FabSwingers.com forum: Green flags.

By *imply Dee OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever

What are yours when it comes to deciding if you’re going to meet someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Biggest one has to be that they’re actually holding a conversation, if there’s some flirty back and forth that usually translates well in person

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pulse, libido, not hideous.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Fluid conversation

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

OP, amongst many things for me it has to be some synergy at the mental layer; intellectual conversation, similarities about what turns us on. Reciprocal chat based on complementing interests inside and outside of the bedroom, coupled with a beguiling sense of humour and a peppering of empathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah as others said, the ability to hold a conversation. When it's free flowing and natural, it's a good sign.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Nice tits and available hole

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Interesting ebb and flow in conversation. Plus my gut instinct.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Stimulating, easy conversation that can flow from intense to jovial without batting an eyelid. A sense of humour similar to mine. Hints of being a deep thinker and passion on any topic because I wonder what it will be like to experience their passion directed at me.

And because I'm a slow burner, the sense that there is genuine, reciprocated interest, where I feel lightly desired but not suffocated.

I really don't think I'm a swinger though, just an ENM poly slut.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Yeah as others said, the ability to hold a conversation. When it's free flowing and natural, it's a good sign."

^^^ echoing this too ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah as others said, the ability to hold a conversation. When it's free flowing and natural, it's a good sign.

^^^ echoing this too ...

What if he's not much of a conversationalist but brings cake and Jaffa Cakes?

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"Stimulating, easy conversation that can flow from intense to jovial without batting an eyelid. A sense of humour similar to mine. Hints of being a deep thinker and passion on any topic because I wonder what it will be like to experience their passion directed at me.

And because I'm a slow burner, the sense that there is genuine, reciprocated interest, where I feel lightly desired but not suffocated.

I really don't think I'm a swinger though, just an ENM poly slut.

Deep thinker? I'm out.

Winston

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

And because I'm a slow burner, the sense that there is genuine, reciprocated interest, where I feel lightly desired but not suffocated.

I really don't think I'm a swinger though, just an ENM poly slut.

Deep thinker? I'm out.

Winston "

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You don't have to be "deep", Winston. You can be shallow too. Better still, an inch deep and a mile wide.

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

The ability to have a decent non sexual conversation. Kinks that align. Sociopolitical beliefs that align

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

And because I'm a slow burner, the sense that there is genuine, reciprocated interest, where I feel lightly desired but not suffocated.

I really don't think I'm a swinger though, just an ENM poly slut.

Deep thinker? I'm out.

Winston "

Shush you. I don't want deep all the time, just sometimes it's nice to have a conversation that isn't "I really want to do x, y and z" to you". Actually most of the time when I'm not ovulating.

You're in Winston. With a little violin welcoming you.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

And because I'm a slow burner, the sense that there is genuine, reciprocated interest, where I feel lightly desired but not suffocated.

I really don't think I'm a swinger though, just an ENM poly slut.

Deep thinker? I'm out.

Winston

Shush you. I don't want deep all the time, just sometimes it's nice to have a conversation that isn't "I really want to do x, y and z" to you". Actually most of the time when I'm not ovulating.

You're in Winston. With a little violin welcoming you.

Phwoar..... top totty.

Winston

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

Able to hold my attention

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Someone who can turn my brain on as well as my body x

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

And because I'm a slow burner, the sense that there is genuine, reciprocated interest, where I feel lightly desired but not suffocated.

I really don't think I'm a swinger though, just an ENM poly slut.

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Gut instinct

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Flowing conversation, flirtatious without being pushy or crude. Shared interests - both sexual and non-sexual. Respectful. General good vibe. Or maybe that's just gut instinct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good conversation on all manner of subjects, not just sexual talk. A sense of humour and free spirit, and keeping it tasteful when any flirting starts. The one thing that will stand out to me is openness as it can quite often go hand in hand with honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And because I'm a slow burner, the sense that there is genuine, reciprocated interest, where I feel lightly desired but not suffocated."

I was going to say this exact thing, only less eloquently and with more typos. You have a fine way with words, Meli.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

And because I'm a slow burner, the sense that there is genuine, reciprocated interest, where I feel lightly desired but not suffocated.

I was going to say this exact thing, only less eloquently and with more typos. You have a fine way with words, Meli."

- an accurate depiction of my face right now. I'm rapidly developing a praise kink.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Biggest one has to be that they’re actually holding a conversation, if there’s some flirty back and forth that usually translates well in person "

This! If conversation is hard work or they’re ONLY about the sexy stuff I find that very odd putting

Flow in conversation generally means you’ll get along well otherwise in my experience

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Nice tits and available hole

Pmsl

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

They don't wear flip flops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guy asked us today if we had air conditioning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she hot? And does she think I’m hot?

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Some guy asked us today if we had air conditioning! "

Haha! This makes total sense at the moment!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Yeah as others said, the ability to hold a conversation. When it's free flowing and natural, it's a good sign.

^^^ echoing this too ...

What if he's not much of a conversationalist but brings cake and Jaffa Cakes?

But then what do you do when the cake

is finished?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour that matches mine, conversation is easy, non- judgemental, puts me at ease

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

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"Is she hot? And does she think I’m hot?

...we're ALL hot at the moment??!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is she hot? And does she think I’m hot?

...we're ALL hot at the moment??!!

Quite true. This is the perfect time to exploit this loophole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah as others said, the ability to hold a conversation. When it's free flowing and natural, it's a good sign.

^^^ echoing this too ...

What if he's not much of a conversationalist but brings cake and Jaffa Cakes?

But then what do you do when the cake

is finished?!

I didn't think that through, did I?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

If they're happy to have a social, because that's when I know. I often need time to digest how they act and what they've said in real life as opposed to a msg.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

With single ladies it's the case that if I would be delighted to take them on a date as well as having sensual erotic pleasure together, then they are under starters orders. With couples it's a case of being sufficiently self assured that I can tick their boxes as well as them ticking mine. That way more often than not it leads to repeat get togethers.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"With single ladies it's the case that if I would be delighted to take them on a date as well as having sensual erotic pleasure together, then they are under starters orders. With couples it's a case of being sufficiently self assured that I can tick their boxes as well as them ticking mine. That way more often than not it leads to repeat get togethers. "

Too often guys can really make it feel like " any hole is a goal" or " last chance lottery" kinda thing. So refreshing to hear when a fella says, like you just did, about making sure your ticking theirs but also they tick yours. I too often see here where its made out by couples that a single guy should be eternally grateful they let him join them and give them what they want during a meet without even entertaining the idea of making sure or asking a guy what he wants out of it too and isnt just a means to an end..

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