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By *elshyBoy96 OP   Man
over a year ago

Queensferry

What am I doing wrong I try be polite and myself and provide a face pic if required and still don't get replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of profile picture would put a lot off

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Your profile says nothing about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window. "
shes right would you fuck a couple of willys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you’re doing wrong.

1) messaging people.

2) expecting a reply.

3) being male.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I can't offer you profile advice, but maybe worth considering your expectations and efforts?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP.

Just wondering, have you considered that no one wants to meet a silhouette?

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By *elshyBoy96 OP   Man
over a year ago

Queensferry

Nope I get that totally it does seem like am a bot again but am really not maybe I need to have a refresh I just don't where to big

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By *elshyBoy96 OP   Man
over a year ago

Queensferry

Going to work on that now

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

your profile is your problem tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I get that totally it does seem like am a bot again but am really not maybe I need to have a refresh I just don't where to big "

To be fair someone has met you though. I'm assuming your opening message was pretty decent in that case? Maybe try to put across something like that in your bio, add a few pics. Give a flavour of who you are, and what you're seeking/offering

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By *elshyBoy96 OP   Man
over a year ago

Queensferry

Thanks for advice everyone going to work on where am going wrong all am trying to do hopefully get to know some people socialise and see what it has to offer

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window. "
exactly this you don't have a profile so when the gorgeous women look and many do in ninja they discount you, you have two penis pics that's it and no write up but you have a veri, improve your advert and you'll at least be on the starting grid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window. "

Look at my profile, would you be tempted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

1. No profile pic.

2. Only two pics in your gallery.

3. There both cock pics.

4. Probably very little interaction and an over reliance on messaging, judging by zero use of the forum until today.

5. All that bdsm test stuff.

6. Other than the above, you have just one single line for a profile that says bugger all about you.

That sums up the reasons why we would not be interested. Other people might have other reasons, but those are ours. Now if you were to send us a message we would take a look at your profile, notice all the above, and then most likely ignore or delete your message. Harsh, but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window.

Look at my profile, would you be tempted? "

No, you’re no good to me, you have a black hole where your dick should be.

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By *elshyBoy96 OP   Man
over a year ago

Queensferry

Thanks for the feedback everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not message me directly about this. Replies on the thread

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window.

Look at my profile, would you be tempted? "

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window.

Look at my profile, would you be tempted?

No, you’re no good to me, you have a black hole where your dick should be. "

It was a freak accident with a rabid squirrel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window.

Look at my profile, would you be tempted?

No "

Boo cmon now girl I thought we were something special?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

What does your profile show that makes you stand out from the 50,000 other guys on here?

Answer that honestly and you have your answer…

K

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window.

Look at my profile, would you be tempted?

No

Boo cmon now girl I thought we were something special?"

Until you learn how to wash the soap off properly its still a no

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By *elshyBoy96 OP   Man
over a year ago

Queensferry

I never meant to that sorry haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window.

Look at my profile, would you be tempted?

No

Boo cmon now girl I thought we were something special?

Until you learn how to wash the soap off properly its still a no "

I like to let it soak into my soul like the clean living Saint I am

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What am I doing wrong I try be polite and myself and provide a face pic if required and still don't get replies "

You inadvertently set up a profile as a single male in Fab. Complete rookie error, but don’t worry; you’ll learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it’s not mandatory is it?

This is my favourite question at work

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

2 pictures of your cock, hmmmmm let me think what the problem is here, no can’t think of one you should be dripping in pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 pictures of your cock, hmmmmm let me think what the problem is here, no can’t think of one you should be dripping in pussy "

Does a cock ever drip in pussy?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Profile is unimaginative and unimpressive. Doesn't sell yourself at all.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"2 pictures of your cock, hmmmmm let me think what the problem is here, no can’t think of one you should be dripping in pussy

Does a cock ever drip in pussy? "

Depends if you pull out or not I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 pictures of your cock, hmmmmm let me think what the problem is here, no can’t think of one you should be dripping in pussy

Does a cock ever drip in pussy? "

If you don’t practice safe sex it does.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

What percentage of the planet do you think would find you attractive?? There are less people on here so... Plus, nobody wants to speak to a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 pictures of your cock, hmmmmm let me think what the problem is here, no can’t think of one you should be dripping in pussy

Does a cock ever drip in pussy?

Depends if you pull out or not I guess "

Ooh I like what ya did there! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your minimalistic approach.

One of the best profiles I’ve seen, your dry spell is a mystery.

It’s them, not you.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

That bdsm test thing is a massive turn off too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at my profile and copy it word for word. Pussy on tap.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Have a look at my profile and copy it word for word. Pussy on tap."

Awesome buddy! I’m on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most will check out your profile before even thinking about reading your message - though as many women and couples view in stealth mode, you won't know anything about it. Your profile is likely your problem, but as you haven't asked for profile advice, no one can give you any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What am I doing wrong I try be polite and myself and provide a face pic if required and still don't get replies "

Yawn! This again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this feeling sorry for yourself won’t help. Tidy up your profile and put a profile pic at least minimum no one is entitled to a response let alone a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot if you have already had a meet even with your profile as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile is a load of drivel....

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"What am I doing wrong I try be polite and myself and provide a face pic if required and still don't get replies "

Silhouette profile.

No pictures. Other than 2 cock pictures.

One line biog.

BDSM test results which might be of interest if this was a BDSM site.

Winston

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It amazes us that people have dick pic profiles then wonder why they don't get any responses.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window. "

Basically it’s lots of words that you think are saying but it’s not actually saying anything

It’s basically word salad…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look at your profile, would you be tempted to reply? Your profile is your shop window.

Basically it’s lots of words that you think are saying but it’s not actually saying anything

It’s basically word salad… "

Perhaps he's hoping to get his salad tossed

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

In fairness to you OP, you have some of the advice above on board since your original post and made some changes.

However, there is still work to do. You'll need to expand more on what you have wrote and do a spelling check.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Just ignore the demanding profiles with their lists of wants, face pic, VWE, BBC, over 6’6”, gym fit etc etc and let’s see how you go from there OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the demanding profiles with their lists of wants, face pic, VWE, BBC, over 6’6”, gym fit etc etc and let’s see how you go from there OP "

Yep, wise words. "Don't go chasing waterfalls"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the demanding profiles with their lists of wants, face pic, VWE, BBC, over 6’6”, gym fit etc etc and let’s see how you go from there OP

Yep, wise words. "Don't go chasing waterfalls""

Unless it's squirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play for developing it a bit OP. I'd personally split it down to maybe talk a bit about what you like in a dominant role & also in a submissive? Also add a profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It amazes us that people have dick pic profiles then wonder why they don't get any responses."

Women want dick. That's why they're on here. Why waste time with any other human interaction?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Just ignore the demanding profiles with their lists of wants, face pic, VWE, BBC, over 6’6”, gym fit etc etc and let’s see how you go from there OP

Yep, wise words. "Don't go chasing waterfalls"

Unless it's squirt. "

If it’s squirts I’d be up it like a rat up a drain pipe

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow


"What you’re doing wrong.

1) messaging people.

2) expecting a reply.

3) being male."

Hahahaha ..Thanks … coffee just spluttered all over my keyboard

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"It amazes us that people have dick pic profiles then wonder why they don't get any responses."

I get a lot more interest when my dick is my avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The BDSM test stuff will put a woman off

Not many women won't to meet a complete stranger from the Internet if they say that they want to tie them up and restrain them straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you’re doing wrong.

1) messaging people.

2) expecting a reply.

3) being male.

Hahahaha ..Thanks … coffee just spluttered all over my keyboard"

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By *E-monstrative92Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Are you messaging the right people? I've ignored a load of messages from single guys. It clearly states on my profile "no single guys".

So are you trying to message people who won't be interested in the first place? X

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Join in with forum/cam room chat o/p. Treat fab like a social club. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Inbox me hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I'm tempted to get a single guy profile to show you lads how it's done. But not many guys look as good as me so it would be a bit unfair tbh.

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Sometimes I'm tempted to get a single guy profile to show you lads how it's done. But not many guys look as good as me so it would be a bit unfair tbh."

Lots of great looking guys whinge about getting no action on here, so if you rely on that good luck fella

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"Sometimes I'm tempted to get a single guy profile to show you lads how it's done. But not many guys look as good as me so it would be a bit unfair tbh."
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the demanding profiles with their lists of wants, face pic, VWE, BBC, over 6’6”, gym fit etc etc and let’s see how you go from there OP

Yep, wise words. "Don't go chasing waterfalls"

Unless it's squirt.

If it’s squirts I’d be up it like a rat up a drain pipe "

Be careful, it will be slippy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No replies ? .. Welcome to the Jungle...you're not the first and won't be the last to start threads like this one

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