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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How would you describe your personality? Are people drawn to you? Hesitant around you?

I tend to have a RBF and people tend to be at times hesitant to approach, however I am very friendly and talkative.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I’m very much people person always happy meeting new people xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impulsive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest, sarcastic and a bit of a weirdo. Very straight talking and don't take any shit so sometimes that can come across wrong if they don't know me properly. A good heart with sometimes a moody soul.

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

What's an RBF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's an RBF?"

Resting bitch face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Resting Biatch face . Just a stern face. However I smile when I see people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I'm funny

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've been told I'm funny "

Some people think Harry Hill's funny

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

I think I’m very approachable. R x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

I'm a social butterfly so people find it really easy to chat to me, as I'm happy to approach and always smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m consistently an INTJ on the myers briggs tests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say I'm very sociable and I have been described as a calming influence putting people at ease.

I'm generally chatty and have an interest in others.

Slightly quirky with my humour also.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I'm a social butterfly so people find it really easy to chat to me, as I'm happy to approach and always smiling "

Steve Harley & Cockney Rebel - Make Me Smile (Come Up And See Me)

www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAoaVU3-ve0

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm comfortable chatting to people but I don't impose myself on anyone and rarely start a conversation.

On the flip side though I have a relaxed and approachable personality that others seem to like.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss


"I'm a social butterfly so people find it really easy to chat to me, as I'm happy to approach and always smiling

Steve Harley & Cockney Rebel - Make Me Smile (Come Up And See Me)

www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAoaVU3-ve0

"

He has a unique way of singing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes me a while to come out of my shell, but I’m friendly and kind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you describe your personality? Are people drawn to you? Hesitant around you?

I tend to have a RBF and people tend to be at times hesitant to approach, however I am very friendly and talkative. "

This is me also

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m naturally effusive and cheery. Pretty calm most of the time and a don’t have a filter where humour is concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly it all depends on the setting, one of one I’m talking and inquisitive to start with, but I have no filter and often labelled ‘bitchy’ because I vocalise the thing everyone is thinking, but dare not say.

However, I’m far enough along the autistic spectrum to find group interaction overwhelming, so unless I know people, or with someone I feel knows me well enough to spot my triggers, then I’m very very quiet.

Close friends tell me I’m fun to be about, because I tend to be like a 8 year old who’s had just a little too much sugar. People who don’t know me say I grit on the for the exact same reason.

Perfect RBF, I rarely smile and never on common, so if you see me smile it’a genuine.

My partner says my childlike innocence, my unpredictability and my energy is what keeps the spark going after all these years. That said, when I rage, I RAGE.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Approachable and dry whitted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These days im almost totally insane and volatile driven by emotions that im trying to stuff down deep can be kind of direct filterless a natural cheeky wind up dont enjoy social settings like partys but when there tend to go into show off/class clown mode to mask how uncomfortable i am can come off as a bit intimidating iv been told but in a 121 setting im really quick to put people at ease and help them feel good and if with the right person can be very very very seductive and will laugh a girl into a bed/a bush/the car quite well if in the mood historically socials rarely stop at food and a snog and thats my complicated self analysis thank you for your cooperation

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Complicated and influenced by those I'm around and the environment I'm in. I definitely mirror people so some people bring the best out of me. If my anxiety is high I can come across as disinterest when I'm actually just struggling.

I'm not always likeable but get the impression that those that like me like me a lot.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I'm a social butterfly so people find it really easy to chat to me, as I'm happy to approach and always smiling

Steve Harley & Cockney Rebel - Make Me Smile (Come Up And See Me)

www.youtube.com/watch?v=dAoaVU3-ve0

He has a unique way of singing "

I can do a mean Kelly Jones, that's probably unique as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Complicated and influenced by those I'm around and the environment I'm in. I definitely mirror people so some people bring the best out of me. If my anxiety is high I can come across as disinterest when I'm actually just struggling.

I'm not always likeable but get the impression that those that like me like me a lot.

"

I remember some of our heated debates years ago and how nervous we both were when we actually met. We got along famously almost straight away.

You're a top bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose I come off a bit reserved when I'm nervous but I'm a chatter when I'm at ease. I'm told my facial expressions usually are very telling ......overall it depends on the setting and ppl ....

I don't think I'm very approachable because of the RBF

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By *udie NudieMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

I come across as a cant.

And not great at spelling.

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By *ake02Man
over a year ago

liverpool

To honest for my own good gets me in trouble but I think I’m a genuinely nice person we’ll try to be but dark sense of humour and sarcasm is my second language

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm mostly nerdy and full of inappropriate comments and jokes.

I'm usually approachable but can be quiet if I'm unsure about the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

Up for some fun

Witty or witless

Funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a swirling black hole with wailing and screaming and big objects flying past that hurt when they smash into you.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

I think I’m approachable but you would have to ask other people if they think the same

Marc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can come across as confident (or so I've been told) yet I'm quiet in unfamiliar company.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Complicated and influenced by those I'm around and the environment I'm in. I definitely mirror people so some people bring the best out of me. If my anxiety is high I can come across as disinterest when I'm actually just struggling.

I'm not always likeable but get the impression that those that like me like me a lot.

I remember some of our heated debates years ago and how nervous we both were when we actually met. We got along famously almost straight away.

You're a top bloke "

I remember you two meeting at Xtasia when one of you (couldn't possibly say which one ) was slightly more 'right wing' than he is now.

You got on like a house on fire. Because like many people who I've been lucky enough to meet you're both genuine, straight talking and despite coming across as opinionated (nothing wrong with that at all) have a great sense of humour too.

Me? I probably talk too much, go off on a tangent and some people don't get my sense of humour. I can also come across as being intolerant of some viewpoints (any conversation on politics, brexit, immigration, Americans or homophones is probably hoping to go tits up) because I don't have an issue fighting my corner and that can come across as abrasive.

But chuck me a cake and a jagerbomb and I'll mellow.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bit of an RBf, a worried look rather than grumpy look, but smile whenever someone approaches me. I unintentionally mirror people, so if they're relaxed and chatty I will be too. If they're awkward and shy I feel the same, but can sometimes override it. When the environment is overwhelming I tend to shut down and look aloof and cold. It's the only time my face isn't over expressive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like a swirling black hole with wailing and screaming and big objects flying past that hurt when they smash into you. "

Like going to IKEA on a Saturday afternoon then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too have a rbf but I'm lovely really. Unless alcohol is involved, it rarely is btw, I'm a bit of a slow burner and very few get to see all of me. Those that do are quite surprised how silly I can be. Generally I'm just a laid back soul who likes to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bubbly! Definitely easy to approach

Miss S x

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By *ane DTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow ish

Too nice for my own good at times.

Always think the best of folks but I have had my fingers burned too often.

So now I am way more cautious.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Sometimes people seem extremely intimidated by me at others I find myself trapped in a corner while they tell me their life story. I try to be friendly to everyone but sometimes I just want to be left alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm generally very reserved when I start talking to people as I like to guage what their personality is like before fully showing mine in case they don't like it. I see it more as, I'd like them to get used to me first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a people person. I've a bubbly personality with an apparent infectious and sometimes dirty laugh. I'm often told that I've got a knack in disarming people, making them feel at ease in my company and or making them laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Complicated and influenced by those I'm around and the environment I'm in. I definitely mirror people so some people bring the best out of me. If my anxiety is high I can come across as disinterest when I'm actually just struggling.

I'm not always likeable but get the impression that those that like me like me a lot.

I remember some of our heated debates years ago and how nervous we both were when we actually met. We got along famously almost straight away.

You're a top bloke

I remember you two meeting at Xtasia when one of you (couldn't possibly say which one ) was slightly more 'right wing' than he is now.

You got on like a house on fire. Because like many people who I've been lucky enough to meet you're both genuine, straight talking and despite coming across as opinionated (nothing wrong with that at all) have a great sense of humour too.

Me? I probably talk too much, go off on a tangent and some people don't get my sense of humour. I can also come across as being intolerant of some viewpoints (any conversation on politics, brexit, immigration, Americans or homophones is probably hoping to go tits up) because I don't have an issue fighting my corner and that can come across as abrasive.

But chuck me a cake and a jagerbomb and I'll mellow.

A"

Yeah, I've mellowed A LOT since then. I'm practically a lefty tree hugging hippy nowadays.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Complicated and influenced by those I'm around and the environment I'm in. I definitely mirror people so some people bring the best out of me. If my anxiety is high I can come across as disinterest when I'm actually just struggling.

I'm not always likeable but get the impression that those that like me like me a lot.

I remember some of our heated debates years ago and how nervous we both were when we actually met. We got along famously almost straight away.

You're a top bloke

I remember you two meeting at Xtasia when one of you (couldn't possibly say which one ) was slightly more 'right wing' than he is now.

You got on like a house on fire. Because like many people who I've been lucky enough to meet you're both genuine, straight talking and despite coming across as opinionated (nothing wrong with that at all) have a great sense of humour too.

Me? I probably talk too much, go off on a tangent and some people don't get my sense of humour. I can also come across as being intolerant of some viewpoints (any conversation on politics, brexit, immigration, Americans or homophones is probably hoping to go tits up) because I don't have an issue fighting my corner and that can come across as abrasive.

But chuck me a cake and a jagerbomb and I'll mellow.

A

Yeah, I've mellowed A LOT since then. I'm practically a lefty tree hugging hippy nowadays."

And all the better for it.

Seriously though - definitely one of the nicest guys we've had the privilege of getting to know on here and off site.

People often get very hung up on racking up the greatest number of 'friends' they can get on Fab. It's those that translate into real world friends that are absolute gems.

Quality over quantity every time.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How would you describe your personality? Are people drawn to you? Hesitant around you?

I tend to have a RBF and people tend to be at times hesitant to approach, however I am very friendly and talkative. "

I am

way to nice

Way to open

Way to helpful

I am good person

I know I am good fuck.

Unfortunately Way to much trauma build me personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm.pretty much a confident laid back person , chatty and like a good laugh , some folk can find me loud but been told I'm the one to get a party started so I'll take it , but above all I am me through and through and cannae be anything other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get mixed reactions some people are very drawn to me and some people more hesitant but I think that can be said for most of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People say I’m pretty calm but also have cutting dry sarcastic humour , sociable & chatty . Probably lots worse said behind my back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like a swirling black hole with wailing and screaming and big objects flying past that hurt when they smash into you.

Like going to IKEA on a Saturday afternoon then "

Yes! But without the meatballs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confident, easy going and laid back

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss


"I think I’m approachable but you would have to ask other people if they think the same

Marc"

You are when you smile, otherwise you rock the deep in thought look

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get mixed reactions some people are very drawn to me and some people more hesitant but I think that can be said for most of us. "

I agree, I said similar.

The thing is it doesn't really matter what we think our personality is like beyond being happy with how we are. Other people will experience us through the lens of their own experiences in life.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I am a ray of fecking sunshine ..people love me even tho im quite quiet to begin with ..rarely wanna shag me tho but thats ok

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"I think I’m approachable but you would have to ask other people if they think the same

Marc

You are when you smile, otherwise you rock the deep in thought look "

It’s taken me years to perfect that look

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Way too fucking sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say people run a fucking mile away from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don't know me find me scary and aloof. That came from someone who used to work for me, who freely admitted he was scared of me before he realised what a truly wonderful human being I actually am.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Nice and funny, but that’s just my opinion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m outgoing & lively. In social settings I’m the one bouncing around chatting to everyone.

In a club setting I’m still chatty but can also be aloof in that environment to deter unwanted attention..

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I'm a shy wallflower till I get to know people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exuberant, chatty and playful. Except here where I think I seem like a hard-ass bitch for some reason.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm a gregarious, outgoing sort of person. But I don't suffer fools gladly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who don't know me find me scary and aloof. That came from someone who used to work for me, who freely admitted he was scared of me before he realised what a truly wonderful human being I actually am."

Your arms are scary.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I’d say people run a fucking mile away from me "

That's not because of your personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Complicated and influenced by those I'm around and the environment I'm in. I definitely mirror people so some people bring the best out of me. If my anxiety is high I can come across as disinterest when I'm actually just struggling.

I'm not always likeable but get the impression that those that like me like me a lot.

I remember some of our heated debates years ago and how nervous we both were when we actually met. We got along famously almost straight away.

You're a top bloke

I remember you two meeting at Xtasia when one of you (couldn't possibly say which one ) was slightly more 'right wing' than he is now.

You got on like a house on fire. Because like many people who I've been lucky enough to meet you're both genuine, straight talking and despite coming across as opinionated (nothing wrong with that at all) have a great sense of humour too.

Me? I probably talk too much, go off on a tangent and some people don't get my sense of humour. I can also come across as being intolerant of some viewpoints (any conversation on politics, brexit, immigration, Americans or homophones is probably hoping to go tits up) because I don't have an issue fighting my corner and that can come across as abrasive.

But chuck me a cake and a jagerbomb and I'll mellow.

A

Yeah, I've mellowed A LOT since then. I'm practically a lefty tree hugging hippy nowadays.

And all the better for it.

Seriously though - definitely one of the nicest guys we've had the privilege of getting to know on here and off site.

People often get very hung up on racking up the greatest number of 'friends' they can get on Fab. It's those that translate into real world friends that are absolute gems.

Quality over quantity every time.

A"

Aw mate. I'm touched (I'm not saying you touched me though!).

We need a get together soon.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Caring but on the shy side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I’m friendly caring honest loyal and confident and outgoing

I think a lot of guys find me intimidating tbh just because I’m confident

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I don't hold much store by the little lies we tell ourselves. If I wanted to know how I came across I'd ask a few of the best people I know. And if I didn't like the home truths they gave me well ....... off they can fooking well pop !

I'm lovely. I like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people describing there own personality is a bit like a dog saying its a cat ... all people do is describe who they think they are or like to be ....sorry but it takes others to see your personality its not something that you can self describe ..

personality is a face to face thing if you try to work out someones personaliy via a web site then all you will get is false shit .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mask everything in humour. Generally a shy gentleman in reality but give little away with expression except with my eyes. Noticeably shite at poker

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"people describing there own personality is a bit like a dog saying its a cat ... all people do is describe who they think they are or like to be ....sorry but it takes others to see your personality its not something that you can self describe ..

personality is a face to face thing if you try to work out someones personaliy via a web site then all you will get is false shit ....."

I agree with this. And granny’s comment. I’ve no idea. I have lots of friends, they like me. I like me. That’ll do for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't hold much store by the little lies we tell ourselves. If I wanted to know how I came across I'd ask a few of the best people I know. And if I didn't like the home truths they gave me well ....... off they can fooking well pop !

I'm lovely. I like me. "
i said i was insane what more you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friendly, bubbly. I am the person people are drawn to. My friends even banned me from smiling at the pub cos they were sick of weirdos coming to sit with us

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Open, friendly, approachable.

Find chatting to people easy unless they are bores or have inflated egos, then it's a "nice to speak to you" and move on.

What do people think of us, only what they say on verifications but they may well be calling us fit to burn behind our backs, who cares life's too short.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"people describing there own personality is a bit like a dog saying its a cat ... all people do is describe who they think they are or like to be ....sorry but it takes others to see your personality its not something that you can self describe ..

personality is a face to face thing if you try to work out someones personaliy via a web site then all you will get is false shit ....."

I get what you're saying.....but read the first line of the OP again.

It literally says "How would YOU describe your personality?"

Not anyone else. And people can easily describe how they see themselves. Of course others may/will disagree, but there's nothing wrong with having an opinion about yourself. Surely that's what everyone puts into a profile.....?

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say people run a fucking mile away from me

That's not because of your personality "

I’m not on that register any more

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

I attract weird nerdy randoms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny, Inquisitive, darft as a brush at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am very open and honest, but do find that a lot of people are not !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ISTJ

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By *ittlemissvixenWoman
over a year ago

colchester

A mix of quiet, thoughtful and observant or chatty, flirty and a bit of a brat.

Depends on how close we are I tend to surprise people once they get to know me.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"Complicated and influenced by those I'm around and the environment I'm in. I definitely mirror people so some people bring the best out of me. If my anxiety is high I can come across as disinterest when I'm actually just struggling.

I'm not always likeable but get the impression that those that like me like me a lot.

I remember some of our heated debates years ago and how nervous we both were when we actually met. We got along famously almost straight away.

You're a top bloke

I remember you two meeting at Xtasia when one of you (couldn't possibly say which one ) was slightly more 'right wing' than he is now.

You got on like a house on fire. Because like many people who I've been lucky enough to meet you're both genuine, straight talking and despite coming across as opinionated (nothing wrong with that at all) have a great sense of humour too.

Me? I probably talk too much, go off on a tangent and some people don't get my sense of humour. I can also come across as being intolerant of some viewpoints (any conversation on politics, brexit, immigration, Americans or homophones is probably hoping to go tits up) because I don't have an issue fighting my corner and that can come across as abrasive.

But chuck me a cake and a jagerbomb and I'll mellow.

A"

Thank you, I'm genuinely numbed by those words, not sure what you mean about opinionated though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who don't know me find me scary and aloof. That came from someone who used to work for me, who freely admitted he was scared of me before he realised what a truly wonderful human being I actually am.

Your arms are scary. "

Depends what's in them. Some have found them comforting..

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"people describing there own personality is a bit like a dog saying its a cat ... all people do is describe who they think they are or like to be ....sorry but it takes others to see your personality its not something that you can self describe ..

personality is a face to face thing if you try to work out someones personaliy via a web site then all you will get is false shit ....."

Maybe you are projecting how you'd answer but I think it's unfair to suggest everyone replying either lacks self awareness or are lying abd can't describe how they genuinely perceive their personality with a reasonable degree of accuracy

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I’d like to think I’m friendly and approachable. I can be on the quiet side in a large social gathering but that’s often because I’m taking it all in.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Energetic and try to make a laugh out of anything.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"Complicated and influenced by those I'm around and the environment I'm in. I definitely mirror people so some people bring the best out of me. If my anxiety is high I can come across as disinterest when I'm actually just struggling.

I'm not always likeable but get the impression that those that like me like me a lot.

I remember some of our heated debates years ago and how nervous we both were when we actually met. We got along famously almost straight away.

You're a top bloke

I remember you two meeting at Xtasia when one of you (couldn't possibly say which one ) was slightly more 'right wing' than he is now.

You got on like a house on fire. Because like many people who I've been lucky enough to meet you're both genuine, straight talking and despite coming across as opinionated (nothing wrong with that at all) have a great sense of humour too.

Me? I probably talk too much, go off on a tangent and some people don't get my sense of humour. I can also come across as being intolerant of some viewpoints (any conversation on politics, brexit, immigration, Americans or homophones is probably hoping to go tits up) because I don't have an issue fighting my corner and that can come across as abrasive.

But chuck me a cake and a jagerbomb and I'll mellow.

A

Thank you, I'm genuinely numbed by those words, not sure what you mean about opinionated though! "

Humbled not numbed!

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By *di086Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind wonderful careing passinot polite just all around good person

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By *di086Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I'm an introvertic as for more I don't hate peoples that hurt me in real life... So yeah can say I'm naive and trustful

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan
over a year ago

Little clacton

I`m a pretty down to earth person..

Quite quiet,I j grew up with alot of family so don`t like endless small talk I do have a good sense of humor when I do actually open my mouth

I must come across has trustworthy, been asked countless times by random women if they could walk with me after a night out (get alot of stranger dangers here)just until they get close to home.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I've been told I'm mad as a box of frogs

I'm fiercely loyal and will go into bat against anyone for any of those I love

I'm passionate - whether that be in a relationship or in things I do

I have a dry wit and can be very sarcastic

I'm also very tactile and loving and, I'm told, a lovely mum

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over a year ago

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By *ornyQueerWoman
over a year ago

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I think I come across as quiet and shy. If someone didn't know me quite well they wouldn't imagine I'm on fab and can be naughty. Sometimes I can attract the wrong people in relationships because of that

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