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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So when you look in the mirror and check yourself out…..do you think our sexy, and simply, …..Would you?

Come on, I can’t be the only one who thinks like that!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I wouldn't say sexy but I do think more often right now, actually Meli, you're quite cute. Pretty.

I feel sexy more as a result of others. Possibly not the best way to be but my sexiness is linked to feeling sexy. Desired. By others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say sexy but I do think more often right now, actually Meli, you're quite cute. Pretty."

I wouldn't say sexy but I do think "Just Pete, don't you dare refer to yourself in the third person. It's pomposity personified."

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I am not delusional!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm alright for my age I guess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends some most days i think fat cunt tbh but every now and then usually during a bath or shower i see the light shimmering the right way and think no for a fella your age and the shit you been thrue you look good

Then i go the gym and the fat cunt cycle begins again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I look in the mirror I see a combination of my parents looking back at me, more mum when I’m tired, more dad when I’m happy.

I see a drained face trying hard to put on a brave face and a need to “loose just a few more pound and we’ll be happy”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends some most days i think fat cunt tbh but every now and then usually during a bath or shower i see the light shimmering the right way and think no for a fella your age and the shit you been thrue you look good

Then i go the gym and the fat cunt cycle begins again "

Funny how we see ourselves so differently, I would love to see a body like yours when I look in the mirror.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I wouldn't say sexy but I do think more often right now, actually Meli, you're quite cute. Pretty.

I wouldn't say sexy but I do think "Just Pete, don't you dare refer to yourself in the third person. It's pomposity personified.""

Oh come now, who doesn't love a bit of pomp and circumstance in the morning?

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By *heekycouple69xCouple
over a year ago

Alton

Most days no but on a few occasions I think 'you don't look to bad'

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Hell yeah, I'm bloody gorgeous. I'd totally do me

But if I'm having a bad hair day I'll try not to look in the mirror, and hope I don't have any video calls at work

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Depends on the day really, usually I’m looking and thinking you need to loose a few pounds but your in good Nick for your age.

This morning looked in the mirror and thought God you look tired x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say sexy but I do think more often right now, actually Meli, you're quite cute. Pretty.

I wouldn't say sexy but I do think "Just Pete, don't you dare refer to yourself in the third person. It's pomposity personified."

Oh come now"

I love it when you're demanding.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

I don't look in the mirror to be self critical. What's the point in that? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder anyway, so people either like my look or they don't, simple!

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Mirror mirror on the wall lol don’t look now

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I see my dad looking back at me.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Nope, I’m more concerned about how I’m doing mentally and emotionally, than the bodily form

Not point looking good if you’re fucked up inside

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My eyesight is now at the stage where if I stand really close to a mirror I’m in soft focus. So yeah, sometimes I would do me.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Hell yes! x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"So when you look in the mirror and check yourself out…..do you think our sexy, and simply, …..Would you? "

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see my dad looking back at me. "

The A-Team, The A-Team, I see the A-Team.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bought my first full length mirror last year, it's in the corner with a chair in front of it, don't use it much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’d do lady me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well no .. because I'm straight ..

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood


"So when you look in the mirror and check yourself out…..do you think our sexy, and simply, …..Would you?

Come on, I can’t be the only one who thinks like that! "

No

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I look when I’m getting ready & make sure my dress isn’t tucked into my knickers! I wouldn’t say I stood and appraised my appearance in a ‘you’ve still got it, T’ kinda way

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"I look when I’m getting ready & make sure my dress isn’t tucked into my knickers! I wouldn’t say I stood and appraised my appearance in a ‘you’ve still got it, T’ kinda way "

Volunteer here x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I bought my first full length mirror last year, it's in the corner with a chair in front of it, don't use it much"

I love full length mirrors, especially for kinky stuff

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body-wise, I like what I see in the mirror as it feels like work in the gym paying off.

Facially, I have better days than others. Some days I see attractive features but a lot of days I don't really see anything positive or focus more on the flaws

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"Depends on the day really, usually I’m looking and thinking you need to loose a few pounds but your in good Nick for your age.

This morning looked in the mirror and thought God you look tired x"

I never really thought I looked great, or good for my age, I just saw imperfections… but Just now, I am losing a number of friends to terminal illnesses so I am starting to view things a little differently, myself included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you look in the mirror and check yourself out…..do you think our sexy, and simply, …..Would you?

Come on, I can’t be the only one who thinks like that! "

I've never felt desirable, and to be honest, feel worse due to online prejudgment. Is what it is, I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Never been entirely comfortable with my body.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Having been on a journey of huge transformation, I now mostly look in the mirror and love who I see, and definitely 'would'.

Occasionally though, the old me still pops in there and I see a fat old grump with saggy boobs and huge thighs. But then I remember what I've achieved and I chase that bitch away pretty damn quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, what I don't understand is how everything changes when I freeze time and take a picture.

Obviously, it's a case of overwhelming the technology with my beauty, hopefully one day things will reach a point when I don't have to take 1000 pictures to find 1, ok'ish shot.

Jokes aside, exercise, better nutrition, skin care and supplements have all helped. However, that's just icing on the narcissistic cake.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think "I would!"

I'm quite happy with what I see. When I see photos of myself I'm often surprised at how old I look (not in a negative way) because in my head I'm 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you look in the mirror and check yourself out…..do you think our sexy, and simply, …..Would you?

Come on, I can’t be the only one who thinks like that! "

Would you clone a cock and use it on yourself op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So when you look in the mirror and check yourself out…..do you think our sexy, and simply, …..Would you?

Come on, I can’t be the only one who thinks like that!

Would you clone a cock and use it on yourself op?"

I don’t deny or confirm that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends some most days i think fat cunt tbh but every now and then usually during a bath or shower i see the light shimmering the right way and think no for a fella your age and the shit you been thrue you look good

Then i go the gym and the fat cunt cycle begins again

Funny how we see ourselves so differently, I would love to see a body like yours when I look in the mirror. "
cheers i blame the bourbon creams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"So when you look in the mirror and check yourself out…..do you think our sexy, and simply, …..Would you?

Come on, I can’t be the only one who thinks like that! "

I rarely think that of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m your average dadbod a cheerful chappy not an adonis but not too shabby either.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Don’t think of myself as sexy I’m in good shape fit and strong, hubby tells me I’m stunning and loads of guys check me out .

I don’t see it myself but I’m happy in my own body xx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I used to look and think, yep, I would.

Now I try not to look coz it makes me even more depressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to loathe looking at the mirror but I’m a lot more confident these days!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at myself and think I defo would

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I think how the fuck can no one fancy you, with my beautiful blue eyes and salt and pepper beard

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

I regularly check myself out and think I'm not doing too bad for an old man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So when you look in the mirror and check yourself out…..do you think our sexy, and simply, …..Would you?

Come on, I can’t be the only one who thinks like that!

Would you clone a cock and use it on yourself op?

I don’t deny or confirm that "

treat yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at myself and think I defo would "
i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I spot a grey hair or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely not getting better with age! But my ex fucked me up abit in that respect, she never had anything nice to say about how I looked, use to make pig noises at me when I ate, name calling, that sort of thing so my confidence took a beating, and this place doesn't really help but I've got a thick skin and a strong mind, what doesn't kill us can only make us stronger...or so they say

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Generally don't like what I see in the mirror - brain body disconnect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look to see if I look less healthy than the week before. If it’s a yes I go to the pub less , if it’s a no I go for a pint to celebrate.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Try not to look I disgust myself that much. I'm really not my type.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Try not to look I disgust myself that much. I'm really not my type. "

Whoa! You look great. Don't be hard on yourself x

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By *r laidbackMan
over a year ago

London & New Brighton

I look in the mirror and I'd rate myself at least a 6 maybe 7, throw in the personality and im a 10 EASY, However if i we're to judge myself based on this site, then had a look in the mirror, I'd ask myself the question, am i really what i think i am? good job i answer myself right back with a "Dammm right you are, with a bag of them some on top"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try not to look I disgust myself that much. I'm really not my type. "

You need multiple personalities. It's like swinging every time you have a wank

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Could be worse could be better.

Would I do me? Hell yeah I would

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

I’ve already answered this question n a different thread, but I’ll repeat it here, with an addendum…

I stride into the bathroom full of confidence and bravado, look in the mirror and say

“Fuck, when did you get old!?”

Then I do MY smile, the one that includes my eyes, the winning smile that always gets a smile back when I unleash it, and I say “Old, maybe. But I still got it!”

I’m deluded obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try not to look I disgust myself that much. I'm really not my type. "
id bum ya thats what counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the day

Sometimes I can look and think ‘ you’re not bad for an almost 50yr old’

Sometimes I think I’m rough as anything

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I like to take a pride in my appearance, with quality aftershave etc, and enough people have said over the years that I'm in very good shape which is also confirmed in my verifications. So without sounding ego centric, I suppose I must look pretty sexy, or at least good enough for practice.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Pfft, rarely!

Sometimes if I'm just out the shower (and haven't got my glasses on, this might be an important detail) I look in the mirror and I actually look halfway decent. Perhaps.

I find my sense of humour to be my most attractive trait (my wife, not so much).

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Depends on the day

Sometimes I can look and think ‘ you’re not bad for an almost 50yr old’

Sometimes I think I’m rough as anything"

Definitely hot x

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline


"Could be worse could be better.

Would I do me? Hell yeah I would "

That makes two of us x

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

I think ready for the glue factory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the day

Sometimes I can look and think ‘ you’re not bad for an almost 50yr old’

Sometimes I think I’m rough as anything

Definitely hot x"

Haha I’m not today

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I found a photo a while back from when I was around 24. I audibly gasped and said, "I looked good!" Alice was confused and saud, "Yeah...?"

And it made me sad to think I never realised it at the time and how I wasted hours back then feeling like shit.

I wonder what I'll think when I look back in another 20 years.

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By *tsalwaysthequietonesCouple
over a year ago

Lancs

I got rid of all full length mirrors in our house, I avoid looking at my reflection unless i'm having a good hair/makeup/outfit/non bloaty kind of day but when I put all the effort in i'm not too bad I suppose.

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

Look in the mirror these days and finally starting to identify with the person looking back at me. Which in turn makes me feel a hell of a lot better about myself. Its taking time but going in the right direction.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I wouldn't say sexy but I do think more often right now, actually Meli, you're quite cute. Pretty.

I wouldn't say sexy but I do think "Just Pete, don't you dare refer to yourself in the third person. It's pomposity personified."

Oh come now

I love it when you're demanding."

I know you do. I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say sexy but I do think more often right now, actually Meli, you're quite cute. Pretty.

I wouldn't say sexy but I do think "Just Pete, don't you dare refer to yourself in the third person. It's pomposity personified."

Oh come now

I love it when you're demanding.

I know you do. I know. "

You're too late now

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I wouldn't say sexy but I do think more often right now, actually Meli, you're quite cute. Pretty.

I wouldn't say sexy but I do think "Just Pete, don't you dare refer to yourself in the third person. It's pomposity personified."

Oh come now

I love it when you're demanding.

I know you do. I know.

You're too late now "

I'll send you a JOI video as an apology.

A*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't say sexy but I do think more often right now, actually Meli, you're quite cute. Pretty.

I wouldn't say sexy but I do think "Just Pete, don't you dare refer to yourself in the third person. It's pomposity personified."

Oh come now

I love it when you're demanding.

I know you do. I know.

You're too late now

I'll send you a JOI video as an apology.

A*

"

Thank you A*. You know just how to perk me up. I'll send you a POV video as a thank you.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

No I’m jealous of vampires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, never

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