FabSwingers.com forum: Does regular mean exclusive?

By *lexV16 OP Man
over a year ago

Welling

Hi Fabbers!

Come across few profiles and chats with fabbers and found a bit of struggle and confusion with definition of regular.

For me looking for regular means having a chemistry and/or friendly bunter to meet on a regular basis for fun or social.

However it doesn’t mean exclusively. When I had regular fwb married couple I was not in active look for others obviously. However when I bumped into someone nice here or offline and we had a spark I was not hesitant at all.

What’s your definition of Regular?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No. I wouldn’t say regular means exclusive at all.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

My definition would be the same as yours OP. We like regular as it’s good to get to know someone and not to always have to be looking but we also want variety too so if someone sparks our interest then we would see where it leads.

As long as both parties know where that stand and are happy with the arrangement

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Minimum in each others presence every 3 months for me, any longer and I wouldn't class them as a frequent partner for me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it means that at all

To me it just means someone you’ll see again really

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Oh and I don't do exclusive. I like to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not to me! Regular means just that, regular but not exclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. It means somebody you see with regularity but in no way, it means exclusive

Exclusivity needs to be discussed

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

"Oh and I don't do exclusive. I like to share

Sharing is caring

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Oh and I don't do exclusive. I like to share

I don’t share my stuff

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It all depends on what you decide but meeting someone regularly does not mean that it has to be exclusive.As long as you both know where you stand then it can mean whatever suits ye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it just means we meet regular like ones or 2 times a week or month or something

Good rule off tumb on here op just assume everyone has 3 or 4 on the go at ones

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By *lexV16 OP Man
over a year ago

Welling

"Oh and I don't do exclusive. I like to share

I don’t share my stuff

I read it as I don’t share my shaft

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

No it doesn't necessarily.

It whatever the 2 people have decided between themselves.

Every situation and friendship is different

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Oh and I don't do exclusive. I like to share

I don’t share my stuff

I read it as I don’t share my shaft

. That too

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By *lexV16 OP Man
over a year ago

Welling

"No it just means we meet regular like ones or 2 times a week or month or something

Good rule off tumb on here op just assume everyone has 3 or 4 on the go at ones "

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Regular is just that in whatever way it is I prefer foot-long in a sub way kinda way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the OP on this one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular means often.

Exclusive means neither are looking to meet others.

That’s my opinion and understanding of it.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Oh and I don't do exclusive. I like to share

I don’t share my stuff

Tried nicking a piece of Scampi off your plate once ...

Never again

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

"Oh and I don't do exclusive. I like to share

I don’t share my stuff

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If it's exclusive then it's not swinging

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

No it doesn’t but depends what you decide btw you

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Oh and I don't do exclusive. I like to share

I don’t share my stuff

Tried nicking a piece of Scampi off your plate once ...

Never again

Hahahaha. NEVER touch my food

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By *lexV16 OP Man
over a year ago

Welling

"Regular means often.

Exclusive means neither are looking to meet others.

That’s my opinion and understanding of it.

Love this definition. Nice and short

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No. But I don’t share either

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Hi Fabbers!

Come across few profiles and chats with fabbers and found a bit of struggle and confusion with definition of regular.

For me looking for regular means having a chemistry and/or friendly bunter to meet on a regular basis for fun or social.

What’s your definition of Regular?

Regular means friends you can call on who you know are genuine and reliable. Exclusive means just you and one person/couple

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

Regular does not mean exclusive

I have a small handful of fwb's but non of us are exclusive to each other

Exclusivity and swinging kind of don't go hand in hand in my eyes.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Definitely not exclusive , regular is anything more than once a year, and some occasional messaging

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone you connect with and want to hook up with whenever you can. What and who they do in the meantime, is none of my business. Anyone who wants exclusivity needs to be on a dating website not here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its 2 different words like cat and dog or apple and vagina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few regular men that I meet which makes it so much easier to arrange 3sums. I have not intention of being exclusive with anyone.

I certainly don't expect them to only meet me, in fact I enjoy hearing about other meets they have had. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - I regularly have breakfast, doesnt mean thats the only meal I have.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have regular partners but we're not exclusive. I'm not in the market for monogamy, I'm very much in the market for sex on a regular basis!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Regular does not mean exclusive

I have a small handful of fwb's but non of us are exclusive to each other

Exclusivity and swinging kind of don't go hand in hand in my eyes."

Thing is you don’t have to be a swinger to be on here. I’d say 90% of my friends on here aren’t.

It may not go hand in hand to you but I’ve been here about 6 years and have always found what I wanted. When I don’t or I don’t enjoy the forums anymore then I shall leave x

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"No - I regularly have breakfast, doesnt mean thats the only meal I have.

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By *orny-chubbyMan
over a year ago

East London

I am partnered but have a regular and that’s suits me fine

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