Hi all, morning afternoon and good evening.
I'm after some advice/help or someone. I'm a married man, and yes I know, before anyone says does she know that I'm on here and the answer is no.
Me and my wife, we're both the same age, been together 14 years, kids mortgage, your average bills. The wife she's stunning, from me she gets a 10/10 as any lad would say about the there other half's, beauty is within the eye of the beholder as they say. She's fun she's loud she's bubbly and can waffle on for England.
Our sex life at first was really really good, honey moon sex period as they call it. Then we had kid and our sex lives dipped. But as the kids are getting older, and our love as a couple is getting stronger. But the sex the last 2 maybe 3 years has gone epic, all I can say is woooow.
Past 2 years the wife has been going the gym and keeping her self fit, she's become more confident flirty and just a different person in a good and nice way. But also she's been more and more open, telling me who she fancies, who she thinks is fit. As any normal partner would get really really jelous. She can't get her head round the fact I don't get jealous and it makes me hornier aswell as her, Whenever she flirting or coming home telling me she gets compliments or has been flirting, our sex that night is amazing.
Since we watched a programme called open house on ch4 we had sex every night watching this. And I dropped it in that I'd love a threesome.
Her reply was 'errrrr no way would I ever go with a girl'
My reply ' OK thats fair, but it's doesn't have to be with a woman'
After saying this to her, no reply off her just silence.
Once a year maybe twice a year we have a naughty night away, book a hotel go out for food, a few bars pubs get back the room d*unk, she always dresses up naughty and we have "hotelsex" get the camera set up and make some homemade movies for me to smash the head off my pecker for a later date.
So the last time we went out, we went to Manchester and before we went I said I'd love to see you in a naughty revealing outfit.
And I couldn't believe my eyes, she had a an outfit on, no underwear what so ever, with her titrs near enough on show aswell, she was loving the attention she was getting aswell as me finding it a turn on all night watching others undress her in the minds aswell as fucking her in the brains.
So I've said to her last week we need a naughty night out next month, I want you in the tightest the most revealing dress that you can dare to wear. I wanna walk in behind you into a pub bar and watch you flutter those big bright blue piercing eyes and flirt like crazy whilst I'm sitting chilling sipping and enjoying your antics aswell as my beer.
She thinks all this is abit weird and taboo.
But my wife goes with the flow, she's the kid of girl that'll do anything in the moment, and does what everyone else does.
So I'm hoping to meet someone on our night out, bump into either a couple and,drop into her on that theyre swingers and just assure her this isn't taboo or weird as there are sooo many people couples doing this, and then hopefully the woman half grabs my wife's hand goes on the dance floor and see where it goes flirting dirty dancing with others.
Or a handsome older guy to come and sweep her off her feet and talk her into bed with my permission.
I say older guy, because a few moths ago we went benidorm, and a d*unk night she said she'd love to have a night with an older man just to try it.
I've not booked any hotels yet. So a town/city with a good night out and good vibes for us to enjoy .
Anyone want to come forward and help I'd appreciate it |
might be a bit awkward for the couple who meet you 
