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"It's definitely not inactive as pretty much all the club events and munches are listed on there and it's how I've kept up with them in 3 different regions in the UK. I've got 181 friends on there and there's only a small handful that I haven't met in person. " It may not be easy to find and meet people, but its a great site for events and munches which is where you will eventually meet people. Otherwise this site and using filters. | |||
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"Like to try more of this" --Like people say, the other site is good for advertising gatherings and events (which can be done in the forum here too), but though on here you do have to through profiles working out who giveth and who receiveth (which I forgot to add above, and some people aren't that clear!)... it's still a better place imo because of the numbers here. And for sure it has a less cliquey feeling too (though kink can be like that of course). Imo our pics are easier to manage here and view too (though neither sites are perfect, the Aff sister-site Alt(aka Bondage) is prob best for that and camming too, but is too expensive for the amount of ppl on it imo.) So this place wins for me.-- | |||
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"Can anyone recommend a really good free or reasonably priced UK fetish site, where people actually meet. 'FetLife' is ridiculously inactive not had any luck" Fet is a networking site. Bdsm can be dangerous if not done right. Not talking about a bit of kink in bedroom. Though that can be worse. Tie in the wrong place, hit in wrong place, with wrong thing.. It is about getting know and events. Fab is good for light bdsm and kink ( though i know loads of people on both sites). If quick hook up is what you are after don't do kink. Trust is important. | |||
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"Can anyone recommend a really good free or reasonably priced UK fetish site, where people actually meet. 'FetLife' is ridiculously inactive not had any luck" How the hell did you get F..... past the filters ? Ive had more meets and made more friends there than fab tbh. True its mostly Americans on there. Alt used to be ok . | |||
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"Can anyone recommend a really good free or reasonably priced UK fetish site, where people actually meet. 'FetLife' is ridiculously inactive not had any luck How the hell did you get F..... past the filters ? Ive had more meets and made more friends there than fab tbh. True its mostly Americans on there. Alt used to be ok ." --Do Fab need to filter FL? FL is free too (with the usual pay option) so is not really a classic advert as such. Fab aren't competitive as such too. I'm on Alt as well - it's good for arranging photos and a good laugh for camming sometimes (both being free, but it costs too look at profiles), but there's a lot of North Americans on there too (made some friends of them from though.)-- | |||
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"I don't mention my kinks here and I know other people don't on their profiles. There are some kinky people here but we are all (whispers) underground . I have a FL profile but I can't get to events much so it's kinda pointless. " -Is that the London undergound? | |||
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"Can anyone recommend a really good free or reasonably priced UK fetish site, where people actually meet. 'FetLife' is ridiculously inactive not had any luck How the hell did you get F..... past the filters ? Ive had more meets and made more friends there than fab tbh. True its mostly Americans on there. Alt used to be ok . --Do Fab need to filter FL? FL is free too (with the usual pay option) so is not really a classic advert as such. Fab aren't competitive as such too. I'm on Alt as well - it's good for arranging photos and a good laugh for camming sometimes (both being free, but it costs too look at profiles), but there's a lot of North Americans on there too (made some friends of them from though.)--" Ive not looked at Alt for ages now tbh . Naming websites is banned on fab or at least gets your message blocked. There again photos have rules which i know are applied inconsistently . Munches etc and the whole bdsm community are much more accepting and non judgemental than most people on fab . It might not be a popular thing to say but its definitely true in my experience . | |||
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"I don't mention my kinks here and I know other people don't on their profiles. There are some kinky people here but we are all (whispers) underground . I have a FL profile but I can't get to events much so it's kinda pointless. -Is that the London undergound?" Shush! | |||
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"Can anyone recommend a really good free or reasonably priced UK fetish site, where people actually meet. 'FetLife' is ridiculously inactive not had any luck Fet is a networking site. Bdsm can be dangerous if not done right. Not talking about a bit of kink in bedroom. Though that can be worse. Tie in the wrong place, hit in wrong place, with wrong thing.. It is about getting know and events. Fab is good for light bdsm and kink ( though i know loads of people on both sites). If quick hook up is what you are after don't do kink. Trust is important." This. I would be very reluctant to do a lot of BDSM with someone I met off the Internet for precisely this reason. If people aren't willing to go to events, that's absolutely fine but that also tells me that their BDSM knowledge likely just comes from the Internet rather than any in person learning from experienced people and that doesn't feel safe to me. If someone can prove to me they have sought proper, private tuition as an alternative then I might consider it but it depends who that was from. | |||
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"It's definitely not inactive as pretty much all the club events and munches are listed on there and it's how I've kept up with them in 3 different regions in the UK. I've got 181 friends on there and there's only a small handful that I haven't met in person. " I would agree with this... We keep up with the Manchester/NW and London scene on there as we cover both. All just depends what you want from the site | |||
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"The number of times I just delete people who claim to know what they are talking about but just want a rough sex hookup ... Submissives definitely have a lot more sifting to do in that department but then I can't imagine it being easy for a genuine dom to find the right sub with so many women thinking they've found their kink after watching 50 shades. Anyhow good luck. I've been meaning to check out fl for a while and brave the social scene. I've always been underground with my kinks till recently " 1000% this! Definitely not easy to find your submissive as a genuine Dominant (rather than a wannabe who thinks it's all about being rough) | |||
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