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By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

We all have our own beliefs .. some are scared to face it some aren't.. some welcome it some run from it.. when your gone your gone .. your just not here anymore ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or you could hide your profile.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Or are we just getting ready?

For the next life

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Or you could hide your profile. "

Nearly pissed myself..thinki did

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By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Or you could hide your profile. "

Like you ,,.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for letting us know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So where are you then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have our own beliefs .. some are scared to face it some aren't.. some welcome it some run from it.. when your gone your gone .. your just not here anymore .. "

Hey hope you are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to leave my body to medical science. Its not the easiest thing to find information on though. Strip it for parts, use the cadaver for students to.poke at or dump me to rot on a body farm. I just don't want a funeral or to be cremated as its just a waste of money. If only Easy jet did funerals ;-p

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth


"I wanted to leave my body to medical science. Its not the easiest thing to find information on though. Strip it for parts, use the cadaver for students to.poke at or dump me to rot on a body farm. I just don't want a funeral or to be cremated as its just a waste of money. If only Easy jet did funerals ;-p

"

Think it’s called Pure Cremation. Literally no service just tell the family when the ashes are ready for collection

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By *atfuckerbristolMan
over a year ago

Wells

I’m with Bertrand Russell on this:

“I believe that when I die I shall rot, and nothing of my ego will survive. I am not young and I love life. But I should scorn to shiver with terror at the thought of annihilation.”

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

There is always the zombie option after death you know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living a life filled with petty fears is worse than death but people seem happy to do it.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"I wanted to leave my body to medical science. Its not the easiest thing to find information on though. Strip it for parts, use the cadaver for students to.poke at or dump me to rot on a body farm. I just don't want a funeral or to be cremated as its just a waste of money. If only Easy jet did funerals ;-p

Think it’s called Pure Cremation. Literally no service just tell the family when the ashes are ready for collection"

This would suit me.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Or are we just getting ready?

For the next life"

Is that why women live longer? ‘Cos they always take longer to get ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean when i die? Whats my belief?

I believe that il get my reward for sacrifices made il get the life i want and was promissed iv bet too much of this life on it not to believe that now

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door


"I wanted to leave my body to medical science. Its not the easiest thing to find information on though. Strip it for parts, use the cadaver for students to.poke at or dump me to rot on a body farm. I just don't want a funeral or to be cremated as its just a waste of money. If only Easy jet did funerals ;-p

Think it’s called Pure Cremation. Literally no service just tell the family when the ashes are ready for collection"

This is what I've requested to my kids, then I want my ashes scattered in the sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is always the zombie option after death you know.. "

Doomed to stomp around swinging clubs for eternity.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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This is what I've requested to my kids, then I want my ashes scattered in the sea.

"

Personally I couldn't bear to look at my mum turned to ash. You need to be at least three nautical miles at sea before you can scatter ashes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is what I've requested to my kids, then I want my ashes scattered in the sea.

Personally I couldn't bear to look at my mum turned to ash. You need to be at least three nautical miles at sea before you can scatter ashes "

That is not correct.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester


"

This is what I've requested to my kids, then I want my ashes scattered in the sea.

Personally I couldn't bear to look at my mum turned to ash. You need to be at least three nautical miles at sea before you can scatter ashes "

We put my grandads ashes in sea at new haven off the harbour

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

That is what the Captain said on my cruise ship at an ashes scattering ceremony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This is what I've requested to my kids, then I want my ashes scattered in the sea.

Personally I couldn't bear to look at my mum turned to ash. You need to be at least three nautical miles at sea before you can scatter ashes

That is not correct. "

Legally it might be, but mum and dad were scattered on the beach and in the sea at a Cornish resort

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have just looked it up. The three nautical miles is US regulations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all have our own beliefs .. some are scared to face it some aren't.. some welcome it some run from it.. when your gone your gone .. your just not here anymore .. "

You are here, but your consciousness isn't

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"There is always the zombie option after death you know.. "

They are already here...just pop to Foxys and there's loads

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"I wanted to leave my body to medical science. Its not the easiest thing to find information on though. Strip it for parts, use the cadaver for students to.poke at or dump me to rot on a body farm. I just don't want a funeral or to be cremated as its just a waste of money. If only Easy jet did funerals ;-p

"

Leaving a body to medical science is surprisingly complicated and even if you do there's no guarantee they'll take it.

There are loads of firms doing direct cremations now not some of them need to be avoided

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

How many dead people are there on fab......must be a certain %

Wonder if I've messaged any?

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"

This is what I've requested to my kids, then I want my ashes scattered in the sea.

Personally I couldn't bear to look at my mum turned to ash. You need to be at least three nautical miles at sea before you can scatter ashes

That is not correct. "

There's no restrictions on scattering ashes in the sea that I'm aware.

There are only a handful of places where a burial at sea is allowed though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Energy transfers to energy. I genuinely belive we are just energy repeated consistently and that's why sometimes we connect with people instantaneously. Simply energy we have interacted with before.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I like Moby's song.

We are all space dust.

Dust in the wind then....?

Here is some factual weird burial shit for ya. The Catholic church allows cremations. Think they have for some time now.

However, they forbid sprinkling of ashes in say a remembrance garden with a dead loved one who has been scattered there.

I personally don't think this matters.

Religion exists to make us feel better about dying. I've had a few scrapes with the grim reaper. My relatives didn't come for me & I didn't have an out of body experience. I didn't take a trip on a boat & the gate keeper didn't paddle the boat.

Hell is what we do every day & when we die it's black & we get a long, long rest.

I'll tell you lot when I become a Tiger in a monastery. I'll write a safe word with me tail shall I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many dead people are there on fab......must be a certain %

Wonder if I've messaged any?

"

I think every woman I have messaged on here must be dead.

I might start using a ouija board for PMs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No idea what happens when we die. Nothing I've seen or heard has convinced me that we hang around for more than a couple of months at most.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’


"How many dead people are there on fab......must be a certain %

Wonder if I've messaged any?

I think every woman I have messaged on here must be dead.

I might start using a ouija board for PMs."

Can you tell my dead Gran to stop with pestering everyone with after life cups of teas please?

No, we don't want her Ginger Nuts to dunk in our Ginger tea. Piss off Gran!!!!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"No idea what happens when we die. Nothing I've seen or heard has convinced me that we hang around for more than a couple of months at most.

"

°

What happens to banned profiles? Do they transcend to an exalted plane of forgiveness or are banished to the eternal void nothingness?

††

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No idea what happens when we die. Nothing I've seen or heard has convinced me that we hang around for more than a couple of months at most.

°

What happens to banned profiles? Do they transcend to an exalted plane of forgiveness or are banished to the eternal void nothingness?

††"

They are judged on their actions and sent up or down accordingly. Limbo is reserved for 'picture collectors' and 'faf' messagers.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I really must get myself over to Hastings one of these days; Limbo Dancing is all the rage there. Hopefully, fire-walking too

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I really must get myself over to Hastings one of these days; Limbo Dancing is all the rage there. Hopefully, fire-walking too "

Fire up the vespa!

You can hardly move for people bending over backwards on hot coals...

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"There is always the zombie option after death you know.. "

Oh no, so much walking, just feels a lot of effort to me. That really is nightmarish stuff.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I wanted to leave my body to medical science. Its not the easiest thing to find information on though. Strip it for parts, use the cadaver for students to.poke at or dump me to rot on a body farm. I just don't want a funeral or to be cremated as its just a waste of money. If only Easy jet did funerals ;-p

Think it’s called Pure Cremation. Literally no service just tell the family when the ashes are ready for collection

This would suit me. "

I hear what your saying. Funerals are so over priced. I don't see why we can't have a "family coffin" where my dad would if been cremated after being taken out of it, little polish then ready for mother and so on lol

The way I see it though, we lived our life, we took our last breath. The funeral/wake or whatever isn't really about us. Its about our families and friends coming together, grieving together, sharing memories, hugging each other and a way to say goodbye to me and hopefully get some sort of closure. I've not done a funeral plan but have squirreled some money away to either pay for my funeral, pay for a party, pay for whatever my spawn chose to do and how to celebrate my life. So although they can be bloody expensive, I wouldn't put it in writing or tell my spawn and my family that under no circumstances do I want this/that/other or a smells and bells service or I don't want anything at all as although I may not want it, my family and friemds would probably need it, not for me but for themselves. I feel it would be selfish of me to not allow them that.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

My parents have donated their bodies to medical research and want no funeral or memorial service. I found it difficult to accept at first but now I accept it is their choice (in sound mind) so of course I will abide with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I die I dont care what happens as won't be here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My parents have donated their bodies to medical research and want no funeral or memorial service. I found it difficult to accept at first but now I accept it is their choice (in sound mind) so of course I will abide with it"

I know someone who recently chose not to have a funeral. Their close family organised an appropriate, private celebration of their life after they died.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I'm going up there! X

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"We all have our own beliefs .. some are scared to face it some aren't.. some welcome it some run from it.. when your gone your gone .. your just not here anymore .. "

Yeah but you can do your best to create and leave something positive behind that lives on beyond you; kids, an organisation, a tree.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I wanted to leave my body to medical science. Its not the easiest thing to find information on though. Strip it for parts, use the cadaver for students to.poke at or dump me to rot on a body farm. I just don't want a funeral or to be cremated as its just a waste of money. If only Easy jet did funerals ;-p

Think it’s called Pure Cremation. Literally no service just tell the family when the ashes are ready for collection

This is what I've requested to my kids, then I want my ashes scattered in the sea.

"

Yep. I want this.

I do however want my knob sent to a taxidermist so it can then be sent to my old boss with a signed note saying 'go fuck yourself'.

Oh and I want my tattoos removed and framed and hung in the Tate modern.

Apart from that - just burn me or feed me to a pack of hungry lions.

A

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"My parents have donated their bodies to medical research and want no funeral or memorial service. I found it difficult to accept at first but now I accept it is their choice (in sound mind) so of course I will abide with it

I know someone who recently chose not to have a funeral. Their close family organised an appropriate, private celebration of their life after they died. "

Thats lovely. I was gobsmacked when sorting my dads funeral they he goes in the car to the church but to carry him into it was extra Jve told mother to leave me her trolly token for hers and wheel her in myself.

With your friend, or anyone, did they know there was gonna be a private party after? Is a case of the cost ( not saying they could t afford it but saw it as a waste) or was it they didn't want friends and family crying for them kinda thing?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"We all have our own beliefs .. some are scared to face it some aren't.. some welcome it some run from it.. when your gone your gone .. your just not here anymore .. "

You are here. You are here for eternity in one form or another.

Matter is transformed and transported but it cannot be obliterated.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My parents have donated their bodies to medical research and want no funeral or memorial service. I found it difficult to accept at first but now I accept it is their choice (in sound mind) so of course I will abide with it

I know someone who recently chose not to have a funeral. Their close family organised an appropriate, private celebration of their life after they died.

Thats lovely. I was gobsmacked when sorting my dads funeral they he goes in the car to the church but to carry him into it was extra Jve told mother to leave me her trolly token for hers and wheel her in myself.

With your friend, or anyone, did they know there was gonna be a private party after? Is a case of the cost ( not saying they could t afford it but saw it as a waste) or was it they didn't want friends and family crying for them kinda thing? "

They just genuinely didn't want a funeral of any sort. They took their leave of their loved ones while they were alive and I don't think they wanted crocodile tears from people who didn't pay them much attention in life. I don't know if they knew about the private celebration.

Funerals are expensive but I don't think that was the reason.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"We all have our own beliefs .. some are scared to face it some aren't.. some welcome it some run from it.. when your gone your gone .. your just not here anymore ..

You are here. You are here for eternity in one form or another.

Matter is transformed and transported but it cannot be obliterated.

"

Tell that to Thanos.....

A

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm coming back to haunt people

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am going up there. I also like this saying from a north american native "there are no death, only different worlds"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not going to worry about it, theres not much I can do about it now

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