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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, this is something I'm considering so A can stop using the pill, she's been on it so long as it is, which isn't the best.

Just looking for responses from guys that have already had one, and their thoughts on how or if it has affected them at all?

I've spoken to the doctor, read lots of information (from medical sources not Facebook haha), but would also like to hear some anecdotal feedback.

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

3 yrs post op. Nothing changed

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By *unfriends1976Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I had one over ten years ago, apart from a little bruising and tenderness straight after, I've had no problems at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that's pretty much what everything says. Good to know. Obviously there's a tiny chance of post op issues (nothing massive), but it does seem like it's a few days/week of recuperation and life carries on as per.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I intend to get one. The last thing this world needs is a smaller and more annoying version of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, this is something I'm considering so A can stop using the pill, she's been on it so long as it is, which isn't the best.

Just looking for responses from guys that have already had one, and their thoughts on how or if it has affected them at all?

I've spoken to the doctor, read lots of information (from medical sources not Facebook haha), but would also like to hear some anecdotal feedback. "

At times the tubes connected to mine swell to 2 or three times their normal side, which is pretty uncomfortable. It does come and go, there isn’t really a way to predict it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, this is something I'm considering so A can stop using the pill, she's been on it so long as it is, which isn't the best.

Just looking for responses from guys that have already had one, and their thoughts on how or if it has affected them at all?

I've spoken to the doctor, read lots of information (from medical sources not Facebook haha), but would also like to hear some anecdotal feedback.

At times the tubes connected to mine swell to 2 or three times their normal side, which is pretty uncomfortable. It does come and go, there isn’t really a way to predict it"

Size

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I can’t remember how long it’s been since mine….7-8 years easily.

No difference from my perspective at all, and it wasn’t even painful afterwards. The sting was no worse than a badly grazed knee, it just lasted a longer.

Get some tight fitting y-fronts (as size too small usually works) to keep everything snug until healed enough and just take it easy sitting down and standing up across that period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had mine 2wks ago - mild discomfort (not as nearly as bad as a filling at the dentist) no pain after didnt need paracetamol. Mild swelling of the balls and a dull ache around the bladder area but nothing to write home about.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

My ex had it and we had no problems. Good thing too as his gf after me I would have put money on her accidentally getting pregnant.she was evil.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Had mine 2wks ago - mild discomfort (not as nearly as bad as a filling at the dentist) no pain after didnt need paracetamol. Mild swelling of the balls and a dull ache around the bladder area but nothing to write home about. "

Exactly the same as when I had mine.

No lasting issues.

My partner (at the time) not feeling they needed to be on medication was a massive benefit though. That stuff isn't nice.

Though swinging whilst not on anything isn't a risk I'd want a current partner to take lightly. The injection is meant to be a good alternative for that (stops periods too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10/15yrs ago for me, no issues at all, just some gentle paced life for a few days afterward as expected

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

The only offputting thing is the smell of burning when they corterise ur sperm tubes.

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By *yclindaveMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Had mine a year and a half ago. Not impacted drive at all.

Discomfort for about a week after but not bad at all, balls swelled and felt huge for the first few days then went back down.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just please if you do get it done, send off the samples and wait for the all clear! It can take a while to clear the sperm from your system. Sincerely, someone who worked at a clinic that performed them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone like their ex’s new partner lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes would say this 100%, thankfully not me, I know someone who had it done, 2 months later his wife was expecting again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 days post-op here, bruising gone now and in the main all fine, had a day yesterday where I had a dull ache though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had mine done around 9 years ago, i think he was a butcher as he began before i was fully numb down there which certainly made my toes curl! He stopped and waited another 5 mins, i didnt mind as there was a very hot blonde girl in the room for training reasons,

Had very bad bruising for about 2 weeks and was very sore but i think i had someone bad doing mine, im not a wimp when it comes to pain either! Most guys i know who have had it done have had no issues and gone back to work next day..... i believe they do it different now without the 2 bricks lol so you should be ok

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By *rooMan
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Had mine 29 yrs ago and never noticed anything different

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By *ender10Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I had mine nearly 20 years ago. No problems, no real difference. My wife wanted to know when the black and blueness went away, would the swelling stay lol!

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By *avedoes2017Man
over a year ago

Watford / Dorset

20 years in and all works fine and no pain. Taste has improved as well

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By *laything1966Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Had mine done about 15 years ago and please make sure that you use contraception until you have been cleared, as mine didn't work first time and I had to have a 2nd op, infact after the first time, I cracked one off in first 24 hours and had full sex day after

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Dave had it done in June 1997, local anesthetic, Caroline watching, all good.

A bit uncomfortable for a few hours, but otherwise no problem.

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By *ibson1965Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Had mine done 20 years ago, no problems only the cleaner mopping the floor in the operating theatre whilst Doc was doing the deed, it did make me laugh.

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Hi, this is something I'm considering so A can stop using the pill, she's been on it so long as it is, which isn't the best.

Just looking for responses from guys that have already had one, and their thoughts on how or if it has affected them at all?

I've spoken to the doctor, read lots of information (from medical sources not Facebook haha), but would also like to hear some anecdotal feedback. "

A friend of mine and myself both had a vasectomy in the same week. He had his under general anesthesia in one hospital. Swelled up and badly bruised,off work for 2 weeks

I had mine with a local anaesthetic in a different hospital, had no bruising or swelling and was back at work the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had a consultation with the surgeon that’s supposed to be doing mine. Didn’t get a good vibe off him so I’m cancelling it. May be a silly reason but I’m not letting someone who didn’t put me at ease handle my nether regions…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex drive is the same. Sexual hunger remained the same. It works the same. Everything is the same.

It’s not as bad as you think. The first needle stings. n that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"20 years in and all works fine and no pain. Taste has improved as well "

Ooh that's interesting, wonder if anyone else thinks that it tastes better post op.

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge and Dublin

Like, others I had mine done almost 20 years back.

I won't comment on taste, but rather my drive, or fear of thinking the post op effects would see it reduce.

Actually, it's been opposite to that, so there are some fringe benefits.

For me, not producing unwanted children has been the principal benefit.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Almost nothing to say really, got it done about 3 years ago. Op wasn't sore. I was a little tender the next day so worked from home. That's it really.

Mostly did it so Mrs Bang Bang wouldn't have to take the pill and neither of us really like condoms

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

Similar story here to many others, did it so condoms and pill could be ditched. The op was very straight forward and pretty much painless and other than a mild ache no issues post op. Absolutely love having had it done for the piece of mind that there are no mini me’s out there

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

20 years ago .. no issues, just sore for a couple of days after the op.

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By *impleSailorMan
over a year ago

the moon

No issues apart from tenderness for a few days

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I had it done about two years ago. It's never going to be a comfortable procedure, but it healed pretty quickly and it hasn't changed anything except liberating our sex life from condoms with each other. It was very worthwhile. Luke

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

I has mine 8yrs ago. Apart from soreness for a few days it was ok. Sex drive was exactly the same. Needed to cum a rediculous amount of times before giving a sample for them to check for swimmers.

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

All good here, it’s absolutely win win for us.

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