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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are not looking to meet single guys but I will look at single guys profiles from time to time. It might be people local to us, or men I see have verified women we speak to, or someone from the forums etc.

I then frequently receive abusive messages back because we aren’t looking to meet single guys. The messages usually say, in not so nice words, that we shouldn’t be viewing their profile if we don’t want to meet them.

What’s the general opinion on this? I’m shocked by it to be honest, it’s as if a profile view means consent to sexual contact. This mornings horrible message was a peach, hence putting this out here for you all to chip in on.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Use the tools the site gives you, filters etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are not looking to meet single guys but I will look at single guys profiles from time to time. It might be people local to us, or men I see have verified women we speak to, or someone from the forums etc.

I then frequently receive abusive messages back because we aren’t looking to meet single guys. The messages usually say, in not so nice words, that we shouldn’t be viewing their profile if we don’t want to meet them.

What’s the general opinion on this? I’m shocked by it to be honest, it’s as if a profile view means consent to sexual contact. This mornings horrible message was a peach, hence putting this out here for you all to chip in on. "

I agree with you - I think it's shocking behaviour. Profiles are there to be viewed. Just block the idiots who send abuse.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

How bizarre.

I’m sure Dante Gabriel Rossetti didn’t mind who looked at his paintings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for nonsense like that.

Put yourselves in ninja mode and you can view til your hearts content without anyone knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just delete and block them. Not worth even responding to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that you’ve had that happened. I find it really bizarre myself, as I had a similar message from looking at a couples profile, that stated they weren’t looking for single men. Yet I wouldn’t know unless I looked…

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"No need for nonsense like that.

Put yourselves in ninja mode and you can view til your hearts content without anyone knowing "

This..

The site has the means..

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By *ammy_xMan
over a year ago

Reading

Sounds like idiots, perv at who you like.

I don't get the sending rude messages, what do they hope to achieve?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Like others have said use ninja mode so no one can see you having a nose that’s what we do.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I'd say they seem like the type of people you want to avoid if they think like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that you’ve had that happened. I find it really bizarre myself, as I had a similar message from looking at a couples profile, that stated they weren’t looking for single men. Yet I wouldn’t know unless I looked…"

You’ve got to have a thick skin and be a mind reader to survive on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No need for nonsense like that.

Put yourselves in ninja mode and you can view til your hearts content without anyone knowing

This..

The site has the means.. "

Didn’t know about ninja mode, do now, thank you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hello O.P.

No one should send abusive messages.

You can look at any profile you like.

There is no need for them to message you but they may be just protecting themselves and saving your time.

It's ALL in YOUR hands.

View profiles in 'stealth mode'.

I'm always in stealth. No one knows if I have viewed them or not.

I blame you in part because you are going to say to me 'what's stealth mode' but if you took the time to read the site and use the tools you wouldn't be having this conversation

STEALTH MODE. Find it.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"We are not looking to meet single guys but I will look at single guys profiles from time to time. It might be people local to us, or men I see have verified women we speak to, or someone from the forums etc.

I then frequently receive abusive messages back because we aren’t looking to meet single guys. The messages usually say, in not so nice words, that we shouldn’t be viewing their profile if we don’t want to meet them.

What’s the general opinion on this? I’m shocked by it to be honest, it’s as if a profile view means consent to sexual contact. This mornings horrible message was a peach, hence putting this out here for you all to chip in on. "

Set your message filters to block single guys. Sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear that you’ve had that happened. I find it really bizarre myself, as I had a similar message from looking at a couples profile, that stated they weren’t looking for single men. Yet I wouldn’t know unless I looked…"

I'm staggered that people have so little to do that they take time to message someone they don't want to meet some people's arrogance and entitlement and tittle tattle is extremely off putting. I think that would earn a block from me

Mine clearly states I'm not meeting at the moment.. Doesn't stop the deluge, but i just ignore it, it doesn't impact me in any way. Peeps need to chill!

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"We are not looking to meet single guys but I will look at single guys profiles from time to time. It might be people local to us, or men I see have verified women we speak to, or someone from the forums etc.

I then frequently receive abusive messages back because we aren’t looking to meet single guys. The messages usually say, in not so nice words, that we shouldn’t be viewing their profile if we don’t want to meet them.

What’s the general opinion on this? I’m shocked by it to be honest, it’s as if a profile view means consent to sexual contact. This mornings horrible message was a peach, hence putting this out here for you all to chip in on. "
look in ninja which is easily changed in settings

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

View any profile you like, for whatever reason.

Report abusive messages to the admin..

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

...gotta love the ninja mode for avoiding abuse, surely that works??

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

They are a twonk! Twonks should be treated with disdain, ignored and ridiculed.. although invariably with twonks, they are frequently ridiculed but are just to dim to realise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats bizarre, why would they even waste energy typing that we've never had that but my response would be "I'll look where I damn Well please hun " haha

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