FabSwingers.com forum: Where do you sleep?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which side of the bed do you sleep on? And do you do the same thing in a new bed? (Hotels or a move? )

*I’m not sure I stick to the same side… and I’m not sure why that is, I thought I would be a routine type person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right side

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I sleep on the left side of the bed wherever I am. I am a side sleeper and face the left when falling asleep. I certainly do not want to be facing anyone as I drift off. I prefer a back to back sleeping partner who sleeps on the right side, facing the right. I end up having nightmares if anyone is holding on to me as I fall asleep. Not sure why :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The left, even if I'm the only one in the bed. I have to walk on the left too. Walking on the right gives me the heebie jeebies.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Are we talking from the perspective of looking up from the bottom or else stood behind the headboard?

I’m a right hand man (if stood behind the board) ……(although I can’t actually fit around the back as the bed’s against the wall)

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By *hirdTimesACharmCouple
over a year ago

northamptonshire

I always sleep on the right side no matter where I am

(MRS)

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

I sleep in the middle of the bed and roam around it at my leisure.

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By *izzmonkeysCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nearest the door (mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the middle like a starfish.

I don't sleep in hotels.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

The side furthest away from the door.

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By *o scandalousWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Middle - starfish sleeper. Sometimes diagonally.

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By *r lotharioMan
over a year ago

playa del ingles

wherever the dog allows me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So nobody yet has said they sleep closest to a wall or the door?

Maybe I’m a roamer. Sleep on different sides to feel like I’m in someone else’s bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"wherever the dog allows me"

I would never ever let a dog on my bed.

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By *x Rock Chick xxWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn

Always the left and fall asleep that way but when I wake up I touch my cheek and sleep on the side where it’s coldest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a middle sleeper rolled up in the duvet…..it’s all mine!!!

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

I have a full sized double bed, but everything else on the bed is king-sized: duvets (three different tog weights) duvet covers, sheets, etc.

As I normally sleep alone at home, I am a Sprawler; neither one preferred side nor the other.

When my fwb sleeps over, we someimes offload everything onto the floor, in order not to be restricted by the bedspace!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whichever square foot of spare bed real estate the ladies in my life allow me to have. Or the sofa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Washing lines

Cardboard boxes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to always sleep on the side closest to the door

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I sprawl.

I’m fine sleeping with another sprawler, it can be entertaining getting untangled in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wherever the dog allows me

I would never ever let a dog on my bed.

I sleep on the right side, nearest the door to deal with the kids..... But My Jack Russell (who passed away in February) we would sleep in the middle, surprising how much room a little dog would take up!!!! So I'd sleep on the right edge of the bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to always sleep on the side closest to the door "
i sleep facing it i think its a self defence instinct

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

There is only me in it so which ever side I like!

** Gentlemen are supposed to sleep nearest the door to protect the lady …. Just for ref

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we talking from the perspective of looking up from the bottom or else stood behind the headboard?

I’m a right hand man (if stood behind the board) ……(although I can’t actually fit around the back as the bed’s against the wall)

My very first thought.

Stood behind the headboard/laid on my back, I always have the left side of the bed, her ladyship the right*. We maintain this wherever we go.

*This simple division suggests an even split which isn't true. A more accurate description is the small triangular bit of the bed I'm allowed to fit around her starfish is always on the left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is only me in it so which ever side I like!

** Gentlemen are supposed to sleep nearest the door to protect the lady …. Just for ref

Protect her from what?

What if an intruder breaks in through the window?

What if the thing she most needs protecting from is a little urinary incontinence at 3.27am as she stumbles around the room trying to get to the toilet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually in my bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Room depending but mostly nearest the door and facing it. Viking

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

On the left when laying on the bed

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

When I’m by myself which is most of the time at the moment, I tend to star fish the entire bed. Otherwise I’m on the left but pushed right up into them being a big spoon

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Right side...my bed

Left side...his bed x

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I sleep in the middle so I can spread myself out in all directions

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"There is only me in it so which ever side I like!

** Gentlemen are supposed to sleep nearest the door to protect the lady …. Just for ref

This is true but I have to get up to the loo at least once every night!

I’ll sleep on the right at home but in hotels, nearest the bathroom !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I seem to always sleep on the side closest to the door i sleep facing it i think its a self defence instinct"

Yeah it could be that

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Right, occasionally in middle, rarely bottom of the bed with the pillow not sure how this happening but does

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

K sleeps on the left, me on the right.

Unless K isn't there, then I tend to wander over to sleep on his pillow.

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By *trideMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I’m right-handed, so I sleep on my left side, keeping my right hand and arm free to do interesting things. It is also the “recovery position” for people in shock.

This means that I leave room for bed-mates on my left, so I sleep on the right side of the bed, looking towards the foot from the head.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Right, wherever. But I do have a left side technique rhat differs, that I slip into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep where I fall.....tend to wake up on the sofa most nights then stagger off to my bed

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Always the left side

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

The side furthest away from the door. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always the left side"

Ditto

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Nearest the bathroom if it is en-suite

Otherwise nearest the bedroom door

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"There is only me in it so which ever side I like!

** Gentlemen are supposed to sleep nearest the door to protect the lady …. Just for ref

Protect her from what?

What if an intruder breaks in through the window?

What if the thing she most needs protecting from is a little urinary incontinence at 3.27am as she stumbles around the room trying to get to the toilet?

Mr"

Crikey! I was only saying mate!! No need to take it to extremes

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Middle

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

If I'm on my own - in the middle, starfished and snoring.

If I'm with himself - on the left, to start with, but pretty soon end up in the middle, starfished and snoring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I start off on the right hand side, but I apparently move about a lot while sleeping so end up all over the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kingsize bed and sleep all over (no fixed positions)...

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Always on the right side

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

In a truck

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By *ictoria_1976TV/TS
over a year ago

Exeter - South West

Left hand side in own bed & same when in hotels x

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Always closest to the door when I'm with the Mrs. But if I'm away with work, pretty much in the middle of the bed

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Legs on the left hand side, head on the right hand side spread across the bed

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

I sleep on the left, because she's always right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The right mostly but I do spread out sometimes as got the bed to myself.

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

On the odd occasion in the dog house....

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

At home always on the right. In a hotel etc I always prefer the left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in a big bed with my wife

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By *ay-89Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

If I'm with someone the right side and normally fall asleep on my right side too. If I'm alone wherever the hell is comfortable normally entwined with the duvet for support and comfort.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have a kingsize bed to myself so although I always start on the left I often wake up in the middle or over on the right

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I lay on the left

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Either side but always facing outwards.

Prefer to be back to window if possible.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

In my own bed, left side falling asleep on my right.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I prefer the side closest to the door.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Only have one side have a single bed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left side as I'm left handed and the wife is right handed so when we face each other easier to handle things

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Left side, always.

As for position, that changes daily.

Sometimes on right side, left side, or stomach sleeper. Never face up however.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer the side closest to the door. "

An easier escape eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In a truck"

Most unique answer goes to……,

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"I seem to always sleep on the side closest to the door "

Gent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally the right but wake up everywhere.

Think if I was sharing a bed they’d hate me by morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a little pillow nest in the middle of the bed.

If I'm in bed with someone, I sleep on their side with them. "

Fixed my typo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I make a little pillow nest in the middle of the bed.

If I'm in bed with someone, I sleep on their side with them.

Fixed my typo"

I move over to a sexy woman’s side.. so would we just end up swapping?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make a little pillow nest in the middle of the bed.

If I'm in bed with someone, I sleep on their side with them.

Fixed my typo"

Oh if you insist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is only me in it so which ever side I like!

** Gentlemen are supposed to sleep nearest the door to protect the lady …. Just for ref

Who is covering the window?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Right side falling asleep whichever side depending if I'm big or little spoon

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the sofa, so there isn’t a side.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is only me in it so which ever side I like!

** Gentlemen are supposed to sleep nearest the door to protect the lady …. Just for ref

Who is covering the window?"

I real man would stay awake.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

If you are standing at the foot of the bed Mr would be on the right and me on the left and we stick to this wherever we sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we are on holiday or staying in hotels I always make hubby sleep closest to the door incase a murderer breaks in, then I have a chance to escape and save myself

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

On the side where my right hand can reach the bedside table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the same side, not sure why

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Mostly the left but sometimes right and upside down has even been known.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"In a truck

Most unique answer goes to……,

I’m in it Monday to Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On left by the door

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"The right mostly but I do spread out sometimes as got the bed to myself. "

Happy to share the right side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sleep on the left side at home but Mrs NE makes me sleep closest to anywhere a murderer can get the easiest access to the room.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Left side of the bed on my left side but usually wake up in the starfish position

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Nope. I sleep on the right in my bed at home but when I was with my ex I slept on the left. When I slept alone at uni I slept mostly on the right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When were together I (Mr) sleeps on the left hand side with Miss P wrapped up in my arms

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you are standing at the foot of the bed Mr would be on the right and me on the left and we stick to this wherever we sleep."

I’m if I’m standing at the foot of your bed, I think I would scare you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In a truck

Most unique answer goes to……,

I’m in it Monday to Friday "

And what about Weekends??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. I sleep on the right in my bed at home but when I was with my ex I slept on the left. When I slept alone at uni I slept mostly on the right. "

Have you often wondered where you would sleep if you were in my bed?….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sleep where I fall.....tend to wake up on the sofa most nights then stagger off to my bed"
yip this also me

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It depends who's in the bed with me

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Middle... for sad reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It depends who's in the bed with me

Probably this is also true. .. she could sleep closest to the mattress, I would sleep closest to the ceiling

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By *ade crossTV/TS
over a year ago

chiselhurst

Left at home but when away it can vary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m on my own then I’m

All over the place I’m a right fidget and don’t sleep well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm perched right on the edge of the left side of the bed, even though i could sleep starfished

My bed is against the wall and my yoga ball lives on the right hand side

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

On the right as u look, about 3 nights a week in hotels and always on the right as u look. The left look as though no one has been in the bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmm perched right on the edge of the left side of the bed, even though i could sleep starfished

My bed is against the wall and my yoga ball lives on the right hand side

You sleep with your yoga ball?….

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By *ister CMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I sleep nearest the door?

I learnt to sleep nearest the door because if anyone gets in the get me before her. Developed when I was little (5 or 6) and dad was working away, my sister would get in or we'd get in with mum.

It sounds a little silly I've always instinctively done it since.

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By *nn_JamesCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

(Viewed from the Headboard)

I'm left handed so occupy the left side.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Next to a wall, head away from door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm perched right on the edge of the left side of the bed, even though i could sleep starfished

My bed is against the wall and my yoga ball lives on the right hand side

You sleep with your yoga ball?…."

Its more that it lives on my bed.. They take up a lot of space!! Sometimes i do naked yoga ball bouncing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmm perched right on the edge of the left side of the bed, even though i could sleep starfished

My bed is against the wall and my yoga ball lives on the right hand side

You sleep with your yoga ball?….

Its more that it lives on my bed.. They take up a lot of space!! Sometimes i do naked yoga ball bouncing

"
m

You say all the right things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmm perched right on the edge of the left side of the bed, even though i could sleep starfished

My bed is against the wall and my yoga ball lives on the right hand side

You sleep with your yoga ball?….

Its more that it lives on my bed.. They take up a lot of space!! Sometimes i do naked yoga ball bouncing

You say all the right things

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

My hubby always sleeps nearest the door, me on the other side so it changes all depending on where the door is where we are!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My hubby always sleeps nearest the door, me on the other side so it changes all depending on where the door is where we are! "

This ‘next to the door’ thing seems to be a thing for guys. I like the idea and sentiment of it. I just hope she’ll scream loudly and wake me up in time to jump out the window from any danger.

*When my arms are around her when we sleep on anyside of the bed, I’m sure she’ll feel safe.

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