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"I never chat off fab with anyone who I haven't met, it's like the kiss of death because 99% of the time they just wanna use you for pics and videos for a bit of online fun and then move on to the next person and that's not my thing " ![]() | |||
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"I never chat off fab with anyone who I haven't met, it's like the kiss of death because 99% of the time they just wanna use you for pics and videos for a bit of online fun and then move on to the next person and that's not my thing " Exactly. I find it that when you move off Fab for whatever reason the interest wanes from one or both sides. So I try to keep it on here for as long as possible. If we arrange to meet, then I give my number to communicate that way. | |||
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"I never chat off fab with anyone who I haven't met, it's like the kiss of death because 99% of the time they just wanna use you for pics and videos for a bit of online fun and then move on to the next person and that's not my thing " Exactly this. Keep it on fab, if they want to meet up for a social, they will. X | |||
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"My rule of thumb, based on my own experience. If he asks for your kik instead of your WhatsApp he's not going to meet. " What part of Hackney are you in hun. I used to live in Dalston when I was younger | |||
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"My rule of thumb, based on my own experience. If he asks for your kik instead of your WhatsApp he's not going to meet. " Exactly ! ![]() | |||
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"I hav bin in fab before and met some lovely fellas but this time round it just seems a waste of time. I start chatting with someone n it seems to go well so move onto kik so can chat off here n hopefully arrange to meet up for a drink see if we fancy each other . Then nothing they go quiet. I sometimes message then to see if they still fancy meeting but get the odd oh I'm busy. I dnt know wat I'm doin wrong. " Not sure what you are doing wrong but this happens far to much on fab. | |||
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"Thanku for all your comments. I only use kik as a way of chatting off fab because I gave my number out to one fella n he was a loon. Not saying all are but just being careful. And I'm not looking for a one off I'm looking for a regular Fwb ![]() ![]() I don't blame you! An anonymous chatting app is the best option and gives you some privacy. Your phone number can link you to so much these days. | |||
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"Thanku for all your comments. I only use kik as a way of chatting off fab because I gave my number out to one fella n he was a loon. Not saying all are but just being careful. And I'm not looking for a one off I'm looking for a regular Fwb ![]() ![]() Can totally empathise. You're not alone in this. It's even more difficult to find a regular fwb. Stick with it though, good luck x | |||
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"Thanku for all your comments. I only use kik as a way of chatting off fab because I gave my number out to one fella n he was a loon. Not saying all are but just being careful. And I'm not looking for a one off I'm looking for a regular Fwb ![]() ![]() Get a fab phone lol | |||
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"dont forget its not a dating site, sounds like you might be looking for more than a quick meet" I have zero idea how you came to that conclusion or why it sounds like you're suggesting fab is for "quick meets" | |||
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"I hav bin in fab before and met some lovely fellas but this time round it just seems a waste of time. I start chatting with someone n it seems to go well so move onto kik so can chat off here n hopefully arrange to meet up for a drink see if we fancy each other . Then nothing they go quiet. I sometimes message then to see if they still fancy meeting but get the odd oh I'm busy. I dnt know wat I'm doin wrong. " I get this all the time. | |||
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"I never chat off fab with anyone who I haven't met, it's like the kiss of death because 99% of the time they just wanna use you for pics and videos for a bit of online fun and then move on to the next person and that's not my thing " That's not been my experience. I often chat on an app and it hasn't influenced whether they meet me or not. I do find and apologies to any it doesn't apply to, that younger men are much less likely to want to put in the effort that i require before meeting people-this is not excessive by any means but i want to get to know each other first . | |||
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"dont forget its not a dating site, sounds like you might be looking for more than a quick meet I have zero idea how you came to that conclusion or why it sounds like you're suggesting fab is for "quick meets"" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I never chat off fab with anyone who I haven't met, it's like the kiss of death because 99% of the time they just wanna use you for pics and videos for a bit of online fun and then move on to the next person and that's not my thing That's not been my experience. I often chat on an app and it hasn't influenced whether they meet me or not. I do find and apologies to any it doesn't apply to, that younger men are much less likely to want*to put in the effort that i require before meeting people-this is not excessive by any means but i want to get to know each other first . " *not want | |||
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"Rule number 1: Don't give them anything to wank over." this is very true | |||
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"Work a bit more on your selection process before going off Fab?" This is a solid advice. Take more time messaging on fab. You want to know that other person equals your efforts before moving further. | |||
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"It's nothing to do with you most probably! It's easy to chat over Fab as you can message at your own pace when you're in that Fab mood. But once you move to an instant messaging app, it's easy for conversation to dry up as it moves so fast. So unless you really click with that person, it will quickly die off because they've had enough sex chat from you, they're bored or they never wanted to meet in the first place and want something new and shiny. It's a good thing in a way as someone that fucks off that easily has done you a favour. You'll find someone eventually if you keep trying. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I hav bin in fab before and met some lovely fellas but this time round it just seems a waste of time. I start chatting with someone n it seems to go well so move onto kik so can chat off here n hopefully arrange to meet up for a drink see if we fancy each other . Then nothing they go quiet. I sometimes message then to see if they still fancy meeting but get the odd oh I'm busy. I dnt know wat I'm doin wrong. " And this is from a female ![]() | |||
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"My rule of thumb, based on my own experience. If he asks for your kik instead of your WhatsApp he's not going to meet. What part of Hackney are you in hun. I used to live in Dalston when I was younger " I was born and raised in Dalston. You would not recognise the place now. Its hipster central | |||
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"I never chat off fab with anyone who I haven't met, it's like the kiss of death because 99% of the time they just wanna use you for pics and videos for a bit of online fun and then move on to the next person and that's not my thing " Yes that’s exactly it! I refuse to use kik for this reason, oh and the fact that if you want to put your dick inside me….act like an adult and damn well give me your number!!!! Although have to say this site has just been horrendous of late | |||
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"Rule number 1: Don't give them anything to wank over." Just give them your rank and number nothing else. Remember men are the enemy. ![]() | |||
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"Thanku for all your comments. I only use kik as a way of chatting off fab because I gave my number out to one fella n he was a loon. Not saying all are but just being careful. And I'm not looking for a one off I'm looking for a regular Fwb ![]() ![]() . exactly this I won't give out my phone number to people I have just started chatting to .If someone doesn't like that they can move on. So far other apps have worked well for me. Some chats just fizzle out naturally and I found that not doing sex talk helps to cut out people who don't want to meet and are just on here for wank material. | |||
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"It's nothing to do with you most probably! It's easy to chat over Fab as you can message at your own pace when you're in that Fab mood. But once you move to an instant messaging app, it's easy for conversation to dry up as it moves so fast. So unless you really click with that person, it will quickly die off because they've had enough sex chat from you, they're bored or they never wanted to meet in the first place and want something new and shiny. It's a good thing in a way as someone that fucks off that easily has done you a favour. You'll find someone eventually if you keep trying. ![]() i think you have hit the nail on the head there. but also some genuine peeps may feel we have chatted for ages on fabs now she wants to chat more on kik.. shes a chatter not a meeter. | |||
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