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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

What moments in life gave you the worst heartbreak?

The worst heartbreak used to be when my first ex cheated on me and dumped me for a guy twice her age back in 2006 but now, I known that the worst heartbreak I've ever felt was when my last ex, who I had known since secondary school and was my best friend at the time, dumped me by text and cut ties with me just days before Christmas back in 2016.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Don't live your life in the past

That's just the road to misery

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

As sad as it sounds as both my parents are long gone the most heartbroken I've seriously been is when my Pooch Prince died last year ...

That really hit me

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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago

swansea

Divorce and dogs dying, heartbroken

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"Don't live your life in the past

That's just the road to misery "

A lesson I've always kept in mind. That and long distance relationships along with relationships with best friends don't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mums sudden death last June. Still mourning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your head up some thing beautiful is about to happen

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"As sad as it sounds as both my parents are long gone the most heartbroken I've seriously been is when my Pooch Prince died last year ...

That really hit me

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You should have fashioned a Locket containing pooch's ashes. †

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"As sad as it sounds as both my parents are long gone the most heartbroken I've seriously been is when my Pooch Prince died last year ...

That really hit me

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You should have fashioned a Locket containing pooch's ashes. †

I have.. I wear it permanently mate

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

He's a jolly good fellow ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's a jolly good fellow ^"

And so say all of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't live your life in the past

That's just the road to misery "

True! look forward xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was told I was ugly and when she leaves she make shour no one will have me

The words still hunt me to this day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was told I was ugly and when she leaves she make shour no one will have me

The words still hunt me to this day "

rise above those kind of people.. they are truly the sad ones

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

When my wife died in 2005 and watching my 9 children suffer with grief as well as my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was told I was ugly and when she leaves she make shour no one will have me

The words still hunt me to this day

rise above those kind of people.. they are truly the sad ones "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was told I was ugly and when she leaves she make shour no one will have me

The words still hunt me to this day

rise above those kind of people.. they are truly the sad ones "

It’s hard when she was ment to be my best friend my sole mate the person I was ment to spend the rest off my life with 11 years and her hurtful words still ring in my head ever single day

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Two for me...

Turning up for my first ultrasound to find baby was no longer there, no symptoms of miscarriage whatsoever.

Being told I was fat, ugly and useless and noone in this world would ever want me, took me a long time to find myself and realise he got that wrong

Tg x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are horrible

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Going to work and getting a visit from the police to say my wife had been involved in an accident and having to go identify her,she was 6 months pregnant at the time.

I truly wanted to die

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going to work and getting a visit from the police to say my wife had been involved in an accident and having to go identify her,she was 6 months pregnant at the time.

I truly wanted to die"

Jesus that’s so hard man hope you got some counselling

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

When my partner of 11 years died 3 and a half years after my mum... Actually, almost killed me too

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By *lecom1Couple
over a year ago

Stornoway

When my first wife died from breast cancer over 30 years ago now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my god so many heartbreaking stories xx

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Between 1983 and 1988 I lost both maternal grandparents whom I had been caring for since I was 12 years old, two uncles(one of whom was also my godfather), and an aunt and two cousins(one a week before his 30th birthday). Therefore by the time my dad passed away a week before my 22nd birthday I was completely numb to death and loss.

That whole period was just one long heartbreak.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Don't live your life in the past

That's just the road to misery "

Well bloody said !!!! Jheeeze

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Don't live your life in the past

That's just the road to misery

Well bloody said !!!! Jheeeze "

But remembering the past helps us not making mistakes in the future and it also prepares us to understand and cope with future heartbreak.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

There are 3 dates I can't remember in my head, thank God for calenders.

My daughters birthday.

The date she passed away.

Her funeral.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few weeks ago When they (those meanies) decided to stop producing the Ford fiesta !

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By *aughtyDuetCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

When you watch a fabulous beard devouring fruit and want to exchange places with that lucky citrus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you watch a fabulous beard devouring fruit and want to exchange places with that lucky citrus

Just ask

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

The loss of my closest loved ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing my son hooked up to a chemo drip and seeing him with no hair xx

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

When my partner passed from pancreatic cancer 6 yrs ago … I could of willingly joined him

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

When my dad died both my parents long gone but was closest to my dad ! When I lost a baby! And when the father of my 3 youngest children died! Dealing with 3 grieving little ones was heartbreaking x

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Getting diagnosed at autism with 50. Not so much the diagnosis (which I embrace) but processing why I have struggled or completely failed at so many aspects of life and the huge "what if' I'd known earlier. Mourning your own life is not easy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When my beloved Jay passed away on 17th of October. I'm still in shock.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"When my beloved Jay passed away on 17th of October. I'm still in shock."

I'm so sorry to read this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two incidents stick put as real heartbreak.

1. When my partner of 8 years walked out and told me by text she no longer loved me.

2. When my Gran died. She lived with us and was more like a mum. Plus it happened on my 21st so I was a bit emotional.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

When I held my 3 day old baby daughter in my arms as she passed away

Nothing else will ever come close to that indescribably pain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my Dad passed away and six months later my partner passed away,when I look back I really can't believe how I got through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not going into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I held my 3 day old baby daughter in my arms as she passed away

Nothing else will ever come close to that indescribably pain x"

So so sorry Sparkle I wish I could give you a hug xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What moments in life gave you the worst heartbreak?

Your carrying a heavy load.

You need closure,you wont get it here tbh

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

"What moments in life gave you the worst heartbreak?

Your carrying a heavy load.

You need closure,you wont get it here tbh"

I moved on from what happened those years ago. Even though they broke my heart, they're not worth wasting my breath over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently fighting through to the other side of mine

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

"Divorce and dogs dying, heartbroken"

Dogs dying, never missed one person as much as my dogs.

Big dogs don't live long but their big hearts leave a giant hole in your soul.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Seeing my mum not coping with the fact that not too far in the distant future she will be dying when she is so desperate to live and there's nothing anyone can do to help her.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"When I held my 3 day old baby daughter in my arms as she passed away

Nothing else will ever come close to that indescribably pain x

So so sorry Sparkle I wish I could give you a hug xx"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sending hugs to you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My little brother died suddenly in July. I miss him like crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum passed in 2002

Wife passed in 2010

Much pain and heartache

Didn’t want to live myself after that

Life moves on

Still have good memories

That’s what I hold on to

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

The endless purgatory of being with my narcissist ex. Slowly broke my heart and soul, thank god I'm in such a better place now

- Xeno

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

Loss of my daughter

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Acquiring my disability at age 31.

The death of my Grandad in Jan last year.

Those are the main ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget...

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget..."

No, you don't. When you have to live with that negative change every single day, for the rest of your life, you do not and cannot forget. It depends entirely on the person and what they have experienced.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget..."

Losing a child "is not so bad" and you "just forget"

I hope you are never, ever faced with something that is "not so bad"

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

When I got a call to say my sister in law had passed, it was like a physical pain in my heart, like someone had put a knife through it. Repeated far too often with other friends that have passed.

Relationship wise... Realising someone wasn't the person you thought they were, also numerous times, but easier to get over.

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By *unandgamegeek OP Man
over a year ago

Bolton

Another heartbreak I felt was when I found out a friend who I used to date over 10 years ago but kept in touch with over the years died last month. I felt so numb that day and I wept a couple of days later.

I then took comfort that she didn't suffer and will be watching over her family. Even though my friend is gone, the good times we chatted on Facebook I will always remember and cherish.

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget...

Losing a child "is not so bad" and you "just forget"

I hope you are never, ever faced with something that is "not so bad"

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget...

Losing a child "is not so bad" and you "just forget" only those of us that have lost a child know the unending pain

I hope you are never, ever faced with something that is "not so bad"

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Everything feels huge at the time, but upon reflection,it's not so bad.i don't know.. times not a healer as such, it's just you forget...

Losing a child "is not so bad" and you "just forget" only those of us that have lost a child know the unending pain

I hope you are never, ever faced with something that is "not so bad"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner breaking up with me during lockdown was a total shock, I just didn't see it coming. I was broken and to make matters worse his true colours and nastiness came out afterwards in his abusive and threatening messages. It took a long time to get over it.

Aside from that, my dad's health failing every day is more heart breaking than anything else

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Try not to think about it,

but since you asked op,

miscarrying my babies was pretty rough.

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By *lowingMan
over a year ago

Warrington

I never got over my first girlfriend from school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching my 1st born fight for his life bk in 2002 born 6 wks early(3 wks in SCBU(ICU PART)...

And watching our 10 year old son(3rd born) fight for his life last yr in resus, lines, wires, monitors, tests, not responding...

Undiagnosed type1 diabetic in severe DKA...

Thankfully both ok but something i dont wanna see again. Watching your child fight for their life

(Mrs)

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Telford

We cannot influence the past

Remember the past. Learn from it but only use the past to help shape the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As sad as it sounds as both my parents are long gone the most heartbroken I've seriously been is when my Pooch Prince died last year ...

That really hit me

Every dog I've lost has hit me hard - always swear no more dogs, but always do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been a small number but the worst was carrying my baby daughters coffin. That pain never leaves me, and I think about her some part of every day. It's been 30 years..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

For me, betrayal.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Fucking hell this thread is depressing.

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By *amnaughtybutniceWoman
over a year ago

tf1

When my 2 ex’s teamed up and lied to the police to get me arrested and under investigation.

All lies. Which I hope will be exposed very soon.

The level of betrayal is unreal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad dying was one of my worst heartbreaks. I had never lost someone before so it was a bit of a shock and seeing him deteriorate wasn't nice.

When my daughter was born she was quite sick, and I'll never forget how I felt watching her scream and not being able to do anything when she was pinned down so they could do a lumbar puncture. I feel sick just thinking about it. I'm just thankful she was OK. Nothing worse in this world than seeing your child in pain.

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

When I was 15 my dad told me and my brother we didn’t have a dad anymore. My mum was in a very bad place at the time and up until that I always hoped he’d come and take me away from her not leave me completely

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Finding out last year that my first childhood girlfriend (lost contact after moving from Midlands) had died when she was only 25.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my dog died ten years ago

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