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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Where has this year gone ?

What’s your year been like so far ?

Highs and lows fab and otherwise?

Let’s hear about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ended a relationship, changed my job, made a decision on and finalised my retirement in the spring 23. Yea... Been eventful

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Ended a relationship, changed my job, made a decision on and finalised my retirement in the spring 23. Yea... Been eventful "

Happy retirement!! You don’t look anywhere near old enough xx

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Mixed bag! But on the whole good! Still waiting for my 2 great grandsons to arrive! One was due 10 days ago! The other due today! Had 2 lovely holidays! And have 8 months till I can retire at 66 next July! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn’t the best of starts, but I refreshed mindset, focused on myself and the I’ve enjoyed everyday of the year since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ended a relationship, changed my job, made a decision on and finalised my retirement in the spring 23. Yea... Been eventful

Happy retirement!! You don’t look anywhere near old enough xx"

At 95 it was over due

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Year started ok. I was building some models, which was therapeutic. After that i turned 30, depression came back with a vengeance and I’ve been feeling suicidal frequently.

Most this year has been spent in bed, browsing Facebook, masturbating, crying over my ex from 3 years ago, and abusing medication to feel better.

Sex life has been none existent for years due to how ugly I am. Fab is just a forum I use to distract myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Year started ok. I was building some models, which was therapeutic. After that i turned 30, depression came back with a vengeance and I’ve been feeling suicidal frequently.

Most this year has been spent in bed, browsing Facebook, masturbating, crying over my ex from 3 years ago, and abusing medication to feel better.

Sex life has been none existent for years due to how ugly I am. Fab is just a forum I use to distract myself. "

Oh my lovely! Hugs to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ended a relationship, changed my job, made a decision on and finalised my retirement in the spring 23. Yea... Been eventful "

Wow, you're amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Semi retired, then cost of living hit, but I'm sticking with it. Spent a lovely summer at a great naturist site and met lovely people. Travelled in my campervan, enjoying what life is giving me. Had a few hiccups along the way, but we won't focus on those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a good enough year.

I managed to get myself a job. I've become so much more independent after moving to a new country. I've gone out of my way to make sure my daughter has a great group of friends she can see often outside of school. I went on my first ever holiday and we have four more planned over the next 12 months including two big ones. I've lost almost three stone and I'm still in a good mindset to continue with weight loss. I've learned to be kind to myself.

I've had a few bad points. My depression hasn't been great since moving in with my partners family but that comes with bonuses too, help with childcare and a decent bit of disposable income etc. Overall it's been pretty good. I can't complain too much.

What about you OP?

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It's been a good enough year.

I managed to get myself a job. I've become so much more independent after moving to a new country. I've gone out of my way to make sure my daughter has a great group of friends she can see often outside of school. I went on my first ever holiday and we have four more planned over the next 12 months including two big ones. I've lost almost three stone and I'm still in a good mindset to continue with weight loss. I've learned to be kind to myself.

I've had a few bad points. My depression hasn't been great since moving in with my partners family but that comes with bonuses too, help with childcare and a decent bit of disposable income etc. Overall it's been pretty good. I can't complain too much.

What about you OP?

"

Glad to see things are going well for you xx thanks for asking about me !

I’ve had a decent year x can’t complain and now looking forward to Christmas!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's been a good enough year.

I managed to get myself a job. I've become so much more independent after moving to a new country. I've gone out of my way to make sure my daughter has a great group of friends she can see often outside of school. I went on my first ever holiday and we have four more planned over the next 12 months including two big ones. I've lost almost three stone and I'm still in a good mindset to continue with weight loss. I've learned to be kind to myself.

I've had a few bad points. My depression hasn't been great since moving in with my partners family but that comes with bonuses too, help with childcare and a decent bit of disposable income etc. Overall it's been pretty good. I can't complain too much.

What about you OP?

Glad to see things are going well for you xx thanks for asking about me !

I’ve had a decent year x can’t complain and now looking forward to Christmas!!"

I'm glad you've had a decent year!

I can't wait for Christmas too. It's not long now.

*shakes jingle bells*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Year started out awesome and looking to finish even awesomer

Evertime I think I have hit my limits I just dig down and keep finding more and more

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It's been a good enough year.

I managed to get myself a job. I've become so much more independent after moving to a new country. I've gone out of my way to make sure my daughter has a great group of friends she can see often outside of school. I went on my first ever holiday and we have four more planned over the next 12 months including two big ones. I've lost almost three stone and I'm still in a good mindset to continue with weight loss. I've learned to be kind to myself.

I've had a few bad points. My depression hasn't been great since moving in with my partners family but that comes with bonuses too, help with childcare and a decent bit of disposable income etc. Overall it's been pretty good. I can't complain too much.

What about you OP?

Glad to see things are going well for you xx thanks for asking about me !

I’ve had a decent year x can’t complain and now looking forward to Christmas!!

I'm glad you've had a decent year!

I can't wait for Christmas too. It's not long now.

*shakes jingle bells*"

I love it xx what do you want from Santa this year ?

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

Well I am alive so that's pretty good,it was November 16 last year that I had multiple organ failure the doctor's said they would be surprised if I survived 3 days ! It's been tough but I'm here and everytime I go back to the hospital now they still say they are still shocked that I'm here !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ended a relationship, changed my job, made a decision on and finalised my retirement in the spring 23. Yea... Been eventful

Happy retirement!! You don’t look anywhere near old enough xx

At 95 it was over due"

Well overdue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I am alive so that's pretty good,it was November 16 last year that I had multiple organ failure the doctor's said they would be surprised if I survived 3 days ! It's been tough but I'm here and everytime I go back to the hospital now they still say they are still shocked that I'm here !!!"

Wow, hope you stay well and enjoy every moment

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Well I am alive so that's pretty good,it was November 16 last year that I had multiple organ failure the doctor's said they would be surprised if I survived 3 days ! It's been tough but I'm here and everytime I go back to the hospital now they still say they are still shocked that I'm here !!!"

Amazing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our year started with getting used to our 10 yr old sons type1 diabetes diagnosis after nearly losing him to it

I hit 40 in March.

We got married in June after 15 yrs together.

This next wk we have 2 children's birthdays in the space of 3 days of each other. So busy busy.

(Mrs)

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath


"Well I am alive so that's pretty good,it was November 16 last year that I had multiple organ failure the doctor's said they would be surprised if I survived 3 days ! It's been tough but I'm here and everytime I go back to the hospital now they still say they are still shocked that I'm here !!!

Wow, hope you stay well and enjoy every moment "
thank you !

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath


"Well I am alive so that's pretty good,it was November 16 last year that I had multiple organ failure the doctor's said they would be surprised if I survived 3 days ! It's been tough but I'm here and everytime I go back to the hospital now they still say they are still shocked that I'm here !!!

Amazing!!!"
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our year started with getting used to our 10 yr old sons type1 diabetes diagnosis after nearly losing him to it

I hit 40 in March.

We got married in June after 15 yrs together.

This next wk we have 2 children's birthdays in the space of 3 days of each other. So busy busy.

(Mrs)

"

I too have a child with type 1 diabetes. It took three months to diagnose. We've been living with it now for 16 years. A horrible condition to manage. Best wishes to you all.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I have a really good year. I have enjoyed my work, I’ve had many lovely times with friends and family, I’ve travelled a few times and I’ve got my health. What is not to like?

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I have a really good year. I have enjoyed my work, I’ve had many lovely times with friends and family, I’ve travelled a few times and I’ve got my health. What is not to like? "

Sounds perfect xxx

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I have a really good year. I have enjoyed my work, I’ve had many lovely times with friends and family, I’ve travelled a few times and I’ve got my health. What is not to like?

Sounds perfect xxx"

I’m lucky x

How has yours been James?

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

On the face of it fucking horrendous, bullied out of a a job I loved, a breakdown and suicide attempts not even the resilience to do the things I enjoyed.

But actually there's a lot of positives too, I found a better job, gained a huge understanding of my mental health and mental illness, learnt to like myself, realised I'm liked by a lot of people, and, well i didn't die.

I'll be glad when the year is over but I'll be proud of myself too

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

It's been an eventful year, changed job roles (more money), kicked the medication into touch ready for a new start in the new year.

Fab wise more no shows than successful meets, but those that have been successful have been great.

All in all, I am in a much better place than last year

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"On the face of it fucking horrendous, bullied out of a a job I loved, a breakdown and suicide attempts not even the resilience to do the things I enjoyed.

But actually there's a lot of positives too, I found a better job, gained a huge understanding of my mental health and mental illness, learnt to like myself, realised I'm liked by a lot of people, and, well i didn't die.

I'll be glad when the year is over but I'll be proud of myself too"

Congratulations

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I have a really good year. I have enjoyed my work, I’ve had many lovely times with friends and family, I’ve travelled a few times and I’ve got my health. What is not to like?

Sounds perfect xxx

I’m lucky x

How has yours been James? "

It’s been good on the whole xx thanks for asking xx

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By *r_GreyscaleMan
over a year ago

North Hertfordshire

Changed job for a better work life balance, bought a house, couple of holidays. Starting to feel like the years of hard work and living in house shares have been worth it

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It's been an eventful year, changed job roles (more money), kicked the medication into touch ready for a new start in the new year.

Fab wise more no shows than successful meets, but those that have been successful have been great.

All in all, I am in a much better place than last year"

That’s good news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far my year has been good.

I finally paid off my marriage debt, it took me 10 years to pay it off.

Saved up a deposit and bought a new car with Mr NBVN.

I have been promoted and now work for a new organisation. I am loving my new job.

I had major surgery on my tummy and am now fully recovered.

On the downside my running hasn't been as productive due to a leg injury, but I have seen a chiropractor and have been supported through therapy and am now continuing with my rehabilitation exercises. It's slowly improving and strengthening.

My menopause was a bit bumpy recently but after a thorough MOT with my doctors surgery and some helpful tips from the ladies of the forum I am now in a much better place.

My kids are happy & healthy.

My relationship is bliss.

All in all a rather positive year.

NBVN x

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Where has the year gone indeed... It's going by so fast

Well for me I travelled on a plane for the first time in my life.

Saw two of my oldest and most beloved friends marry each other

Lost my grandfather

Lost both of my dogs

Had my first gay experience (it was okay)

Had my first threesome (it was also okay)

I think that's about it for me...

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