FabSwingers.com forum: One to one vanilla

By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

A rarity on Fab maybe but who still wants and enjoys a fairly vanilla one to one meet ?

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Not with me to clarify just generally!! Although i won’t say no if I get some offers !

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

I certainly do as the sensual passion is massive.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its cool as long as theres chocolate crackin sauce involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeeeee

I basically want a boyfriend experience for a night every so often

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely prefer a more vanilla meet, maybe more kinky once I'm more comfortable but there's a lot to be said for some good old vanilla.

Mrs

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Meeeeee

I basically want a boyfriend experience for a night every so often"

Lots of willing volunteers I’m sure !!

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sensual,oh yes.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site? "

I’m open to other things but still love a vanilla meet

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Sensual,oh yes."

Hence your username

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sensual,oh yes.

Hence your username "

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Sensual,oh yes.

Hence your username

Nice x message me?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site? "

Why not? Can swingers not do vanillia meets?

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site?

Why not? Can swingers not do vanillia meets? "

Cheers !

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I enjoy good vanilla with local guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site? "

Swinging is more than sticking a pineapple up your arse with pegs on her tits while both are smeared in peanut butter.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site?

Swinging is more than sticking a pineapple up your arse with pegs on her tits while both are smeared in peanut butter.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site?

Swinging is more than sticking a pineapple up your arse with pegs on her tits while both are smeared in peanut butter.

Always knew you were a filthy fucker

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I like both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ever new meet starts off as vanilla till trust is built up

That I know that I be safe with the person for rougher more kink stuff

It’s unwise to just stright on to being tied up slapped and banned word with someone you don’t know

That’s how things go wrong and people get hurt

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site?

Why not? Can swingers not do vanillia meets?

Cheers !"

Chin-chin ..its your roumd

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Ever new meet starts off as vanilla till trust is built up

That I know that I be safe with the person for rougher more kink stuff

It’s unwise to just stright on to being tied up slapped and banned word with someone you don’t know

That’s how things go wrong and people get hurt "

I cant believe the amount of messages i get from guys who think id let them tie me up , spank or whatevwr me on a first meet, or second. I wouldnt trust anyone with all the jazz untill i know them well and trust them.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Nothing wrong with a bit of vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeeeee

I basically want a boyfriend experience for a night every so often"

This is very accurately said!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I have what most people consider vanilla sex most of the time.

It's fucking lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever new meet starts off as vanilla till trust is built up

That I know that I be safe with the person for rougher more kink stuff

It’s unwise to just stright on to being tied up slapped and banned word with someone you don’t know

That’s how things go wrong and people get hurt

100% it amaze me as well that people think it be down for all that on a first or second meet

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site? "

I'm looking for sex; preferably with one man at a time, but not averse to two.

There's loads on here who fit the bill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer vanilla than kinky but there are times we prefer kinky over vanilla lol just depends on the mood

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

sorry about this what does vanilla mean.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Does make me laugh though that people adding another person for bog standard sex thinks they're not vanilla.

It's just another hole or two or an extra cock.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

There's nothing wrong with vanilla. It can be very erotic.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Ever new meet starts off as vanilla till trust is built up

That I know that I be safe with the person for rougher more kink stuff

It’s unwise to just stright on to being tied up slapped and banned word with someone you don’t know

That’s how things go wrong and people get hurt

100% it amaze me as well that people think it be down for all that on a first or second meet "

Its the main reason i havnt ticked anything on the list. There seems to be the assumption that if a box is ticked, then your up for it with them.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"sorry about this what does vanilla mean."

Plain, as in the flavour for ice cream.

People use the term who think putting a pair of handcuffs on with a butt plug in their arse while they have sex is adventurous.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

right ok thank you x

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I can’t do casual kink, so all of my meets are vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever new meet starts off as vanilla till trust is built up

That I know that I be safe with the person for rougher more kink stuff

It’s unwise to just stright on to being tied up slapped and banned word with someone you don’t know

That’s how things go wrong and people get hurt

100% it amaze me as well that people think it be down for all that on a first or second meet

Its the main reason i havnt ticked anything on the list. There seems to be the assumption that if a box is ticked, then your up for it with them. "

I normally do but this time around will be a good little test to see as I am currently in the state off mind to not re build profile as I not paying for site support so no point in throwing pics and stuff up just to lose them and need to throw months off money at it to get it back that’s they lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ever new meet starts off as vanilla till trust is built up

That I know that I be safe with the person for rougher more kink stuff

It’s unwise to just stright on to being tied up slapped and banned word with someone you don’t know

That’s how things go wrong and people get hurt "

Exactly this.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

If you ignore the fact I'm having sex with someone other than my husband I'd say all my meets are pretty vanilla

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Even if I meet a kinkster at least the first time will be fairly vanilla... But my idea of vanilla and other peoples might be very different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends on a persons definition of vanilla. I have had some meets with I considered vanilla which I have enjoyed but the other person has said after that was kinky. Xx

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, kink does absolutely nothing for me.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Yep, kink does absolutely nothing for me."

What do you define as kink?

Fisting?

Rimming?

Using toys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the vanilla sensual side.. kissing, touching, playing etc.. I do think its harder to come by though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla is old, and samey….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeeeee

I basically want a boyfriend experience for a night every so often"

Yep this for me too!

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By *oe8logsMan
over a year ago

reading

"Meeeeee

I basically want a boyfriend experience for a night every so often"

I’d love to be you boyfriend for the night xxx

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yes why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’ve ever had a vanilla sex experience. Pretty sad I know

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By *histle do nicelyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow South

Me....I can be vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love vanilla/sensual

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Swnsual is always the best. No need for all that porno stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who with, if it’s that lady who has given me they type of taking things slow kinda vibe, then yes, something like that is nice.

But then there’s the woman that’s made it clear she wants nothing but a good hard dickin’…. I’ll probably not be in a vanilla mood with the thoughts she could put in my head.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

"A rarity on Fab maybe but who still wants and enjoys a fairly vanilla one to one meet ? "

…

Yup love them

Nice and easy meets

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Underrated

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I am not here for 121 sex vanilla or otherwise... but I seem to be in the minority

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am not here for 121 sex vanilla or otherwise... but I seem to be in the minority "

You're not alone. Defo with you on that!!!

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I’m more than happy with one on one vanilla with ladies or gents. So long as there’s oodles of chemistry and passion! Everything else is a bonus.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Define vanilla -

1 on 1?

Missionary only?

One persons vanilla is another’s kinky and vice versa.

Nothing wrong with a good, honest, quality fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not sure vanilla is the right word but spending a passionate night together when there’s a connection…..yeah I’m in

J x

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By *opman121Man
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Sometimes vanilla is good if u have had a hard days work in the week ,but weekend ends are full on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes vanilla is good if u have had a hard days work in the week ,but weekend ends are full on "

If someone wants vanilla sex, I’m assuming we’re talking slow sensual etc? Then her joining me after a hard days work is probably not the best idea. … gotta release some stress somehow right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A rarity on Fab maybe but who still wants and enjoys a fairly vanilla one to one meet ? "

Me! These are the meets I’d want.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

No thanks unless he's amazing at fucking

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

It’s still some kind of interaction with another person and it can and still amazing without all the tags people attach to see these days ..

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"A rarity on Fab maybe but who still wants and enjoys a fairly vanilla one to one meet ? "

I (Mr) enjoy a "date night / evening" experience with a lady (and my wife loves sending me on them). I've enjoyed a few evenings like that with great company. I'm not averse to other meet types (far from it), but I like to have my attention focused on just one person in a relaxed setting with a slow build up then off to a hotel room. Plus I like getting to know people and again, easier for me when it's just one person to talk to.

It's a fair trade off. My wife prefers club meets with a more party type atmosphere and a group of girls if she has her way. She isn't one for mood setting environment's if that makes sense to anyone. She prefers her (or our couples) meets a bit wild.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't realise swinging had to be be about ramming hot vegetables up your arse whilst being whipped and wanked on by masked strangers?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a bit of kink, but vanilla is great if you're really into someone. If the lust and chemistry are off the scale then any little touch and caress can spark electricity. Desiring someone new, exploring their body, being desperately wanted in return.... there's no need to add to that for it to be euphoric.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like vanilla spinkles can be added later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't realise swinging had to be be about ramming hot vegetables up your arse whilst being whipped and wanked on by masked strangers?...

Well it is.

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I do....sex doesn't always have to be kinky with more than 2 people. Variety is the spice of life

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Nothing wrong with vanilla, it be be just as hot and as passionate and any form of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't realise swinging had to be be about ramming hot vegetables up your arse whilst being whipped and wanked on by masked strangers?...

Well it is.

Do they have to be organic or are wonky ones ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla is my choice, but I do enjoy a little bit of kink.

GFE is as nice idea for when you want a cuddle and sensual sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#teamvanilla I had to search this post out so yes I’ve dragged it from the archives

was going to start a separate post but did a search instead. I prefer vanilla and I don’t think it has to mean boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeee

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Vanilla is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think vanilla by way of introduction is a nice way to start. Anything else is by negotiation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A rarity on Fab maybe but who still wants and enjoys a fairly vanilla one to one meet ? "

I have a mixture of vanilla and kink in my life right now. Its great to have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site?

Swinging is more than sticking a pineapple up your arse with pegs on her tits while both are smeared in peanut butter.

Now you tell us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely very kinky, but I love vanilla too. Some of my favourite meets from Fab have been relatively vanilla.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nothing wrong with a quality spoonful of vanilla. Cleanses the palate as it were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say most of my one to one meets are vanilla.

If you class spending a few hours having a laugh and great sex together vanilla?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I do like vanilla at times x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I would say 99% of the meets I have had have been vanilla 1to1 meets... But my idea of standard and someone elses may vary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like the sensual side so yeah I can do vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's definition of vanilla can vary to the next person.

So long as there is a spark or connection between those or all concerned, what does it matter?

For me, sensuality can often be surprisingly passionate and lustful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A rarity on Fab maybe but who still wants and enjoys a fairly vanilla one to one meet ? "

Sometimes with the right person…yes.

Other times…vanilla wouldn’t be a very good description of what would happen with the person who I have fucked several times in my mind….

But I repeat, sometimes a person can have me crave something ‘vanilla’

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By *otBunsHunWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I like vanilla sometimes

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Sometimes yes. Sometimes no. It all depends.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I prescribe to an augmented view of vanilla: "enhanced vanilla". And it suits me just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is one person vanilla can be to others kinky.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site?

Swinging is more than sticking a pineapple up your arse with pegs on her tits while both are smeared in peanut butter.

Is it! Oh that explains a few things....

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site?

Why not? Can swingers not do vanillia meets? "

Was thinking the same ..

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Meee

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

"What is one person vanilla can be to others kinky.

Exactly, define kinky is it the feather or the whole chicken

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site? "

Because some like vanilla as much as something more adventurous. No written rule to say you can’t enjoy vanilla in a swinging environment.

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By *iberatedduoCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Very much depends how one feels at the time so we wouldn’t say no to vanilla. In fact it makes a refreshing change some guys are looking for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To old kinky

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Very much depends how one feels at the time so we wouldn’t say no to vanilla. In fact it makes a refreshing change some guys are looking for this. "

I do fancy a trip to Ashbourne!!

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Looking for vanilla meets? Why come to a swingers site?

Swinging is more than sticking a pineapple up your arse with pegs on her tits while both are smeared in peanut butter.

Dam! I wish someone had told me this sooner. No wonder I don't get second meets!

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

I'm a vanilla man myself

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By *lark_KentMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Deffinately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When people ask me what my kinks and fantasies are, aI shudder and eye roll

I’m definitely more vanilla than not. Think I’ve tried most things I’ve wanted to try when I was younger, ticked them off my list and not bothered about doing them again.

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By *r Mind CandyMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

As much as I adore kink sometimes I crave something a bit more vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meee! Missionary can be seriously underrated. Sometimes you just can’t beat the feeling of the other persons weight on top of you and gives the opportunity for passionate kissing too. Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeeeee

I basically want a boyfriend experience for a night every so often"

Cant see why you haven't got a boyfriend every single night cutie xx

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Meee! Missionary can be seriously underrated. Sometimes you just can’t beat the feeling of the other persons weight on top of you and gives the opportunity for passionate kissing too. Love it

I couldn’t agree more xx and a fellow midlander ! What say we discuss in more detail? Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Meeeeee

I basically want a boyfriend experience for a night every so often"

100% this with a girl

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By *ornyvirginphxWoman
over a year ago

phoenix

Me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m personally on here to explore and I’m open for most things but if I met someone who was just looking for so called normal then that wouldn’t bother me at all

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