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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " Be realistic there are thousands of men ti women on here ! Also it’s a swinging site but a shag site - maybe your view point on swinging is off ? Just a thought | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " I disagree. The problem I have is finding men that have any text other than "just ask" on their profile or photos otber than their extreme cock close ups. I fully get people not wanting to show their face but I'm not going to message someone then discover I'm not attracted to them and get branded a "time waster". | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. " Mostly BS. I’m not Jason Mamoa, I’m not VWE, I haven’t done any chasing, yet…….I’ve met many wonderful people here. Go figure. | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " You call this a shag site . I'll not discuss that. Majority of ladies browse profiles in ninja mode, so it doesn't show that they have viewed your profile. Once they read your profile, there's possibly something that doesn't appeal. Maybe you need to try a social or a club if you aren't doing well on Fab, however you've only been on here a very short time. Your moaning post won't do you any favours. | |||
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"Who says you have to? Pxx Have to what sorry?" Do all the things you stated in your post... Pxx | |||
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"Who says you have to? Pxx Have to what sorry? Do all the things you stated in your post... Pxx" Pretty much most of the profiles I have read. I just see it as all one sided. | |||
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"Who says you have to? Pxx Have to what sorry? Do all the things you stated in your post... Pxx Pretty much most of the profiles I have read. I just see it as all one sided." So just ignore those profiles then. Just because some want you to jump through hoops, they'll be plenty on the site that don't. No one is making you do anything. Pxx | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " Who is Doris? Women may have looked, you just don't know. | |||
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"I suspect your description of the site as a shag site possibly, even if unintentionally reflects how you communicate with people on here and that in turn may reflect on your success? But that's just me speculating" I’d agree with the above poster. | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " If your profile is practically empty then it will be discarded. Plus usernames deter people often. Your profile is very poorly put together with information / pics is most probably why. Look at some guys profiles that do well and see about replicating bits into your vibe Also the site is very stacked for men as so many of you | |||
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"Who’s Jason mamoa ?" Aquaman | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " And here we go again another moaning newbie Yes your message needs to stand out cos even I get something like around 100 per day! I’m hardly a young nubile thing either! I’ve never been into muscular Jason momoa types, not into vwe (tend to actively avoid if anything! Average all the way) I view in stealth mode because if I don’t I get hundreds more messages! I don’t message first usually as I find that with guys that can make them…over eager, sometimes will message women or couples. Yes you need to earn a reply from me - More than one badly taken pic Verification in person not just cam as I’ve found those with cam only veris tend to be voyeurs and not actually meet Bio needs to be well considered and informative, tell me what you’re offering not just what you want. If you say you’re “not fussy” that indicates you don’t care who you meet. If there are any drug refs, bare play indicators or similar I will block | |||
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"Who’s Jason mamoa ? Aquaman " just googled him can’t see the attraction myself | |||
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"Who’s Jason mamoa ? Aquaman just googled him can’t see the attraction myself " Me neither tbh mate | |||
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"Who’s Jason mamoa ? Aquaman just googled him can’t see the attraction myself Me neither tbh mate " Same here, I'd have to sit on that face it's far to hideous yo look at ;-p | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. Who is Doris? Women may have looked, you just don't know. " The Doris is my wife. When I was younger my brother, his friend were seeing someone different every other week and couldn’t remember names so just use to ask “How’s it going with the Doris” haha it has just stuck with me. | |||
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"It’s not all one side as on the flip side woman and tv/ts need to spend a day and hafe getting ready You know we got to shave we got to pick out a outfit We got to do make up hair and look good I’m the hopes that a guy turns up and isn’t a 3 pump splat and run " This post made me smile - but so very true! | |||
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"Who’s Jason mamoa ? Aquaman just googled him can’t see the attraction myself Me neither tbh mate Same here, I'd have to sit on that face it's far to hideous yo look at ;-p " Although some say I look like him! | |||
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"It’s not all one side as on the flip side woman and tv/ts need to spend a day and hafe getting ready You know we got to shave we got to pick out a outfit We got to do make up hair and look good I’m the hopes that a guy turns up and isn’t a 3 pump splat and run This post made me smile - but so very true! " Your welcome and yip it is that | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " Viewing your post then taking a peek at your profile, you appear to possess the wrong ideas about this site. You've only been here by a few weeks. Did you find FAB by accident, or did you hear about it from other misinformed people. This site isn't, as you eloquently describe it, another Shag Site! It's a Swingers Site! There's a huge difference between your perception and the reality of this site's theme, about which you have a heck of a lot to learn. Yes, it's tough for single guys, has been for years, but the pandemic hasn't helped. You could be successful, just as many Single Males are, but it all depends on how your approach and style evolve in appealing to those you wish to attract. Good luck, you need it! | |||
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"On the plus side, we get paid more " And you don't have to shave your whole body below the chin. | |||
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"I have to suck the cock and take it up the arse " That should be your opening line on your profile x | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " the fact that you can’t decide if you are I or we would put us off | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. the fact that you can’t decide if you are I or we would put us off" I assume he's referring to both his single profile and his couple profile. Maybe even the profile of his Mrs | |||
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"Who’s Jason mamoa ? Aquaman just googled him can’t see the attraction myself " I actually can't. I might be the only woman on earth though *shrug* | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " I've always found that having a great personality is enough for most women... Cal | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " It’s not a shag site! You can pay for those elsewhere. | |||
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"It’s not all one side as on the flip side woman and tv/ts need to spend a day and hafe getting ready You know we got to shave we got to pick out a outfit We got to do make up hair and look good I’m the hopes that a guy turns up and isn’t a 3 pump splat and run " Thank you!!!!!! well said | |||
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"Ahh.... The Doris is getting more action and he's not happy! Makes sense. " With 3 weeks under his belt and a great understanding of the site, you'd think he'd be knee deep in clunge by now. Winston | |||
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"I'm just here to say I just learnt about stealth mode " I don't do stealth. You're rather delightful x | |||
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"Personally I look at this site as something that might add to the journey of life we are all on and don't depend upon it. The shag site comment is a issue first of all but others have already mentioned why that was dumb. The ratio on here is 70% single men so like anything where there is alot of choice you get to have that benefit. You also need to look at it from the female perspective, 70% men means lots and lots of ing out constant messages. So most can be forgiven for creating a harder exterior when it comes to engaging with new folks. The downside is they will undoubtedly also miss the few that are genuine because of the high amount of shit they have to walk through. So in conclusion, try tinder or a local bar, they might be more accommodating. " well said ..also most of the ladies use the forum as a filter so posts like this means you've already been filtered out by some by means of block or adding a nice note on how you come across. | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " You poor thing. Women won't line up to give you sex just because you want it. You have to appeal to women to get their attention and they won't just shag everybody so you all get a turn. My heart bleeds for you. | |||
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"I suspect your description of the site as a shag site possibly, even if unintentionally reflects how you communicate with people on here and that in turn may reflect on your success? But that's just me speculating" Agreed! | |||
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"If your using this like tinder you have got it all wrong. And to post that men have it hard etc it makes you look salty. Tip join in the forums chat over time you will attract the right people. You wouldn't walk into a pub look around go up and say "i like what I see you wanna come to place". Im not very good at typing away im more of a face to face as I feel what I type don't really show what Im really about. But I just try and relay my personality through typing. If people like me then great if not no loss because I didn't have it in the first." I love the phrase "makes you look salty". | |||
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"Not to poo poo on your little rant here OP but I call bullshit. No one is obligated to do anything either way…men, women or other identities. I’d suggest taking a long hard look at your own attitude before putting blame on others for not getting what you desire out of this place. " | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. I disagree. The problem I have is finding men that have any text other than "just ask" on their profile or photos otber than their extreme cock close ups. I fully get people not wanting to show their face but I'm not going to message someone then discover I'm not attracted to them and get branded a "time waster". " mine doesn't | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. You poor thing. Women won't line up to give you sex just because you want it. You have to appeal to women to get their attention and they won't just shag everybody so you all get a turn. My heart bleeds for you. " And if they did shag everybody.... plenty of folk would never get a turn. I'm assuming we're going on a first come first served grab a ticket basis, that's the fairest right? So, going by 1 a day (yep, I'm even allowing rag week shags here, not missing a day for sickness or anything) I'll get round to the OP in *does some quick maths* ... 365 days a year, average of 10 a day, average of 50 when a new photo goes up, plus the 1000 per day for the 3 days my pic was top of page 2 hot photos, plus the couple of thousand in the first few days of joining.... Erm yeah, get to the OP in about 15 years. If I'm still alive by then. | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " Nope. Blokes just have to be a little more patient sometimes. No bending over required unless they want to. There are hundreds of really interesting male profiles that catch the eye, draw you in, describe the owner well and list what they're looking for, have a variety of well taken, interesting and attractive photos and who send messages deserving of a reply. And then there are the rest. That one quick glance at will explain completely why they get no interest, no replies and no meets. A | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. " Basic economics mate. We men are sitting on the wrong side of supply and demand graph.You can change the facts unfortunately. | |||
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"Men have to make messages interesting, funny, stand out. Men have to be VWE, built like Jason Mamoa. Men have to do all the chasing but get deleted if you send a 2nd message. Men have to be exactly as described in woman’s profiles. Not once in the few months have I/we had a single view from a single woman that we haven’t looked at before or messaged first. Everything is one sided and the blokes have to bend over backwards to even get a single reply. Just the same as any other shag site out there. Who is Doris? Women may have looked, you just don't know. The Doris is my wife. When I was younger my brother, his friend were seeing someone different every other week and couldn’t remember names so just use to ask “How’s it going with the Doris” haha it has just stuck with me." Aww that's sweet. | |||
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