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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going a 8 myself. Not into submissive stuff (though certain hot women can tie me to a chair no worries!) but pretty damn open to most other things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 and rising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 lol

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Have you not done the online test op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"6 and rising. "

I honestly think you're higher than that already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solid 8 with flares of 9 I'd say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you not done the online test op? "

Bdsm test? I have done that long boring exercise before. Dominant and voyeur came out on top

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

See it all depends what you find kinky.... Some things are normal for people and kinky for others..that said on the basis of what kinky things I've done to people and have had done to me I'd say a solid 8/10

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By *pstanding CitizenMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

3-4 fairly submissive but open to try new things, with limitations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. 00001/10

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"See it all depends what you find kinky.... Some things are normal for people and kinky for others..that said on the basis of what kinky things I've done to people and have had done to me I'd say a solid 8/10"

Of course which is why I added a little explanation to my self score

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

5

I'm happily half kinky and half nilla

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

-1

Mrs

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m a pretty vanilla geezer; 2 or possibly 3 at a push.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"-1

Mrs"

I've heard some lies in my time but this is another level

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

im a little shy 1-2

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Possibly 9 for me, Jack. Alice says either 6 or 10, for her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Three or four probably

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 out off 10 off the scales

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Possibly 9 for me, Jack. Alice says either 6 or 10, for her! "

Either a 6 or a 10 but fuck those digits in between!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Zero "

What's up with you tonight? Fancy a hug?!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I'm so so kinky 9.6

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

It's all relative. And everyone's scale will be subjective, right? For instance, when I was younger and just watching porn and fantasising about stuff, I'd have said I was way up there, like an 8 or 9... and then I actually started going to clubs and meeting people within the scene and saw the kind of things they get up to! Safe to say, with a bit of perspective, I'd adjust myself to somewhere more like a 6!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"-1

Mrs

I've heard some lies in my time but this is another level"

What have you been hearing

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"I'm going a 8 myself. Not into submissive stuff (though certain hot women can tie me to a chair no worries!) but pretty damn open to most other things!"

Why do you think you are an 8?

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Have you not done the online test op?

Bdsm test? I have done that long boring exercise before. Dominant and voyeur came out on top "

That's the one

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By *allPaul40Man
over a year ago

brentwood

Solid 10

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"8 "

I’ve seen what you can do with a jar of pickles.

I think that should be 9.8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 and rising.

I honestly think you're higher than that already "

Most likely but it's putting it into practice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you not done the online test op?

Bdsm test? I have done that long boring exercise before. Dominant and voyeur came out on top

That's the one "

Do you like to be walked like a dog on a leash? I spent actual seconds of my life thinking about it

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm about a 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is its only kinky the first time so how can your score ever increase?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a 7 I’m submissive so would love to be tied down and pegged. Finding someone which is hard single guys have it rough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 for me but Mr W&W 10 but could be more if poss

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

Probably a 7. I'm not into pain, BDSM, family, daddy, etc and I'm not bi either which is why it's not higher. But I have a very imaginative and dirty mind so that 7 is jam packed full of kink!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Um, I think people peg me as kinkier than I am. Or at least kinkier than I think I am.

Maybe a high 7 in my eyes?

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"Most likely but it's putting it into practice. "

Well, that's the other thing, too! So probably around a 6 in theory/principle, but like a -2 in practicality!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11.5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zero

What's up with you tonight? Fancy a hug?!"

That’d be great thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say around an 8 maybe 9 depending on how adventurous I’m feeling that day

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Have you not done the online test op?

Bdsm test? I have done that long boring exercise before. Dominant and voyeur came out on top

That's the one

Do you like to be walked like a dog on a leash? I spent actual seconds of my life thinking about it "

0%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy

10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. I live the life of a nun.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Severn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you define kinky!! I’m quite kinky but not into BDSM really.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Using you as a benchmark I'm a 9.5. I draw the line at food insertion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 maybe 2 at a push

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By *sh91Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

8 and rising

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By *sh91Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

It's very subjective.

A MFM three some would be kinky for some, but vanilla plus for others, if it's just straight forward sex.

But probably an 8 or 9.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Using you as a benchmark I'm a 9.5. I draw the line at food insertion."

Even cake? I expected more

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"6 and rising. "

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With some of the stuff I’ve been approached with on here, some of the stuff I’ve seen… I’d say a 6. And in my head, I’m pretty kinky!!

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I’m giving myself 8.25

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

How do you even measure it?

Erm I'm going with a 3 on the kinky side. When I go down the porn rabbit hole/I'm ovulating, solid 8.5.

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

I feel like you should’ve said rate the the person above kinky side out of 10

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Depends on the play partner but I would say a conservative 7-8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel like you should’ve said rate the the person above kinky side out of 10 "

You’ve just gave him an idea for another thread

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"I feel like you should’ve said rate the the person above kinky side out of 10

You’ve just gave him an idea for another thread "

It was my plan

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Using you as a benchmark I'm a 9.5. I draw the line at food insertion.

Even cake? I expected more "

Only if it's going in my mouth or you're eating it out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open to try most pleasures, so must be a 8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before coming here would have said 10 as was heavily involved in the local scene

Came here to explore outside kink but discovered need kink there so maybe 9 mentally but 4 practically

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

Probably 7-8 out of 10 I'd say

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

6 and a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure really

Anal yes

Fisting yes

bondage, spanking, whipping being dom yes

Being Pegged yes

Dabbled with being Bi yes

Watersports tried once undecided

Want to try group sex yes

So you decide I think about 5-6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a switch so 8-9. Was look at a poster bed the other day. Can’t tie me up though

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Possibly 7 to Pretty kinky!

I’m definitely kinky in the bedroom and beyond totally into trying a lot of things and, for the most part, open-minded.

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By *tms1xCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Not kinky enough must try harder lol

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

As a fan of threesomes. And okay with oral all round , throw in a little bum slapping . I still only score maybe a 2 on here.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I consider myself 0% vanilla and pretty kinky but having seen some of the kink out in the bdsm world I would say no more than a 7

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By *uxuriantCouple
over a year ago

St Ives

8 for me, Mrs Lux

4 for Mr Lux…

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By *ovingSussexLifeMan
over a year ago

West Sussex

9ish

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I'm not sure how I'd grade it. For people whom our kinks align I guess I'm a 10, fir those who's kinks don't match mine I'm a zero

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By *lwaysonmymind!Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Just pushing a 7 but not for the want of trying

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By *orksguy1965Man
over a year ago

Howden

7 to 8 will give most things a go as long as it doesn't hurt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr b is a 10 lol ... Mrs B started at about a 4 and has graduated to about an 8 so far lol ... with guidance from Mr B

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 and I ain't lying or full of self loving over confidence just to interest some poor unsuspecting victim with bullshit....if you are ever that unfortunate to cross paths with me then feel free to make your vote on kinkyness.

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By *ilf and old fartCouple
over a year ago

Between Ely and Mildenhall

10 plus plus plus plus. We're just bloody perverted lol

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Is it for Mr to judge

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

In normal land about an 8/10

In Fab land about a 1/10

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Fab world 3 out of 10 lol

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings

Right now a 0 full of a cold and its so cold out would not think of sex out doors

But in the summer sun a 5 and climbing depending on how I'm with.

No point being a 10 and scaring them off.

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By *EXY_PILOTMan
over a year ago

Manchester, North West, UK

9

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was 10 until I read stuff in here! 7

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

No where near what I’d like it to be

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

London

I’m going to give myself a 9.

It could be a 10 but there are some limits so yes a good solid 9.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my moment.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

0 its just too cold

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By *loss aka Miss JonesWoman
over a year ago

south coast IOW

Probably a 6/7 but if the opportunities arise I’d be willing to aim for a 10 as long as I could remain Sub. Your wish is my command

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I’d say solid 6…but it could go higher because I still have naughty-bucket list to try

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

11

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By *wosmilersCouple
over a year ago

Heathrowish

One person's kink is another person's norm......

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Would depend who's marking me.

Fairly high if it's the local Vicar.

BDSM club secretary, bit lower mark.

But then again.....

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Definitely a 1 or 2. I’m vanilla AF

There are some people on here is I’d hit 7-8 for though with no hesitation

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk

3.1415926535

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I really don't know how to rate myself as kinky means different things to different people. I had been swinging so long I don't know where the lines blur from vanilla to kinky. For example I used to regularly do gangbangs. They where perfectly normal to me although I know there not normal. Then I see things on here I'd never do.

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Probably a 9 from a BDSM perspective. Few things I haven't done but they are hard limits.

Maybe a 6 from a swingers / kink side.

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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago

Gateway to the Beacons

1 I am saintly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty open, I’ll try anything once -mrs xx

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