FabSwingers.com forum: Action shots

By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I have seen several comments from women and couples saying they don't like to see action shots on profiles with other people.

There are different levels of action shots and I'm curious where a pictures go from good to off-putting.

We just uploaded a photo of Hannah on our bed with a lady who joined us. They are naked and kissing, but I think this is very tasteful and not explicit. We have put one in our private gallery of them licking my cock together. I was hesitant to do this because I didn't want to put anybody off, but Hannah really likes it so we have uploaded it but kept it private. Both of these have been uploaded with explicit consent, incidentally.

For those of you that don't like photos on profiles with other people in them, do you have a point where something is too much? Is it as simple as another person being present? Does kissing cross the line? Oral? Or is it not until full penetration is shown that it puts you off? Where do you draw the line? I'm curious to get people's thoughts.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

My thoughts................................. when fucking you should be far too busy to be anywhere near a phone.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

When it shows more of them than the person who's profile it is (mostly a woman sucking a dick or being fucked)

Extreme close ups of genitals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like any action shots it’s not about tasteful or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus I have no way of knowing whether the other person has consented so I avoid

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Everyone will have different tastes so just upload what you want and find people with compatible tastes. You'll never please everyone.

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I don’t like them at all but I know that’s down to my issues, I think people should put whatever they want on their profile

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"My thoughts................................. when fucking you should be far too busy to be anywhere near a phone."

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We like to think the ‘action shots’ in our pics are tasteful and sexy, which is why we show them. All you can ever be sure of with your profile is pleasing yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone will have different tastes so just upload what you want and find people with compatible tastes. You'll never please everyone. "

This...

We put what we want ourselves. Dont really care if some of the people don't like them.dont look at them,simple as that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like someone has already said above you can't please everyone so just post what you want too

Miss S x

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

When it’s a single male profile and more pictures of the woman or close up shots. Just no

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

If you guys like it, and the other people in the picture are happy with it going up, then that's all that matters really. It's your profile

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of close up photo's of genitalia with or without action. That aside, anything goes.

I think OP that couples are less likely to be censored about this. Anyone meeting a couple is pretty much by definition swinging and expecting to be swapping/sharing. The majority of the comments I have seen are on single profiles aimed at other singles and people who are looking for a sexual partner rather than actively "swinging".

My perception is heavily skewed towards it being something that single women mention about single men but this may well reflect the fact that I don't read many single male profiles.

I do find the few couples who mention it but then have pics of themselves together a bit strange. If it's a case of not liking that kind of photo, why have them? If it's a case of not wanting to see a potential meet having sex with another then it's just hypocrisy.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"I'm not a fan of close up photo's of genitalia with or without action. That aside, anything goes.

My perception is heavily skewed towards it being something that single women mention about single men but this may well reflect the fact that I don't read many single male profiles.

Mr"

True, I can appreciate photos being taken though there's is that overlap between when is this a horny photoshoot and when are we enjoying things.

When your concentration is on whoever is in front of you, taking reems of pics for a few decent ones is near impossible - maybe easier when meeting couples though as a single it does seem meets don't like to see previous meet pics unless they are well taken - pics being the furthest thing from my mind

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By *partharmony OP Couple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Like someone has already said above you can't please everyone so just post what you want too

Miss S x"

I realise that. This isn't a thread about tryingto please people. I'm really just curious to find out people's thoughts on it. It struck me as interesting.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

The ones of single males hanging out the back of multiple females make me laugh!

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I guess I'm not into action shots in the same way that I'm not interested in someone telling me in detail of past experiences.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

This debate is just as controversial as as protected sex vs Bareback.

You always have 2 sides of the fence

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Personally the 'action shots' I have an issue are single men with multiple pictures of the fuucking someone (usualky from behind) and/or receiving a blowjob where the vast majority of the picture isn't the guy and in not at all convinced the woman is aware she's on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess I'm not into action shots in the same way that I'm not interested in someone telling me in detail of past experiences. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pics should be of the person/ people who will be meeting.

If it's a single bloke with pics of his cock in some woman's pussy I tell him to bring her too or don't bother.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

As long as everyone in the photo consented to being in the photo and it being posted that's as far as our concern goes.

Post what you like to post. Cant please everyone so do not try. If something puts someone off, whatever. Let them move on and don't worry about it.

If something about a photo puts them off (and I'll agree there are some things that will no matter what you post) then odds are, they would find something in the flesh to put them off. At that point it's all irrelevant because why care what a random stranger that you will never meet thinks?

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