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Gym buff or dad bod??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats your preference??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in the middle.

I feel slightly intimidated when approached by gym fitties, as their body is better than mine

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By *wingsnroundabouts82Couple
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm lucky that I don't reaaallly have a type tbh x over kill muscles do put me off a bit unless they a really funny, nice guy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be both.

I’m the fittest fat bloke I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum bod. I ain’t got the ghey or owt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it works, it’s good enough. Especially for the over 40s. Be lovely to be more buffed, but it’s just a bit of vanity, and I don’t care enough to put in the work. Absolutely not going to blob out tho under the excuse of ‘dadbods are cool’

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By *he HandiemanMan
over a year ago

north west


"Somewhere in the middle.

I feel slightly intimidated when approached by gym fitties, as their body is better than mine "

I disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I be both.

I’m the fittest fat bloke I know."

Perfect!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Gym bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the middle.. I like them broad but cuddly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the middle.. I like them broad but cuddly."

Same. Tall is good too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“You’re not bad looking, just a bit fat” has to be the best compliment I’ve received in ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somewhere in the middle.

I feel slightly intimidated when approached by gym fitties, as their body is better than mine "

This

I also don't want to suffocate someone when clambering ontop like a walrus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love gym bunnies!!!!

But have to say that athletic/lean is my absolute fave on a guy. So not too too buff not too slim. Just the right amount x

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By *olden PoleMan
over a year ago

Kent

Some people find most things on here uninspiring....is that right.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales


"In the middle.. I like them broad but cuddly."

This is my favourite. Someone who makes me feel safe and warm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about the full package for me sexy is a state of mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somewhere in the middle.

I feel slightly intimidated when approached by gym fitties, as their body is better than mine "

I have embraced this philosophy. Never look better than the lady you are with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All about the full package for me sexy is a state of mind "

That’s true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod, I like soft flesh against me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"“You’re not bad looking, just a bit fat” has to be the best compliment I’ve received in ages "

Did you get that one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhere in between, perfectly rugged with enough strength to take control

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the middle.. I like them broad but cuddly.

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Damn it I'm cuddly and broad. So very close. Oh well.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

My gorgeous sexy Husband is a dad... so... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod

Tall

Long arms to keep you wrapped up too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the middle.. I like them broad but cuddly.

Same. Tall is good too."

This is absolute perfection

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Somewhere in the middle.

I feel slightly intimidated when approached by gym fitties, as their body is better than mine

This

I also don't want to suffocate someone when clambering ontop like a walrus."

There needs to be an emoji specifically for “Er….excuse me…?!”

Walruses must have got slim and hot since I last looked, then…..

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

Like both toned can always help me get fit whilst dad bods are great for cuddling with after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym buff

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What about the slim blokes??

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

AHH I wish I was a buff gym dudes.

My buff dudes workout plan hasn't really been kept to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying to aim somewhere in between. Some definition but not super ripped.

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We don't mind either, it's more about chemistry than body type x

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I do think there is a misconception that someone with a gym fit body prefers a partner with the same physique, not sure that is true.

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By *hroatQueen_CATV/TS
over a year ago

Carlisle

The person mainly! I like both types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somewhere in the middle.

I feel slightly intimidated when approached by gym fitties, as their body is better than mine "

I can think of two reasons their body wouldn’t be as good as yours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Looking at profiles on here I think it's all about the face than the body??

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I don't really have a type although as has been said already - I would generally avoid very gym buff types just because I would feel overly self conscious Bout my own body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somewhat happy middle. In the middle of me.

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By *ob08Man
over a year ago

Macclesfield


"What about the slim blokes??"

Havnt you heard? That doesn't exist anymore it's been "rebranded" skinny fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really have a type although as has been said already - I would generally avoid very gym buff types just because I would feel overly self conscious Bout my own body "

Standing out in the sea of red outfits Miss Elf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Somewhere in the middle.

I feel slightly intimidated when approached by gym fitties, as their body is better than mine

I can think of two reasons their body wouldn’t be as good as yours"

Ha! Thanks x

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

I'm a dad bod trying to get closer to being a gym bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the middle.. I like them broad but cuddly.

This is my favourite. Someone who makes me feel safe and warm "

Nice opinion ... Nice one .. (and I not mean your eyes.. 'cos those are beauty)

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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I'm a dad bod trying to get closer to being a gym bod"

Yeah, this is where I am. I call it athletic loose fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love gym bunnies!!!!

But have to say that athletic/lean is my absolute fave on a guy. So not too too buff not too slim. Just the right amount x "

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

My bod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but it does depend where my self confidence is at the time.

Sometimes I can feel intimidated by gym bods and think they are out if my league.

And sometimes I don’t feel that and I feel really confident in myself and accept someone with a beautifully toned physique could be attracted to me.

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By *rab74Man
over a year ago

Huntingdon

I don't really care too much how my body looks. However...

I want to be able to hold down a girl, no matter how hard she wriggles. I want to be able to bend down, put one arm round her shoulders and the other arm under her knees, and scoop her up (lifting from the knees, naturally).

I want enough mobility to scoot around on a bed or anywhere else without falling on my partner or putting my back out.I want enough cardio stamina to keep going for a while.

So I want to keep my body reasonably well exercised, because the more dad bod I get, the less I can do of all those things.

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Ummm neither, I like the women!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Both but it does depend where my self confidence is at the time.

Sometimes I can feel intimidated by gym bods and think they are out if my league.

And sometimes I don’t feel that and I feel really confident in myself and accept someone with a beautifully toned physique could be attracted to me. "
your looking fab to me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dad bod. Rippling muscles do nothing for me x

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By *orace99Man
over a year ago

York


"Mum bod. I ain’t got the ghey or owt! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about slim, reasonably defined but hasn't been to a gym for a few decades?

Mr

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By *aughty in TamworthMan
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I'm a dad bod trying to get closer to being a gym bod

Yeah, this is where I am. I call it athletic loose fit. "

Lol. I will be using that one

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By *aughtiness69Couple
over a year ago

Kinmel bay

Both

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about slim, reasonably defined but hasn't been to a gym for a few decades?

Mr"
slim guys must feel it in a body conscious world

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By *asterTheWayMan
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

What about "used to be fit but now has a pot belly that just won't fuck off"?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Gym please, though it's not the only factor in play

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My gym body is so precious I covered it with a protective layer - made from eating chocolate and bacon (not always together)

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I seem to be drawn more to gym fit (but not body builders) or slimmer guys. I had no idea that was the case for me until we started perusing Fab...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they're not too skinny any shape can look sexy. Had a skinny girl practically stabbing my pelvis with her bony ass recently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as they're not too skinny any shape can look sexy. Had a skinny girl practically stabbing my pelvis with her bony ass recently. "
I like boobs slim girls are not usually blessed

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By *mTyronMan
over a year ago

slough

Well this made me feel awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they're not too skinny any shape can look sexy. Had a skinny girl practically stabbing my pelvis with her bony ass recently. I like boobs slim girls are not usually blessed "

I can handle little boobs because they don't stab you doing doggy.

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