FabSwingers.com forum: What is something you learned about yourself while being on Fab

By *eeliciouschaos OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

that surprised you?

For me was the realisation that the older I get, the more I enjoy sex and that’s ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was probably that I am more of a deviant than I realised, and that I may have had kinks that I wasn't aware of or fully able to articulate

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

How sexually inept some single guys are.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

That I need to focus on becoming a gym-fit, exceptional male with a BBC…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I can be slightly naughtier than I ever thought I would be...... In the right company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That certain people can bring a hell of a naughtier side out in me, and I love her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That needing a wank in the day is normal

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

That I'm more normal than I thought and even more instinctive than I could have imagined.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Lots of things. I can cum from oral, i actually do like anal, confidence can be sexy, being assertive isnt a bad thing and to never judge/punish Mr tomrrow for Mr yesterdays actions.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

That I’m not liked by a lot of folk for being married

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

That I’m not on here just for meets. I’ve spoken to some great people who I probably won’t meet but I still enjoy just chatting to them.

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By *our HeroMan
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire

That I’m obviously not particularly attractive sexually. Oh and that if I owned a bbc it would seemingly make me more so!

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

That we are both a little bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that fab can be just an echo chamber and instead of raising my self esteem (bar is low here), it does the opposite

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm poly. It was quite a shock at first and I thought no; I'm just a soppy mare, confusing lust with feelings but... I'm definitely poly. And that's something I'm actively celebrating and enjoying.

I've also learned that sexy isn't a particular shape, size etc. I'm sexy sometimes. In a cutesy way but still sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I have this ability to gush with the right touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my desire to watch my partner or share her with other men is not utter madness and my depraved fantasies are actually called 'consensual non-consensual' sex.

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By *ugarbearCouple
over a year ago

Tredegar

that i was more dirty than i first thought

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

At 60 I am past it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that I actually like my body and I'm more sociable and confident than I thought. Of course there are judgements people make, but overall, it's easy to be very open on here

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’m apparently better looking than I thought I was also way more patient

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

That I'm more likeable than I had ever really given myself credit for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m apparently a lot more handsome than I give myself credit for.

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By *rambuie100Man
over a year ago

essex/suffolk border

Finding that my admiration different body shapes is not being greedy.. just adore ladies. Cant help it… ya sexy minx’s

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By *orthwhile27Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

Don't take things to seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am still quite naive when it comes to sexual activities, have led a very sheltered life and trying to explore things now most would have done when much younger

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
over a year ago

From a galaxy far far away

I’ve found that I now know my self worth, i am not broken, ugly, a whale or depraved and that as strong as I am, I’m attracted to equally strong people who can push my boundaries but also hold me tight when I need them too x

I’m free

I’m content

I’m having fun

But mostly….. I’ve found myself again as that sexy girl was missing for decades x

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"I’ve found that I now know my self worth, i am not broken, ugly, a whale or depraved and that as strong as I am, I’m attracted to equally strong people who can push my boundaries but also hold me tight when I need them too x

I’m free

I’m content

I’m having fun

But mostly….. I’ve found myself again as that sexy girl was missing for decades x

Love this. Go you!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Have a sense of humour & don't take yourself too seriously.

Also, don't take it to heart when someone is being unpleasant to you. Just ignore like you never heard it.

Stand up for yourself too. Some will hate & some will like. You can't have everyone liking. It would be a boring place...

"Cest la vie!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too old. Sexually and physically unappealing. Boring. But apart from that I am ok.

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By *cotty1376Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

That i am nowhere as near as good looking as i thought i was.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

That Jen is a Greedy girl and we both like sucking cock together

, who knew

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

That I'm actually quite grown up, but my personality let's me down.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The sex realm we’ve stepped into is actually real and not just fantasy or in our head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That we tend to drink to much at socials

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"The sex realm we’ve stepped into is actually real and not just fantasy or in our head

And isn't it amazing exploring all these fantasies in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I need to focus on becoming a gym-fit, exceptional male with a BBC…"

That tickled me.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm not everybody's cup of tea, but most people prefer a mug xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am not appreciated on here ??

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

That I'm not as unappealing as I once thought and I can attract some very beautiful ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I do a fairly decent job of DMs, but am in an alarmingly small percentage that have no kink interest.

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By *enm83Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Not to overthink myself and if an opportunity comes, just go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always thought I was unattractive. Never body confident. Now I think I’m a classy, sexy, confident lady with that secret twinkle in her eye her friends in RL that have no clue about

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By *reedom of speechMan
over a year ago

Watford

Not all couples are couples

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I’m fake

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

That we both found an equally filthy partner and minor insecurities were just that!!

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By *reedom of speechMan
over a year ago

Watford

"That we both found an equally filthy partner and minor insecurities were just that!!"
yes you look a good tv

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By *isterE ManMan
over a year ago

Taunton

That unlike my youth, when I would play with anyone.

I am far more discerning now, than ever before.

But my intetests have grown, so to a certain degree, it cancels out

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I’m not as quiet and shy as I thought I was

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By *laterMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

That I like closeness more than orgasms.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

How wrong I was, stuck in vanilla relationships with women who never liked being fingered.

With my reputation and dangerous knowledge, that is a waste of my talents.

Luckily, I have a lil' fan club, well my fingers do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That not as many women care to actively look to enjoy sex as much as men (hence why the men out number the women on here by 100/1 probably more).

And before you all have a go, I know there are lots on here that do. Its the one's who aren't on here, its aimed at. (just a shame they wont get to read it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older I get the kinkier I get got this thing about lady’s boobies and ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I might not be a "sexy" person but that's ok. I might get called cute but I've got personality and charm and that's appealing too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How open I can be about the kinks I'm into and that I won't be judged and I find that freeing tbh

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By *ev257Man
over a year ago

cardiff

One thing I thought I couldn't never do, but found out I can is perform sexualy in front of another watching me.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

I’m free

I’m content

I’m having fun

But mostly….. I’ve found myself again as that sexy girl was missing for decades x

Really happy for you.

Be happy, be content, have fun and wring the joy out of everything you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably that I'm a lot less tolerant of eejits than I thought I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I will probably die celebate.

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By *ysteriousgirl97Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

"How sexually inept some single guys are.

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learnt to become a lot more confident sexually and that it wasn’t about me but that the confidence I lacked was due to previous partners being v v vanilla.

I’ve also learnt to love and be proud of my body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm not as wanted as I hoped lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That actually the opposite sex do find me attractive...maybe not in a conventional way but possible on a more cerebral level

Before I got into this scene I always found it awkward when chatting ladies up

But my confidence has grown immensely and now I know I can talk to anyone without fear of feeling stupid or rejection

Silly really ....only wish I'd joined earlier

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I’ve learnt was a true orgasm is!

I’ve gained self confidence, by body confidence is a lot higher.

I’ve learnt that there’s so much fun to be had if you’re willing to open your mind and trust your partner

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

With the right person, my mind opens to all of those possibilities that have been swirling around. Loving all of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With the right person, my mind opens to all of those possibilities that have been swirling around. Loving all of it

Me too.. loving it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I have a very low tolerance for bullshit

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"That I have a very low tolerance for bullshit "

That’s unfortunate given your location!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Complete strangers can bring out the sex persona in me...easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm more submissive than I realised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there are some complete fruit loops out there and... nah...I knew all that

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m funny and argumentative.

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By *ekkatransTV/TS
over a year ago

Scarborough

I can be a bit of a cock tease lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learnt that I’m not the biggest knobhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can give the most excellent porn star, deep throat blow job

I like to do this in front of people watching. I thank Fab for making my realise, I was born an exhibitionist and enjoy the attention.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"With the right person, my mind opens to all of those possibilities that have been swirling around. Loving all of it

Aww this is adorable Spurs! What's happened to you?

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By *ihmMan
over a year ago

West Wales

"that surprised you?

For me was the realisation that the older I get, the more I enjoy sex and that’s ok."

That meeting people from fab doesn't really work for me and not what I want. I much prefer interacting with and meeting people in the real world.

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By *piral36Man
over a year ago

South west

I've realized men can be quite attractive, I've never thought about it in the real world but some times I thin phwar, he's sexy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm a lot more of a deviant than I realised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sex can be bloody amazing and the sex I was having before fab was only mediocre, at best.

That I'm far less inhibited and shy when I'm naked than in real life with my clothes on.

That one off's with no connection are not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"that surprised you?

For me was the realisation that the older I get, the more I enjoy sex and that’s ok."

That I've got next to no patience for idiots!

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

That all women orgasm in a different way !

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

That I’m actually a lot more polite than a great deal of people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being selective can lead to wonderful things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never compromise, trust your instincts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s my school teachers were wrong as I’m not a quitter and I do put the effort in

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

That with the right person I enjoy certain kinks a lot

That I tend to the exhibitionist side

That I am not completely unattractive - ex did a real number on me mentally that way and fab has undone a lot of that damage (he’d have a FIT if he saw me on here! Plus 2nd wife apparently won’t even do bjs)

That I’m possibly poly

That I’m definitely bi

Fab is an amazing community in many ways

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