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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I was on a packed train and pretty much standing for many and a lady sat with her handbags on the seat next to her preventing anyone sitting next to her.. justified or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on a packed train and pretty much standing for many and a lady sat with her handbags on the seat next to her preventing anyone sitting next to her.. justified or not?"

Not justified, and also on breach of railway byelaws.

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By *ature BBW Lover 69Man
over a year ago

exeter

That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask please may I sit there.

No drama

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman "

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her..

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

If you sat down next to her & she stunk of piss you'd be pretty keen to stand again & let her put the bags back.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not justified. Rude.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

She was well dressed and two handbags .. one black leather and one leapoard print .

I did get a seat but lots standing ..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"She was well dressed and two handbags .. one black leather and one leapoard print .

I did get a seat but lots standing .. "

Well I suppose if she'd had a red handbag then antisocial behaviour would be acceptable...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her.."

Yeah, so let's allow everyone ot claim the seat next to them, just in case they don't like someone sitting g next to them. Better still let's give everyone their own cubicle. That way we can at least halve the capacity of public transport. Then with less capacity more people will drive, pushing up greenhouse gasses. Global warming melts the ice caps and we all drown.

Move you bags bitch, or get off the damb train.

.

Thank you.

I feel better now.

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Visiting Scotland

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Dangerous buggers leopards. At least this one was skinned alive & made into a handbag. Could the black bag have been leather effect rather than real leather? Such drama.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her..

Yeah, so let's allow everyone ot claim the seat next to them, just in case they don't like someone sitting g next to them. Better still let's give everyone their own cubicle. That way we can at least halve the capacity of public transport. Then with less capacity more people will drive, pushing up greenhouse gasses. Global warming melts the ice caps and we all drown.

Move you bags bitch, or get off the damb train.

.

Thank you.

I feel better now.

"

I sometimes put them there when there's lots of space and am slow to move them. Not because I'm selfish. Because I wasn't paying attention to the people around me. When I realise people need seats I of course move them out of the way.

Please forgive me

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Visiting Scotland

Not justified when it’s busy and should have moved them when asked if she hadn’t noticed it get busy,

I do it when it’s quiet after a creepy incident during lockdown when, despite lockdown and distancing guidance, in a completely empty carriage a guy went to sit next to me, which would have effectively trapped me at the window.

She may have just taken her eye off the ball and the carriage got busier. The Edinburgh to Coventry train can go from empty to busy in just a couple of stops around Preston/Wigan/Warrington. Easy to get caught out and look like a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her..

Yeah, so let's allow everyone ot claim the seat next to them, just in case they don't like someone sitting g next to them. Better still let's give everyone their own cubicle. That way we can at least halve the capacity of public transport. Then with less capacity more people will drive, pushing up greenhouse gasses. Global warming melts the ice caps and we all drown.

Move you bags bitch, or get off the damb train.

.

Thank you.

I feel better now.

I sometimes put them there when there's lots of space and am slow to move them. Not because I'm selfish. Because I wasn't paying attention to the people around me. When I realise people need seats I of course move them out of the way.

Please forgive me "

Think of the ice caps

Wake up peoples!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her..

Yeah, so let's allow everyone ot claim the seat next to them, just in case they don't like someone sitting g next to them. Better still let's give everyone their own cubicle. That way we can at least halve the capacity of public transport. Then with less capacity more people will drive, pushing up greenhouse gasses. Global warming melts the ice caps and we all drown.

Move you bags bitch, or get off the damb train.

.

Thank you.

I feel better now.

I sometimes put them there when there's lots of space and am slow to move them. Not because I'm selfish. Because I wasn't paying attention to the people around me. When I realise people need seats I of course move them out of the way.

Please forgive me

Think of the ice caps

Wake up peoples! "

I do. I mostly walk these days. Even lower emissions!

Depending on what I've been eating, of course

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her..

Yeah, so let's allow everyone ot claim the seat next to them, just in case they don't like someone sitting g next to them. Better still let's give everyone their own cubicle. That way we can at least halve the capacity of public transport. Then with less capacity more people will drive, pushing up greenhouse gasses. Global warming melts the ice caps and we all drown.

Move you bags bitch, or get off the damb train.

.

Thank you.

I feel better now.

"

I think that rationalised it well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her..

Yeah, so let's allow everyone ot claim the seat next to them, just in case they don't like someone sitting g next to them. Better still let's give everyone their own cubicle. That way we can at least halve the capacity of public transport. Then with less capacity more people will drive, pushing up greenhouse gasses. Global warming melts the ice caps and we all drown.

Move you bags bitch, or get off the damb train.

.

Thank you.

I feel better now.

I think that rationalised it well "

I have learned from The Master

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her..

Yeah, so let's allow everyone ot claim the seat next to them, just in case they don't like someone sitting g next to them. Better still let's give everyone their own cubicle. That way we can at least halve the capacity of public transport. Then with less capacity more people will drive, pushing up greenhouse gasses. Global warming melts the ice caps and we all drown.

Move you bags bitch, or get off the damb train.

.

Thank you.

I feel better now.

I think that rationalised it well

I have learned from The Master"

I thought it might be selfish but then I thought she had her reasons

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By *iffyjeffMan
over a year ago

I'll go to town

Thank the lord it wasn't bags of beak.. jeeze

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her..

Yeah, so let's allow everyone ot claim the seat next to them, just in case they don't like someone sitting g next to them. Better still let's give everyone their own cubicle. That way we can at least halve the capacity of public transport. Then with less capacity more people will drive, pushing up greenhouse gasses. Global warming melts the ice caps and we all drown.

Move you bags bitch, or get off the damb train.

.

Thank you.

I feel better now.

I think that rationalised it well

I have learned from The Master

I thought it might be selfish but then I thought she had her reasons "

Selfish AF.

And illegal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her..

Yeah, so let's allow everyone ot claim the seat next to them, just in case they don't like someone sitting g next to them. Better still let's give everyone their own cubicle. That way we can at least halve the capacity of public transport. Then with less capacity more people will drive, pushing up greenhouse gasses. Global warming melts the ice caps and we all drown.

Move you bags bitch, or get off the damb train.

.

Thank you.

I feel better now.

I think that rationalised it well

I have learned from The Master

I thought it might be selfish but then I thought she had her reasons

Selfish AF.

And illegal"

In fact,I am calling the poluce.

Right now

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Not sure illegal...

Live and let live...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure illegal...

Live and let live..."

I'm breach of railway byelaws.

Laws.

Hence a breach is not legal.

Thus.

Illegal. WAKE UP TOM

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Not sure illegal...

Live and let live...

I'm breach of railway byelaws.

Laws.

Hence a breach is not legal.

Thus.

Illegal. WAKE UP TOM"

But it's not the crime of the century but it is usually a bit selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure illegal...

Live and let live...

I'm breach of railway byelaws.

Laws.

Hence a breach is not legal.

Thus.

Illegal. WAKE UP TOM

But it's not the crime of the century but it is usually a bit selfish "

Crime is crime.

The nation reeks of criminality.

As for bag lady... off with her head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on a packed train and pretty much standing for many and a lady sat with her handbags on the seat next to her preventing anyone sitting next to her.. justified or not?"
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totally not justified ..not now not ever., So selfish.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

This is my take.. i thought she was being selfish but nobody challenged her and I had a seat..

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Not sure illegal...

Live and let live...

I'm breach of railway byelaws.

Laws.

Hence a breach is not legal.

Thus.

Illegal. WAKE UP TOM

But it's not the crime of the century but it is usually a bit selfish

Crime is crime.

The nation reeks of criminality.

As for bag lady... off with her head"

Not a hanging offence but see this often..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is my take.. i thought she was being selfish but nobody challenged her and I had a seat.. "

She wouldn't need a seat once someone found the balls to chuck her out of the train window. And her stupid black bag. I will keep the other one though, I am rather partial to a bit of leopard print.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

She was happy in her own world.. I usually just say.. can I sit here.. but I did have a seat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was happy in her own world.. I usually just say.. can I sit here.. but I did have a seat "

Don't make excuses for her Tom.

One day train seat selfishness, the next bank robbery. Its a slippery slope and needs to be nipped in the bud. 15 years hard labour, and even that's lenient!

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"She was happy in her own world.. I usually just say.. can I sit here.. but I did have a seat

Don't make excuses for her Tom.

One day train seat selfishness, the next bank robbery. Its a slippery slope and needs to be nipped in the bud. 15 years hard labour, and even that's lenient!"

I am a kind man and wish her no ill. Perhaps idiots in the past sat next to her and made her uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She was happy in her own world.. I usually just say.. can I sit here.. but I did have a seat

Don't make excuses for her Tom.

One day train seat selfishness, the next bank robbery. Its a slippery slope and needs to be nipped in the bud. 15 years hard labour, and even that's lenient!

I am a kind man and wish her no ill. Perhaps idiots in the past sat next to her and made her uncomfortable"

That's why this country is in the state it is. A few more public transport infraction lynching in the last few years, and maybe, just maybe, gas prices wouldn't he so high. Did you think of that Tom, did you? No. You didn't.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Let's not overthink this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's not overthink this "

And that, Tom, THAT is the problem.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford


"Let's not overthink this

And that, Tom, THAT is the problem.

"

Really ?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's not overthink this

And that, Tom, THAT is the problem.

Really ?."

Yes

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It was just one seat to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't JUST one seat .... it was taking liberties. It was oppression.

Man the barricades

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It was a relatively short train journey from London to Essex. No dramas

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

Most regular commuters just walk up to the person, point at the seat and probably grunt something inaudible and that's normally enough to get the person to move their shit

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I think some people here

Are been a little judgemental with out us knowing the full facts of the case or. Bag I'm this case .as the complaintant. has stated here .

That the bag was owned by the young lady sat next to it.

The complainant. Did not have the

balls tell the young lady to move her

fucking bag as some would wish .

May I present the case for the

defence .one is not possible the

young Lady in question who from

the description. Seams to have

come home did not own said bag .

Ownership as not been

established as no other wittiness

Present. Two a lot here have jump

to the conclutions.but let me put to

you and I hope this case or bag

give us all Pause for though .

Could it be that the bag was travel

alone and rightfully held ticket for

the said seat

In this world of selfidentification.

Someone could have been

selfidentify as bag . no enquires

were made to the bag to establish

the facts .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some people here

Are been a little judgemental with out us knowing the full facts of the case or. Bag I'm this case .as the complaintant. has stated here .

That the bag was owned by the young lady sat next to it.

The complainant. Did not have the

balls tell the young lady to move her

fucking bag as some would wish .

May I present the case for the

defence .one is not possible the

young Lady in question who from

the description. Seams to have

come home did not own said bag .

Ownership as not been

established as no other wittiness

Present. Two a lot here have jump

to the conclutions.but let me put to

you and I hope this case or bag

give us all Pause for though .

Could it be that the bag was travel

alone and rightfully held ticket for

the said seat

In this world of selfidentification.

Someone could have been

selfidentify as bag . no enquires

were made to the bag to establish

the facts .

"

In that case, chuck em both out of the window.

Hey presto, two seats made available.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"I was on a packed train and pretty much standing for many and a lady sat with her handbags on the seat next to her preventing anyone sitting next to her.. justified or not?"

The other week the conductor announced over the tannoy that he would be charging a full 1st class ticket to anyone with a bag on a seat in a carriage where people were standing.

You've never seen the bags put on tracks or under seats so quickly

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

*racks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not justified. Sit on their face.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just rude! Have asked them to move so can sit down they reluctantly do move them x

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

If I want to sit down then I'll go to the seat and if they don't/won't move it I'll say to them, "is this yours",while handing it to them, and sit down.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

They should make that announcement every time on every journey .but I've heard that bags are deaf .

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

People lost their voices?

If you want to sit down a simple ‘can you move your bag please’ does the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People lost their voices?

If you want to sit down a simple ‘can you move your bag please’ does the trick. "

Literally this. Is it because we’re from down here that we feel this way? Genuinely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my bag down next to me often on trains and buses. Always pick it up if someone gets on and there’s obviously nowhere else they can sit. But in London if someone wants to sit down they have zero problems asking me to move my stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s that joke about one of the privileges of being a black guy used to be that nobody wanted to sit next to us on the train or the bus

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"That is something that boils my piss , if I see that I move the bag to allow someone else to sit down , especially for an older person or woman

Is it for women's safety tho . To stop some letch sitting next to her.."

If she’s paid for 2 seats then fair enough. If not, tough.

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d just say do you mind if I sit there

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There’s that joke about one of the privileges of being a black guy used to be that nobody wanted to sit next to us on the train or the bus "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s that joke about one of the privileges of being a black guy used to be that nobody wanted to sit next to us on the train or the bus

"

I’ve even tried putting my hood up but we’re just not as scary as we used to be

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"People lost their voices?

If you want to sit down a simple ‘can you move your bag please’ does the trick.

Literally this. Is it because we’re from down here that we feel this way? Genuinely "

It doesn’t matter where you are from, people should be able to muster that simple sentence if they really want to sit down.

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By *k_guyMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

This situation does frustrate me, a simple “can I sit there please” is more then enough to move any bags.

If someone then has an issue with it, they will be sure to get dagger eyes from other people in the carriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People lost their voices?

If you want to sit down a simple ‘can you move your bag please’ does the trick.

Literally this. Is it because we’re from down here that we feel this way? Genuinely

It doesn’t matter where you are from, people should be able to muster that simple sentence if they really want to sit down. "

No yeah I agree.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"People lost their voices?

If you want to sit down a simple ‘can you move your bag please’ does the trick. "

Failing that just sit on top of their bag

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Just ask please may I sit there.

No drama "

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"People lost their voices?

If you want to sit down a simple ‘can you move your bag please’ does the trick.

Literally this. Is it because we’re from down here that we feel this way? Genuinely

It doesn’t matter where you are from, people should be able to muster that simple sentence if they really want to sit down. "

While I'm not totally disagreeing with you, as it is a solid point... To be fair, for a lot of people these days it's often less of a hassle to just not ask people to do something like this. I've witnessed some shocking outbursts from people over the slightest inconvenience to them just from a simple request. I get why people don't ask, these days it's generally better we show what kind of person we are (considerate) than have to be asked to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only done this if it's very quiet but I always have my bag on my lap x

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

*Bing-bong*

Please can we request that passengers do not put luggage in the wheelchair accessible space and shift out of it if a wheelchair user boards? And don't stand with your arse in our faces. Or sit on our knees. Ta

*Bing-bong*

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"People lost their voices?

If you want to sit down a simple ‘can you move your bag please’ does the trick.

Literally this. Is it because we’re from down here that we feel this way? Genuinely

It doesn’t matter where you are from, people should be able to muster that simple sentence if they really want to sit down.

While I'm not totally disagreeing with you, as it is a solid point... To be fair, for a lot of people these days it's often less of a hassle to just not ask people to do something like this. I've witnessed some shocking outbursts from people over the slightest inconvenience to them just from a simple request. I get why people don't ask, these days it's generally better we show what kind of person we are (considerate) than have to be asked to be. "

Can see that side of it too. However, the more people pander to the whims of others by staying silent, the selfish want everything their way, nothing else matters only their world sods it won’t change.

So either use your voice and deal with it or be silent and let them get away with it, but don’t be on social media bitching about it when you yourself (not you K, but generally) haven’t bothered to utter a simple sentence.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"People lost their voices?

If you want to sit down a simple ‘can you move your bag please’ does the trick.

Literally this. Is it because we’re from down here that we feel this way? Genuinely

It doesn’t matter where you are from, people should be able to muster that simple sentence if they really want to sit down.

While I'm not totally disagreeing with you, as it is a solid point... To be fair, for a lot of people these days it's often less of a hassle to just not ask people to do something like this. I've witnessed some shocking outbursts from people over the slightest inconvenience to them just from a simple request. I get why people don't ask, these days it's generally better we show what kind of person we are (considerate) than have to be asked to be. "

Yeah, it'd be lovely if we return to a time when asking for basic manners is at very low risk of being met by unhinged lunatic.

I asked you to step back, not eat your young, dude, stop shouting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question is what’s in the bag. If it’s cake and sharing is caring then you’ve made a friend

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By *ood time Chris BMan
over a year ago

TAUNTON AREA


"I was on a packed train and pretty much standing for many and a lady sat with her handbags on the seat next to her preventing anyone sitting next to her.. justified or not?"

I always ask them to move their stuff so I can have the seat if they want two seats then they can pay for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was on a packed train and pretty much standing for many and a lady sat with her handbags on the seat next to her preventing anyone sitting next to her.. justified or not?"

Never justified, you should of asked her to move them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People lost their voices?

If you want to sit down a simple ‘can you move your bag please’ does the trick.

Failing that just shit on top of their bag "

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I was on a packed train and pretty much standing for many and a lady sat with her handbags on the seat next to her preventing anyone sitting next to her.. justified or not?

Never justified, you should of asked her to move them"

I can see what has happened here

I tried to defend the bag earlier

But you were in fact the lady in question and the poor man was too busy looking at your tits. He was rendered speechless.

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By *imbo59seMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk area

It's quite simple, if she hasn't got enough tickets for her and her bags, then she has to move them.

It's not only women who do this. I caught one of the last trains out of London Bridge on Christmas Eve a few years ago, standing room only. A bloke had a suitcase on the seat next to his, so I asked him if he had a ticket for it. He eventually admitted that he didn't, so I put it in the luggage rack for him (by the doors) and suggested he move to the now empty seat so a lady's young child could sit there, which he did, reluctantly (to a round of applause).

Got better further down the line, when a Revenue Officer did him for not having a ticket anyway!!

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By *eavyCummerWexfordTownMan
over a year ago

wexford town


"I was on a packed train and pretty much standing for many and a lady sat with her handbags on the seat next to her preventing anyone sitting next to her.. justified or not?"
don't like it go tell the police

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"*Bing-bong*

Please can we request that passengers do not put luggage in the wheelchair accessible space and shift out of it if a wheelchair user boards? And don't stand with your arse in our faces. Or sit on our knees. Ta

*Bing-bong*"

Bing Bong. Will the lady in the wheelchair please refrain from facing my arse...... thank you. Bing Bong

Oh ......and Bing Bong.....

Can I sit on the footrest ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I got on a train with a bloke friend a few weeks ago.

There were two seats , one with a bag on , He picked up the bag , shoved it toward a lad and said ....... This yours? and we sat down.

He said to me ......... I've always wanted to do that.

I thought ..... You only did it cos it was a young lad. If it'd been a big bloke I think it'd have been a different story.

He should have asked first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha. Legend

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London


"Just ask please may I sit there.

No drama "

This is a better way of asking - which you should in these situations - than "would you move your bag please" which to me is rather aggressive.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"*Bing-bong*

Please can we request that passengers do not put luggage in the wheelchair accessible space and shift out of it if a wheelchair user boards? And don't stand with your arse in our faces. Or sit on our knees. Ta

*Bing-bong*

Bing Bong. Will the lady in the wheelchair please refrain from facing my arse...... thank you. Bing Bong

Oh ......and Bing Bong.....

Can I sit on the footrest ?"

*Bing bong*

My footrest is broken, new one being fabricated. Would you prefer to sit on my knee?!

And kindly place your arse away from my face

*Bing bong*

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Bags on seats, feet on seats, food on seats, wet seats, you see it all on a train journey. Bags are excusable where there is no storage.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Bags on seats, feet on seats, food on seats, wet seats, you see it all on a train journey. Bags are excusable where there is no storage. "

I bring my own seat but they still make me buy a ticket

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

When I used to go on public transport that was my favourite, as that was exactly the seat I was going for and asked them to move their bags.

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham


"Just ask please may I sit there.

No drama

This is a better way of asking - which you should in these situations - than "would you move your bag please" which to me is rather aggressive."

I didn't even put a please in. Just a, can you move your bags.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

When I regularly commuted, sorry that would’ve been me. Even better if it was a pregnant lady, bag and stretched my legs out as far as possible. This whilst wearing earphones and intensely staring out of the window.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Anyone thinking that taking a bag on board gives them extra sea space should consider standing with them. Reasonable people will have removed their bags from seats, long before the carriage is near to full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just spiteful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I regularly commuted, sorry that would’ve been me. Even better if it was a pregnant lady, bag and stretched my legs out as far as possible. This whilst wearing earphones and intensely staring out of the window. "

I'd pick up your bag and but it in your lap.

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston "

Same here. Only once has someone refused to give up the priority seat. What I will say is sometimes we have asked for the priority seat when the one next to it has been empty, Sometimes we've had baffled looks as if to say why don't you just sit in that one. For people who don't understand why the reason being the priority seat is the closest and it means you don't have to climb over people's feet to get in-and-out and because the priority seat is almost always next to a pole it makes it easier to get in-and-out of the seat.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston "

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too..... "

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Bags on seats, feet on seats, food on seats, wet seats, you see it all on a train journey. Bags are excusable where there is no storage.

I bring my own seat but they still make me buy a ticket "

I don’t see why wheelchair users can’t be just towed on behind the train instead of taking up all that space in a carriage.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Bags on seats, feet on seats, food on seats, wet seats, you see it all on a train journey. Bags are excusable where there is no storage.

I bring my own seat but they still make me buy a ticket

I don’t see why wheelchair users can’t be just towed on behind the train instead of taking up all that space in a carriage. "

Oh, I'd be well up for that, especially when I sort out my new wheelchair. It has suspension

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"When I regularly commuted, sorry that would’ve been me. Even better if it was a pregnant lady, bag and stretched my legs out as far as possible. This whilst wearing earphones and intensely staring out of the window.

I'd pick up your bag and but it in your lap. "

Be careful there’s a laptop in it, could hurt me

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Same here. Only once has someone refused to give up the priority seat. What I will say is sometimes we have asked for the priority seat when the one next to it has been empty, Sometimes we've had baffled looks as if to say why don't you just sit in that one. For people who don't understand why the reason being the priority seat is the closest and it means you don't have to climb over people's feet to get in-and-out and because the priority seat is almost always next to a pole it makes it easier to get in-and-out of the seat. "

I did have one person ask why I felt entitled to sit there.

*points at sign

"Because the sign literally shows a bald man with a stick"

Winston

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I regularly commuted, sorry that would’ve been me. Even better if it was a pregnant lady, bag and stretched my legs out as far as possible. This whilst wearing earphones and intensely staring out of the window.

I'd pick up your bag and but it in your lap.

Be careful there’s a laptop in it, could hurt me "

Maybe don't put your bag on the seat then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution."

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable! "

Didn’t you bring any popcorn?

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable! "

That's horrendous!

While it's not the same my trains have space fir bikes (not during rush hour obviously because complementing different forms of sustainable transport is a whole different topic), I always try and use this bit but people often sit in those seats, there's 10 carriages and somehow the people thst always take those seats never want to move but inevitably are the ones thst moan at the cyclist in the doorway because there's no space for them in the designated area!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable!

Didn’t you bring any popcorn?"

Why would I? it's not something to watch and enjoy when someone who is simply trying to live their life and use a space designated for them is humiliated in this way.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable! "

Good god.

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By *avelovesfeetMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I always asked if they have paid for two seats. I was on one train when a guy was sat at a table with his bags in the other 3seats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always asked if they have paid for two seats. I was on one train when a guy was sat at a table with his bags in the other 3seats"

It totally irritates me that people put bags on seats but particularly on trains there isn't really anywhere to put luggage anymore. We did see someone a few weeks back and used the wheelchair area to put their bags and oh my goodness he must have had about 6 suitcases. I think if you know you are travelling with a lot of luggage you should pay for extra seats but either way it shouldn't go in the wheelchair area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable!

Good god. "

I've seen similar on buses but that's the 1st time I've seen the police have had to get involved.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable!

Good god.

I've seen similar on buses but that's the 1st time I've seen the police have had to get involved. "

But it's why people don't ask, I think. "I'm only going X stops, not worth the risk that this person is a psychopath"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable!

Good god.

I've seen similar on buses but that's the 1st time I've seen the police have had to get involved.

But it's why people don't ask, I think. "I'm only going X stops, not worth the risk that this person is a psychopath""

Problem is wheelchair users don't have an option not to ask because there isn't anywhere else for them to go.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable!

Good god.

I've seen similar on buses but that's the 1st time I've seen the police have had to get involved.

But it's why people don't ask, I think. "I'm only going X stops, not worth the risk that this person is a psychopath"

Problem is wheelchair users don't have an option not to ask because there isn't anywhere else for them to go. "

Absolutely.

We're in agreement that the solution is less psychopaths, I think. Or more people willing to stand up to them. (I do put my bag on the seat sometimes, but I move it long before the carriage or bus fills up, or as soon as I'm asked)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable!

Good god.

I've seen similar on buses but that's the 1st time I've seen the police have had to get involved.

But it's why people don't ask, I think. "I'm only going X stops, not worth the risk that this person is a psychopath"

Problem is wheelchair users don't have an option not to ask because there isn't anywhere else for them to go.

Absolutely.

We're in agreement that the solution is less psychopaths, I think. Or more people willing to stand up to them. (I do put my bag on the seat sometimes, but I move it long before the carriage or bus fills up, or as soon as I'm asked)"

I think ultimately the majority of people do move their belongings when asked to without complaint.

I think more often than not it's not people deliberately being a dick, it's just people that don't think particularly in relation to priority seating and wheelchair spaces.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'm increasingly frequenty having to use a stick to get about these days.

The amount of selfish twats who plonk themselves down in the seats earmarked for people with mobility challenges, and compound their twattery by putting their bags on the other seat is astonishing.

A polite "Excuse me, would you mind" has never failed me yet.

Winston

Prams in the wheelchair area too.....

I've seen screaming matches about the prams

It's a wheelchair space, numbnuts, move. Don't scream persecution.

I was on a train about 6 months ago when a family got one and there were 3 buggies. At the next stop a wheelchair tries to get on.

The person assisting the wheelchair user told the family they needed to move buggies.

The father started to take one of the children out of the Buggy A woman who I assume was the grandmother started screaming at the member of staff saying they have as much of a legal right to be there. When the member of staff said actually that's not true and they had 2 options they could either remove the buggies or be removed from the train. I could see the people who I assumed were the parents of the children looking embarrassed so I offered to help The grandmother wasn't having any of it. She said she would lay down in the space if necessary. By this point several other staff had boarded the track to try and reason with the woman. It was only when one of the staff radio through for the transport police that the 2 parents said they had enough and were getting off the train. So with the help of the staff they were all taken off the train but the grandmother absolutely refused. We were delayed by 45 minutes as we had to wait for the British transport police. Honestly the entitlement of some people is unbelievable!

Good god.

I've seen similar on buses but that's the 1st time I've seen the police have had to get involved.

But it's why people don't ask, I think. "I'm only going X stops, not worth the risk that this person is a psychopath"

Problem is wheelchair users don't have an option not to ask because there isn't anywhere else for them to go.

Absolutely.

We're in agreement that the solution is less psychopaths, I think. Or more people willing to stand up to them. (I do put my bag on the seat sometimes, but I move it long before the carriage or bus fills up, or as soon as I'm asked)

I think ultimately the majority of people do move their belongings when asked to without complaint.

I think more often than not it's not people deliberately being a dick, it's just people that don't think particularly in relation to priority seating and wheelchair spaces. "

Yes. But I think there's fear of confronting the people who will be or might be dicks. And blaming confrontation rather than wrongdoing. (So the wheelchair user caused confrontation and is bad rather than - psycho selfish arsehole pitched a fit for not getting what they want)

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

People seem incapable of collapsing prams when using public transport, or at least buses. Mind you, the chelsea tractor versions of prams nowadays would probably take up just as much space when folded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ask please may I sit there.

No drama "

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"People seem incapable of collapsing prams when using public transport, or at least buses. Mind you, the chelsea tractor versions of prams nowadays would probably take up just as much space when folded."

I know! Years ago we had to fold them down to get on bus! Never bothered most of time just walked! X

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

What's going on here guys ?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I keep bags on my car seats..is this OK?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's going on here guys ?"

Absolutely nothing at all. You have always had selfish people that don't consider the need of others.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

And jeez ..this is a long thread..I might have to put my heavy bag down for a minute

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I tried to move a bag of a seat once, she got proper stroppy

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