FabSwingers.com forum: One for the guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Nope. That would make him bi, in my humble opinion

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"Nope. That would make him bi, in my humble opinion

I concur!

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Definitely not “100% straight”!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. That would make him bi, in my humble opinion

I’ll third

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys"

What difference will getting other guys opinions make?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. That would make him bi, in my humble opinion

I’ll third "

4th

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He must be hetero-flexible then.

Have had the same to be honest..was a lover to a wife of couple and she loved hubby to suck me....not planned..but heat of moment stuff. Great watching her so turned on when he did it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys

What difference will getting other guys opinions make?"

Asking 'straight' men on Fab (who have sex with men) will get a different answer to the rest of the universe.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

5th.

If you let a guy suck you you're bot straight. Bi curious at least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Exactly what I thought,he's just not having it

Cheers guys

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By *asepaul71Man
over a year ago

Buxton

Does how pissed he is at the time factor in?

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By *lascumMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

All labels but remember the old phrase that a standing prick hath no conscience. Most guys will take a BJ anywhere they can get it

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

That's Fab straight which is a bit different from straight straight

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I've had men suck my cock in group situations, I wouldn't consider myself bi as I have never had any desire to play with a man 1 on 1. Though I accept that I'm definitely not 100% straight because men have sucked my cock!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys

What difference will getting other guys opinions make?"

It will make a difference to me,that's why I asked

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Maybe he's just 99% straight

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Could have been curious, tried it, didn't like it... so straight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had men suck my cock in group situations, I wouldn't consider myself bi as I have never had any desire to play with a man 1 on 1. Though I accept that I'm definitely not 100% straight because men have sucked my cock!"

And that's it in a nutshell you know that your not 100 per cent straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could have been curious, tried it, didn't like it... so straight?"

I doubt it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi playful I’d say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe he's just 99% straight"

Then why insist that he's 100 pet cent straight?

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

"Could have been curious, tried it, didn't like it... so straight?

I doubt it lol"

Why?

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

As a guy who has been sucked by another guy during a group session I would say that it makes you at least bi-curious.

I’m not interested in guys 1-1, but as part of a threesome with a mf couple then I’m willing to experiment.

To be a 100% straight male, (which I don’t actually think is possible) you’d have to have no sexual contact with another man at all

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

"Maybe he's just 99% straight

Then why insist that he's 100 pet cent straight? "

Any number of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question for you OP?

Does it make you view him differently? Or do you just want to win an argument?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Denial ain’t just a river in Egypt - Mark Twain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he's just 99% straight

Then why insist that he's 100 pet cent straight? "

Because he is homophobic and/ or ashamed.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Surely the sexual preference of the person dick tates who he or she chooses to meet up with thus someone who only chooses the opposite sex is by definition straight....however..in a play situation..if a same sex hand or mouth happens to come in contact with genital areas ..if the sensation is pleasurable does it matter what genitals the owner of said mouth or hand posesses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He’s fab straight

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys"

Yup, I am with others, he's at least bi-curious in my humble opinion.

Obviously it's his choice, but best he reflects that in his profile...open and honest being the best policy

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Surely the sexual preference of the person dick tates who he or she chooses to meet up with thus someone who only chooses the opposite sex is by definition straight....however..in a play situation..if a same sex hand or mouth happens to come in contact with genital areas ..if the sensation is pleasurable does it matter what genitals the owner of said mouth or hand posesses?

Yes it very much does. For the same reason a gloryhole is a big no no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve sucked off a few who say they’re straight in their profile. Who knows if they are but in a gh situation, perhaps they do just want a bj and it’s far easier to find a guy handing them out than women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your opinion folks

A didn't expect an abusive pm though just no need for it

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

In my opinion he could be straight if he’s tried oral with another guy and decided it definitely wasn’t for him

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not straight in my opinion but people can call themselves what they want these days regardless of facts etc so unless it affects me I’m not that bothered what people say or do.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Maybe pan? Hetro flexible?

I don't think receiving oral once makes you bi, maybe he was just curious?

Maybe just in the moment thought I'll give it a try.

Mrs

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It depends on if it was a one off or not .

If he regularly let's men give him a bj he's bi curious/bisexual

If it was a try to see if he liked and be didn't ,then that's different .

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Obviously fab straight

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

That would make him one of those guys who'll have another guys mouth round his cock so he can get to the woman. He sees it as a small sacrifice for the reward.

There's a word for those types of people but it escapes me at present..

D x

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

Could be curious /might have tried it and not liked it or classing himself as 100 per cent straight as he's not the one who sucked dick (actually had a funny debate with a lad in work about that) him telling me it be the other guy that was gay cause they sucked his dick

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys"

Multiple questions here.

Being straight doesn't mean he can't have his cock sucked, however once that's happened he's definitely not 100% straight unless he didn't enjoy it etc and was experimenting.

If a vegetarian from birth eats meat once, to see what it's like, that doesn't make them no longer a vegetarian, but they can't claim to have never eaten meat.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why does it matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Second why does it matter . If they want to identify as straight and occasionally enjoy a bit of sexual contact with a guy who really gives a shite . This is completely up to them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I my opinion it’s not straight but it’s whatever they want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why does it matter? Hmmmm why can't I ask for opinions?

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

In our opinion he's not straight he's at least bi curious not that makes him a bad person at all

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It's no different than someone identifying as another sex, who are we to label someone else. They are what they say they are and that's it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In our opinion he's not straight he's at least bi curious not that makes him a bad person at all "

I agree with you,and I'm sure he's a nice guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That would make him one of those guys who'll have another guys mouth round his cock so he can get to the woman. He sees it as a small sacrifice for the reward.

There's a word for those types of people but it escapes me at present..

D x"

Can't see it myself, don't care how hot a guy is there's no way I'm getting in about a woman just to get to him.

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys"

It depends... Does he have his eyes shut!

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By *mashingPumpkinMan
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I always considered myself 100% straight until in a mmf on time the girl encouraged me to suck the other guys cock after it had been inside her. To be honest in the excitement of the situation I enjoyed it and probably would do it again in similar circumstances but not in a one on one. Hence now consider myself not 100% straight.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"That would make him one of those guys who'll have another guys mouth round his cock so he can get to the woman. He sees it as a small sacrifice for the reward.

There's a word for those types of people but it escapes me at present..

D x

Can't see it myself, don't care how hot a guy is there's no way I'm getting in about a woman just to get to him. "

That's because you're a woman lol. "Straight" guys message us all the time offering to have their dick sucked by Fumble to fuck me. It's genuinely grotesque.

D x

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

That would make him bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That would make him one of those guys who'll have another guys mouth round his cock so he can get to the woman. He sees it as a small sacrifice for the reward.

There's a word for those types of people but it escapes me at present..

D x

Can't see it myself, don't care how hot a guy is there's no way I'm getting in about a woman just to get to him.

That's because you're a woman lol. "Straight" guys message us all the time offering to have their dick sucked by Fumble to fuck me. It's genuinely grotesque.

D x"

I hear you but still not buying that a fully straight guy will do that just to get to you, no disrespect but they aren't straight.

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By *woforone2025Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin

in denial

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a label, People like what they like, and that can change over time

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"Why does it matter? "

It shouldn't matter but some men are desperate not to ruin their chances with couples and single women who insist on only meeting with men who are '100% straight' so they lie in order to keep their options open.

These men are the so called and aforementioned 'Fab straight'. They are probably equally desperate to obtain any form of sexual contact that happens to be available. Thus we will never see the end of this recurring topic.

Best to assume that a lot of men on here are economical with the truth about various aspects of their life. Starting, usually, with not wanting their face recognised!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why does it matter? Hmmmm why can't I ask for opinions?"

Where did anyone say you couldn't?

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

"It's no different than someone identifying as another sex, who are we to label someone else. They are what they say they are and that's it.

Id say sexual orientation and genders being no diff is a bit of a jump

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys"

I think its the guilt of wanting pleasure off another man that makes them convince themselves that what they are doing does not make them bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike labels, but there's no way a guy can call himself straight if he's allowed another guy to suck him off. At best he's bi-curious.

Only way he could keep the straight label is if it was a glory hole situation and he couldn't see who's mouth he was in.

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By *ussieChrisMan
over a year ago

Walsall

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys"

In my opinion, I would have said he was Bi, or at the very least Bi-Curious.

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By *addy bareMan
over a year ago

lakeside

Well I'm straight and would not let another guy suck me off,so I guess they must be bi.

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By *M_RCouple
over a year ago

Swinton

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys"

This is a pretty expansive question I suppose. I consider myself straight myself & the idea of getting it on with another fella does nothing for me personally so it’s not something I’d actually do. However, sexuality is pretty complex. If another fella considers himself straight but occasionally gets kicks from shagging another bloke then that’s their business. Personally I wouldn’t consider a “straight” bloke occasionally getting it on with another fella bi, but if it was something they were very much into I suppose I would consider their claim to be “100% straight” to be questionable, but also none of my business. Although I do personally consider myself straight, I also don’t see any reason for everyone to necessarily put a label to their sexuality. All I know is that I’m into women, and men do nothing for me. It’s a case of whatever float your boat as far as I’m concerned, so long as it’s not hurting anyone or anything. That’s only my opinion as a man who considers himself straight. Others may disagree but as I said, it’s a very expansive, complex & difficult to answer question as all answers will be based upon personal opinions, including this one. Hope this helps,

R (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely bi at least. All they need to get their head round (pardon the pun) is that it doesn't matter to anyone except themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it's no different to people on here living the "normal" life day-to-day then practicing ENM, swinging or going to clubs in their private life.

I dont feel the need to reclassify someone based on what they might like to put in and out of their bodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well this question has me stumped so I'm asking guys to put me straight(no pun intended)

If a guy has on his profile that he's straight then would he have allowed another guy to suck him off? He insists that he's 100%straight which I just don't get

Opinions pls guys

I think its the guilt of wanting pleasure off another man that makes them convince themselves that what they are doing does not make them bi. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's not 100pc straight

However I suspect he's sees himself being close to this than the traditional view of bi, which tends to be a 50/50 split.

Shit anaology alert

We are told there is black, and white, and in between grey. However every example of grey is this perfect fucking mid tone.

Your man looks at this, and looks at his own colour and thinks "I'm nowhere near that colour grey. If anything I'm off white. Indeed I'm white in almost all lights, except the odd time where you can see some greyness come through. And then I cum and I'm white again."

Add in some of the shame and prejudice etc that still exists around bisexuality and it's a case of I'm 100pc straight.

And that's before you try and add factor in human relationships exist in many different dimensions. And we live with sexes and genders.

(Eg am I bi if I sleep with a transexual women. If yes, Does it matter how far they have transitioned? Or does hetri only allow me to fancy cis women.)

Tbh, it's an area where labels doesn't work because they need to be explained.

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By *avetrucker999Man
over a year ago

Grimsby

Depends if he's got socks on

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By *westUKguyMan
over a year ago

Southport

Strange but true ...some guys who class themselves as straight will gladly take a bj off a guy and also sometimes fuck a guy they class that as not gay, but if they suck a guy or take another guys cock its ewwwwwww gay

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Each 2 their own but 4 me no way would I let a guy near me I'm 100percent strait not fab strait x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Each 2 their own but 4 me no way would I let a guy near me I'm 100percent strait not fab strait x "

That's exactly what I thought ,alot of men disagree though

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

The way I look at it, sexuality is a spectrum. And no longer fits into 3 confined categories.

If that what that person likes is not for you, then fine. The labels are useless these days anyway.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

About as straight as a banana. Lol.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"That would make him one of those guys who'll have another guys mouth round his cock so he can get to the woman. He sees it as a small sacrifice for the reward.

There's a word for those types of people but it escapes me at present..

D x

Can't see it myself, don't care how hot a guy is there's no way I'm getting in about a woman just to get to him.

That's because you're a woman lol. "Straight" guys message us all the time offering to have their dick sucked by Fumble to fuck me. It's genuinely grotesque.

D x

I hear you but still not buying that a fully straight guy will do that just to get to you, no disrespect but they aren't straight. "

Oh no, I totally agree! They aren't straight lol. I'm just saying how I think they look at it x

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By *eardyBikerMan
over a year ago

nr stonehaven

"Nope. That would make him bi, in my humble opinion

I concur! "

Concur

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