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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Pleasurable (sex wise). When your azz has been smacked or whipped to the point of rawness and soreness.

That is no 'pleasurable' sex at all.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Kink shaming?

Each to their own

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

^ I'm smacking hers this Saturday, with the aid of a step-ladder.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Everyone has different likes and dislikes as long as it’s between two consenting adults then who are we to say anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be pleasurable to some people

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

Never heard of masochism OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kink shaming?

Each to their own "

Sex should be pleasurable for both. Not to be physical assaulted, so to speak.

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast

The worst thing about this topic is the full stops after every word.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The worst thing about this topic is the full stops after every word. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kink shaming?

Each to their own

Sex should be pleasurable for both. Not to be physical assaulted, so to speak."

Are you the Government appointed Sex Czar?

People can do what they want, as long as it is consensual & legal.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I like it and find it very pleasurable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst thing about this topic is the full stops after every word. "

"Worst. Thread. Title. Ever."!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Spanking is not assault in most cases you will find the person being spanked is more than willing to be there’s a consent to doing so - personally I love it, I like the sting, the anticipation of it never have I felt assaulted more aroused!

X

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"Pleasurable (sex wise). When your azz has been smacked or whipped to the point of rawness and soreness.

That is no 'pleasurable' sex at all. "

It's almost as if different people are into different things. Weird.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

The worst thing about this thread is the "thread shaming".

#FullstopsAreFine.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"^ I'm smacking hers this Saturday, with the aid of a step-ladder."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own I say. Whatever floats your boat - as long as everyone is enjoying it

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

My biggest kink is impact play, if both parties enjoy that's all that matters.

Kink shaming consenting adults is not okay though

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Days later you can still feel the sting/bruises when you sit so it’s the sex that keeps on giving pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What. Does. It. Matter. To. You. What. Other. Grown. Adults. Enjoy?

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By *tooveMan
over a year ago

belfast


"The worst thing about this thread is the "thread shaming".

#FullstopsAreFine."

Not. After. Every. Word.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Kink shaming?

Each to their own

Sex should be pleasurable for both. Not to be physical assaulted, so to speak."

Some people are aroused by certain forms of pain.

Maybe read up on the subject a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea one persons pleasure is anothers pain some people see tickling as painful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What. Does. It. Matter. To. You. What. Other. Grown. Adults. Enjoy?"

Lol.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"The worst thing about this thread is the "thread shaming".

#FullstopsAreFine.

Not. After. Every. Word. "

Do you mean just like that ^ ...?

It's the OP's thread. His prerogative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Days later you can still feel the sting/bruises when you sit so it’s the sex that keeps on giving pleasure "

I couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Days later you can still feel the sting/bruises when you sit so it’s the sex that keeps on giving pleasure

I couldn't agree more"

Precisely my point. So, it is not the 'bruises/stings' that give you the pleasure then.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"Days later you can still feel the sting/bruises when you sit so it’s the sex that keeps on giving pleasure

I couldn't agree more

Precisely my point. So, it is not the 'bruises/stings' that give you the pleasure then. "

It's the opposite of your point surely?

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Have you ever heard the expression "theres a fine line between pleasure and pain!'?

Cos for some people, its less of a fine line and more of a big fuzzy general vicinity of a line, with a big puddle in the middle thats perfect to jump in to while wearing your favourite spanking wellies

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Interestingly the op's profile states, 'each to their own'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kink shaming?

Each to their own

Sex should be pleasurable for both. Not to be physical assaulted, so to speak."

Thats the point. The giver and the receiver gain enjoyment.

Dont judge just because you don't understand it

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home


"Kink shaming?

Each to their own

Sex should be pleasurable for both. Not to be physical assaulted, so to speak."

Wow! Please do not put your own interpretation onto other peoples pleasure. Just because you would not find it pleasurable does not mean that is true for everyone.

One of the wonderful things about this world is that we are all different, and we should celebrate that, not try to shame people for liking things we don't understand.

MJ

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Pleasurable (sex wise). When your azz has been smacked or whipped to the point of rawness and soreness.

That is no 'pleasurable' sex at all. "

Look, if you're boring just say so

( It's a tiktok sound, I dint really care if you're boring or not. I like impact play and luckily so does my Dom )

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Kink shaming?

Each to their own

Sex should be pleasurable for both. Not to be physical assaulted, so to speak."

Happy for you to join us the next time we go to a club so you can see some pleasurable assaulting going on

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Days later you can still feel the sting/bruises when you sit so it’s the sex that keeps on giving pleasure

I couldn't agree more

Precisely my point. So, it is not the 'bruises/stings' that give you the pleasure then. "

No it’s the letting go and the intense feeling that overwhelm me…..I am bratty and that kind of play feeds my needs. I do need someone who knows what they are doing though - not a stranger just walking up and walloping me….. although in the right circumstances that could work too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair enough OP if you don't like it, don't partake in it. A lot of people do enjoy it and that's okay.

Personally, I like a bit of a sting but my pain threshold is quite low. I've also never had any complaints about bruises I've given to others and I've left some pretty ones

Pxx

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

The cynic in me senses a kind of white knight type vibe here. As if to say look at me, I'm not like all those other monstrous guys who want to assault women.

Sorry, I can be a bit cynical. Maybe it purely a lack of understanding. But people will be their own judge on how they use their agency in the pursuit of their sexual desires.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I better tell C to stop having orgasms from the ‘pain’ I inflict, as a random guy, who hasn’t read up on the subject, before commenting, doesn’t understand the mental aspect of sex

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love impact play that leaves bruises, more please.

Each to their own op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has something sparked your judgement, OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has something sparked your judgement, OP? "

Yeah, I saw a photo of a woman's azz in the 'photos' function on (fab) and thought.

That woman in question, must goto the hospital.

Their were deep wound on her azz cheeks.

If that is pleasurable sex for her.

Then, in my humble opinion.

That is surely not right to let someone abuse her in that way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has something sparked your judgement, OP?

Yeah, I saw a photo of a woman's azz in the 'photos' function on (fab) and thought.

That woman in question, must goto the hospital.

Their were deep wound on her azz cheeks.

If that is pleasurable sex for her.

Then, in my humble opinion.

That is surely not right to let someone abuse her in that way."

'wounds'

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery


"^ I'm smacking hers this Saturday, with the aid of a step-ladder."

That made me

I shall keep that image in my mind for the days I'm feeling down

Cherry x

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By *aughtycpl276927Couple
over a year ago

PRESTON

I love a good spanking,the harder the better!

J.x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's pleasurable to me. I enjoy the stinging. The endorphin high is pretty ace too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has something sparked your judgement, OP?

Yeah, I saw a photo of a woman's azz in the 'photos' function on (fab) and thought.

That woman in question, must goto the hospital.

Their were deep wound on her azz cheeks.

If that is pleasurable sex for her.

Then, in my humble opinion.

That is surely not right to let someone abuse her in that way."

Azz? Ass, or Arse, surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has something sparked your judgement, OP?

Yeah, I saw a photo of a woman's azz in the 'photos' function on (fab) and thought.

That woman in question, must goto the hospital.

Their were deep wound on her azz cheeks.

If that is pleasurable sex for her.

Then, in my humble opinion.

That is surely not right to let someone abuse her in that way."

So even if the woman in question acknowledged that she consented to that. That she enjoyed it, you'd still term it abuse?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"^ I'm smacking hers this Saturday, with the aid of a step-ladder.

That made me

I shall keep that image in my mind for the days I'm feeling down

Cherry x"

I missed you at the STP! Again!

In your case I'd have to crouch on one knee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A kink shaming post where in the profile text he states “each to their own”, smells like a double standard to me

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Kink shaming?

Each to their own

Sex should be pleasurable for both. Not to be physical assaulted, so to speak.

Are you the Government appointed Sex Czar?

People can do what they want, as long as it is consensual & legal."

I wish that I was a Czar, then nobody would make fun of me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love it. I can't explain why but it ups the horn level massively and will make my pussy twitch. To the point where I'll beg for the climax if done right.

Do you ever the GRRRrrr feeling when having sex OP? Done in that moment it's delightful.

But there's also the anticipation of it, the impact, the sting, the warmth of the skin from it.

T

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Has something sparked your judgement, OP?

Yeah, I saw a photo of a woman's azz in the 'photos' function on (fab) and thought.

That woman in question, must goto the hospital.

Their were deep wound on her azz cheeks.

If that is pleasurable sex for her.

Then, in my humble opinion.

That is surely not right to let someone abuse her in that way."

Why do you keep spelling it as azz?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I worked with a woman once that used to like her husband punching her. Body mostly she said but sometimes in face . Me and two others found it fascinating the mental aspect of what triggers someone to get off on that and also how the guy was able to rationalise punching his mrs ..

So many questions lol bruising / family / work etc

Was certainly mildly interesting to analyse the data she gave out about her kinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kink shaming?

Each to their own

Sex should be pleasurable for both. Not to be physical assaulted, so to speak.

Are you the Government appointed Sex Czar?

People can do what they want, as long as it is consensual & legal.

I wish that I was a Czar, then nobody would make fun of me!"

You might end up in a mass grave in the Yekaterinburg Forest , though.

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