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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

I need to be honest about this and please bare with me while I try make this make sense lol I hope im not the only one but for many years I have had some social issues with myself.

I can have a laugh like everyone else but the issue is for some strange reason my brain won't work like alot of adults do and struggle to understand what people are trying to say and this plays on my mental health quite alot.

I hope someone can make sense of what I'm trying to say.

Sorry for the essay lol

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Has anyone ever suggested you may be on the autism spectrum ?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Hi pal but i think this is the wrong place to look for this kind of advice lot of virtue signalling but very little knowledge or depth beyond that the Samaritans are possible the best way to go..

But you are not alone I find it difficult to understand people and their intentions.

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

A support worker and my docs had said something about it but nothing has been done since, but in 2008 I had a crash on my motorbike and suffered with brain injury and makes me think If its linked to that. If I can remember I wasn't like it before the crash

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Hi pal but i think this is the wrong place to look for this kind of advice lot of virtue signalling but very little knowledge or depth beyond that the Samaritans are possible the best way to go..

But you are not alone I find it difficult to understand people and their intentions."

Thats what I find difficult aswell. I just wanted to know if I was the only one and if I would fit in on this site

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I would start with your GP and request more specialist help.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"Has anyone ever suggested you may be on the autism spectrum ?"

That was ky first thought too

I assume by struggle to understand the OP meant context not language

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Has anyone ever suggested you may be on the autism spectrum ?

That was ky first thought too

I assume by struggle to understand the OP meant context not language"

It that but its more of knowing how to stimulate someone's mind without being weird if you get what I mean lol

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"Has anyone ever suggested you may be on the autism spectrum ?

That was ky first thought too

I assume by struggle to understand the OP meant context not language

It that but its more of knowing how to stimulate someone's mind without being weird if you get what I mean lol "

I relate yo this,honestly I'd speak to a doctor but also look at some online autism tests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi pal but i think this is the wrong place to look for this kind of advice lot of virtue signalling but very little knowledge or depth beyond that the Samaritans are possible the best way to go..

But you are not alone I find it difficult to understand people and their intentions.

Thats what I find difficult aswell. I just wanted to know if I was the only one and if I would fit in on this site "

If course you fit in, everyone fits in and don't let other people let you think that you don't

Nothing wrong with being neuro divergent, we are all neuro divergent in some way shape or form, we're all on different levels of it

I suggest you start with your GP and work from there.

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Thanks guys much appreciated, I'm find it hard to put across what I'm trying to say without it sounding stupid. But thank you for taking time to get what I mean lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A support worker and my docs had said something about it but nothing has been done since, but in 2008 I had a crash on my motorbike and suffered with brain injury and makes me think If its linked to that. If I can remember I wasn't like it before the crash "
chase it up phone your doctors or if you still have a support worker tell them how your really feeling they will understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you could be neurodiverse. I’m similar but to a lesser extent and I have ADHD.

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Sounds like you could be neurodiverse. I’m similar but to a lesser extent and I have ADHD."

Just had to look what neurodiverse ment lol but thanks I don't know if this post is right for this site but had to ask as thought I was alone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are loads of us neurodiverse types on here, as well as neurotypicals. You'll fit in whatever.

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By *enji280590 OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"There are loads of us neurodiverse types on here, as well as neurotypicals. You'll fit in whatever. "

Thank you

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Sounds like you could be neurodiverse. I’m similar but to a lesser extent and I have ADHD.

Just had to look what neurodiverse ment lol but thanks I don't know if this post is right for this site but had to ask as thought I was alone on here "

Behind all the boobs and knobs we're all people - all different - so you're more than welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are loads of us neurodiverse types on here, as well as neurotypicals. You'll fit in whatever. "

Exactly this!

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