FabSwingers.com forum: How many verifications ….?

By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

Why would they put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Depends on the content. One could totally put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm I have a few but they are mostly social meets, does that put people off?

I’ll use it to stroke my ego

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I have no issues with verifications. They don't put me off ordinarily.

However, yesterday I came across a profile with 400 verifications...and it did make me think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think there is too many?

People can get quite a few from one social or club visit alone. - If you have been doing this for sometime, you might have quite a lot then if you regularly attend them.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"42."

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You still øwe me ¹, møfø.

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

462. Fucking disgraceful!

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

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By *amannaCouple
over a year ago

tring

If they are close together yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number will never put me off.

Content and the type of people they have met can put me off.

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By *illowprincipalityWoman
over a year ago

preston

"42."

Ahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanna go where no one's gone before.

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By *ubytuesdaysTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

Its not how many; its who.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

Why would they put you off?"

Some people don’t want someone that’s had a tonne of different partners

Just asking

Some will like the fact they’ve had a tonne of experience

Each to their own

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"42."

41 all good but 42

too much ?

Why is 42 the magic number ?

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Depends on the content. One could totally put me off. "

I hear you

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I have over 300, from going to socials, hosting in clubs and obviously going to clubs.

Most are social. Some are naughty.

Doesn’t bother me what people think of it.

At least it shows I am how I am and do what I do.

I love looking at veris.

The only time I get put off is when I’ve seen some of the people they have been with. That can be really off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

94747. More than that and bareback would be out of the question.

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Hmmm I have a few but they are mostly social meets, does that put people off?

I’ll use it to stroke my ego

Oooo stroke away

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

Why would they put you off?

Some people don’t want someone that’s had a tonne of different partners

Just asking

Some will like the fact they’ve had a tonne of experience

Each to their own

Oh I agree. Loads of sexual ones and I’d be put off. We all like different things

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Don't understand them. Don't want to see them. Don't want to receive them.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I have over 300, from going to socials, hosting in clubs and obviously going to clubs.

Most are social. Some are naughty.

Doesn’t bother me what people think of it.

At least it shows I am how I am and do what I do.

I love looking at veris.

The only time I get put off is when I’ve seen some of the people they have been with. That can be really off putting.

Oh definitely

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I have no issues with verifications. They don't put me off ordinarily.

However, yesterday I came across a profile with 400 verifications...and it did make me think.

What did it make you think ?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"42.

41 all good but 42

too much ?

Why is 42 the magic number ?

Because the mice said so

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Don't understand them. Don't want to see them. Don't want to receive them. "

So why show your verification summery?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

4 maximum showing.

Don't care if they are fuck reviews or social veris.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"1.

I wanna go where no one's gone before. "

Pickard or Kirk?

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I don’t think there is too many?

People can get quite a few from one social or club visit alone. - If you have been doing this for sometime, you might have quite a lot then if you regularly attend them.

I think somebody mentioned early it’s maybe the content rather than number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 80 I think. Mostly social, club or party ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

It's not about amount really...its more about what they displaying and being proud of

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I have no issues with verifications. They don't put me off ordinarily.

However, yesterday I came across a profile with 400 verifications...and it did make me think.

What did it make you think ?

400 people can’t be wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck me! Well, you don't have to. But you two have been busy

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"94747. More than that and bareback would be out of the question."

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"1.

I wanna go where no one's gone before. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the content. One could totally put me off. "

I agree with this. I'd probably display more social ones that 1 really graphic one if I ever received it

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Its not how many; its who.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was developing an algorithm to assess the perfect amount of verifications over an amount of time. But then the ice cream van came and I got distracted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was developing an algorithm to assess the perfect amount of verifications over an amount of time. But then the ice cream van came and I got distracted. "

Did you verify him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The content of the verification and who the person has met would put me off. Obviously not naming names

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By *ememberTheName OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Don't understand them. Don't want to see them. Don't want to receive them.

So why show your verification summery? "

Play nicely

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Don't understand them. Don't want to see them. Don't want to receive them.

So why show your verification summery?

Play nicely

I wasn’t being not nice. Just asking a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was developing an algorithm to assess the perfect amount of verifications over an amount of time. But then the ice cream van came and I got distracted.

Did you verify him?

Well I got excited when he asked me if I wanted sauce on it.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"I have no issues with verifications. They don't put me off ordinarily.

However, yesterday I came across a profile with 400 verifications...and it did make me think.

What did it make you think ?

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It made me think that I need to get my arse to Grimsby, pronto!

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We've been swingers for 25 years.we go to clubs. Our veris are barely a snapshot of our lives . Veris are simply there to verify the person or persons as real. Many of ours come from social events anyway.

Either way, if someone sees an account and thinks "that's too many" then they are pretty niave don't you think? People do meets without fabs involvement. Loke i said, we just want to know if a person or persons are real. Makes no difference if its 1 or 100 veris on their account. If someone else takes issue with numbers then they're on the wrong site surely?

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By *heekyflickWoman
over a year ago

LINCOLN

I think it's kind of irrelevant how many someone has..mine are mostly social ones from clubs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been swingers for 25 years.we go to clubs. Our veris are barely a snapshot of our lives . Veris are simply there to verify the person or persons as real. Many of ours come from social events anyway.

Google: "privacy"

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No. If someone meets lots of people in a short amount of time then they definitely won’t be for me. Doesn’t mean I’m on the wrong site.

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I don’t like really graphic ones and, as other posters have said, sometimes who someone has met can be off putting too. A huge number in a short time is a bit of a red flag unless the person has been to a social or a club night.

I (and we) have had meets and not left/received a veri through mutual agreement. Each to their own, but as long as people can see I’m genuine as a single since Rich died then I’m happy with that. I’ve done more (and we did more) than my profile would suggest.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Over 20 and I might start to feel intimidated as being compared to them

But in reality I'm a quiet, thoughtful, calculated person.

So I'm unlikely to get along with a regular partygoer with dozens of veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like to see a lot of veri’s over a short period of time. It’s a put off for me.

I’d like to see more than one on my profile though!

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

"Depends on the content. One could totally put me off. "

Like me you seem to value verifications as an addition to the person's profile write-up, which is often of limited value.

Verifications give a clue to their quirks, reliability and looking at the writers whether one wants to join them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn’t a limit that sort off thinking is closed minded and shouldn’t be on here

So what if someone meet 300 2000 or 5 they still the same person

At the end off the day I am single and free to do as I please

If someone has a problem with that it’s there probable

It’s the reason I don’t show mine

As this closed mind thinking is bad around here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have more than 1, that’s too many, it’s like your a swinger or something…

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

They could be mainly cam or social veris

Or maybe the person has been on here for 10yrs collecting verifications as they go

Some people go to clubs and collect 20 veris in one night, they've likely played with nine of them and they'll all just be people they chatted to in the bar

I don't think any specific number would put me off, as others have said context is key

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Well over half of mine are from purely socials so if that puts someone off so be it! Their loss not mine

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"If you have more than 1, that’s too many, it’s like your a swinger or something…

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've turned down meets with some due to who they have met....not because of a number x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It's not quantity, its content that matters to me

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm not put off by loads of veris as could have been clubs or socials etc, I am by huge numbers of meet veris over a short period of time, also the content of them if they're overly graphic, then they're not for me either. My perogative though

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Wouldn't annoy me how many verifications someone had as its basically verifications to say someone is genuine not how many people they have been with!!

Most people don't get that! All mine are genuine verifications not one is someone I've been with!

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Inevitably some people will frequent more social events than others because they enjoy that environment not every verification means you’ve fucked that individual, plenty of people on here have friendships as well as more

Verifications like fabs are a ego boost for some, it’s nice to read what someone thinks of you, perhaps you want to share that to give an indication of how you come across in person, your kinks or what not

I think in any aspect it’s your profile you run it how you wish, if I come across something not to my taste be it a pic or explicit veris I just bypass it x

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Inevitably some people will frequent more social events than others because they enjoy that environment not every verification means you’ve fucked that individual, plenty of people on here have friendships as well as more

I think in any aspect it’s your profile you run it how you wish, if I come across something not to my taste be it a pic or explicit veris I just bypass it x"

The voice of reason and experience

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

987,438,601 verifications given on the same day is too many. Because some are almost certainly going to be fake.

Any less and I only care about content, and who they're from. If they're obviously play veris all from women the polar opposite to my shape, size, location etc, I'm going to assume that I'm not for that person. And if they're all cam veris that describe play, I'm unlikely to be interested as I don't do that.

But there are exceptions to that as well. Because I'm changeable and flighty with my hormones.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I have 9 think I am doing well lol

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

We only display social meet verifications - if you think we have too many then that’s your issue not ours

J x

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

Zero definitely puts me off if they have been on fab 3 months plus .

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By *unny-and-the-boxCouple
over a year ago

Alcester

36. Counted them myself.

Nah. O wouldn't be put off by any amount. We've had several from just social meets

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By *heekyredsoloWoman
over a year ago

bromborough

This kind of post always makes me giggle!

The swinging scene is one of acceptance and Open-mindedness…..

If you’re a club goer you can meet so many people in one evening!

Infact you could end up with 10-20 veris over the next week…

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over a year ago

"This kind of post always makes me giggle!

The swinging scene is one of acceptance and Open-mindedness…..

If you’re a club goer you can meet so many people in one evening!

Infact you could end up with 10-20 veris over the next week…

This

I have a lot of veris but only display current ones. Over half are social meets and club meets.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

We been with people with over a hundred And they are the Best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This kind of post always makes me giggle!

The swinging scene is one of acceptance and Open-mindedness…..

If you’re a club goer you can meet so many people in one evening!

Infact you could end up with 10-20 veris over the next week…

Acceptance and open mindedness.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

I'd be more put off by someone where it states they've been here more than a year without having any verifications.

That would indicate that nobody wants to meet them for some reason......

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

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there is no upper number. As I don't think for one minute it represents how many people they have met

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I’ve never liked the verification system, right from when it was introduced. I’m not an eBay item.

There were a lot of fakes before the veri system was introduced so they are useful.

I never show mine, it’s no one’s business who I meet & how often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The number will never put me off.

Content and the type of people they have met can put me off."

Same

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

Not all verifications are sex meets though. Some people can get 30 odd verifications in a week if they have attended a club or social event, the veris can soon start to stack up.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never yet seen a veri that would encourage me to ignore everything else and just meet someone based on that alone but I've seen plenty that would encourage me to avoid at all costs.

The overall number doesn't matter but numerous repeat verifications would put me off.

How many times do you have to tell everyone how amazing someone is before it starts to look like they are either struggling to convince people otherwise or there is a lot of streetlight urination going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not toooooo many. Spaced well. Depends on the whole picture of the person, what's said and who they've been with. I know it can only take one person to pass on something, but I care about my health. I'm talking about sexual meet ups, not social of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t trust verifications here some meet loads of partners and don’t swop veri’s

I know one couple who often started a new profile to start again

their verifications list was nearly in four fingers

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I do a quiz every week as a fab social, organise pre drinks before club nights and attend clubs regularly. I often have social verifications and sometimes several in the same week. I’ve been here 11 years so it ends up averaging not that many in a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone with more than one veri belongs to the streets

*including me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never liked the verification system, right from when it was introduced. I’m not an eBay item.

There were a lot of fakes before the veri system was introduced so they are useful.

I never show mine, it’s no one’s business who I meet & how often."

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

"I’ve never liked the verification system, right from when it was introduced. I’m not an eBay item.

There were a lot of fakes before the veri system was introduced so they are useful.

I never show mine, it’s no one’s business who I meet & how often."

Of course but you can see you have verifications even though you don’t display. People who have been on over a year that have none is a red flag for me

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"I’ve never liked the verification system, right from when it was introduced. I’m not an eBay item.

There were a lot of fakes before the veri system was introduced so they are useful.

I never show mine, it’s no one’s business who I meet & how often.

Of course but you can see you have verifications even though you don’t display. People who have been on over a year that have none is a red flag for me "

I reckon they should make it a tally/poll verifications....like outta 10 ...or like how we apply interests on our profile bios tick boxes lol .....

? genuine

? great sense of humour

? looks like their pics

? easy on the eye

? happy to split hotel bill

? like to meet several times etc etc

That kinda verifications would be awesome....

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

And same idea for those who aren't genuine...

? didn't turn up no message to say why...

? too quiet

? not as tall as they said they where

? noway was that fella 49

Etc etc

Then add your own at the end lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1.

I wanna go where no one's gone before. "

Single men rejoice! Your saviour has arisen...

Oh, and this woman may be able to help you also..

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm more likely to judge someone with hundreds of veris that are all social meets. Oh look they are so popular but not even kissed anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm more likely to judge someone with hundreds of veris that are all social meets. Oh look they are so popular but not even kissed anyone

They might just be private about the strangers they are fucking around with.

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By *bwgirlygirlWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I'm more likely to judge someone with hundreds of veris that are all social meets. Oh look they are so popular but not even kissed anyone

They might just be private about the strangers they are fucking around with.

They are not for me then. Prefer people to be open and honest if I'm going to be fucking them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldnt matter.

I've got 300, displaying almost 200.

I'm a social person, who attends clubs weekly (I do also work there), hosts her own events and goes to festivals. Most of mine are social and I'm bound to meet lot of people, weekly.

If it puts people off, that's their issue to deal with isn't it

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

"Don't understand them. Don't want to see them. Don't want to receive them.

So why show your verification summery?

Play nicely

I wasn’t being not nice. Just asking a question. "

Didn't know I was, but thanks.

Don't usually have profile on show, must have been feeling brave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most off putting tbh, i can see someone and think oh yeh shes tidy, then click on varies and onto their varies varis and im put off 100% rate so far

i just find them abit crass

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Frankly I’d see it as a good thing, means they person or people behind the profile seem legit and show that they actually get out there and meet people face to face in person.

Content of the verification itself, rather than the number of them is also important to consider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Above 67

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

How many is too many? Is there a finite number? One could put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't be put of by any amount of verifications I'd rather met someone I find attractive who is patient and respectful regardless of how many verifications they have

I don't think the swinging world is the place to be if you're going to judge someone based on their body count tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sed it before and say it again there is no number that would put me off

Be it socials or meets

We all ment to be like mine people here away from the stigma off the normal world

I find when people complain about this sort off thing

Exuse the language but I see it as a forum off slut shameing

Who cares if someone meet 10 or 100 or 600 for that matter

People are single they are free to do as they please if others don’t like it that’s they probably not mine

I am not going to pass up on sex with someone just because someone I don’t know 2 months down the line isn’t going to like the fact I meet 60-70-80 or 500 people

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Above 67"

...what's wrong with 69?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sed it before and say it again there is no number that would put me off

Be it socials or meets

We all ment to be like mine people here away from the stigma off the normal world

I find when people complain about this sort off thing

Exuse the language but I see it as a forum off slut shameing

Who cares if someone meet 10 or 100 or 600 for that matter

People are single they are free to do as they please if others don’t like it that’s they probably not mine

I am not going to pass up on sex with someone just because someone I don’t know 2 months down the line isn’t going to like the fact I meet 60-70-80 or 500 people "

Hear hear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I sed it before and say it again there is no number that would put me off

Be it socials or meets

We all ment to be like mine people here away from the stigma off the normal world

I find when people complain about this sort off thing

Exuse the language but I see it as a forum off slut shameing

Who cares if someone meet 10 or 100 or 600 for that matter

People are single they are free to do as they please if others don’t like it that’s they probably not mine

I am not going to pass up on sex with someone just because someone I don’t know 2 months down the line isn’t going to like the fact I meet 60-70-80 or 500 people

Hear hear!

Thanks

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Imo u can't have to many? I like collecting them! I make no excuses weather they are cam social or more! They are there for anyone to make their own mind up if I'm not for peeps all is cool move along the bus x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We have a few, some repeats, all were great fun and non of them are from closed minded, judging people.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

One never knows the true number of verifications someone has.,..you can always hide them

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

"We have a few, some repeats, all were great fun and non of them are from closed minded, judging people."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of mine are from socials.

I like to see a decent number if I'm considering meeting someone, I don't think there's "too many" but I'm not into giving, receiving or reading super graphic ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many is too many? Is there a finite number? One could put me off. "

Preferably none showing on their profile at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many is too many? Is there a finite number? One could put me off.

Preferably none showing on their profile at all. "

I agree with you.

They feel like Amazon reviews for products, for me. Dehumanising…

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

"How many is too many? Is there a finite number? One could put me off.

Preferably none showing on their profile at all.

I agree with you.

They feel like Amazon reviews for products, for me. Dehumanising…"

This. I find it off putting, rating someone on how sexy/'good'/satisfying they were. No thanks.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeah doesn't bother me like I've been verified by 84 people and showing a good 50 of those some are repeated as I've met them via social events a few times...I've literally met and played with a handful of folk who just leave me genuine verifications not detailed meets!

Most people seem to think the numbers mean the amount of meets this person has had! Which I think is ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than 1-3 a fortnight puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter how many Verifications one has , this is a Sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it really matter how many Verifications one has , this is a Sex site "

It matters to me. I don't like to see any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care about veris other peoples opinions dont bother me

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I politely ask ppl to stop verifying me after about 10

Wouldn't want to give the wrong impression...

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I assume people with lots go to clubs, as long as there’s enough to determine if the profile is the actual person is enough for me.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I skip all the webcam ones and read the in person ones...

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By *upidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Never really thought about it before.

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By *ylonattireTV/TS
over a year ago

BUXTON

Agree

Webcam ones mean nothing

30 + and not interested x

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By *hiskeyColaMan
over a year ago

Oswestry

Haha, great question! As a newbie on here my first in-person meet was with a lady who had 36 veries, and I have to be honest - yes, I was intimidated by that! He-he! I found myself a little bit shy and overwhelmed on that date (purely because of what was in my own head!), but I'm glad to say she gave me a very nice veri so thanks! x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Are too many…

I mean how many would make you think twice about meeting that person …?

How many would completely put you off

For me it's not the number, I appreciate a guy with many positive verifications but it's the content of veris that might dissuade me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won’t meet anyone without a few but it’s content really that matters.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I skip all the webcam ones and read the in person ones... "

I got cam verifications from being on here during covid times. I got a vanilla bf so the verifications stopped but I have met afew but not all wrote a verification. The ones who did have left the site since then. People need to not take things too face value. As having this doesn't make the person bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they've got a lot, I usually look to see how far back they go and their content, webcam one's for me don't count,

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Does it really matter how many Verifications one has , this is a Sex site "

But for me I like to know how others been treated by that person, how reliable and real that person is. I must admit if the verification is given by someone who been on here for ages, no profile content and only written one veri, I would be dubious.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"42."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they've got a lot, I usually look to see how far back they go and their content, webcam one's for me don't count, "

THIS for me!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Surely you take into account how many of them are from socials.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If they've got 300 meet veris after being here for a month I'm impressed by their love of living life and impressive time management skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been put off by guys with lots of "meets" (not socials) close together - I tend to think they're not for me, that's all.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Having attended my 1st social recently & waking up to 5 new veris

I can see how reg social attendees can build up quick 100s of veris in short time. Which can be a good thing shows their outgoing and fun. I don’t mind these

100s of meet to play veris on other hand, yeah can be a turn off if I’m being honest! But good thing with fab is choice

don’t like something move on to the something else

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"I'm more likely to judge someone with hundreds of veris that are all social meets. Oh look they are so popular but not even kissed anyone

I give a verification after a social meet but rarely give a verification after meeting for fun. I don’t really want to read about what other people and I’m not sharing what I did on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt say numbers of verifications would put me off more frequency and who theyve met would possibly have a bigger impact.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Most don't leave verifications anyway. Unless they just don't want anybody to know they've met me?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

69 be a shame to spoil the synchronicity

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