scrutiny. Might be an idea not to make a netflix series?

You're not that naive.

Harry was born in to it. Hated it all his days. Given zero choice.

Before meeting him Meghan had a low media profile. If she was a headline whore by nature she'd have been milking her tv successes a hell of a lot more than ever happened.

The steps they take are (imho) through necessity and expeditious.

And it's about taking back control. Don't knock how vital that is. Perhaps you've never had it denied you.

Megan possibly had a low profile in the UK. She was huge in the states. Which is where she was living at the time. "

Z lister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t help but feel nothing but sympathy for them both.

Anyone who has any idea of how the Establishment operates will surely understand that Harry was always going to be the black sheep of the family. Not Andrew who had all the evidence stacked up against him but Harry who just happened to fall in love with the wrong person for the Establishment.

It was never going to end well once the media and the truly obsessed Piers M started laying in to her.

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By *arkinberksMan
over a year ago

Ascot

"Tom sticking up for Meghan. It’s a Christmas miracle.

But is she ill.

If she is ill then the papers should leave her alone...

Even if she isn’t ill they probably should. They should have learned from Caroline Flack but the British press are scum."

The truth is that the great British public love this kind of thing. They aren’t interested in the more thought provoking or important stuff. The old adage that Sun readers don’t care who runs the country so long as they have big tits is rather closer to the truth than many would like. We love soap operas and enjoy the ‘real life’ variants. We can’t get enough of ‘reality tv’ like Love Island, Big Brother, I’m a Celebrity… the list is endless. We adore seeing scandalous stories, particularly about celebrities. At the same time, celebrities like publicity and believe that in the long run there is no such thing as bad publicity.

If you don’t like a voyeuristic press, don’t encourage one by buying their papers or the products advertised in them. The media only publish what the public want to see and what the publishers think will attract the greatest advertising revenue.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Isn’t narcissus a flower..

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Isn’t narcissus a flower.."

Yes, but technically Narcissus is a character from Greek mythology. He was very beautiful and wasted his life looking at his own reflection until he withered away and died... the flower that we know of today sprouted where his corpse lay and is named after him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely they have another car crash

Fuck that’s horrible "

I know .. that's what I'm saying . Princess Diana was the best royal ever .. Good bless her

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Isn’t narcissus a flower.."

Probably also a near homophonic mistyping of 'narcissist', where the thread title is concerned.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Isn’t narcissus a flower..

Probably also a near homophonic mistyping of 'narcissist', where the thread title is concerned.

Huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She's a c##t .. fruitloop n a evil b#####d .. she's going to fuck "H" off sooner or later n he'll be back in family .. well that's after he's had to beg ..

Your family must be so proud of you!

My family are proud of me thanks .. we all have our own opinions and i tend not to hold back .. its called freedom of speech .. are your family proud of you ?? Have a lovely day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Colours were shown at the wedding..

Who turns up with one relative and personal friend invites to folk who'd never met her.

Megan gets what Megan wants and when she doesn't she throws her toys out of the pram.

What absolute bollocks!!!

Hey up again ... that's your opinion n i totally agree with you .. but pls tell me why a inch back up this page make a statement telling me "your family must be proud of you ??

Like i said we all have our own opinions ...

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Isn’t narcissus a flower..

Probably also a near homophonic mistyping of 'narcissist', where the thread title is concerned.

Huh?"

Apparently homophonic means...

characterized by the movement of accompanying parts in the same rhythm as the melody...

The plot thickens!

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Isn’t narcissus a flower..

Probably also a near homophonic mistyping of 'narcissist', where the thread title is concerned.

Huh?

Apparently homophonic means...

characterized by the movement of accompanying parts in the same rhythm as the melody...

The plot thickens! "

One of its meanings, in relation to music, but not the only one. It can also relate to vocabulary.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Harry is as bad as meghan. Deserve each other. So , an ex army guy who recently disclosed his killing of 25 people , couldn't even stand up to his " big brother " .claims his dads jealous of him , and best of all......still hopes for a reconciliation

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"Harry is as bad as meghan. Deserve each other. So , an ex army guy who recently disclosed his killing of 25 people , couldn't even stand up to his " big brother " .claims his dads jealous of him , and best of all......still hopes for a reconciliation

Is it a case of chose not to stand up to his bog brother rather than couldn't? Do you not think restraint would have been appropriate or would you have more respect if he'd been violent too?

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Is it a case of chose not to stand up to his bog brother rather than couldn't? Do you not think restraint would have been appropriate or would you have more respect if he'd been violent too?"

His " bog " brother attacked first. As far as I know , retaliation and self defence isn't a crime.

He had no problem pressing a button to vaporise those 25 people he'd never met. And now bragging about it. Totally against what the armed forces code. He's an ass.

And so may be his " bog" brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a case of chose not to stand up to his bog brother rather than couldn't? Do you not think restraint would have been appropriate or would you have more respect if he'd been violent too?

His " bog " brother attacked first. As far as I know , retaliation and self defence isn't a crime.

He had no problem pressing a button to vaporise those 25 people he'd never met. And now bragging about it. Totally against what the armed forces code. He's an ass.

And so may be his " bog" brother

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and yet he had clearance to push and send hellfire missiles from higher ups. Who is at fault?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Is it a case of chose not to stand up to his bog brother rather than couldn't? Do you not think restraint would have been appropriate or would you have more respect if he'd been violent too?

His " bog " brother attacked first. As far as I know , retaliation and self defence isn't a crime.

He had no problem pressing a button to vaporise those 25 people he'd never met. And now bragging about it. Totally against what the armed forces code. He's an ass.

And so may be his " bog" brother

Why make jest of someone's spelling mistake??

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