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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.

And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat bald guys dont make me horny sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a slim ginger; rare breed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fat bald guys dont make me horny sorry "

Nor me. Tough gig

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love a slim ginger; rare breed "

Ooooo. Are you red?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.

Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

No to both really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Too short not masc enough and largely irritating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.

Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure. "

I feel the same. I love people that look like me but then ask those things are things I don’t really love about myself. Interesting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No to both really "

You are gorgeous, my friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Too short not masc enough and largely irritating. "

No to both questions?

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree

No

I’m a short boobie woman & the women I go for are taller slimmer & I love smaller boobs

Men I love in all heights and types

I do go for a similar personality type to myself in both though. So I guess I like myself as a person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.

Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure. "

Subscribe to this as well. I am very much the same

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.

Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure.

I feel the same. I love people that look like me but then ask those things are things I don’t really love about myself. Interesting"

I remember a similar thread where I said the same. I don’t think many agreed with me either. It’s weird and hard to explain but I know what I mean!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No

I’m a short boobie woman & the women I go for are taller slimmer & I love smaller boobs

Men I love in all heights and types

I do go for a similar personality type to myself in both though. So I guess I like myself as a person "

Interesting.

I did mean it in the sense of- do you find people of the same sex with similar physical characteristics as you attractive. Not necessarily desirable in that sense just like ‘oh they’re an attractive person’ for example. And then do You find yourself attractive? And I waiver if there’s a disconnect there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. Too short not masc enough and largely irritating.

No to both questions?"

Can’t speak for others but I wouldn’t be into me. I’m not my type.

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I think I have a gorgeous body shape. I think it's very attractive. As to hair, race, everything else - I think it looks ok on me. But I find others with different hair and skin colour very attractive. I'm not limited in what I find attractive by how I look. I think that answers your question

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By *uicy 2020Woman
over a year ago

London

Yes, i would say that i prefer a female with a similar body type.

But then do not find my own body attractive. Hmm, made me think there with this post x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.

Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure.

Subscribe to this as well. I am very much the same "

It’s interesting. I follow lots of guys on Instagram that look like me in many ways, similar build for example and I think they make it attractive but I hate the same things about me. So weird

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

The men I find hot are nothing like me!

But I do think I'm attractive, not in a conventionally handsome sense and definitely not to everyone's taste. But I know I have a certain something (to some people) and I know I'm not doing too bad for for my age

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.

Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure.

I feel the same. I love people that look like me but then ask those things are things I don’t really love about myself. Interesting

I remember a similar thread where I said the same. I don’t think many agreed with me either. It’s weird and hard to explain but I know what I mean! "

No I get you for sure

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By *istyPeaksCouple
over a year ago

braintree


"No

I’m a short boobie woman & the women I go for are taller slimmer & I love smaller boobs

Men I love in all heights and types

I do go for a similar personality type to myself in both though. So I guess I like myself as a person

Interesting.

I did mean it in the sense of- do you find people of the same sex with similar physical characteristics as you attractive. Not necessarily desirable in that sense just like ‘oh they’re an attractive person’ for example. And then do You find yourself attractive? And I waiver if there’s a disconnect there"

Ah then yes I do. Not necessarily desirable but attractive. I can appreciate why those who find me attractive do so. I don’t think I’m half bad - not a knockout but I have my charms. As do other women of my type

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Like the opposite sex version of myself? Apart from the height, yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I have a gorgeous body shape. I think it's very attractive. As to hair, race, everything else - I think it looks ok on me. But I find others with different hair and skin colour very attractive. I'm not limited in what I find attractive by how I look. I think that answers your question "

It’s good to find attraction in others. I also think it’s is an important part of self Love to appreciate and love yourself the way you might love others that look like you. Equally, it’s important to learn to love the things we hate about ourselves and finding that beauty in others that look like us can help so much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just wanna say it doesn’t have to be like a sexual attraction I’m talking about.

I don’t find men sexually attractive but I can say I think that a man is attractive. You know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, i would say that i prefer a female with a similar body type.

But then do not find my own body attractive. Hmm, made me think there with this post x "

It is SO strange the way that we find beauty in others that we can’t appreciate in ourselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like variety

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The men I find hot are nothing like me!

But I do think I'm attractive, not in a conventionally handsome sense and definitely not to everyone's taste. But I know I have a certain something (to some people) and I know I'm not doing too bad for for my age "

This is wonderfully positive. Self love is a journey.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No

I’m a short boobie woman & the women I go for are taller slimmer & I love smaller boobs

Men I love in all heights and types

I do go for a similar personality type to myself in both though. So I guess I like myself as a person

Interesting.

I did mean it in the sense of- do you find people of the same sex with similar physical characteristics as you attractive. Not necessarily desirable in that sense just like ‘oh they’re an attractive person’ for example. And then do You find yourself attractive? And I waiver if there’s a disconnect there

Ah then yes I do. Not necessarily desirable but attractive. I can appreciate why those who find me attractive do so. I don’t think I’m half bad - not a knockout but I have my charms. As do other women of my type "

I like that. I think that’s a good place to be in too. Understanding why people find people like you attractive. Seeing that attractive quality or those attractive qualities in yourself and others like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like the opposite sex version of myself? Apart from the height, yes. "

I’m talking same sex really.

Do you think women with similar physical characteristics to you are attractive? And do you think you are attractive?

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

I think I have some good features and people from my backgrounds tend to be quite attractive as well. But for me, it depends on how well groomed my beard is and whether I have a haircut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tough question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I have some good features and people from my backgrounds tend to be quite attractive as well. But for me, it depends on how well groomed my beard is and whether I have a haircut "

A trim can change a man’s life. So I hear this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and No

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville


"I think I have some good features and people from my backgrounds tend to be quite attractive as well. But for me, it depends on how well groomed my beard is and whether I have a haircut

A trim can change a man’s life. So I hear this. "

Factssss. Like I look crazy when my hair and beard grows out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat bald guys dont make me horny sorry "

this made me

although I’ve learnt to never judge a book by its cover since some carry a lethal weapon and know how to use it in making one squeal like a real gurl...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

They can be, depends on the individual, I'd guess I'd go for someone with a similar body type.

But me? Ohhh nooo you'd have to be mad.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I can find something physically appealing in everyone, but I look through an artists eye, and see things differently than many

Do I like looking at myself in a mirror...Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people who look like me also happen to share my DNA..... Is this a trick question, Steve???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quite happy with how I look, no hangups etc.

But weirdly, no I can't say I'd consider people like myself to be attractive.

Thankfully Ellen looks nothing like me.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I fuck myself all the time so yes on both counts.

Just need to find someone willing to let me shave their hair

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I never thought I was attractive until I moved to the UK.

People find me very attractive here. The exotic ‘n all that *swishes hair*

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Like the opposite sex version of myself? Apart from the height, yes.

I’m talking same sex really.

Do you think women with similar physical characteristics to you are attractive? And do you think you are attractive?"

I always love another real redhead.

And yes, on a good day if I've made an effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't consider myself attractive at all, far too skinny. Lee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go for the same body shape as mine ie slim/average. Race I tend to go opposite mostly but not exclusively. I don’t find myself unattractive now but did when I was bigger but now I’m fairly confident.

I prefer guys short haired than with long curly hair though

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I don't think women who look like me would be conventionally considered attractive. I don't personally think I'm attractive physically either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting question as I’ve said similar before.

Yes I do. Yet I don’t have much body confidence and don’t really think I’m attractive. It’s a strange one for sure. "

You are a very sexy lady .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I know my visual limitations, I wouldn’t fancy me if I was looking for fellas.

However, I strongly concur with my views and opinions, and I support the same football team as myself so I’m sure we’d get on well if I met me out and about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like the opposite sex version of myself? Apart from the height, yes.

I’m talking same sex really.

Do you think women with similar physical characteristics to you are attractive? And do you think you are attractive?"

Ah I see yes I generally find women with my attributes attractive and I think I’m relatively easy on the eye - tall, slim, full lips, nice hair, everything in proportion. I don’t really have any hang ups!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.

And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there"

Always been aware I’m not Mr Universe .

I know I’m nothing special .

Not many ladies say I’m sexy .

But when it happens and they feel happy , feels really good and goes really well … And I’m happy with that ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to both options.

Specially if they have nice fleshy lips.

But also I think all ethnicities are sexy and attractive.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Broadly speaking, yes, I think women who have the same physical attributes are attractive.

It’s all run of the mill - dark hair, blue eyes, average size 12, average height. There are A LOT of variations of this though. I’m not unhappy with how I look, I suppose I’m content (until bits start dropping off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s a very complex question. I’m short and fat so no I don’t think people find people like me attractive but at the same time I think I am sort of attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy question! Not seeking guys so there is no compare.com

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.

And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there"

Deep! Speaking generally, I do not think men who look like me - short, brown - are considered attractive by the majority of women. We're an acquired taste, and I'm fine with that.

But at the same time, I think I have an attractive face - no Brad Pitt, but it's fairly classic, decent jawline etc. So go figure.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.

And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there

Deep! Speaking generally, I do not think men who look like me - short, brown - are considered attractive by the majority of women. We're an acquired taste, and I'm fine with that.

But at the same time, I think I have an attractive face - no Brad Pitt, but it's fairly classic, decent jawline etc. So go figure."

To my recollection, you are a rather handsome chap

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By *igJFromSAMan
over a year ago

Woking

On paper people like me are attractive; tall, tan, dark haired, bearded, green eyes, bit of muscle

But my lack of success here and irl suggests I'm not.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.

And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there

Deep! Speaking generally, I do not think men who look like me - short, brown - are considered attractive by the majority of women. We're an acquired taste, and I'm fine with that.

But at the same time, I think I have an attractive face - no Brad Pitt, but it's fairly classic, decent jawline etc. So go figure.

To my recollection, you are a rather handsome chap "

Thank you, KC. That'll do for me!

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By *elisandre300Woman
over a year ago

dontbefuckingnosey


"On paper people like me are attractive; tall, tan, dark haired, bearded, green eyes, bit of muscle

But my lack of success here and irl suggests I'm not. "

Umm… excuse me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fat bald guys dont make me horny sorry

Nor me. Tough gig "
i have to sing to the fat guy too?

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By *ust me 999Man
over a year ago

near you


"Love a slim ginger; rare breed "
very rare and extra tasty aswell

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By *elaninMaverickWoman
over a year ago

near Putney Heath


"Do you think people that look like you are attractive? In terms of body shape, race, hair length, hair colour etc etc all that kinda stuff.

And then I’d ask, do you find yourself attractive? I wonder if there’s always some kind of connection there"

As a fellow chubby, I can be a bit of a chubby chaser sometimes.... Dad bods get me going.... Maybe I wasn't hugged enough as a child. Lol!

when I was thin, I didn't consider myself sexy at all. But now I'm plus sized...I just feel cuddly to me so softer bigger guys are cuddly.

Being the same height helps but being different heights means you have to get more inventive? experimental?

For about 20 years I only had sex with my own race. Then my marriage broke down and I uhh...branched out to other races...So..I guess I find beauty? attractiveness? In all races. I suppose I find more interest and attraction to things that are different to me...so men...I tend to view women with sexual indifference. I can say a woman is beautiful but I'm not drawn to a woman the same way I'm drawn to a man.

I don't meet many men that look like me so that's a difficult thing to conceptualise. I know I'm attractive to some men and not attractive to others.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Being average across the board, and a male, I'd say I've got a slightly below 50/50 shot at attraction

LvM

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Being average across the board, and a male, I'd say I've got a slightly below 50/50 shot at attraction

LvM"

Yeah again, another (in my opinion) attractive guy, LvM. And I don't say that to many people, honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a solid 7/10 I'm happy with that, secure in myself and able to laugh at myself too haha.

I wouldn't be my type tho haha. Not because I'm a bloke.......I'm too flat chested

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"The men I find hot are nothing like me!

But I do think I'm attractive, not in a conventionally handsome sense and definitely not to everyone's taste. But I know I have a certain something (to some people) and I know I'm not doing too bad for for my age

This is wonderfully positive. Self love is a journey. "

Thank you

To be honest for all my craziness, anxieties and insecurities I've always been relatively comfortable with my looks, I guess that's one plus point I have goung for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I find myself attractive? Constantly.

Am I attracted to women that mirror me.

Not in the slightest.

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