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One thing you could change about your life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If there's one thing that you could change about once upon a time what happened in your life what would it be?

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

To have fucked that bird from the top floor.

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By *errocaWoman
over a year ago

Shropshire

It would be, don't get into that relationship that caused so much hurt and damage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish id recognised my depression earlier and spoken to someone much sooner than i did.

I wouldnt have put those closest to me through the heartache they went through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s between me and god.

Only he’s not real so just me, between me and me.

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By *eliusMan
over a year ago

Henlow

To take up those career opportunities I was offered rather than shy away and stay within my comfort zone!

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By *ig_time_CharlieMan
over a year ago

Cambridge and London

Everything I've ever done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have been brave enough to move forward instead of going back

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

I started to declutter my friends 4 years ago, and had a major clear out during covid

I don’t message or meet anyone who Will spend our time together whinging, moaning, bitching etc. I don’t want negative people bringing me down

If I could redo life id I’ve listened less to my parents and flown the nest much earlier, I wanted to do so much but was held back due to their negative beliefs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have kept my mouth shut a long time ago and saved myself a lifetime of heartache and grief

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing, good times and bad times have all been a lesson learnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have stayed single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest nothing

Yes I could go back and wipe out pain and change things and stuff

But that would have send me down a different path than I am on to day

And to be whare I am

And whare I am to day is awesome

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By *oah VailMan
over a year ago

Dover


"I'd have stayed single.

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Maybe this ^^^

But the one thing I have done in my life that I truly regret is inviting my in-laws into our home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have stayed single.

Maybe this ^^^

But the one thing I have done in my life that I truly regret is inviting my in-laws into our home. "

oh yes I did this big mistake

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Do I count as one thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Place I live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop letting my fears hold me back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have went with Helen instead of Aileen wheni had the chance of both on the same day - biggest mistake of my life, and shaped it forever! Good god, that was 30 years ago!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy. I wouldn’t apply for Loughborough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all started the day I was born

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

Wish I had followed my ex to Canada, my only regret in life I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To have fucked that bird from the top floor."

Pigeon or seagull?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I wish I had moved to France in 1989 when my French boyfriend asked me to. Life would have been so much better.

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By *moothstaffspeepsCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

Learn to identify narcissistic people and avoid relationships with them

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I'd make sure I had decent pension plans. If I had, I could retire fully tomorrow instead of having to stay on part time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go back to 1981 then go forward with more confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have not have left school early & gone to college. I actually was doing quiet well at school but thought it was great idea to get out & make money

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By *oah VailMan
over a year ago

Dover


"I'd have stayed single.

Maybe this ^^^

But the one thing I have done in my life that I truly regret is inviting my in-laws into our home.

oh yes I did this big mistake "

It’s been nearly ten years now. I’d have been out by now if I’d murdered them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd go back to 1981 then go forward with more confidence. "

Similar. I wish I'd been more comfortable in myself when I was younger. I still feel awkward but I embrace it as part of me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id go back to about 2017 and go to the west i sell my soul for the opportunity to set the universe right had i not already given it away down side is many girls would have not had the fuck of there life but its time i was selfish

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Stay slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would be, don't get into that relationship that caused so much hurt and damage. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have been single and enjoyed the freedom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would change much

I am a true believer in sliding doors

Maybe because I have no deep trauma caused by anyone or any thing, nothing really stands out

If I had been more open as a teen and been more social, my life may have been different, but I am happy, comfortable and loved, so things didn't work out too bad

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

The day that changed everything.

Don't go for a run,stay on the beach and sunbathe.

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By *anicmatchMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Not to be hit on the motorway by a 38 ton lorry whilst I was working on the hard shoulder.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I'm very happy with my lot, but I think I could have been a lot nicer to some people when I was younger.

Gbat

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I wouldn't change much other than just occasionally put myself first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd change anything, it's all been a learning curve and I've loved most if my life.

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