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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Who made you the judge and jury of who is and isn’t a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it just swinging? I've seen a fair few local women who want a regular FWB

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

Says the lass looking for a solo male

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

There's lots of women only looking for 121's with single guys too, I've seen people saying they want romantic dates, exclusivity etc

Everyone uses the site in different ways

I (Mrs) don't really enjoy meeting couples, does that mean I'm not a swinger as I rarely enjoy a swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it potentially is…What about a Hotwife that meets alone 1 to 1 without her partner playing…

The site is used in so many ways, with so many different aspects of what swinging is to them.

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By *lder A Wiser Passion OP   Woman
over a year ago

morecambe

one to one fwb isnt swinging

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I have, throughout the years of reading your threads found them to be really rather judgey and abrasive.

Not everyone works in the same way, however, the only "rules" I'd say we should aim to live by within this community are ones of honesty and respect.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

parties, clubs and gang bangs would suit you.

They're awash with single men, apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have, throughout the years of reading your threads found them to be really rather judgey and abrasive.

Not everyone works in the same way, however, the only "rules" I'd say we should aim to live by within this community are ones of honesty and respect."

great response x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"one to one fwb isnt swinging"

That’s what I’m here for and that’s what I’ve found numerous times. So I’m happy with the site

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

How about you use the site in a way that suits you and let everyone else do the same .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry boss, I shall henceforth cease my 1-1 activities.

What am I allowed to do please?

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

The definition of swinging varies. In its loosest meaning, it just means casual nsa sex, which would apply to one-on-ones, or group fun. In its strictest meaning, it means couples exchanging partners, which would rule out any single person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one to one fwb isnt swinging"

Of course it can be

The dynamic of a Hotwife meeting solo would absolutely be classed as swinging.

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

If we use your logic then this should be a couples only site. You're a single woman looking to meet me so does that mean you're not a swinger?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

One to one isn't swinging.

Two to two is.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

I suppose op you could say that about anybody on here....

It's not just men b.t.w.

Does it really matter? It does not keep me awake at night.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

This site is what you want it to be and thank goodness for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I message you every time I want to do something with someone here, to see if it meets with your approval?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Because there's plenty of single women also looking for one on one. Or two on one. Three on one. You get the picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying singletons should find another site and leave the couples to it?

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By *leasureman123Man
over a year ago

Manchester

popcorn time

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Meh I don't care what others do on here. I do what I want if that makes me not a true swinger in others eyes I really couldn't give a damn .I'd rather do what I want and enjoy my journey that try and be something I'm not just to please a few who want the site to be just what they want or believe it should be.

Mind you I tend to avoid those types anyhow and they are the main reason I've been put off a lot of things I thought I wanted to explore when I joined here.

If people spent more time concentrating on their own journey that judging what others do or don't do then fab would be a way better place.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

What if it’s 121 but there’s a sex swing. Can I call that swinging or still a no?

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

We'll look at the bright side half are looking for more than one to ones. Which is a significant number still.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Hang on peeps before there is a pile on. To be fair to the OP they did say

"Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

So they've not said singles can't be on here, and I guess that it is a fair question with it being a swinging site why are there so many singles? To some I can understand why that may appear strange when you think of a swinger.

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

Assume then that you will be either leaving soon, or editing your profile where is says you are a swinger right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I have any form of ENM as "swinging".

I can't tell OP if you are a single women, or in a relationship (and if so, whwther your partner is involved or even has sight)

But I'm guessing you are looking for "single" men based on yr meets. Is that 1 on 1 or group settings? Can they be properly single or is it only taken men Yiu meet ?

In the end it's different definitions. All we can ask is openess and honesty about our situation and what we are looking for.

I'm more annoyed that it is something more like fibswingers than fabsexers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you saying singletons should find another site and leave the couples to it?"

I see what you did there.

Winston

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"one to one fwb isnt swinging"

Do you mean exclusivity between 2 people where they don’t meet outside that FWB situation, or that it can only be swinging if it involves 3 people or more?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

--But what about the couples who actually *are* looking for Single people though? That automatically makes 'Singles' swingers too, really.

I do agree that there are Single people on here who's partner's don't know what they are doing and who basically see this place as Tinder or wherever, but what can you do? As long as everyone is as honest as they can be about what they are looking for.

And of course there are also Singles who's partners do know, and Singles who's partners are Singles too. They would definitely be classes as swingers!

Fab can't really restrict sexuality any more than anyone else is able to anyway, within reason anyway. Look at the amount of CD/TV/TS on this site. It was always going to be a broad church wasn't it? Even after fabguys was created for gay men - and that's a pretty broad place too, it's loaded with CD/'s and bi-married blerks! You just can't fully contain these places. --pt

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


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Not everyone works in the same way, however, the only "rules" I'd say we should aim to live by within this community are ones of honesty and respect."

I would 100% echo this!

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

I'm confused op. You are a single woman and you have only met single men or tvs. No mf, mm, ff couples. So are none of your meets been 1 to 1???

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm mainly looking for 1 to 1

I'll wait to be shown the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have a wank using both my left and right hand individually…..is that swinging?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

In short, Fab's got the best database in town.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Judging from some green arrow research, we should not expect clarification to be forthcoming.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

What makes the other 50% “ swingers “ then?

And is the % a scientific figure or your oh so knowledgeable opinion.?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I do little swinging but I do look for enm Fwb and have found better quality matches than on the usual dating sites. This place would be rather empty if only couples were allowed to join.

Sorry not sorry

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By *orneytwoCouple
over a year ago

Not far from lichfield

Yes you are right add to that the number of men looking for men. Or TV Goes up week after week.that is just a few things that have added to the site No working. Yes every one should be having lots of fun. We think most come on the site looking for sex then after not getting it end up fucking each other.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"In short, Fab's got the best database in town."

I mean possibly. In truth I'm guessing a bit - but it seems like it's probably the case, ie for Singles and Couples alike. --pt

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I do think there's a convo about sex site vs swinging site in there somewhere, and I do think a LOT of single blokes here aren't swingers cause they just see the website as a machine to shake and hope a dirty little slut falls out (their language not mine). But yeah. 121 can be swinging. Obv.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"What if it’s 121 but there’s a sex swing. Can I call that swinging or still a no? "

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I do think there's a convo about sex site vs swinging site in there somewhere, and I do think a LOT of single blokes here aren't swingers cause they just see the website as a machine to shake and hope a dirty little slut falls out (their language not mine). But yeah. 121 can be swinging. Obv. "

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow


"I have, throughout the years of reading your threads found them to be really rather judgey and abrasive.

Not everyone works in the same way, however, the only "rules" I'd say we should aim to live by within this community are ones of honesty and respect."

Applause!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"

Not everyone works in the same way, however, the only "rules" I'd say we should aim to live by within this community are ones of honesty and respect."

This, simply this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking for 4 to 1

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

So I as a woman in a relationship am not swinging when I meet another person for sex one on one? What about when we're both in relationships with other people?

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"I do think there's a convo about sex site vs swinging site in there somewhere, and I do think a LOT of single blokes here aren't swingers cause they just see the website as a machine to shake and hope a dirty little slut falls out (their language not mine). But yeah. 121 can be swinging. Obv. "

It's fair to say that there are women who do the same.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Yes you are right add to that the number of men looking for men. Or TV Goes up week after week.that is just a few things that have added to the site No working. Yes every one should be having lots of fun. We think most come on the site looking for sex then after not getting it end up fucking each other."

Have I read that correctly.

If your a man looking for a man or TV it’s not swinging.??

Can’t swingers be gay or Bi then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the women's profiles that I've come across have all stated that they prefer one to one, are not looking for lots of partners and want regular meets with the same person. I guess everyone wants different things?

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"Judging from some green arrow research, we should not expect clarification to be forthcoming.

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You're right. I think the OP likes steering up things then stands to side and watch as people have a go at each other .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn it then, bring your sister, I'll do my best......

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

I’d prefer the partner to be around he’ll know what buttons to press as they’ve been together a while or so

I enjoy single female meets but I’d like to meet more couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hotdogs, popcorn, choc ice all at bargain cinema prices

just be kind thats what the world needs

theres enough rules foisted on us

others opinions go in the fuckit bucket

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Judging from some green arrow research, we should not expect clarification to be forthcoming.

You're right. I think the OP likes steering up things then stands to side and watch as people have a go at each other ."

To be quite frank, I don't believe that much happens.

More of a "here's what I say and that's that" without a second thought given.

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By *ltrMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging

This site is what you want it to be and thank goodness for that. "

To this

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I do think there's a convo about sex site vs swinging site in there somewhere, and I do think a LOT of single blokes here aren't swingers cause they just see the website as a machine to shake and hope a dirty little slut falls out (their language not mine). But yeah. 121 can be swinging. Obv. "

---There are female equivalents in that to be fair. And the OP didn't actually specify sex, which was something I thought. It's just that logically some Singles are obviously going to be swingers in every sense.

I don't know the OP myself, but this thread is a common frustration I think. The answer is to just try and be philosophical about what Fab really is (has naturally become, whatever), and keep sticking at it I think. --pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

I’m sure it’s been said many times above but I can’t be arsed to read the whole thread, but I’d guess it’s the same with half the single women too. Why the misandry?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I do think there's a convo about sex site vs swinging site in there somewhere, and I do think a LOT of single blokes here aren't swingers cause they just see the website as a machine to shake and hope a dirty little slut falls out (their language not mine). But yeah. 121 can be swinging. Obv.

---There are female equivalents in that to be fair. And the OP didn't actually specify sex, which was something I thought. It's just that logically some Singles are obviously going to be swingers in every sense.

I don't know the OP myself, but this thread is a common frustration I think. The answer is to just try and be philosophical about what Fab really is (has naturally become, whatever), and keep sticking at it I think. --pt"

"Half the single men..."

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"So I as a woman in a relationship am not swinging when I meet another person for sex one on one? What about when we're both in relationships with other people? "

Just a... greedy so and so.

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

Why did the OP feel they had to single out males surely the same comment (not that I agree with it in the slightest) should apply regardless of the individual’s sex?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"So I as a woman in a relationship am not swinging when I meet another person for sex one on one? What about when we're both in relationships with other people?

Just a... greedy so and so. "

Well I knew that!

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging

Says the lass looking for a solo male "

busted

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why did the OP feel they had to single out males surely the same comment (not that I agree with it in the slightest) should apply regardless of the individual’s sex? "

--Lol the OP didn't specify males, and actually hasn't either as far as I can see. -pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why did the OP feel they had to single out males surely the same comment (not that I agree with it in the slightest) should apply regardless of the individual’s sex?

--Lol the OP didn't specify males, and actually hasn't either as far as I can see. -pt"

Yes she did, thread title

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Why did the OP feel they had to single out males surely the same comment (not that I agree with it in the slightest) should apply regardless of the individual’s sex?

--Lol the OP didn't specify males, and actually hasn't either as far as I can see. -pt"

The thread title itself.

I mean, really it should read "half the single men on here ain't single" but I'll let her have her say.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why did the OP feel they had to single out males surely the same comment (not that I agree with it in the slightest) should apply regardless of the individual’s sex?

--Lol the OP didn't specify males, and actually hasn't either as far as I can see. -pt

Yes she did, thread title"

-Oh yeah!

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I disagree, nor do I care what others do on here.

If two singles play in a swinging club, that to me is swinging, they aren’t my fwb.

Or a single guy plays with only the female half of the couple, also swinging.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Good heavens above! This is a swingers' site??

I thought this was a 'Wingers' site and the "Fabs" was just an adjective.

I may as well just stick around until my site supporters' pass expires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from some green arrow research, we should not expect clarification to be forthcoming.

You're right. I think the OP likes steering up things then stands to side and watch as people have a go at each other .

To be quite frank, I don't believe that much happens.

More of a "here's what I say and that's that" without a second thought given."

I thought you were Brian?..

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

With your logic many women aren't swingers either then ,but in a fab double standard they're welcomed and encouraged .

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

What about when a single guy meets a partner of someone else, you really trying to say that's not part of swinging?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Judging from some green arrow research, we should not expect clarification to be forthcoming.

You're right. I think the OP likes steering up things then stands to side and watch as people have a go at each other .

To be quite frank, I don't believe that much happens.

More of a "here's what I say and that's that" without a second thought given.

I thought you were Brian?.."

Brian 'N' Furter

Or Frank for short

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Oh well!! Why care??

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's quite ironic that she's a single and looking for single guys as well

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"one to one fwb isnt swinging"
Who says.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

So, the site's name is wrong. Anybody bothered, apart from the sanctimonious?

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By *aintscoupleCouple
over a year ago

st helens

Whats you point tho as its Not just men is it. Half the couples are also not genuine

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By *edhead72Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham and Ashby

If your right that does mean half the people here are swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like sex....however it comes/cums

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Blimey, talk about elitist gatekeeping & ensuring people get shoved out.

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

So being single looking for a fwb on a swinger site is out of place? The trouble is to be classed as swingers you need a partner in crime to swing with. So just maybe those single women and men are looking for that fwb to share the swinging with. That's why I'm on here!

I have found some folk on here extremely abusive towards singletons without actually giving the chance. Likewise there are some abusive singletons, mainly male but not always that don't help the genuine looking to swing folk.

At the end of the day we are all on here for one thing, singletons partner up and everyone has more swingers to play with!

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By *he_Last_TitanMan
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

Your verifications suggest you meet one-to-one.

So, what’s the problem?

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By *oober698Man
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I disagree, nor do I care what others do on here.

If two singles play in a swinging club, that to me is swinging, they aren’t my fwb.

Or a single guy plays with only the female half of the couple, also swinging. "

Agree with this totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Judging from some green arrow research, we should not expect clarification to be forthcoming.

You're right. I think the OP likes steering up things then stands to side and watch as people have a go at each other .

To be quite frank, I don't believe that much happens.

More of a "here's what I say and that's that" without a second thought given.

I thought you were Brian?..

Brian 'N' Furter

Or Frank for short "

We know about the furter......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you saying singletons should find another site and leave the couples to it?"

Fabswingles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And she's got the attention she craves without replying to anyone.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

OP has a point .I mean look at me for example,I'm single, I cant swing because theres no regularity so it's not for me in the eyes of you pretty women

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

It's different things to different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another forum granade thread

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Define swingers ?

Upside down pineapples , car keys in bowl , big taches ,

Or everyday people looking at what they find comfortable with and enjoy

As long as not illegal who is to judge what a swinger is or isn’t ?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I have, throughout the years of reading your threads found them to be really rather judgey and abrasive.

Not everyone works in the same way, however, the only "rules" I'd say we should aim to live by within this community are ones of honesty and respect."

Boom!

This is absolutely correct

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Hang on peeps before there is a pile on. To be fair to the OP they did say

"Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

So they've not said singles can't be on here, and I guess that it is a fair question with it being a swinging site why are there so many singles? To some I can understand why that may appear strange when you think of a swinger.

"

There's so many singles because, although it has swingers in the title, the site encourages single people to join.

Now, that may only be so couples can have a third person join them, but we like to meet each other while we wait

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I had a m/f couple meet. They said I was their 7th attempt to get a man to turn up!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Hang on peeps before there is a pile on. To be fair to the OP they did say

"Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

So they've not said singles can't be on here, and I guess that it is a fair question with it being a swinging site why are there so many singles? To some I can understand why that may appear strange when you think of a swinger.

There's so many singles because, although it has swingers in the title, the site encourages single people to join.

Now, that may only be so couples can have a third person join them, but we like to meet each other while we wait "

What you mean the single men don't want to meet me for MFM. And they meet other women, how very dare they!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a ENM couple we look for 121 meets as well well as meets together. The ideal situation would be a single lady fwb that is happy to meet us both individually as well as together(like gold dust I know). Swinging means something different to everyone.

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By *iggingMan
over a year ago

Oldham


"I have, throughout the years of reading your threads found them to be really rather judgey and abrasive.

Not everyone works in the same way, however, the only "rules" I'd say we should aim to live by within this community are ones of honesty and respect."

This

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging

Says the lass looking for a solo male "

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Hang on peeps before there is a pile on. To be fair to the OP they did say

"Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

So they've not said singles can't be on here, and I guess that it is a fair question with it being a swinging site why are there so many singles? To some I can understand why that may appear strange when you think of a swinger.

"

She's looking for friendship and one to one meets with men.

That's not swinging either

If this isnt trolling then it's ridiculous and ironic

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

I agree singles meeting here for sex isn't swinging.

But buying crisps at a petrol station doesn't mean it's not a petrol station. People can do as they please

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Yet your veris are majoritly from single men? Go figure...

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Why does it matter what someone else is looking for if that very thing isn’t what your looking for? - I don’t get why you would concern yourself with preferences that don’t match yours - just move along x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly if you seen some of the ladies updates in my area you'd think you're on Craiglist, people bartering for goods and services. I find it amusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offttttt jesus. Look at the single fems doing as I say and not as I do.... because shes got pussy

Who the hell made you judge jury and executioner

(As others have said)

Scroll on hunni

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

I tell you something it's the single people who make the forum's fun for me, without them it would be boring as hell. What ever swinging was, is or will be as long as everyone is having fun.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one "

Ive heard thats called POF?

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By *orneytwoCouple
over a year ago

Not far from lichfield

No if people READ PROFILES if you tick the boxes message them.any couple or single female will get 100s of message every week.for every 1000 we get one person read our profile.

That is why fab is dying of SAD REALLY. But when you talk to swingers at swingers clubs that's what they are all saying.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

Not too sure if 1 to 1 isn't swinging but I have to admit this site like many others the rate of real meets is very low but as long as they don't mess us around don't care if folks only use a swingers site as another social media platform.

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Half if not more of the females are looking for that also so it's a win win

Better to just concentrate on what YOU are looking for and leave every one else alone

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

I would say many more than half I would say 80/90% are not swingers.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

.


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

Half the single guys on here are not even single!!

They list swapping as one of their interests. Swapping what exactly!!

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF? "

thought that was a dating site and tinder was the one for hook ups

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging

Half the single guys on here are not even single!!

They list swapping as one of their interests. Swapping what exactly!!"

Football stickers

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Come on peeps! Dont do as I do! Do as I say! If American site Id even suggest a Trump voter but hey, im a single so my opinion means nought here.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

thought that was a dating site and tinder was the one for hook ups"

Cheers for the tip....

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

It is the disparagement of sex workers in the profile for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this is a thread full of contentious opinions!!

Rail strike anyone?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF? "

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Swinging is just fucking, no matter how you want to put it, or how many people are involved.

Someone needed a word back in the 60s for sex with other people you aren't married to.

Makes it sound less seedy and morally wrong.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Well this is a thread full of contentious opinions!!

Rail strike anyone? "

Whats your opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its always been the same alot of couples think only they are swingers and they run the scene .... it was the same 28yrs ago as it is now .... the clubs are full of couples who think this way (not all) and its always been the same on here and other sites ...of course its all bullshit ...

swinging for most is having sex and socials with others without the commitment and that includes all ... its fun ..

the only time i think swinging is not swinging is when you get those messages that say .... hey fancy a fuck

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt"

Think you've missed the point

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging

Not too sure if 1 to 1 isn't swinging but I have to admit this site like many others the rate of real meets is very low but as long as they don't mess us around don't care if folks only use a swingers site as another social media platform. "

Ive been on other sites and find this the best all round. Thats not having a dig!I was on SH for a few years and for £15 pm! Ive had more real meets here as a single and couple that anywhere else and at a fraction of thhe cost.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this is a thread full of contentious opinions!!

Rail strike anyone?

Whats your opinion?"

I'm refraining from having one, I hear that they cause twouble

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point "

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Well this is a thread full of contentious opinions!!

Rail strike anyone?

Whats your opinion?

I'm refraining from having one, I hear that they cause twouble "

You have to even comment? Othersie whats the point in the comment unless to get your posts in like the fit bit v=clan and their steps? You want to be heard, so lets hear you.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt"

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Swinging is just fucking, no matter how you want to put it, or how many people are involved.

Someone needed a word back in the 60s for sex with other people you aren't married to.

Makes it sound less seedy and morally wrong. "

To take the singles out from it all would be like taking the ing out of swinging ..

I would never of entered the world if it was just "couple exclusive"

I mean seriously..a logt of couples here arnt "real Couples" but fwb..not that i care.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

Says the person whose profile says they are looking for men, but doesn't mention couples.

Swinging has come on a long way from the keys in a bowl period and there is lots of variety to it.

My profile doesn't say I'm looking for couples atm (it did), as I know plenty and have many good friends who are couples, but I don't know many single women. The connection with single women is a different one to couples, and to find people that are of the same mindset is much harder off this site than it is on.

Out of interest, what would you think the best way to find a partner that is into the lifestyle and swing as a couple would be? I'd have imagined it would be to meet singles who are also on a site like this.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

And how have you come up with them stats that half the men on this site aren’t swingers? Utter nonsense

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"And how have you come up with them stats that half the men on this site aren’t swingers? Utter nonsense "

Don't you know 83% of all statistics are made up on the spot, its a fact!

Source: the University of TrustMeBro

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit."

--- Which post, the OP's?

ps. not sure how there can be real hypocrisy in vegetarians eating flavoured food - which I thought was mostly meat-'shaped' and 'textured' rather than flavoured anyway? (I say 'vegetarians' rather than vegans wanting the 'taste' of meat, as I think with vegans that is surely less common. Although a vegan ex of mine did tell me once that "most" vegans are vegans for health reasons, not ethical ones. So perhaps some do want a taste of meat. I'm actually a eat meat eater myself so I'm just going by what ppl say.) --pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

That’s a bit of a dated view. It’s not the 1970s.

I find enjoyment meeting men on my own, with my husband or in clubs so this site is perfect for us J xx

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"And how have you come up with them stats that half the men on this site aren’t swingers? Utter nonsense "

She had Sidney University do a survey on it.

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By *rsmith21zMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging

That’s a bit of a dated view. It’s not the 1970s.

I find enjoyment meeting men on my own, with my husband or in clubs so this site is perfect for us J xx "

Agree it's not just a shag site lol

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Wasn't fifty shades of grey one on one.swinging can be found in any number of people whom are indulging in the art of the swingers scenes.

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit."

Yeah I don't get that either why do you still have to call it a meat name product. Change the name all together

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit.

--- Which post, the OP's?

ps. not sure how there can be real hypocrisy in vegetarians eating flavoured food - which I thought was mostly meat-'shaped' and 'textured' rather than flavoured anyway? (I say 'vegetarians' rather than vegans wanting the 'taste' of meat, as I think with vegans that is surely less common. Although a vegan ex of mine did tell me once that "most" vegans are vegans for health reasons, not ethical ones. So perhaps some do want a taste of meat. I'm actually a eat meat eater myself so I'm just going by what ppl say.) --pt "

Dpnt pick holes in my relevant argument..but if you were to..why do animal lovers what to know what meat tastes like?I sure as hell dont need beef flasvoured butternut squash?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging

That’s a bit of a dated view. It’s not the 1970s.

I find enjoyment meeting men on my own, with my husband or in clubs so this site is perfect for us J xx

Agree it's not just a shag site lol"

When I said meeting… Jx

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"And how have you come up with them stats that half the men on this site aren’t swingers? Utter nonsense

She had Sidney University do a survey on it. "
genuine then

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit.

Yeah I don't get that either why do you still have to call it a meat name product. Change the name all together "

-- Can't sausages just be a shape too honey? --pt

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit.

Yeah I don't get that either why do you still have to call it a meat name product. Change the name all together

-- Can't sausages just be a shape too honey? --pt"

Yes but then you would call them tofu flavoured pork tasting tubes?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

[Removed by poster at 21/06/22 19:36:34]

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By *hubbycheckerMan
over a year ago

Porstmouth

I swing my erection from side to side, does this count?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit.

Yeah I don't get that either why do you still have to call it a meat name product. Change the name all together

-- Can't sausages just be a shape too honey? --pt

Yes but then you would call them tofu flavoured pork tasting tubes?

"

Ok pork tasting tubes of tofu..

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

.


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging

Half the single guys on here are not even single!!

They list swapping as one of their interests. Swapping what exactly!!

Football stickers "

About the right mental age!!

Football stickers in exchange for fucking your wife!!

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

How do you suss out the proper swingers from the not proper swingers ? Secret handshake? A special tattoo?

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit.

--- Which post, the OP's?

ps. not sure how there can be real hypocrisy in vegetarians eating flavoured food - which I thought was mostly meat-'shaped' and 'textured' rather than flavoured anyway? (I say 'vegetarians' rather than vegans wanting the 'taste' of meat, as I think with vegans that is surely less common. Although a vegan ex of mine did tell me once that "most" vegans are vegans for health reasons, not ethical ones. So perhaps some do want a taste of meat. I'm actually a eat meat eater myself so I'm just going by what ppl say.) --pt

Dpnt pick holes in my relevant argument..but if you were to..why do animal lovers what to know what meat tastes like?I sure as hell dont need beef flasvoured butternut squash?"

---Honestly I've absolutely no idea what your "relevant argument" is in this post! Or even who's post it was you compared to 'vegan hypocrisy'! I do agree that Singles can be swingers though. If you don't want beef flavoured butternut sqush don't buy it. Honestly, people who rail against hypocrisy don't half make some um bizarre rants. --pt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you suss out the proper swingers from the not proper swingers ? Secret handshake? A special tattoo? "

Holding an upside down pineapple J x

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit.

Yeah I don't get that either why do you still have to call it a meat name product. Change the name all together

-- Can't sausages just be a shape too honey? --pt

Yes but then you would call them tofu flavoured pork tasting tubes?

Ok pork tasting tubes of tofu.."

-- Can a human be a honey? Or is that NOT ALLOWED! too? --pt

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit.

Yeah I don't get that either why do you still have to call it a meat name product. Change the name all together

-- Can't sausages just be a shape too honey? --pt

Yes but then you would call them tofu flavoured pork tasting tubes?

Ok pork tasting tubes of tofu..

-- Can a human be a honey? Or is that NOT ALLOWED! too? --pt"

Unfortunatly not. Honey is a product of bees. Vegetarians arnt allowed that so..

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington


"How do you suss out the proper swingers from the not proper swingers ? Secret handshake? A special tattoo?

Holding an upside down pineapple J x "
think I’ll stick to being a non proper swinger that’s just bizarre holding fruit upside down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine going on a date with someone who says that are sporty, but it turns out they don’t even like Hockey. How dare they not confirm to my definition of being sporty?!

I mean, I’m not saying they have to like Hockey, but Hocky is a sport right?

Can’t wait to share my outrage with you guys x

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

The site should be what anyone wants it to be. I mostly meet one to one and sometimes 3sum/4sum but not a true swinger in that sense of the word I guess.

I come on here to please myself and don't give a fig about what other people might think about why I'm on here. Fab is supposed to fun, swinger or no swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you suss out the proper swingers from the not proper swingers ? Secret handshake? A special tattoo?

Holding an upside down pineapple J x think I’ll stick to being a non proper swinger that’s just bizarre holding fruit upside down "

Only a pineapple.. can’t be any old fruit like say a grape now that would be bizzare xx

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Imagine going on a date with someone who says that are sporty, but it turns out they don’t even like Hockey. How dare they not confirm to my definition of being sporty?!

I mean, I’m not saying they have to like Hockey, but Hocky is a sport right?

Can’t wait to share my outrage with you guys x

"

What about beer pong? Otherwise im fu$%ed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagine going on a date with someone who says that are sporty, but it turns out they don’t even like Hockey. How dare they not confirm to my definition of being sporty?!

I mean, I’m not saying they have to like Hockey, but Hocky is a sport right?

Can’t wait to share my outrage with you guys x

What about beer pong? Otherwise im fu$%ed!"

FFS this is not a bar games website…

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"How do you suss out the proper swingers from the not proper swingers ? Secret handshake? A special tattoo? "

They wander around residential areas singing Aghadoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

Fancy a shag?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Imagine going on a date with someone who says that are sporty, but it turns out they don’t even like Hockey. How dare they not confirm to my definition of being sporty?!

I mean, I’m not saying they have to like Hockey, but Hocky is a sport right?

Can’t wait to share my outrage with you guys x

What about beer pong? Otherwise im fu$%ed!

FFS this is not a bar games website… "

But I always beat myself at solitair!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"How do you suss out the proper swingers from the not proper swingers ? Secret handshake? A special tattoo?

Holding an upside down pineapple J x think I’ll stick to being a non proper swinger that’s just bizarre holding fruit upside down

Only a pineapple.. can’t be any old fruit like say a grape now that would be bizzare xx "

I carried a watermelon.

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Imagine going on a date with someone who says that are sporty, but it turns out they don’t even like Hockey. How dare they not confirm to my definition of being sporty?!

I mean, I’m not saying they have to like Hockey, but Hocky is a sport right?

Can’t wait to share my outrage with you guys x

What about beer pong? Otherwise im fu$%ed!

FFS this is not a bar games website… "

it is to sporty spice sometimes

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"Imagine going on a date with someone who says that are sporty, but it turns out they don’t even like Hockey. How dare they not confirm to my definition of being sporty?!

I mean, I’m not saying they have to like Hockey, but Hocky is a sport right?

Can’t wait to share my outrage with you guys x

What about beer pong? Otherwise im fu$%ed!

FFS this is not a bar games website…

it is to sporty spice sometimes"

Did she beat you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you suss out the proper swingers from the not proper swingers ? Secret handshake? A special tattoo?

Holding an upside down pineapple J x think I’ll stick to being a non proper swinger that’s just bizarre holding fruit upside down

Only a pineapple.. can’t be any old fruit like say a grape now that would be bizzare xx

I carried a watermelon."

Dirty Dancing? J x

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Yes you are right add to that the number of men looking for men. Or TV Goes up week after week.that is just a few things that have added to the site No working. Yes every one should be having lots of fun. We think most come on the site looking for sex then after not getting it end up fucking each other.

Have I read that correctly.

If your a man looking for a man or TV it’s not swinging.??

Can’t swingers be gay or Bi then?"

Having just read the second nonsensical post of yours would you care to respond to the question posed..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get motion sickness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

I used to use other places, but they’ve become monetisation and commodity based sites. I like showing myself off/seeing people show themselves off, but doing so because they enjoy it. Plus, I like talking to a mix of people with different experiences, I don’t have to experience everything myself

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london


"I'm mainly looking for 1 to 1

I'll wait to be shown the door"

My bedroom door indeed

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"So should there be a separate site just for single people who only want to meet one to one

Ive heard thats called POF?

- Had POF actually really got like this? I was on it years ago and it was mainly a dating site, but perhaps a little saucier like okc. --pt

Think you've missed the point

--I mean mean meets that are primarily sexual obviously (which was still the point I assume.) -pt

All i can do is compare this post to vegans who eat dont see the hypocrassy in eating meat flavoured stuff thats not meat! Or whatever im on about..Just shut up and stoptelling people they can or cant or what they can and cant do just to suit.

Yeah I don't get that either why do you still have to call it a meat name product. Change the name all together "

Why? Surely you can enjoy the flavour, but decide you don't want to eat it anymore?

If people want it and buy it, then let them.

Same as if people want to do this site in their own way, let them.

It doesn't affect us at all, so why should it bother us?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well it potentially is…What about a Hotwife that meets alone 1 to 1 without her partner playing…

The site is used in so many ways, with so many different aspects of what swinging is to them."

Exactly

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"Why when its a swinger site half are looking for one to one when that is not swinging

Not saying folk on here have to swing but its a swinger site and one to one is not swinging"

We're not here to take part...We're here to take over

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Imagine going on a date with someone who says that are sporty, but it turns out they don’t even like Hockey. How dare they not confirm to my definition of being sporty?!

I mean, I’m not saying they have to like Hockey, but Hocky is a sport right?

Can’t wait to share my outrage with you guys x

What about beer pong? Otherwise im fu$%ed!

FFS this is not a bar games website…

it is to sporty spice sometimes

Did she beat you?"

she wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically I'm not a swinger on here but the BDSM sites are full of scamners and fantasists and I've been banned from Tinder.

I do however regularly attend swinger clubs.

I just use this site for what I cannot find in everyday life. Sometimes it pays off ;-p

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Imagine going on a date with someone who says that are sporty, but it turns out they don’t even like Hockey. How dare they not confirm to my definition of being sporty?!

I mean, I’m not saying they have to like Hockey, but Hocky is a sport right?

Can’t wait to share my outrage with you guys x

What about beer pong? Otherwise im fu$%ed!

FFS this is not a bar games website…

it is to sporty spice sometimes

Did she beat you?

she wishes"

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on my arse

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