FabSwingers.com forum: What advice would you give to the person who is dating your ex

By *usman 199 OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Just being nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take self defence lessons

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

None, 1, I don't care and 2,they could be perfect for eachother

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

good luck,,

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By *valon7Woman
over a year ago

Lancaster

Don't forget to tell him to use his haemarrhoid cream

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Be prepared to be heart broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the cuckoo's nest.

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Run !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to boring monotonous sex that does nothing for you

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By *obbiKentMan
over a year ago

maidstone

be good to her and for her

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Remember to get the restraining order x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get it right and a noose can be quick and painless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watch your back.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Nothing but kind thoughts and good wishes that they are happy together

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Don't let her near your bank account!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Marry her, but that's only so I can stop paying spousal maintenance. I should really advise to run like hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, he's the one I feel sorry for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loves her clitty sucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, he's a lovely bloke. Plus it's none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm the list is too large for the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you like vanilla. Cos that's what you will get....and not that often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is amazing but fucking ruthless

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Your in for a shock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Buy magic wand.

You'll need it.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

A few of them:

Please make them happy, they weren't right for me but they deserve to be happy. (in fact I've said just that to the fiance of an ex)

One:

Run like hell, they are an abuser.

Another:

Why did you take him back? He cheated on you 3 times.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

He was a pathological liar, literally couldn't tell the truth about anything and addicted to gambling. I would say don't get involved but if you do, protect your money, put nothing in joint names and do not bale him out financially. Double check everything he says and if he offers evidence double check that too.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

I hope he has a good bank ballance !

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"He was a pathological liar, literally couldn't tell the truth about anything and addicted to gambling. I would say don't get involved but if you do, protect your money, put nothing in joint names and do not bale him out financially. Double check everything he says and if he offers evidence double check that too. "

Yipes, I'll give him a miss ta

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

Treat her well, she's a good woman

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yipes, I'll give him a miss ta

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I would warn them about his forgetfulness and tell them not to take it to heart. It's because of his ADHD and it doesn't mean he doesn't love you when he forgets. He criticises himself for it for far longer than you'll even remember the incident.

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By *ittle-Miss-Cunty-1Woman
over a year ago

Your basement, Cuntsville

Wouldn't waste my breath saying anything as they don't believe you anyway and you're made out to be the insane ex

so they can crack on and find out for themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know those things you think you're imagining? Trust your instincts.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'd say to remind him you care about him. Frequently. Be gentle with him when he's not in a good place. Of course there'll be bad days but there are good as well. Cherish those. Don't lose who you are while you're there for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep me well out of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fled my marriage in 2011, just after my ex started threatening to kill me..I think the woman he hooked up with after me deserved a medal to be honest, as by that time he'd been diagnosed with MND and she looked after him til he passed away in 2018

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck, be careful and don’t believe a thing he says!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont flash it in my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know those things you think you're imagining? Trust your instincts. "

Sounds like my ex. I spent almost 7 years thinking I was imagining things that all turned out to be real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know those things you think you're imagining? Trust your instincts.

Sounds like my ex. I spent almost 7 years thinking I was imagining things that all turned out to be real. "

Yes to this

Also prepare to listen to constant moaning about how the world is out to get them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always make sure you’re wearing protection, that’s not been tampered with

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Don’t believe a word he says to you, it’s all lies!

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Treat her well but also stand your ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, I don't care. They'll find out for themselves. If you do say something they wouldn't listen anyway,you just get labelled as a "jealous ex".

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Nothing

We fell out of love with each other and moved on

Hes not a bad man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing, they deserve each other x

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

Leave before she pulls a knife, hits you with a chair or tries to crash the car you're driving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure you spoil her like she deserves, treat her and her family well, look after each other and I hope you have a great life together.

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I lost count after the 1st 15 blokes it had in the 1st year after I left it

So which 1 would I have advised to keep the phyco bitch in a cage ??

And In all honesty I wouldn’t of give any of them any advice

No one warned me

So let them make the same mistake they will come out the other side stronger and a better judge of character

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By *entDomMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood, Kent

I wouldn't wish my ex wife on anybody however, she is the mother of my daughter so I will always care.

My recent ex, I'd tell him, hurt her and I'll kill you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know those things you think you're imagining? Trust your instincts.

Sounds like my ex. I spent almost 7 years thinking I was imagining things that all turned out to be real. "

I'm sorry to hear that

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By *wimmingbadgerMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Run away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you can cook.

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By *ister CMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Handle with care she's quite stabby

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

None.

What I saw in her and what she saw in me, and the way we acted towards each other would be a completely different dynamic with a different person.

Not my place to interfere.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'd wish them good luck as she cheated on me and we had something special

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Don't get a pet rabbit.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Enjoy

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I wouldn't dare give her any advice. She knows what he's like anyway, he's been in jail (remanded) a couple of times for beating her up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't offer any advice, but I would wish them both lots of happiness and love.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

RUN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In others words, what advise should we have given ourselves.

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