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Trying to get meets with no veris

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been on here before and had a few meets. I had some good veris on my last profile. Now trying to sort a meet without any is proving difficult! Any advice?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Best thing you can do is go to a club or social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe add a few more pics

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Yep. Exactly what she said. Do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome back to fab.

Organising to meet anyone on here is proving difficult regardless of how many verifications you/me/they have. Things have changed, but it does serve to find people who are similar in thoughts to you maybe.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Wait, I meant the go to a club or social thing. But also more pics. Do both. Wise women, those two.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice x

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

What makes you think it's the lack of verifications that are stopping you getting meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having the same problem myself, there is a girl on here I've been friends with for years and won't verify me because we have never slept together and another girl I've swapped number and been on camera with who won't verify me... can't get anywhere on the site without a verification though everyone just assumes you won't turn up or aren't real

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Cams are easiest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Could you not ask previous meets to verify you again?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People often reply with “ sorry only meet people who have veris” or don’t rely at all!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive searched for the people who Ive met previous one has hidden their profile and I can’t find the others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having the same problem myself, there is a girl on here I've been friends with for years and won't verify me because we have never slept together and another girl I've swapped number and been on camera with who won't verify me... can't get anywhere on the site without a verification though everyone just assumes you won't turn up or aren't real "

Your 'friend' is pretty crap. Verifications don't mean that people have fucked.

It makes me laugh when people think veris prove anything. They expect other people to meet and verify them before they will meet them. It's an ADULT site yet they need baby sitting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having the same problem myself, there is a girl on here I've been friends with for years and won't verify me because we have never slept together and another girl I've swapped number and been on camera with who won't verify me... can't get anywhere on the site without a verification though everyone just assumes you won't turn up or aren't real

Your 'friend' is pretty crap. Verifications don't mean that people have fucked.

It makes me laugh when people think veris prove anything. They expect other people to meet and verify them before they will meet them. It's an ADULT site yet they need baby sitting! "

I thought this. Odd. A lot of my veris are socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m up for camming If anyone is free? And willing to veri x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m up for camming If anyone is free? And willing to veri x"

Go in the chat rooms, I’m sure someone in there will verie you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly veris don't even mean anything to me. I'm not one for taking the word of some random stranger to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh with your bare minimum profile we wouldn’t be interested in meeting you if you had verifications.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’m up for camming If anyone is free? And willing to veri x"

Which room?

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"People often reply with “ sorry only meet people who have veris” or don’t rely at all! "

If they dint reply at all how do yiu know it's the lack of verifications putting them off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ll try get in room 5 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive searched for the people who Ive met previous one has hidden their profile and I can’t find the others x"

One has hidden from you. And the others have possibly left?,…. Are you a jinx op?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’ll try get in room 5 x"

I'll have a look, I've not long mind. Happy to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been on here before and had a few meets. I had some good veris on my last profile. Now trying to sort a meet without any is proving difficult! Any advice? "

Don't leave and come back on a new profile, just hide your original if you need a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give up now it's pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are ridiculous. They are not helpful in any way tbh. Most of them put you off, having them from the wrong kind of woman or couple or person can put off your potential meets you are chatting to or want to meet. Possibly could be meeting all sorts and just not verify each other .. So you are none the wiser either way ..

They work for couples interested in couples, the typical swinging setup which is no surprise because that's the core audience.

If you are a single guy looking for a woman on here you are facing an steep uphill struggle. There are very definitely better places to search.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I have been on here before and had a few meets. I had some good veris on my last profile. Now trying to sort a meet without any is proving difficult! Any advice? "

Grow some tits, you’ll never struggle for meets ever again

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

We've met a guy with no veris before

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Verifications are ridiculous. They are not helpful in any way tbh. Most of them put you off, having them from the wrong kind of woman or couple or person can put off your potential meets you are chatting to or want to meet. Possibly could be meeting all sorts and just not verify each other .. So you are none the wiser either way ..

They work for couples interested in couples, the typical swinging setup which is no surprise because that's the core audience.

If you are a single guy looking for a woman on here you are facing an steep uphill struggle. There are very definitely better places to search. "

Verifications helped me break into swinging. If X people saw Y person and had nice things to say, at least he's probably not an axe murderer. It's one way to confirm instinct on someone before you become vulnerable.

My verifications also give some evidence that I'm not a sweaty old man wanking over other men who think I'm a 30-something woman.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Having the same problem myself, there is a girl on here I've been friends with for years and won't verify me because we have never slept together and another girl I've swapped number and been on camera with who won't verify me... can't get anywhere on the site without a verification though everyone just assumes you won't turn up or aren't real "
I've verified many people I've not had sex with.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Having the same problem myself, there is a girl on here I've been friends with for years and won't verify me because we have never slept together and another girl I've swapped number and been on camera with who won't verify me... can't get anywhere on the site without a verification though everyone just assumes you won't turn up or aren't real I've verified many people I've not had sex with. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Verifications are ridiculous. They are not helpful in any way tbh. Most of them put you off, having them from the wrong kind of woman or couple or person can put off your potential meets you are chatting to or want to meet. Possibly could be meeting all sorts and just not verify each other .. So you are none the wiser either way ..

They work for couples interested in couples, the typical swinging setup which is no surprise because that's the core audience.

If you are a single guy looking for a woman on here you are facing a steep uphill struggle. There are very definitely better places to search. "

Disagree completely.

Were not I treated in couples but we want men that we meet to be verified bu other couples so they we know they have turned up before, are accustomed to a threesome and hopefully won’t get stage fright.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Your profile screams cheating toerag...

(I can't accommodate either, and i also have only a photo of my slightly barer chest, I'm just saying how it comes scross to women who view your profile.)

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

But on the positive....

Meet someone in a pub or coffee shop.

I've met someone in a public place simply to verify them

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maximise the potential of your tools here, to improve your likelihood of securing attraction. This is largely your profile. Read some forum posts from struggling men, to pick up tactics.

Empathise with your desired partners and what they want, before getting more certain that a guy may be a match. And is a better match than most that they view.

If they are in doubt, assume that people don't proceed.

If your old profile exists, consider whether you could again login to it.

Clubs and socials are ideal places to get verified, as others state. But veris are no magic tools, if a profile does not deliver the goods.

A man who demonstrates limited grasp of what a partner is almost certainly going to want, as a minimum, will deter many.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Verifications are ridiculous. They are not helpful in any way tbh. Most of them put you off, having them from the wrong kind of woman or couple or person can put off your potential meets you are chatting to or want to meet. Possibly could be meeting all sorts and just not verify each other .. So you are none the wiser either way ..

They work for couples interested in couples, the typical swinging setup which is no surprise because that's the core audience.

If you are a single guy looking for a woman on here you are facing an steep uphill struggle. There are very definitely better places to search. "

I value verifications, as I largely want to feel people are more reliable and that they are who they claim to be. Each of us is different, so what works for me, will be less important for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile screams cheating toerag...

(I can't accommodate either, and i also have only a photo of my slightly barer chest, I'm just saying how it comes scross to women who view your profile.)"

It only "screams" that to a certain kind of woman.

Intelligent women would know that anyone with Cannot Accommodate could mean many different things.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Having the same problem myself, there is a girl on here I've been friends with for years and won't verify me because we have never slept together and another girl I've swapped number and been on camera with who won't verify me... can't get anywhere on the site without a verification though everyone just assumes you won't turn up or aren't real "

I'm not surprised the way you've written about them in your profile!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Just keep trying... I've met newbies and people who aren't verified, even just for a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes 'too many' veris can be a barrier as well

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I have been on here before and had a few meets. I had some good veris on my last profile. Now trying to sort a meet without any is proving difficult! Any advice? "
don't seek meets with people who require veris

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I have been on here before and had a few meets. I had some good veris on my last profile. Now trying to sort a meet without any is proving difficult! Any advice? "

So you've been here before.

I assume when you first joined you had no verifications?

As did everyone else.

Why not do what you did before, as it obviously worked given you say you had a few meets.

If you managed to get a meet without a veri last time I don't see what's changed now?

A

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I have been on here before and had a few meets. I had some good veris on my last profile. Now trying to sort a meet without any is proving difficult! Any advice? "
meet the people you met before

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