FabSwingers.com forum: Apologies

By *om_38 OP Man
over a year ago

stoke

Been on here a short time and after making a couple of friends and speaking.. I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies that ain’t nice. With blocking not helping they only make new profiles. No wonder it’s hard to start up conversation when you ladies are bombarded with what appears to be so many idiots.. this is supposed to be a fun site and it gets ruined..

so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them.

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Dont agree with that sentiment op. Youre only responsible for your own actions and words. If dicks wanna behave like dicks then those dicks get no pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I agree it can be unfortunate, I’ll not apologise for what other people do, that’s up to them. I can only influence what I do and the way I behave and take responsibility and accountability for my own behaviour.

Likewise I hope people judge me on this basis too, be that positively or negatively, and don’t group me in with anyone else.

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By *om_38 OP Man
over a year ago

stoke

"While I agree it can be unfortunate, I’ll not apologise for what other people do, that’s up to them. I can only influence what I do and the way I behave and take responsibility and accountability for my own behaviour.

Likewise I hope people judge me on this basis too, be that positively or negatively, and don’t group me in with anyone else. "

I hope to be judged on me too just damn annoying this place can be ruined by people who just don’t deserve to be here

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By *ister CMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Been on here a short time and after making a couple of friends and speaking.. I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies that ain’t nice. With blocking not helping they only make new profiles. No wonder it’s hard to start up conversation when you ladies are bombarded with what appears to be so many idiots.. this is supposed to be a fun site and it gets ruined..

so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them. "

I think a bit of sick come up then... thanks for that.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them.

I think a bit of sick come up then... thanks for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let us know about the queue of ladies beating a path to your door OP

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Nobody needs to apologise for the actions of anyone else.

It doesn't help, change anything, or make you look any better to your target audience either I'm afraid.

It just comes across as blatant white knighting and a case of 'look at me....I'm not like them'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make way. White Knight coming through!

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

While the way some men interact with women disgusts me, I'm not going to apologise fir their behaviour, it's not a reflection on me in any way shape or form

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

Thanks, OP, this is great. I've bookmarked so if I do anything wrong I'll just remind them that you've already apologised on my behalf!

Now, where's that one word dick pic message...

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

R/Niceguys is that way

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Nonsense OP - ladies all love my spread buttocks/gaping arsehole pics attached to my introductory message of, ‘Wanna sniff it darling?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anything you should be thanking them. They should make it a lot easier for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes."

But.....

By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.

But.....

By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.

Calm down dear it was a joke

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies..."

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I can only hope that these ladies are not in my circle of friends where they feel compelled to share messages that are either polite, good, bad, ugly and indifferent.

I expect a level of trust from a "lady".

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.

But.....

By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.

Calm down dear it was a joke

"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies...

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I can only hope that these ladies are not in my circle of friends where they feel compelled to share messages that are either polite, good, bad, ugly and indifferent.

I expect a level of trust from a "lady"."

Good point. I would expect a new thread started by a lady, apologising for other ladies sharing their private messages.

Oh and those off site Kik and Telegram groups where they do exactly that

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I get very few bad messages and find most men on here very respectful.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.

But.....

By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.

Calm down dear it was a joke

"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha

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She's right, you know. I've met her and she's in rather good shape for a septuagenarian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.

But.....

By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.

Calm down dear it was a joke

"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha

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She's right, you know. I've met her and she's in rather good shape for a septuagenarian.

Ah but is that in Boo years?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Likewise I hope people judge me on this basis too, be that positively or negatively, and don’t group me in with anyone else.

I hope to be judged on me too just damn annoying this place can be ruined by people who just don’t deserve to be here "

I don’t agree with the sentiment that other people ruin the site, in fact the wallies of this world make the Normal Normans stand out even more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m cringing a little….no need to apologise for your gender OP.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies...

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I can only hope that these ladies are not in my circle of friends where they feel compelled to share messages that are either polite, good, bad, ugly and indifferent.

I expect a level of trust from a "lady".

Good point. I would expect a new thread started by a lady, apologising for other ladies sharing their private messages.

Oh and those off site Kik and Telegram groups where they do exactly that

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Just a moment - there's "Kik and Telegram groups"?!?!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve been shown some messages of blokes to ladies...

•

I can only hope that these ladies are not in my circle of friends where they feel compelled to share messages that are either polite, good, bad, ugly and indifferent.

I expect a level of trust from a "lady".

Good point. I would expect a new thread started by a lady, apologising for other ladies sharing their private messages.

Oh and those off site Kik and Telegram groups where they do exactly that

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Just a moment - there's "Kik and Telegram groups"?!?!!!

Personally I don’t believe it. Fake news.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Why on earth would you feel the need to apologise for the actions of others on here. If you're not sending abuse then why apologise for it. It looks disingenuous and more like look at me I'm one of the good guys.

And not all women are bombarded with messages or abuse I know I'm not. And the very rare occasion I get abuse I block and forget about them even if they come back and do it again they are just wasting their time, because they just end up blocked again straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on earth would you feel the need to apologise for the actions of others on here. If you're not sending abuse then why apologise for it. It looks disingenuous and more like look at me I'm one of the good guys.

What she said!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Just behave like a gentleman yourself...you will reap the rewards for your conduct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly … And what other men do, doesn’t effect how Fab is for you. Nobody ruins it for you

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over a year ago

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’d like to apologise on behalf of the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies all round

Bob Carolgees all round

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

i really dont get it when guys send terrible messages to ladies,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which Kermit meme should I post. Hmmmm

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.

But.....

By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.

Calm down dear it was a joke

"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha

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She's right, you know. I've met her and she's in rather good shape for a septuagenarian.

Ah but is that in Boo years?"

It's the "Boo" that's keeping me young! Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies all round

Bob Carolgees all round

Don't Spit !

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Virtue signalling is like semaphore with red flags

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"Apologies all round

Bob Carolgees all round

Don't Spit !"

Go on, who's going to make the first swallow joke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies all round

Bob Carolgees all round

Don't Spit !"

You've said that before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies all round

Bob Carolgees all round

Don't Spit !

You've said that before."

More than once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies all round

Bob Carolgees all round

Don't Spit !

You've said that before.

More than once

^She's a repeater.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies all round

Bob Carolgees all round

Don't Spit !

You've said that before.

More than once

^She's a repeater."

Sadly, some men aren't

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them. "

That armour is so white its blinding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apologies all round

Bob Carolgees all round

Don't Spit !

You've said that before.

More than once

^She's a repeater.

Sadly, some men aren't "

I put the pete in repete

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Please don't apologise for people with whom all you have in common is XY chromosomes.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

"Dont agree with that sentiment op. Youre only responsible for your own actions and words. If dicks wanna behave like dicks then those dicks get no pussy "

this ... nobody ruins it for others they only ruin it for themselves ..

dont be one of them that hides behind others wrong doing that is also a turn off also alot will look at this as white knighting (creeping to women for self advantage) that again is a massive turn off ..

be you follow your path its a hard enough one to follow with out worrying about how others are ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too.

On behalf of decent blokes, we apologise for the dicks.

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Like a modern day jesus.

Sacrificed himself for the sin of all man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They actually do!

I'm not the wittiest or most interesting guy in the world, but they make me look great.

Ish.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"For all the slim ladies out there can I take this opportunity to apologise for the OP's thread stating "Curves are best". It's sizest men like this that spoil it for all us decent blokes.

But.....

By doing this,this is what starts the forum arguing off again when it just didn't need to be started all over again.

Calm down dear it was a joke

"DEAR" I'm not 80 years old just yet ha ha

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She's right, you know. I've met her and she's in rather good shape for a septuagenarian.

Ah but is that in Boo years?

It's the "Boo ze" that's keeping me young! Ha ha "

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She loves her Booze. ^

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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk area

so as a man I feel I have to apologise for them. "

Apologise as much as you like, still won't get you a shag though

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

Let us know about the queue of ladies beating a path to your door OP

...queue?! ...there's a queue?! ...love a good queue

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Thank you OP, I've learned the error of my ways. Have you considered doing a TED talk on the topic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#NiceGuysFinishLast

#BeKind

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Let us know about the queue of ladies beating a path to your door OP

...queue?! ...there's a queue?! ...love a good queue

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Queue, Queue, Barney McGrew, Cuthbert, Dibble, Grubb.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I find something pretty creepy or untrustworthy or attention seeking about these 'supposed' women who supposedly show other men their inboxes.

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