FabSwingers.com forum: How many have you met?

By *ingleguyforfunsw OP Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

Was thinking last night, how many meets I’ve had since getting into this lifestyle. As a single guy I reckon I’ve met about 70, maybe 80. Been downing this on and off for about 15 years.

What’s your number?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

200ish?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Unique people or total number of meets?

Are you including socials or only people you do sexy stuff with?

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By *ingleguyforfunsw OP Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Unique people or total number of meets?

Are you including socials or only people you do sexy stuff with?"

Yes meets that lead to sex

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Do gangbangs/clubs/etc count as single meets or number of people?

Asking for a me

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have had two meets through Fab. Though one of those people I have met multiple times since

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By *ingleguyforfunsw OP Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Do gangbangs/clubs/etc count as single meets or number of people?

Asking for a me"

If it’s sex, it’s sex

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Do gangbangs/clubs/etc count as single meets or number of people?

Asking for a me

If it’s sex, it’s sex "

Yes. But if I attend a gangbang and I fuck ten guys, is that one meet or ten meets?

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By *ingleguyforfunsw OP Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

"Do gangbangs/clubs/etc count as single meets or number of people?

Asking for a me

If it’s sex, it’s sex

Yes. But if I attend a gangbang and I fuck teguys, is that one meet or ten meets?"

10 new cocks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than 10!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

353,234

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dora has had more guys since meeting me than she did in her life before.

(It’s not a lot)

But apparently “they don’t count”

And I agree.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If I do it as body count through swinging, ... probably 120ish, the overwhelming majority in 2018 and 2019. Less than six from 2020.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"353,234 "

Yeah, but 353,233 of those were me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"353,234

Yeah, but 353,233 of those were me

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

60 odd meets in total across 4 profiles and 6 years but half those were group or social meets.

Only 7 led to sex and that's by choice rather than opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 in about 7 yrs I think.

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By *enuine Gent 4 funMan
over a year ago

norwich

Meets from the site 0 since I've been here which is at least 4 years maybe more.

Clubs maybe 6 before covid nothing since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea especially if we account in socials, clubs and parties as we could be looking at nearly a 1000.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 in 4 years.

And 7 more that were socials and didn't lead to sex.

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By *aunchycouple2410Couple
over a year ago

wakefield

We’ve had 3/4 meets with the most of them with the same couple hope to have some more soon though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shags or meet shags about half the forum it was once estimated this is a lie as it was only just over a handful but i did keep detailed records with a grading system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shags or meet shags about half the forum it was once estimated this is a lie as it was only just over a handful but i did keep detailed records with a grading system

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ok fine the records were sealed as top secret by M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the one. But it was a very good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shags or meet shags about half the forum it was once estimated this is a lie as it was only just over a handful but i did keep detailed records with a grading system

ok fine the records were sealed as top secret by M

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ok im still bullshitting they werent detailed and the grades were baced on the old a-g grading system so well out of date

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Shags or meet shags about half the forum it was once estimated this is a lie as it was only just over a handful but i did keep detailed records with a grading system

ok fine the records were sealed as top secret by M

ok im still bullshitting they werent detailed and the grades were baced on the old a-g grading system so well out of date

Just carry on talking , you didn’t want any more meets anyway did you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shags or meet shags about half the forum it was once estimated this is a lie as it was only just over a handful but i did keep detailed records with a grading system

ok fine the records were sealed as top secret by M

ok im still bullshitting they werent detailed and the grades were baced on the old a-g grading system so well out of date

Just carry on talking , you didn’t want any more meets anyway did you

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Would have to separate 121s from parties, socials, swinging holidays, gang bangs, clubs, outdoor summer swingers parties etc.

Then separate out meeting the same people twice.

We love meeting new people, Covid put a stop to meets but fully back to normal.

Can't give an exact figure but hundreds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 in 4 years.

One was multiple times.

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

About 60 since i started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met five. It’s always fun meeting someone new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shags or meet shags about half the forum it was once estimated this is a lie as it was only just over a handful but i did keep detailed records with a grading system

ok fine the records were sealed as top secret by M

ok im still bullshitting they werent detailed and the grades were baced on the old a-g grading system so well out of date

Just carry on talking , you didn’t want any more meets anyway did you

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see quite tame by comparison to some muhahahahaaaa #fearless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

For sex only 9 off fab, socially about 70 or 80 which is mainly due to a few club visits

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

50+ meets that lead to sex between 2017 and 2019. Was very much in demand and had a grand old time.

Settled and now retired

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A lot, but most are social meets. I don't do autographs, though

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

None (I'm obviously not trying hard enough although the pandemic didn't help).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero but I wasn’t actually wanting to

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Sexy ones about 15 I would say x

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By *ot - CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

39 from fab and a few others out with fab.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I genuinely have no idea! Even though I have my meets summary in here, I haven't had sex with everyone in my veris, and not everyone leaves veris, plus, I don't just use Fab.....

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Probably about 200/300 socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My number is ridiculous low compared to everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's in a number it's the fun I count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My number is ridiculous low compared to everyone else

Mine is too and I’m fine with that

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

A couple off here, not that easy to build a connection here i find. Away from here, a few more

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

How many meets have I had?

Some would call it too many, others would say not enough. (I think it’s just right.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly 0.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

nearly 30 years on the scene so quite a few i guess ..not that i care or count what does it matter we are swingers

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Quality not quantity

Social only, including organised socials - quite a few

Socials that lead to more - a select few that became regular meetings, and some still are

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" As a single guy I reckon I’ve met about 70, maybe 80. "

How many have you met as a couple ?

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By *ingleguyforfunsw OP Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

" As a single guy I reckon I’ve met about 70, maybe 80.

How many have you met as a couple ?"

Zero

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I dunno, maybe 40+ up until lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 for us in a couple of years

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

A few, but they’ve all been lovely!

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

about 40 /45 not played with all that we have met

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Never counted but its quite a lot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets that include sex .... several hundred at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

from here 5 meets

1 twice ended up in a walk in the woods and sex

3 bad

1 coffee prob go further next time

6 on other sites all sex had a relationship with one 4 def not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never kept count...!

but imagine it to be easily well over the 100’s, esp. if considering meet-ups at club, etc.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Do we get a prize for coming top OP?!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do we get a prize for coming top OP?!

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yes the guys get a booby prize and the women get a stick of rock

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

Difficult to keep count, specially when some were gangbangs at clubs

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Do we get a prize for coming top OP?!

yes the guys get a booby prize and the women get a stick of rock

Do they still make rock..?!

not had a stick of rock in years!!!

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Do we get a prize for coming top OP?!

yes the guys get a booby prize and the women get a stick of rock

Do they still make rock..?!

not had a stick of rock in years!!!

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yes a lot of English seaside resorts still have it I think Brighton for one

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Do we get a prize for coming on top OP?!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Just 1.

Honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met 3 through fab everyone else was at clubs or from other means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've met 3 through fab everyone else was at clubs or from other means"

Married 1 though

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By *osey WalesMan
over a year ago

I'd need to consult the XL spreadsheet

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Of note?

That I can remember?

It's not happened yet.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Some would call it too many, others would say not enough. (I think it’s just right.)"

Plus one more last night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The very low end of double digits

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

9, in about 18 months of being on here.

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By *ockyroad666Man
over a year ago

Maesteg

Just have to have the NASA super computer to calculate mine

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meets that have lead to full sex? Just 3(2 cpls, 1 lady)

Couple of soft swaps

Been on and off fab since 2019...

We really like the social element.

Go to the clubs, if we play with ppl we play if we dont we still had fun.

And social only events/meets.

Hoping to add to the full swaps more now and our first MMF is on the cards.

We are happy with how its going...

(Mrs)

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By *hoenix_1Man
over a year ago

richmond

Probably around 30 single ladies, 15 couples. At 6 of them met more than 15 times

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Gosh. I don’t know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you’re including clubs I guess

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Since I've been on this profile 4 and I've not met anyone new for well over a year.

I'm my more active days I once had 4 meets in a week which wasn't fir me.

I've been on the scene 15 years, I'd rather not total it up but once you start including club meets as couple its a lot, well into triple figures

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Never counted

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Never counted

Let’s add one to the number, whatever it is.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

What’s your number? "

OP you never said if there was a prize for coming top?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sexual meets 2

Social meets 4

Organised socials 1

Mrs

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"OP you never said if there was a prize for coming top?

Sex is not a competition, Emily.

(I’m kidding. Those are the words of a loser. Everything is a competition.)

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve only met about 10 people over 2 years.

Some of those are friends now and we’ve met a few times, socially as well.

We’ve been to a few socials too.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

All of mine have social, largely in groups but the occasional 1-1. The group/forum socials make it hard to guesstimate

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"OP you never said if there was a prize for coming top?

Sex is not a competition, Emily.

(I’m kidding. Those are the words of a loser. Everything is a competition.)"

Second place is first loser place, right?

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

That have led to sex about 15 x

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

It is 0 so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is 0 so far

Hopefully you will find someone soon Shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody.

If anybody denies it they’re lying.

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

15/16 in 4 yrs

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By *ittleRed18Woman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Let me consult my sex admin

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

*in the voice of dr evil*

1 million swingers

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"OP you never said if there was a prize for coming top?

Sex is not a competition, Emily.

(I’m kidding. Those are the words of a loser. Everything is a competition.)"

Do I win if I come first?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I have absolutely no idea!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I Dunnow more than 10, less than 1000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 meets that ended in sex in 11 months

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"It is 0 so far

Hopefully you will find someone soon Shag

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Ty, yes, hopefully soon too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Lots. Lost count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seven!

From Google....

Seven was symbolic in ancient near eastern and Israelite culture and literature. It communicated a sense of “fullness” or “completeness” (??? “seven” is spelled with the same consonants as the word ??? “complete/full”).

Think I achieved it

PS that doesn't include people as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MFMF - 8 Different couples although 1 couple we have played with countless times

MFM - 10-12

MMMF - 2

MMMMMMF - 1

All have been with the wife over a 8 year period

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Not counting this site, I'd say I've had about 8 different sexual encounters in the past 12 years. Granted I found maybe 2 of them attractive.

I don't really know how the other guys here can attract so many people. I'm assuming it's down to physical appearance?

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"It is 0 so far

I feel you (in a non sexual way) Finding sex is incredibly difficult for majority of guys.

I think fab only works for men if they're like 8/10 at least in looks. Basically, it's fine to be part of the 80%. We're all in the same boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was thinking last night, how many meets I’ve had since getting into this lifestyle. As a single guy I reckon I’ve met about 70, maybe 80. Been downing this on and off for about 15 years.

What’s your number? "

5 meets

1 met twice 2nd time sex

1 met once plans for sex

3 wtaf

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Quite modest really nearly 20 I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big zero for me.

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By *TK421-Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Quality over quantity. That's what I'm saying anyway......

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By *arialoueWoman
over a year ago

bradford

0 meets for sex 1 for social

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Second place is first loser place, right?

Right! Except when there are only two of you playing. Then second place is dead last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of socials,no meets with shenanigans yet

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Let me consult my sex admin

You have a sex PA? What a great idea. Let’s all get one. Or be each other’s.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham/Telford

I've probably met 20 ladies and a few couples over the 5 or 6 years I've been here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another great filter thread.

Can't believe people actually answered tbh

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

It’s no one’s business but mine

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

18 in 12 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s no one’s business but mine

And perhaps the one you're with, but even then....

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

4567 and a half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have absolutely no idea any more

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"It’s no one’s business but mine

And perhaps the one you're with, but even then...."

Please give me more credit when you say ‘one’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More then none less than you think

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

There's no way I can be arsed to try and count! Between fuckery and socials, lots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s no one’s business but mine

And perhaps the one you're with, but even then....

Please give me more credit when you say ‘one’

Lol soz

King of the moresomes huh?

Shhh I'll not tell

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Borrowing your calculator OP it comes out at 3,978 ( zero verifications obviously)

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