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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr " Maybe read the rules | |||
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr " I do try to reply to those that have gone above and beyond in terms of message but sometimes us ladies get so many messages in one day (especially if we post a picture) sometimes its really hard to read all of them, I do understand your frustration I really do but it's not as simple as logging on, seeing a few messages and replying to them, sometimes you log on and see over 60 messages and sometimes you look at them and might pluck a few out but more often than not, it's easier just to mass delete, especially for people that have a word in the heading from their profile to tell us your at least scanned it to the bottom, if that's not in the subject heading, that's a straight in the bin for me. | |||
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"It’s a loaded game, only play if you’re prepared to accept the rules! " This, accepting that no replies are an inevitability is far easier than moaning | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing." I love this analogy! And let's not forget she never even asked for a drink! | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing." Fuckin bitches | |||
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"If they don’t reply they’re not interested. I wish men understood that. " Don’t be silly, we have to be good girls and keep the menz happy. | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Fuckin bitches " Exactly. | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Fuckin bitches Exactly. " Who do l we think we ARE! | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Fuckin bitches Exactly. Who do l we think we ARE!" Just impolite aren’t you all. Shocking. Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message. | |||
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"thanks that makes sense but a lot of time and effort has gone into sending those messages " On your part, not theirs. Your not owed a reply or anything else. If you sent your well written CV for a job application and didn’t get the job would you go in the place kicking off and slagging them off because you didn’t get the job? | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Fuckin bitches Exactly. Who do l we think we ARE! Just impolite aren’t you all. Shocking. Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message." Noted. Must try harder | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Fuckin bitches Exactly. Who do l we think we ARE! Just impolite aren’t you all. Shocking. Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message. Noted. Must try harder " That’s the spirit. | |||
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"No reply is, in itself a reply. " Don’t come in here with your common sense and logical posts. | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Fuckin bitches Exactly. Who do l we think we ARE! Just impolite aren’t you all. Shocking. Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message. Noted. Must try harder That’s the spirit." Thank you kind man, for showing me the error if my (frankly, shocking) ways | |||
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"It’s a loaded game, only play if you’re prepared to accept the rules! " Again spot on You are on fire today Dan ! | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Fuckin bitches Exactly. Who do l we think we ARE! Just impolite aren’t you all. Shocking. Just be better ladies, not asking much, just put out when you receive a nice detailed message. Noted. Must try harder That’s the spirit. Thank you kind man, for showing me the error if my (frankly, shocking) ways " Don’t mention it, I’m just glad I could help. | |||
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr " They delete because they are not interested in meeting you. A no thanks often leads to men trying to get around any reason given. From your post I get the sense you think if you send a well written message it will get you sex, that is not the case. It is for the recipient of the message to decide if you are what they are looking for, not you Making a thread about not getting replies is a form of rudeness in itself. Personally I would not meet anyone who started such a thread | |||
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"thanks that makes sense but a lot of time and effort has gone into sending those messages " How much time really? Honestly we're talking minutes surely? Maybe 15 minutes at most to read a profile and compose a message. That's not a lot of time unless you are messaging anyone and everyone and sending dozens of messages | |||
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr " I got sent a long detailed message by someone who had clearly read my profile. He got one sentence back off me. Now we are a couple. You just never know what will happen. If they aren't interested you'll get nothing. But it could go the other way. No harm in trying. Just don't turn to the one sentence first message types, or worse. T | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. I love this analogy! And let's not forget she never even asked for a drink!" Probably didn't even drink it either. Just ungrateful. A | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing." Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude " I’m glad I have helped so many of you realise the error of your ways. A well detailed message deserves at the very least a hand job. | |||
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"thanks that makes sense but a lot of time and effort has gone into sending those messages " Get a pen pal! | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing." What were you in for ? | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. What were you in for ?" Not taking no for an answer. | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. What were you in for ? Not taking no for an answer." No! | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. What were you in for ? Not taking no for an answer. No!" That’s what she said. | |||
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"Manners maketh a person my old gran said god rest her soul....." Aksherlly your old gran would have said manners maketh the man ...... admit it! Don't you try neutralising our gloriously outmoded tropes. | |||
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"Manners maketh a person my old gran said god rest her soul..... Aksherlly your old gran would have said manners maketh the man ...... admit it! Don't you try neutralising our gloriously outmoded tropes." can't pull the wool over your eyes Granny.... | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude I’m glad I have helped so many of you realise the error of your ways. A well detailed message deserves at the very least a hand job." At the very least... one good turn deserves another. Thank you for your helpful instruction of how I can be more successful moving forward | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude I’m glad I have helped so many of you realise the error of your ways. A well detailed message deserves at the very least a hand job. At the very least... one good turn deserves another. Thank you for your helpful instruction of how I can be more successful moving forward " I’m here to help. | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. Its only polite right? Youve put all that effort to give us something we didn't ask for and we don't instantly put out... punish me now for being so rude I’m glad I have helped so many of you realise the error of your ways. A well detailed message deserves at the very least a hand job. At the very least... one good turn deserves another. Thank you for your helpful instruction of how I can be more successful moving forward I’m here to help. " Thank goodness, I'd be in a whole heap of trouble without guidance like this | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing." So what happens if I buy the cool table drinks? | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. So what happens if I buy the cool table drinks? " Orgy. | |||
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"I’ve missed threads like this while I’ve been away. When I buy a girl a drink in a bar then she owes me a blowjob, regardless of her finding me attractive or not. I put effort into queuing and buying said drink therefore hop to it, on your knees. Manners cost nothing. So what happens if I buy the cool table drinks? Orgy." Gigidy. | |||
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"thanks that makes sense but a lot of time and effort has gone into sending those messages " Fab needs men to have realistic expectations, if they are going to retain their wellbeing, when the majority of people they engage with, will ignore them, as there's no compatibility. | |||
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" Don't take it to heart, take it for what it is - a no. I'd rather be ignored than receive a "sorry love, we don't fancy you". D x" Very valid point. I often wonder how all those who complain about not receiving replies would actually feel if they ended up with an overflowing inbox all saying exactly that. Not a great confidence booster! | |||
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr " Would you like a long and detailed reply about all the things about your profile that they don't find attractive? Would that be polite? | |||
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr " From the site FAQ’s There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages! It's not rude not to reply. Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? | |||
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"thanks that makes sense but a lot of time and effort has gone into sending those messages " You could write an epic tome, something Shakespeare himself would by proud of. But if we don't fancy you, we don't fancy you. No amount of words will change that. Let's say you send 10 messages a day on a 30 day month. At the end of the month you have 300 messages saying "no thanks, we don't fancy you" Two questions; Do you feel better for being told by 300 people they don't find you appealing? Do you write back, thanking them for their no thanks? I'd add more but I have to call 3 pizza shops, 2 double glazing companies, 4 life insurance companies and a taxi service to say no thanks to all their kind offers. Winston | |||
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"Another self important entitled user throwing the toys out of his pram because he hasn't read the rules..... " The FaQ's aren't rules. Winston | |||
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr " Have to totally agree with you | |||
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" I dont understand, people complain you don't read their profiles, when you do and write a detailed message to them, they just delete, its not 1 sided people politeness isn't hard grr." "Have to totally agree with you " • Ad Nuseaum. | |||
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"“wHy cAn’T pEopLe sEe iT fRoM My poinT Of ViEw?” *even though I can’t be arsed to see it from theirs" That's because they too busy looking at you and thinking mmmmmm | |||
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