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Do you say hello to strangers when you are out and about

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I do

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Sometimes. Depends on the situation

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Depends how I’m doing in myself but usually yes love a chat

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Only when stood in a queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More often than not yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only when stood in a queue"

What’s a queue ?

Don’t have any of those where I live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and a nod of the head

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

Yep.. Lots.. My little people always ask... 'do you know them?'

It's nice to be nice.

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Yep.. Lots.. My little people always ask... 'do you know them?'

It's nice to be nice. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always, just to confuse them more than anything

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

A nod and a smile

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

I always do, talk to anyone strike up a conversation make someone's day

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

Yes I say hello to strangers

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I don't say good morning or anything as I am walking about just passing people usually, but if I am stood or sitting next to someone, I often do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always looking for banter

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Fuck no, I'm not a northerner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's what people seem to do round here. I'd prefer not to TBH.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Part of my job

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Alreet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe but it depends on who it is. If it's a regular I see on my bus then yes I'd say hello x

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I do.... people always say hello to me where ever I am , I'm sure I must look like someone else ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bus wankers

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Bus wankers"

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes except on way to work if I pass anyone then I just pedal faster and keep my head down x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don’t live where that’s acceptable

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Yes except on way to work if I pass anyone then I just pedal faster and keep my head down x"
time you start Candy I'm not surprised xx

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

God, yes! All the blummin' time! Especially if they have a cute doggy

I love chatting & 9 times out of 10 they're happy to chat back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprisingly no.

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By *urvybifem36 and her manCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Yes especially if out with the dog as you often see the same people out with theirs or people want to say hello to him. Especially in the pub

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Yes except on way to work if I pass anyone then I just pedal faster and keep my head down xtime you start Candy I'm not surprised xx"

Exactly! Only people worse from wear on their way home staggering that time of morning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a Geordie. I say hello every single person I’ve ever made eye contact with.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

God yes!!! And smile like an imbecile!

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By *atisfiedSighWoman
over a year ago

NW Wiltshire

I do. Wiltshire is a friendly place. You didn't make eye contact with people in the SE town where I grew up though.

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By *usman 199 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"God yes!!! And smile like an imbecile! "
Yes it was you in Chester everyone crossing the road

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By *ack_at_the_farm....Man
over a year ago

woodhall spa

Yes, unless I'm distracted or on the phone. Good manners/common courtesy don't cost a penny

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

If I'm walking/running/cycling on trails then I acknowledge everyone as it's a little out the way. If they have a friendly dog I'll stop and play with the dog and apparently you have to speak to the human with the dog in those situations so I reluctantly do. No dog and they only ever get a hello, no chance I'm stopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do. Doggo owners are very friendly usually.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I do most mornings when I am walking to work

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By *rixon11Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes, all the time whilst I'm out walking, it's a northern thing,its called friendliness

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends. In our neighbourhood yes I do. In a crowded shopping centre or a busy street it's not really possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they look like they are about to kill me, or do they look cool? This would influence my interaction with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if they say it first...I'm not an arsehole..normally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we make eye contact and they look friendly I'll usually say hello and give them a quick blow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do "

Mr- I usually say morning to people that’s about it really

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

yes often walking the dog along the canal,,

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By *tylebender03Man
over a year ago

Manchester

No - I’ve always got my earphones in

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By *otdave75Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Of course, why wouldn’t you. Need all the positivity we can get, a smile and a hello goes a long way

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are there people who say hello to every single person in the street?

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By *otdave75Man
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford


"If we make eye contact and they look friendly I'll usually say hello and give them a quick blow."

Wish I bumped into you on my walks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like I said part of my job in Colechester but has anyone had one of them moments where a lady in my case or gentleman in lady’s case where you just look and can’t do nothing else it’s like bang

Happened to me on various occasions due to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the most part I do, its definitely nice to be nice

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Regularly, especially in supermarkets as they are the only places these days where I regularly bump into strangers. It's surprising how many women do respond to a smile and eye contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in crowded places, but all the time out walking paths or in the country side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely love seeing some people's faces when I do

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester


"God yes!!! And smile like an imbecile! Yes it was you in Chester everyone crossing the road "

That’s because I smell like a polecat !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do, I don’t think enough people do it too though. Something as simple as a smile and saying hello could make a real difference to someone’s day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes will always say hello if out my kids used to ask me “ Do you know that person” when I told them no that used to call me weird

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Of course everyone does in the Valleys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say hello to another woman whilst out and about but definitely not a man.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Of course I do. I'm a Yorkshireman!

A quick nod of the head and an "'Ow do".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always acknowledge and greet fellow runners and walkers.

I generally don't greet everyone in my normal running errands mode. I'd never get anything done

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In places where there are few people then yes. Once you get more than one every 20 mins it tends to tail off.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When working yes, when outside work hours not normally haha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes! All the time. It’s the northern in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In places where there are few people then yes. Once you get more than one every 20 mins it tends to tail off.

Mr"

Bit like being a biker, I nod at other bikers for a while but after about half a dozen I cant be arsed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye, if I pass them on a walk to the park, or we’re in a queue at the Post Office (mainly old ladies )

I’m a country boy and in the village I grew up in everyone said hello it was the normal thing to do.

I remember leaving home for the first time to go to Uni and in the big city people used to keep their heads down and ignore me or look at me like I was a mad man if I said hello to anyone I passed! That was a big eye opener at the time.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Early morning or when out for a walk in nature yes. Any other time people think you’re bonkers

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Not in very busy places but walking down my road or in my very local area then yes.

I do tend to strike up conversations with strangers on a regular basis though, I look very approachable.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Yes, all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip, pretty common here, but way more thing when I lived in Edinburgh, maybe chat increases the more north you go!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - I inherited this from my Father who always chatted to people he saw.

Now I live in France I do it every day - it’s expected in a small rural town.

We say Bonjour Madame/Monsieur to people when they pass in the street and if you go in a shop it’s expected to say it to the staff and cashier. If you are in a queue then it’s expected that you say it to the others queuing and also if you enter a cafe or bar then to everyone else. And of course Merci/ Bonne Journée when finished.

Even school children will greet you in the same way.

I think it’s lovely and for some people it may be the only time they speak to someone if they live alone.

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

I do.

I'm a strange Londoner!

Loool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. Love being friendly. Mark days I’m a flirt but I just like talking lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like, I'd love to start conversations off the back of it, but I'm afraid people would think I'm weird

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By *y gameMan
over a year ago

open wide

I am of an age where I can smile and say hello to all.

Especially young fit women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And hopefully the guys are friendly enough to come up and talk to me too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if passing in the morning I try to say good morning to all

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

When I worked either a night shift, or early morning one, passing folks at 'silly o clock ' in the morning you would say hi,..come daylight you wouldn't even be acknowledged.

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By *onglegcoupleCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Only when I’m walking the dog to other dog walkers, which is weird but dog owners will know!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if the mood takes. You never know, but you might be the only person someone gets to speak to on that day.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The fun is saying. ‘Good morning’, in the afternoon and seeing who replies, ‘good morning’, back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been for a walk this afternoon with our granddaughter and was pleasantly surprised at how many people smiled and said hello x

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