FabSwingers.com forum: Do you get on with your siblings?

By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

Just being nosey, it's safe to say that I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on with one and the other not spoken to for 5 years

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Yes I love them very much

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I don't. Not spoken to any of them for about 10 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One yes, other one I haven't spoken too for 15 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of them yes. The second one, we haven’t seen each other for 15yr.

families eh?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes definitely. Probably the person I trust most in my life.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No not really.

My family is dysfunctional

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Nope, can't remember last time I saw either of mine or when I last spoke to either of them that wasn't just a birthday/Christmas text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ish ...

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

One yep. The other not so much

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Sibling's Mr4 is a only child but his brothers and sisters do insist he's not and Mrs4 family are mostly rejects from the hitler youth movement ...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

No. My brother is a git. Always has been, always will be. I'm most likely only to see him at family funerals.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes i do, 100%

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Never have done, no idea why he actively disliked me so much but it dates back to schooldays. Probably seen him twice in the last 30 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope! Cut my sister out years ago, I’m cordial with my brother but he’s alt right so suffice to say our viewpoints don’t align!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Don't see alot of my brothers but get on OK! See alot of sister go on holiday together as we both single! Love her to bits but a week away is enough lol! We got another week away coming up beggining of Oct x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes with both brothers and their families. I am specially close to the immediate younger one. The very younger one has gone his own way in recent years but we are still in contact now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tolerate him for my parents' sake.

When the day comes that they are no longer here I'll be quite happy to have as little to do with him as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all very different personalities so yes, we 'get on' but no, we're not close really.

No big drama usually which is something compared to what some deal with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come from a long line of fucked up family issues.

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By *ablo minibar123 OP Woman
over a year ago

"I tolerate him for my parents' sake.

When the day comes that they are no longer here I'll be quite happy to have as little to do with him as possible."

Pretty much the same here, and sorry to say I'd feel no guilt about it either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have three siblings. I'm very, very close to two and exchange the occasional message on Instagram with the third.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, both my 2 big brothers

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 older siblings, don't really get along with 2 due to having completely different personalities but get along well with my other sibling

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes I get in with them. I rarely see them though because they're scattered around the country and the world. Ironically the one who lives closest is the one I see least. I walked past him in the street once because I didn't recognise him

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I dont really get on with my sister and never really have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t have any

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By *JandCMCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Did tolerate my brother for my father's sake, but now he's gone n will n everything sorted last year no need to see him.

He always was a twat n now he's got no family at all, ex wife n his kids also don't want anything to do with him.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

I have one sibling, my younger sister, we get on very well and talk on the phone every week, don't get to see her as much as I would like as she lives 200 miles away and I hate driving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, not really.

I only like two of them but I wouldn't say we are close. I don't really speak to or trust any of the others. My family is a bit dysfunctional unfortunately.

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By *rC99Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Once my sister had had her children (which began 18 years ago) then we both changed/respected each other a lot more and have got on. Before that we always used to argue/try getting the better of each other etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip but i stay out of there dramas and family gatherings im not arsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t stand the C word, never have 2 siblings (and not even a year apart) been so different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread has come at a perfect time.

I've just cut one of my brothers out of my life completely. I was feeling a bit of guilt because it has upset my parents.

But it looks like it's a lot more common than I realized.

My other brother is a saint.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I do not!

Mike

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness

Can't - all five of them are dead - but did before they died

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

One yes, we are very close and one I tolerate but we don’t rub along very well at all.

I can’t do drama, manipulation or controlling behaviour so needless to say we clash badly and if in the same space its pleasantries only. Even my mother had to say something about it recently as my sibling I get along with and I decided we would avoid family gatherings if it was allowed to continue.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

My brother yes, my sister no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One sister really close to other haven't spoken to in 5years and never will.

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

Two dead , two halves and one snob. Get on better with my bi mates

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I do indeed. I love him and his family

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m an only child

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By *nked and Ms InkedCouple
over a year ago

nr wrexham

My sister is one of my best friends. My brothers are great too, but being so close in age (and the oldest ones) definitely closer to my sister xx

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

This thread makes me feel a bit sad reading about all the people who don’t have anything to do with their siblings.

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By *loudF7Man
over a year ago

South East

Get on with both my siblings, we don't chat constantly but are always there for each other when needed

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yes ! They’re literally the loves of my life

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By *eamworkboyMan
over a year ago

Irvine

My 2 sisters I love unconditionally, my brother ??? I'd happily see him in court for his actions which should in all fairness result in jail time.

I often wonder who will pay for his funeral since he's distanced every single family member.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"This thread makes me feel a bit sad reading about all the people who don’t have anything to do with their siblings.

Why? You can choose your friends but can't choose your family.

For the sake of my late mother I put myself in the middle of blatant homophobia and now post transition, transphobia. My siblings harp on about "blood is thicker than water" - yeah that may be because it's toxic.

Don't be sad for us. Some of us get lemons, and we're happy making lemonade!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

We don't speak that frequently. I'd say in the main we share core beliefs, and if the going got tough we'd be an amazing team (on smaller issues this is definitely true). We do tend to grate on each other, but as time goes on that seems increasingly inconsequential.

My cousins on the other hand... Hoo boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my sister have gotten pretty close again over the past 18 months. She's had a rough to me of things and has really opened up to me.

MrWho.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Yes, I have one brother and we get on just fine.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sadly my only sister passed away over ten years ago .

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Love/hate relationship we never change, which is kind of nice in a bizarre way

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’ve two sisters and a brother and I love them unconditionally. I’m blessed to have such strong and grounded people in my life.

I would do anything for any of them and if one of them phoned to say that they needed help then I’d drop everything for them and the same applies in reverse.

We were always close but we lost our dad last year and that has brought us closer.

Funnily enough I really like one of my brother in laws, I tolerate the other and can’t stand my sister in law. Still all that matters is that each of them love my siblings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He lives on the other side of the world and we haven't seen each other since our father died 3 years ago, we get on very well

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