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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many unread currently? I’m terrible and have 2574 unreads

Sozzz boys x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Umm none!

Now is a very good time to message me!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Not a one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol none

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

I can't open the front door for the piles of envelopes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 at the moment.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Funny how all the men dont seem to have a message. So its not only just me.

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By *ilkandhoneyxWoman
over a year ago

leicester

399 at the minute. i didn’t know it got that high, my inbox removes old messages now and then. it’s been as high as 800/900 before but after that it’ll remove a couple hundred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

75.... Not too shabby. Unanswered messages - all of them as I delete messages as soon as I've responded. I can never keep up and I feel like most of the guys I might have genuinely liked in my area have gotten lost in my inbox.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I suspect there might be a difference between the sexes on this topic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't open the front door for the piles of envelopes"

Lmao!! I chuckled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't open the front door for the piles of envelopes

Lmao!! I chuckled "
u defo have 1 from me lol

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

None I don't get loads of messages but it doesn't bother me

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Zero - can't stand that yellow icon!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

None... I've never been inundated like some females here. I'm guessing that's due to location? Not that I'm complaining... I couldn't cope with that much attention!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how all the men dont seem to have a message. So its not only just me. "

I just don't have any unread at the moment. I've got read messages

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Zilcho

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

8. I really should clear them as it bugs me.

They will be from people I've been chatting to, or a thank you from someone I said no thank you to.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"None... I've never been inundated like some females here. I'm guessing that's due to location? Not that I'm complaining... I couldn't cope with that much attention!"

I’m currently giving your gallery some serious attention, but I promise to do it quietly

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

None. But then it's quite easy to keep on top of as a guy.

Quite glad of that in a way, as I don't think I could leave any showing they were unread (silly OCD )

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

ZERO

And now I feel horrible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None I clear as I go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None and no read messages either lol

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not a sausage!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

8. Just blokes with attachments so we know what they’ll be.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Zero

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Funny how all the men dont seem to have a message. So its not only just me.

I just don't have any unread at the moment. I've got read messages "
Yep know where you are coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 just call me postman pat.. all my mail has been delivered

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

2257 I'm suck a slacker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 for the last few weeks which is refreshing! I've got all my filters on and I'm quite enjoying it.

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By *axx82Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0.

I get a fair amount of messages but I always read every single one of them. I hate having notifications.

I’m the type of person to not have a single red bubble thing in their phone Home Screen either. All texts and whattsapp’s read and all emails either read or deleted

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village


"0.

I get a fair amount of messages but I always read every single one of them. I hate having notifications.

I’m the type of person to not have a single red bubble thing in their phone Home Screen either. All texts and whattsapp’s read and all emails either read or deleted "

Same here, even if I know it's Google telling me the weather, have to clear it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"0.

I get a fair amount of messages but I always read every single one of them. I hate having notifications.

I’m the type of person to not have a single red bubble thing in their phone Home Screen either. All texts and whattsapp’s read and all emails either read or deleted "

Now that's productivity. I like it! You're hired! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"0.

I get a fair amount of messages but I always read every single one of them. I hate having notifications.

I’m the type of person to not have a single red bubble thing in their phone Home Screen either. All texts and whattsapp’s read and all emails either read or deleted "

U would go mad if you saw my email inbox notification on my iPhone LOL

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"How many unread currently? I’m terrible and have 2574 unreads

Sozzz boys x

"

Read em then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are these messages you speak of. I thought the icon was just for shoe lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would take me ages to count not only that they slip off the page i open the ones i want (ie reads profiles before message) then bulk delete every few days

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many unread currently? I’m terrible and have 2574 unreads

Sozzz boys x

Read em then"

I canttttt, too many even to just tap and go back

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"How many unread currently? I’m terrible and have 2574 unreads

Sozzz boys x

Read em then

I canttttt, too many even to just tap and go back "

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By *ogglesMan
over a year ago

essex and norfolk

Messages,what are they?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I read mine and usually reply, even if it’s a polite ‘ no thank you’

I think bulk deleting is abhorrently arrogant! You need to reset your filters if that’s the case!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is a message?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"0 for the last few weeks which is refreshing! I've got all my filters on and I'm quite enjoying it. "

Same.

My filters have been on for like a year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get some lovely messages from women on here. some nice conversations, some drop off the horizon but thats cool.

ive made some nice friends even those that are miles away and they stay in touch.

its nice

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I got way too many yesterday after the perfect penis thread. I'm a little scared to look in my inbox at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many unread currently? I’m terrible and have 2574 unreads

Sozzz boys x

"

Zero!

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

.

599, majority will have fallen off bottom of page.

I’m crap with fabmin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many unread currently? I’m terrible and have 2574 unreads

Sozzz boys x

"

Well I have 2575. So there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"599, majority will have fallen off bottom of page.

I’m crap with fabmin x "

It must be such a laborious task sifting through all that mail.

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london


"2257 I'm suck a slacker "

You realise that's going to trigger around 500 "I never get a reply. So rude" threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

120

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

167 xx

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

8

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

13

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"2257 I'm suck a slacker

You realise that's going to trigger around 500 "I never get a reply. So rude" threads"

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Currently a big fat zero

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"i get some lovely messages from women on here. some nice conversations, some drop off the horizon but thats cool.

ive made some nice friends even those that are miles away and they stay in touch.

its nice"

Good to see you back on the forums danger ranger xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

Owch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve put my filters on so I don’t get any from new people (as opposed to newbies, but they’re filtered too). It peaks my anxiety to see so many unread so I don’t know how I’d cope with the 1000’s that some people get. Stressing me out just thinking about it!

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Hi OP I blocked guys from messaging me at the moment so I only get the messages from those I spoken to already xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2197 and that's post-dirty delete last week... ive lost control of my fabmin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"0.

I get a fair amount of messages but I always read every single one of them. I hate having notifications.

I’m the type of person to not have a single red bubble thing in their phone Home Screen either. All texts and whattsapp’s read and all emails either read or deleted

Now that's productivity. I like it! You're hired! Lol"

Send me your phone, I’ll get read of all your messages and get rid of your red bubbles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"0.

I get a fair amount of messages but I always read every single one of them. I hate having notifications.

I’m the type of person to not have a single red bubble thing in their phone Home Screen either. All texts and whattsapp’s read and all emails either read or deleted

Now that's productivity. I like it! You're hired! Lol

Send me your phone, I’ll get read of all your messages and get rid of your red bubbles "

I need you! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"0.

I get a fair amount of messages but I always read every single one of them. I hate having notifications.

I’m the type of person to not have a single red bubble thing in their phone Home Screen either. All texts and whattsapp’s read and all emails either read or deleted

U would go mad if you saw my email inbox notification on my iPhone LOL

"

If it’s as bad as my sons I can only imagine lol.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

None. Tight filters helps keep the messages down and it suits me to not get many .

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By *ubElleWoman
over a year ago

milton keynes

8. But they are probably from when I re-opened my profile a few weeks ago and they’ll drop off the end soon. Or I could go through and check them out.

Most of my messages are from people I’m already talking to, I only get 1 or 2 new ones a day so it’s fairly easy to keep on top of! The joys of a couple profile rather than a female only one.

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By *ornyinConwyMan
over a year ago

Conwy

I have 1 unread message which I'm about to reply to, then it'll be back to the usuall 0.

I wonder who has the most unread sent messages? It's deffo gonna be a male lol

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

10. I delete messages I don't want and leave messages unread that I may want to respond to at some point when I'm in the mood.

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By *erlinhgvMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have 80

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

4! It makes me feel like I have some power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how all the men dont seem to have a message. So its not only just me. "

And you’re “fit”. Imagine how many fewer the ugly fuckers have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 2.

I don't get many because my filters are on and I currently have my profile hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently 2.

I don't get many because my filters are on and I currently have my profile hidden."

And the profile name might be divisive for many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right now one haha but in my defense I just replied to like a thousand!! I sware!!

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

None.

I have to keep up, It's compulsive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now is a good time to message me at 0

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Funny how all the men dont seem to have a message. So its not only just me. "

I don't have one either wonder if my filters have something to do with it x lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kylie, you need to bulk delete regularly like the rest of us so you don’t have inbox stress.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kylie, you need to bulk delete regularly like the rest of us so you don’t have inbox stress. "

How do you do it?? I know it deletes automatically some after some time but I don’t know how to delete in bulks ! Sendzzz help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 2, filtered up to the max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kylie, you need to bulk delete regularly like the rest of us so you don’t have inbox stress.

How do you do it?? I know it deletes automatically some after some time but I don’t know how to delete in bulks ! Sendzzz help"

Go to your messages.

Press the menu

Choose delete all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kylie, you need to bulk delete regularly like the rest of us so you don’t have inbox stress.

How do you do it?? I know it deletes automatically some after some time but I don’t know how to delete in bulks ! Sendzzz help"

In messages, too right, three little lines, delete all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kylie, you need to bulk delete regularly like the rest of us so you don’t have inbox stress.

How do you do it?? I know it deletes automatically some after some time but I don’t know how to delete in bulks ! Sendzzz help

Go to your messages.

Press the menu

Choose delete all.

"

It’s such a refreshing feeling…,,

Then it starts all over again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1,648 and I have been deleting them. Don’t want to bulk delete cos I’ll lose my friend messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me think ….. err none

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37. Mainly guys asking for phone sex... I really need to not show my verifications

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"1,648 and I have been deleting them. Don’t want to bulk delete cos I’ll lose my friend messages. "

That’s like me. It’s annoying me though. Might do a bulk delete and a status in case friends think I’ve deleted on purpose.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Hmmmmmm zero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently 2.

I don't get many because my filters are on and I currently have my profile hidden.

And the profile name might be divisive for many.

"

Quite possibly (though that's a good filter in itself, right?)

However, if I turn my filters off, I still get swarmed with messages so it doesn't seem to put many off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the one that's just come in

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

63

Shame it's not 69

Jo xx

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London


"0 for the last few weeks which is refreshing! I've got all my filters on and I'm quite enjoying it.

Same.

My filters have been on for like a year."

I've had my settings locked down ever since I joined Fab! It's soooooo peaceful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah so I have none haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 I am very very organised and delete as I go along. I dont get that many though...they don't like fatties you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"0 I am very very organised and delete as I go along. I dont get that many though...they don't like fatties you know "

Post a bbw thread vs a skinny thread and see how they like a bigger woman

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Not too bad at the moment, I did a bulk delete and upset a few I forgot to reply too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not too bad at the moment, I did a bulk delete and upset a few I forgot to reply too"

Nine taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many unread currently? I’m terrible and have 2574 unreads

Sozzz boys x

"

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many unread currently? I’m terrible and have 2574 unreads

Sozzz boys x

None"

No, nine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ocd kicks in....i cant have any unread hahahaha

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By *righton bigMan
over a year ago

Brighton


"How many unread currently? I’m terrible and have 2574 unreads

Sozzz boys x

"

One being me haha

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Only 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also crap with my inbox. Probably loads of gems lost inside it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm also crap with my inbox. Probably loads of gems lost inside it "

That I can guarantee. Lol x

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

A big fat 0

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

None, popular guy me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i sent you a couple of my private pics op for your birthday.

and guess what. you missed them.

nevermind

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

879 at present

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

0 and loving it since we’ve changed our message restrictions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of could be mine, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

52, I had a cull earlier though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i sent you a couple of my private pics op for your birthday.

and guess what. you missed them.

nevermind"

Whattt?? I didn’t see…

(I still have 3272 unreads with a peak of 4000 a few days ago lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i sent you a couple of my private pics op for your birthday.

and guess what. you missed them.

nevermind

Whattt?? I didn’t see…

(I still have 3272 unreads with a peak of 4000 a few days ago lol)"

they were good too. oh well.

how sad. nevermind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

273 xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i sent you a couple of my private pics op for your birthday.

and guess what. you missed them.

nevermind

Whattt?? I didn’t see…

(I still have 3272 unreads with a peak of 4000 a few days ago lol)

they were good too. oh well.

how sad. nevermind"

U piss taker

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By *ailingSwagmanMan
over a year ago

North Essex / Midlands / Southcoast

Nil Points... three leaky dick picture messages deleted today

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Zero as normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

26.

But I don't get that many messages compared to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i sent you a couple of my private pics op for your birthday.

and guess what. you missed them.

nevermind

Whattt?? I didn’t see…

(I still have 3272 unreads with a peak of 4000 a few days ago lol)

they were good too. oh well.

how sad. nevermind

U piss taker "

when you find them dont forget to tell me what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All most 3k no way I get 1 unread and I have a cheeky smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

873

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

2. Looks like cock pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh 1 now as a result of this thread. Might keep it unread too to make it special

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Zero

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By *leanor1717Woman
over a year ago

Gillingham

I've got it down to 57

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I've got it down to 57 "

Make it 58

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"26.

But I don't get that many messages compared to some. "

I suppose you won't if your profile is hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only 149!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone just bulk delete sometimes

It can be daunting…..

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Woo hoo! I'm down to 1485

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2. Looks like cock pics "
you can forward them to me.. cheers

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

What are these messages that people keep talking about?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"What are these messages that people keep talking about? "

They're the things I send you that you keep deleting unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are these messages that people keep talking about? "

You sir should be swamped

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I have 27 unread messages.....

.

In my sentence box. Pfffffft.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I had 2 earlier. I wasn't sure what the protocol was as they usually come in weeks apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1!

And that was from myself on a fake account.

#winning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1!

And that was from myself on a fake account.

#winning "

You're only winning, if you ignore it and then delete without reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1!

And that was from myself on a fake account.

#winning

You're only winning, if you ignore it and then delete without reading "

Sound advice. Send me one and I will Practice?

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By *othicslaveCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

None, I read and reply to all, when I can as like most we have commitments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are these messages that people keep talking about? "

They get delivered by pigeons...look up and you might see one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1!

And that was from myself on a fake account.

#winning

You're only winning, if you ignore it and then delete without reading

Sound advice. Send me one and I will Practice? "

Let me guess, with a pair of blue pants attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually 3 unread ...by choice tho, not I ignore anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1!

And that was from myself on a fake account.

#winning

You're only winning, if you ignore it and then delete without reading

Sound advice. Send me one and I will Practice?

Let me guess, with a pair of blue pants attached "

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero unread messages. I don't get inundated with messages like lots of people do and I am rather good at maintaining my inbox.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zero unread messages. I don't get inundated with messages like lots of people do and I am rather good at maintaining my inbox.

NBVN x"

And a very pretty (in)box it is too x

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Zero unread messages. I don't get inundated with messages like lots of people do and I am rather good at maintaining my inbox.

NBVN x

And a very pretty (in)box it is too x "

you could eat your dinner off that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zero unread messages. I don't get inundated with messages like lots of people do and I am rather good at maintaining my inbox.

NBVN x

And a very pretty (in)box it is too x

you could eat your dinner off that "

Haha indeed

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zero unread messages. I don't get inundated with messages like lots of people do and I am rather good at maintaining my inbox.

NBVN x

And a very pretty (in)box it is too x

you could eat your dinner off that "

I wouldn’t be concerned with dinner, my friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zero unread messages. I don't get inundated with messages like lots of people do and I am rather good at maintaining my inbox.

NBVN x

And a very pretty (in)box it is too x "

Thank you my darling

NBVN x

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By *lamorousBeautyLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

A few to zero at any given time - I do not get that many messages, perhaps a few real messages per week and a couple of spam messages per day (I clear spam regularly so do not know the real count of those).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women can't message me as per my filter

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By *ushLaurWoman
over a year ago

Solihull


"None... I've never been inundated like some females here. I'm guessing that's due to location? Not that I'm complaining... I couldn't cope with that much attention!"

How? You’re stunning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None! Think I've blocked nearly every guy on here that's why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0 - usual unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None! Think I've blocked nearly every guy on here that's why "

I will save you the trouble!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

7.

Some unsolicited guys.

Some conversations that I need to reply too.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Far too many to count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None! Think I've blocked nearly every guy on here that's why

I will save you the trouble! "

Lol

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By *nkforthekinkMan
over a year ago

london/fareham/brighton

1 and it’s site admin wanting another £5

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By *ushLaurWoman
over a year ago

Solihull

Zero - I read every message. If they have read my profile & followed my simple advice I will reply. If it’s Hi with a cock pic then they get deleted.

I like to stay on top of it every day, it’s my OCD, I’m the same with my emails & other messages, it’s my thing lol

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Zero unread messages. I don't get inundated with messages like lots of people do and I am rather good at maintaining my inbox.

NBVN x"

That's because your far too good looking, it intimidates them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zero - I read every message. If they have read my profile & followed my simple advice I will reply. If it’s Hi with a cock pic then they get deleted.

I like to stay on top of it every day, it’s my OCD, I’m the same with my emails & other messages, it’s my thing lol "

I’m Going to test this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zero unread messages. I don't get inundated with messages like lots of people do and I am rather good at maintaining my inbox.

NBVN x

That's because your far too good looking, it intimidates them. "

No way, I flipping hope not anyway

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 6 and all from much younger males( under 35) and will delete as not interested in meetimg males under 40.

I don't get many messages which is fine with me.

If I'm interested then I will reply

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Currently 6 and all from much younger males( under 35) and will delete as not interested in meetimg males under 40.

I don't get many messages which is fine with me.

If I'm interested then I will reply "

If you have filters I thought you would not get any messages from your set age limit? Am I missing something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You lot get messages?

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By *ookingforfun9970Man
over a year ago

nearby

43

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Currently 6 and all from much younger males( under 35) and will delete as not interested in meetimg males under 40.

I don't get many messages which is fine with me.

If I'm interested then I will reply

If you have filters I thought you would not get any messages from your set age limit? Am I missing something "

I have no filters set and yes perhaps I should.

If I did my inbox would be empty.

I view their pictures and then delete in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any. I'm all up to date on my messages

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

9. I'll get round to deleting them all eventually!

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By *r lotharioMan
over a year ago

newcastle-under-lyme

absolutely zero, always answer the odd one i get lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drum roll.....none..thats none unread...thats also none received..thats life

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