FabSwingers.com forum: Be kind

By *nver4 OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

Always be kind and respectful of others.

Just a thought...

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ahh

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

What if they have a degradation kink?

LvM

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I couldn't do degradation...just saying

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nah I don’t subscribe to this. Some people don’t deserve my respect and kindness. However I endeavour to be polite regardless

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

What if being kind means saying something not very nice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if being kind means saying something not very nice?"

Then you give them a ban

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vive le cul x

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You'll find op that many people speak from experience on this and the "Be kind" movement is often seen as a diversion tactic by those who are anything but.

Those who are already kind and considerate find this advice insulting and those who aren't can only maintain the facade for so long.

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By *nver4 OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

Thanks for feedback...just what I predicted.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

"Always be kind and respectful of others.

Just a thought..."

Does that include a little ‘tough love’ sometimes? letting people know something that could help them but that that might not want to hear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for feedback...just what I predicted. "

I will always be kind and respectful to those that deserve it.

I'm guessing most people don't need to be told how to behave from a complete stranger.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Kind to who, and at the expense of whom?

Respect as in basic human dignity, or respect in terms of deference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll keep that in my thoughts

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Always be kind and respectful of others.

Just a thought..."

I like it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thanks for feedback...just what I predicted. "

Ah you were conducting an experiment.

Where do you stand on the 'be kind' question?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's exhausting when you continue to do this, even with those whom don't deserve it....

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I do allways try to b kind! Or say nothing at all! As I was told as child! Sometimes I let myself down and spend ages feeling bad though x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Are there being kind rules?..I thought being kind meant being kind

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think sometimes the people who say this really mean don't say anything unless it's something they consider to be nice

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It is those that don't deserve your kindness that deserve it most of all.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Or if you prefer......

Give most of your kindness to those that you feel don't deserve it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

B.T.W ....... Im not a fan of the 'be kind' movement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"B.T.W ....... Im not a fan of the 'be kind' movement "

Be kind to the movement at least

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"B.T.W ....... Im not a fan of the 'be kind' movement

Be kind to the movement at least "

Fair do's. As long as it's not a bowel movement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#BeKind

#Follow

#Follow4Follow

#Quote

#viral

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I think sometimes the people who say this really mean don't say anything unless it's something they consider to be nice "

Yes I do try to do this x

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

You can tell someone something that might not be wanted its the way you deliver it is what counts. You can still tell an uncomfortable truth without sounding hateful and nasty

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Or if you prefer......

Give most of your kindness to those that you feel don't deserve it.

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like politicians? And energy fat cats?

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"What if being kind means saying something not very nice?"

The nick Lowe cruel to be kind paradox?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"B.T.W ....... Im not a fan of the 'be kind' movement "

‘Movement’ feels so generous

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"What if being kind means saying something not very nice?

The nick Lowe cruel to be kind paradox? "

Apparently it means that you love them

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

You can still be a nice person and tell someone to fuck off when it is needed. Not everyone deserves your kindness if they act like an arsehole

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

It's possible to disagree sith sine one, abd still show kindness or at the very least have dime dignity abd respect.

People need to remember that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I genuinely don't know what people mean when they tell me to be kind.

What does it mean to people?

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"I genuinely don't know what people mean when they tell me to be kind.

What does it mean to people?"

To me it means dint be unnecessary cruel or nasty about people.

The obvious ecample is the new health secretary, calling her out on her voting record is fine. The comments about her looks abd weight aren't

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I genuinely don't know what people mean when they tell me to be kind.

What does it mean to people?"

You know when you tell kids... Dont be unkind...When they've said or done something unkind? ... Well.. The opposite of that.

Is there a universal definition of " being kind "? Since we can no longer rely on the EU guiding our lives... No... Not for us

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I genuinely don't know what people mean when they tell me to be kind.

What does it mean to people?

To me it means dint be unnecessary cruel or nasty about people.

The obvious ecample is the new health secretary, calling her out on her voting record is fine. The comments about her looks abd weight aren't"

Ok. That I understand but why are people telling me to be kind a propos of nothing? I'm getting on with my day, suddenly I'm exhorted to be kind I haven't told anyone they shouldn't be health secretary, I've kicked no kittens. Have I to find someone to be kind to?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I genuinely don't know what people mean when they tell me to be kind.

What does it mean to people?

You know when you tell kids... Dont be unkind...When they've said or done something unkind? ... Well.. The opposite of that.

Is there a universal definition of " being kind "? Since we can no longer rely on the EU guiding our lives... No... Not for us"

Perhaps HRH King Charles 111 will issue a decree

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Always be kind and respectful of others.

Just a thought..."

Unless they are Jaffa Cake lovers

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It troubles me that people need to be told to be kind. It can’t be that hard surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things that are a given don't need to be announced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things that are a given don't need to be announced."

Like how funny I am.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It's possible to disagree sith sine one, abd still show kindness or at the very least have dime dignity abd respect.

People need to remember that "

Why does this post give me the giggles ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It's possible to disagree sith sine one, abd still show kindness or at the very least have dime dignity abd respect.

People need to remember that

Why does this post give me the giggles ?"

Oh no! I forgot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I genuinely don't know what people mean when they tell me to be kind.

What does it mean to people?

You know when you tell kids... Dont be unkind...When they've said or done something unkind? ... Well.. The opposite of that.

Is there a universal definition of " being kind "? Since we can no longer rely on the EU guiding our lives... No... Not for us"

#Brexit

#relevant

#trends

#ForYouPage

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

"It's possible to disagree sith sine one, abd still show kindness or at the very least have dime dignity abd respect.

People need to remember that

Why does this post give me the giggles ?"

It's possibly because it's bordering on gibberish as I shouldn't type without my glasses on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I genuinely don't know what people mean when they tell me to be kind.

What does it mean to people?"

I don't know either and it's always baffled me.

I find sometimes be kind is used as a way of shutting people up if they disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It troubles me that people need to be told to be kind. It can’t be that hard surely? "

I think the problem is often people don't need to be told to be kind. Some people feel if someone says something they don't like even if it isn't personal they will use #be kind.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It's possible to disagree sith sine one, abd still show kindness or at the very least have dime dignity abd respect.

People need to remember that

Why does this post give me the giggles ?

It's possibly because it's bordering on gibberish as I shouldn't type without my glasses on

I just thought you'd been on the juice for the afternoon.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I genuinely don't know what people mean when they tell me to be kind.

What does it mean to people?

You know when you tell kids... Dont be unkind...When they've said or done something unkind? ... Well.. The opposite of that.

Is there a universal definition of " being kind "? Since we can no longer rely on the EU guiding our lives... No... Not for us

Perhaps HRH King Charles 111 will issue a decree "

He's been doing a lot of proclaiming the last 24 hours... Maybe someone could sneak one in there.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Things that are a given don't need to be announced."

Like please and thank you and hand washing and... Common sense and...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is the majority of people are kind and respectful of others. The people who aren't kind and respectful aren't gonna suddenly start doing it because they've been told to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They put be kind on all the little girl’s clothes but not on the boys ones.

Coincidence?

I think not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They put be kind on all the little girl’s clothes but not on the boys ones.

Coincidence?

I think not. "

Agreed.

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By *nver4 OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

[Removed by poster at 11/09/22 18:52:36]

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By *nver4 OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

Just ing out the arseholes..lol

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By *nver4 OP Man
over a year ago

Inverness

Just ing out the arseholes..lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Just ing out the arseholes..lol"

How kind

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yes that’s the truth be kind

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