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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do they actually exist? I've been on fab for a long time now, still no joy, where am i going wrong? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep.

well i can't speak for everyone.. but i am real Px

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yep.

well i can't speak for everyone.. but i am real Px "

How are you finding the search for said females on fab? Xx

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

They are very rare, we haven't met any for years.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

scattered around surely

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I know a couple

LvM

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth

I'm genuine and definitely single! it is difficult so I share your pain! They either tend to have a secret partner or a fwb that appears after chatting a while or they live so far away

I remain hopeful though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They are either very rude a but odd, or! We have a genuine connection, speak over the phone, arrange a meet, then they disappear!

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

We exist

It's tough work on here sometimes though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I can confirm, we do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv met several women for one to one meets from fab so its definitely possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm genuine and definitely single! it is difficult so I share your pain! They either tend to have a secret partner or a fwb that appears after chatting a while or they live so far away

I remain hopeful though! "

Thats more often the case than not.

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By *urious_Female89Woman
over a year ago

great yarmouth


"They are either very rude a but odd, or! We have a genuine connection, speak over the phone, arrange a meet, then they disappear! "

I share the same experiences.. Its disappointing when that happens, its a fab curse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a few of us, I also find it very difficult OP x

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Do they actually exist? I've been on fab for a long time now, still no joy, where am i going wrong? Xx"

I have been wondering this myself xx

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By *oral-RayWoman
over a year ago

stafford

We exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am real I’m just a little shy

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By *irty desireWoman
over a year ago

newcatle

Am absolutely real

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Do they actually exist? I've been on fab for a long time now, still no joy, where am i going wrong? Xx"

Message sent x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would also like to confirm my existence , but I agree we seem to be an elusive bunch . Glad I stumbled across this thread thank you OP

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’m real too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m real too! "

I will be a full time Londoner from the end of this month.

We should meet for a coffee.

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

I’m real

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I’m real too!

I will be a full time Londoner from the end of this month.

We should meet for a coffee. "

I’d love that!! I’m up in Norfolk currently though as father not well but when I’m back, yes!!

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

We use to have a few single fem friends, when we lived in the North, still are friends, but find it a lot harder with females from the south. They seem much more distrusting here. Not sure why?? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m real too!

I will be a full time Londoner from the end of this month.

We should meet for a coffee.

I’d love that!! I’m up in Norfolk currently though as father not well but when I’m back, yes!! "

Oh sorry I hope he improves very soon. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder this have never managed to meet one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A mixed bag ladies, I see most of you are miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A mixed bag ladies, I see most of you are miles away "

Iv found you have to be prepared to travel, I normally make a weekend of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A mixed bag ladies, I see most of you are miles away

Iv found you have to be prepared to travel, I normally make a weekend of it.

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Oh travel is ok, but over a 100 miles is when I draw a line lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Yes they exist.....hello.....but I find it difficult to meet others who arent miles away or who will meet without their other halves.

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Op have you thought of trying sites specifically aimed at your preferred demographic as I'm sure you will find more localish ladies on specialist sites

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Yes they exist.....hello.....but I find it difficult to meet others who arent miles away or who will meet without their other halves. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A mixed bag ladies, I see most of you are miles away

Iv found you have to be prepared to travel, I normally make a weekend of it.

Oh travel is ok, but over a 100 miles is when I draw a line lol "

Iv found the best way is to go organised socials or clubs thats how I met most of the woman iv met one to one with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op have you thought of trying sites specifically aimed at your preferred demographic as I'm sure you will find more localish ladies on specialist sites"
there are only a couple and its a very similar experience to here to be honest.

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Also once clubs start opening I'm sure there will be ladies only nights on the menu ,a chance for u ladies to network and play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also once clubs start opening I'm sure there will be ladies only nights on the menu ,a chance for u ladies to network and play"

There has been one or two but they are not well attended.

I think women normally like to get know each other a bit first

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Yes they exist.....hello.....but I find it difficult to meet others who arent miles away or who will meet without their other halves. "

I have, and I do meet without hubby,but only females. X

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Maybe u ladies should organise a group social between yourselves ,it just takes 1 or 2 of you to do the leg work and find a venue somewhere that will lay on food and you can look into hotels and the like and go from there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op have you thought of trying sites specifically aimed at your preferred demographic as I'm sure you will find more localish ladies on specialist sites"

I have yes, and guess what.. it is inhabited by mostly gay females who won't touch a bisexual female

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Then other route open to u make friends with a couple and when she's up for solo fun be one of her first options

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Then other route open to u make friends with a couple and when she's up for solo fun be one of her first options"

This is also something I have tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have an FWB but I would definitely meet other women alone. I really don't think I appeal to the women though after being on here for quite some time. Shame as there are some really lovely women on fabs.

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I have a playmate who's bi the problem we find is if we want a couple's meet couples try to bypass me to get her in bed

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I’m still hopeful! It’s quite hard to find solo-bi lady directly from fab for regular fun and friendship however once clubs are open , I believe it might become easier to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do have an FWB but I would definitely meet other women alone. I really don't think I appeal to the women though after being on here for quite some time. Shame as there are some really lovely women on fabs. "

Why do you think your time on fab could be an issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do have an FWB but I would definitely meet other women alone. I really don't think I appeal to the women though after being on here for quite some time. Shame as there are some really lovely women on fabs.

Why do you think your time on fab could be an issue? "

Oh it's not my time on fab that I see as an issue. I was on here before this profile for quite a while and between the two profiles I've not been contacted by women interested in that sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are either very rude a but odd, or! We have a genuine connection, speak over the phone, arrange a meet, then they disappear! "

Just like single men then, nice to know we are equal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do have an FWB but I would definitely meet other women alone. I really don't think I appeal to the women though after being on here for quite some time. Shame as there are some really lovely women on fabs.

Why do you think your time on fab could be an issue?

Oh it's not my time on fab that I see as an issue. I was on here before this profile for quite a while and between the two profiles I've not been contacted by women interested in that sense. "

Ahhhh I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's difficult to meet women that doesn't have a male partner that wants to be involved somehow.

But we are real

Waves

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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They definitely do exist as this thread shows. I'm not sure why it's more difficult to find women on here - I seem to fare better on Twitter. Maybe it's because you can't easily tell if a woman is interested or she's just being friendly flirty? A lot of profiles looking for women do seem to be geared towards men primarily as well.

Socials and club nights might help once they are up and running again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They definitely do exist as this thread shows. I'm not sure why it's more difficult to find women on here - I seem to fare better on Twitter. Maybe it's because you can't easily tell if a woman is interested or she's just being friendly flirty? A lot of profiles looking for women do seem to be geared towards men primarily as well.

Socials and club nights might help once they are up and running again."

I think you're right about not being able to tell of women are just being friendly flirty or are actually interested. Maybe we miss the signs at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They definitely do exist as this thread shows. I'm not sure why it's more difficult to find women on here - I seem to fare better on Twitter. Maybe it's because you can't easily tell if a woman is interested or she's just being friendly flirty? A lot of profiles looking for women do seem to be geared towards men primarily as well.

Socials and club nights might help once they are up and running again."

*jumps on twitter Immediately lol*

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

My issue is locality, the hinderance of not driving it needs to be well planned for me to do if they live a distance away x

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"I have a playmate who's bi the problem we find is if we want a couple's meet couples try to bypass me to get her in bed"

That's just FAB, very rarely do "solo" Bi? women want to play with women of couple only.

Couples, the guy always has to be involved it seems to be a prerequisite, or they want to meet her alone to share. She has no interest in guys sexually, which pretty much rules out most of the site.

I do hope you find someone

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

To be fair we do meet other people solo and have no issues but if you agree to meet us as a couple then try and arrange a solo meet cutting me out and saying u changed your mind after agreeing to meet as a four it does wind me up a bit and shows me what a pair of .......

They are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xx

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By *estman for the jobMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


" xx"
that's some tongue x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I am right here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am right here "

160 to 210 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab geography certainly doesn't help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fab geography certainly doesn't help x"

Definitely a barrier to fun connections x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aren’t most women bi on here ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aren’t most women bi on here ?!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Aren’t most women bi on here ?!"

Loool

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside

We have been very lucky and met quite a few over the years (and made some realy good frinds) it's all down to treating them with respect and find out what they want, and going with the flow come say hi if your looking for fun frinds xxx have a nice day everyone

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By *morous twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Northeast

Wish we could find more in Teesside area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have been very lucky and met quite a few over the years (and made some realy good frinds) it's all down to treating them with respect and find out what they want, and going with the flow come say hi if your looking for fun frinds xxx have a nice day everyone "

I'm always respectful and understanding I treat people how I wish to be treated

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Depends what you mean by solo. I'm in a relationship but we pretty much exclusively swing separately. To be fair I don't tend to meet women through here, usually more through clubs and socials. There is the odd woman who has won me over on here though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what you mean by solo. I'm in a relationship but we pretty much exclusively swing separately. To be fair I don't tend to meet women through here, usually more through clubs and socials. There is the odd woman who has won me over on here though . "

I’m the same. I am in a platonic relationship with my partners’s knowledge and approval to be here but I’m definitely bi and playing solo. Do I count ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends what you mean by solo. I'm in a relationship but we pretty much exclusively swing separately. To be fair I don't tend to meet women through here, usually more through clubs and socials. There is the odd woman who has won me over on here though .

I’m the same. I am in a platonic relationship with my partners’s knowledge and approval to be here but I’m definitely bi and playing solo. Do I count ? "

Ya'll definitely count but really are quite rare x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% on here are timewasters and fantasists who will never meet so i feel your pain OP. Really annoying for genuine guys like me and you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend joined to meet single ladies but her experience was it was just couples interested. That isn't what she's interested in unfortunately ...

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"We have been very lucky and met quite a few over the years (and made some realy good frinds) it's all down to treating them with respect and find out what they want, and going with the flow come say hi if your looking for fun frinds xxx have a nice day everyone

I'm always respectful and understanding I treat people how I wish to be treated "

Most that we know like to meet people in clubs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"90% on here are timewasters and fantasists who will never meet so i feel your pain OP. Really annoying for genuine guys like me and you."

Are you sad because people won't meet you in the covid pandemic lockdown?

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Wish we could find more in Teesside area "

You will finds lots at club f when it re opens xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm real, also in Wales, though it is a huge country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very real and genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"90% on here are timewasters and fantasists who will never meet so i feel your pain OP. Really annoying for genuine guys like me and you.

Are you sad because people won't meet you in the covid pandemic lockdown? "

Silly assumption to make. Its obvious im talking in general nothing to do with covid. Timewasters and fantasists have been roaming this site long before covid came along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm real, also in Wales, though it is a huge country "

Ooh.. which side of the country?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I originally came to Fab hoping to find ladies for fun and friendship, but I find it harder to open up and connect with women for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I originally came to Fab hoping to find ladies for fun and friendship, but I find it harder to open up and connect with women for some reason. "

I don’t about anyone else but I find it hard to keep the flirting side up with other women. It nearly always starts off flirtatious but ends up being more like a friendly chat about life and things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very real and not an endangered species.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I originally came to Fab hoping to find ladies for fun and friendship, but I find it harder to open up and connect with women for some reason.

I don’t about anyone else but I find it hard to keep the flirting side up with other women. It nearly always starts off flirtatious but ends up being more like a friendly chat about life and things "

Ha yes, I end up chatting about cats and crochet! I've had some lovely platonic chats with people on here, but I'm really shy about flirting.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Tell me about it. It's so difficult to find genuine bi ladies who want to meet me. I think many think it's a ploy and that I will bring Mr along to meets. That really is not the case. I would love the whole girlfriend experience, days/nights out, nights in, lots of lesbian sex, and Mr full supports me doing this solo. He doesn't want/need any involvement in that side. It's something I want and need, for me.

The search continues............

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Tell me about it. It's so difficult to find genuine bi ladies who want to meet me. I think many think it's a ploy and that I will bring Mr along to meets. That really is not the case. I would love the whole girlfriend experience, days/nights out, nights in, lots of lesbian sex, and Mr full supports me doing this solo. He doesn't want/need any involvement in that side. It's something I want and need, for me.

The search continues............"

Oh how I wish you were closer. The gf experience ~ yes please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"90% on here are timewasters and fantasists who will never meet so i feel your pain OP. Really annoying for genuine guys like me and you.

Are you sad because people won't meet you in the covid pandemic lockdown? "

as originally stated, I've been on fab for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I originally came to Fab hoping to find ladies for fun and friendship, but I find it harder to open up and connect with women for some reason.

I don’t about anyone else but I find it hard to keep the flirting side up with other women. It nearly always starts off flirtatious but ends up being more like a friendly chat about life and things

Ha yes, I end up chatting about cats and crochet! I've had some lovely platonic chats with people on here, but I'm really shy about flirting. "

The secret with ladies is to meet as soon as possible!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do they actually exist? I've been on fab for a long time now, still no joy, where am i going wrong? Xx"

Yep, we've met a fair few. Not one woman we've talked to with a view to a meet has been anything other than lovely and straight forward. Unlike so many useless, unreliable, flaky men.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Tell me about it. It's so difficult to find genuine bi ladies who want to meet me. I think many think it's a ploy and that I will bring Mr along to meets. That really is not the case. I would love the whole girlfriend experience, days/nights out, nights in, lots of lesbian sex, and Mr full supports me doing this solo. He doesn't want/need any involvement in that side. It's something I want and need, for me.

The search continues............"

Sadly in the majority of case it is a ploy initiated by the male partner. One case we met a couple and the poor woman didn't actually know she was apparently BI.

My partner has only ever arranged to meet one so called Bi woman and she turned up with a guy in tow, got really threatening when she said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm real, also in Wales, though it is a huge country

Ooh.. which side of the country? "

On the border of gwynedd and powys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tell me about it. It's so difficult to find genuine bi ladies who want to meet me. I think many think it's a ploy and that I will bring Mr along to meets. That really is not the case. I would love the whole girlfriend experience, days/nights out, nights in, lots of lesbian sex, and Mr full supports me doing this solo. He doesn't want/need any involvement in that side. It's something I want and need, for me.

The search continues............"

That sounds amazing

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Tell me about it. It's so difficult to find genuine bi ladies who want to meet me. I think many think it's a ploy and that I will bring Mr along to meets. That really is not the case. I would love the whole girlfriend experience, days/nights out, nights in, lots of lesbian sex, and Mr full supports me doing this solo. He doesn't want/need any involvement in that side. It's something I want and need, for me.

The search continues............

Oh how I wish you were closer. The gf experience ~ yes please "

You've been on my hotlist for years

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I have pretty much given up with trying to meet other women on fab and couples for that matter. I shall be going to clubs and socials when they start up again. It’s by far the best way to find the genuine ones. Plus I don’t have to spend too much time on individual socials either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I originally came to Fab hoping to find ladies for fun and friendship, but I find it harder to open up and connect with women for some reason.

I don’t about anyone else but I find it hard to keep the flirting side up with other women. It nearly always starts off flirtatious but ends up being more like a friendly chat about life and things

Ha yes, I end up chatting about cats and crochet! I've had some lovely platonic chats with people on here, but I'm really shy about flirting.

The secret with ladies is to meet as soon as possible! "

Ahhh so introduce myself and hit them with "faf"? I take a long time to decide if I want to meet people I talk to, which is unfortunate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I originally came to Fab hoping to find ladies for fun and friendship, but I find it harder to open up and connect with women for some reason.

I don’t about anyone else but I find it hard to keep the flirting side up with other women. It nearly always starts off flirtatious but ends up being more like a friendly chat about life and things

Ha yes, I end up chatting about cats and crochet! I've had some lovely platonic chats with people on here, but I'm really shy about flirting.

The secret with ladies is to meet as soon as possible!

Ahhh so introduce myself and hit them with "faf"? I take a long time to decide if I want to meet people I talk to, which is unfortunate. "

No lol not like that at all! But ladies do tend to fall into friendship nattering and only way to find out is a connection or if chemistry is there is in person. So a coffee date solves that problem

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"90% on here are timewasters and fantasists who will never meet so i feel your pain OP. Really annoying for genuine guys like me and you."

OP is a woman, not a guy!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I have pretty much given up with trying to meet other women on fab and couples for that matter. I shall be going to clubs and socials when they start up again. It’s by far the best way to find the genuine ones. Plus I don’t have to spend too much time on individual socials either."

Do you feel you're giving your half of the deal? I've a lesbian friend outside of all this who said how hard they find meeting others as, from the female perspective they're meant to play hard to get. Two people playing hard to get tends to go nowhere..!

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"90% on here are timewasters and fantasists who will never meet so i feel your pain OP. Really annoying for genuine guys like me and you.

OP is a woman, not a guy!"

I admit I missed that, I also admit to my 4th glass of sauvignon blanc!

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

OP, it might be worth you having a look at the Wales forum, there have been a few threads for bi women on there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am most definitely female

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, it might be worth you having a look at the Wales forum, there have been a few threads for bi women on there."

Ahhhh thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I originally came to Fab hoping to find ladies for fun and friendship, but I find it harder to open up and connect with women for some reason.

I don’t about anyone else but I find it hard to keep the flirting side up with other women. It nearly always starts off flirtatious but ends up being more like a friendly chat about life and things

Ha yes, I end up chatting about cats and crochet! I've had some lovely platonic chats with people on here, but I'm really shy about flirting.

The secret with ladies is to meet as soon as possible!

Ahhh so introduce myself and hit them with "faf"? I take a long time to decide if I want to meet people I talk to, which is unfortunate.

No lol not like that at all! But ladies do tend to fall into friendship nattering and only way to find out is a connection or if chemistry is there is in person. So a coffee date solves that problem "

That makes a lot of sense. Thank you Looking forward to being more sociable in the near future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me about it. It's so difficult to find genuine bi ladies who want to meet me. I think many think it's a ploy and that I will bring Mr along to meets. That really is not the case. I would love the whole girlfriend experience, days/nights out, nights in, lots of lesbian sex, and Mr full supports me doing this solo. He doesn't want/need any involvement in that side. It's something I want and need, for me.

The search continues............"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Tell me about it. It's so difficult to find genuine bi ladies who want to meet me. I think many think it's a ploy and that I will bring Mr along to meets. That really is not the case. I would love the whole girlfriend experience, days/nights out, nights in, lots of lesbian sex, and Mr full supports me doing this solo. He doesn't want/need any involvement in that side. It's something I want and need, for me.

The search continues............

Oh how I wish you were closer. The gf experience ~ yes please

You've been on my hotlist for years "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely think female half of couples struggle more to find a single lady because I know I'm more suspicious that its a rouse for the male to get involved as that has happened more times than I can count.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To an extent the same would apply here as to a guy saying they have problems finding meets - profile and pics are key, so make sure yours reflects what you are looking for and gives a good flavour of you the person - if people don't know you're looking for one to one meets with other women, then you can't expect them to come knocking and will have to do the knocking yourself.

Things like attitude, expectations and approach also count for a lot - not saying yours are wrong OP (I don't know you so couldn't say) but give some thought to those (and your profile/pics) and see if there's any changes you could make that would help.

You may also find the whole "sub" thing doesn't help - particularly given its part of your username as people may well think that is all you are looking for, despite any disclaimers you may have.

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Always up for some solo girly fun

Mrs Playful x

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By *morous twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Northeast

We are booked for social distancing Saturdays next week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To an extent the same would apply here as to a guy saying they have problems finding meets - profile and pics are key, so make sure yours reflects what you are looking for and gives a good flavour of you the person - if people don't know you're looking for one to one meets with other women, then you can't expect them to come knocking and will have to do the knocking yourself.

Things like attitude, expectations and approach also count for a lot - not saying yours are wrong OP (I don't know you so couldn't say) but give some thought to those (and your profile/pics) and see if there's any changes you could make that would help.

You may also find the whole "sub" thing doesn't help - particularly given its part of your username as people may well think that is all you are looking for, despite any disclaimers you may have."

I appreciate the feedback, my profile is secondary to how I find and communicate with women, always respectful, thoughtful and considerate, sub is part of who I am sexually, which means i also wish to find sexually Dominant and submissive women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always up for some solo girly fun

Mrs Playful x"

I have pm'd you xx

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"We are booked for social distancing Saturdays next week "

Well there will definitely be a few there,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wondering the same OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"90% on here are timewasters and fantasists who will never meet so i feel your pain OP. Really annoying for genuine guys like me and you.

Are you sad because people won't meet you in the covid pandemic lockdown?

as originally stated, I've been on fab for a long time."

Wasn't replying to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why doesn't someone organise a women only social when lockdown ends?

There used to be a few women only socials and they seemed to be well attended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why doesn't someone organise a women only social when lockdown ends?

There used to be a few women only socials and they seemed to be well attended. "

Are men allowed to go ?

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By *orkingInExeterMan
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Why doesn't someone organise a women only social when lockdown ends?

There used to be a few women only socials and they seemed to be well attended. "

I'd be there with bells on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why doesn't someone organise a women only social when lockdown ends?

There used to be a few women only socials and they seemed to be well attended.

Are men allowed to go ? "

Invitation only haha

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By *orkingInExeterMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"Why doesn't someone organise a women only social when lockdown ends?

There used to be a few women only socials and they seemed to be well attended. "

Because there would be no one paying the admission charge or to buy the drinks.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *morous twosomeCouple
over a year ago

Northeast


"Wish we could find more in Teesside area

You will finds lots at club f when it re opens xx "

We are booked for social distancing Saturdays next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its either travel which can affect regularity of meeting, go to clubs? Again solo bi women I've found are rare there. Like other ladies i have a few convos and it drifts to nothing. I’ll just wait. Lol it’ll happen when its supposed to

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By * AND R 777Couple
over a year ago

Teesside


"Wish we could find more in Teesside area

You will finds lots at club f when it re opens xx

We are booked for social distancing Saturdays next week "

Well there will definitely be some there

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By *erdy NancyWoman
over a year ago

East Devon


"My friend joined to meet single ladies but her experience was it was just couples interested. That isn't what she's interested in unfortunately ... "

I did but have basically given up ladies only for me but all have a man in the wings waiting and I'm just not interested that way sorry

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all. "

Your lady's orgy threads do rather well.

*hint*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friend joined to meet single ladies but her experience was it was just couples interested. That isn't what she's interested in unfortunately ...

I did but have basically given up ladies only for me but all have a man in the wings waiting and I'm just not interested that way sorry "

Welcome back you!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all.

Your lady's orgy threads do rather well.

*hint*"

Haha yes! I haven’t done one for a while! Shame they’re only threads though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all.

Your lady's orgy threads do rather well.

*hint*

Haha yes! I haven’t done one for a while! Shame they’re only threads though!"

Well wasn't there talk of a get together?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all.

Your lady's orgy threads do rather well.

*hint*

Haha yes! I haven’t done one for a while! Shame they’re only threads though!

Well wasn't there talk of a get together?"

Yes there was to be fair then Covid arrived! x

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Just wondering, are all ladies suspicious when a lady from the couple says that she meets solo?

I do this, but haven't been over successful. Could this be a reason why? Having said that though,single lady profiles on here still say they struggle to find another lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all.

Your lady's orgy threads do rather well.

*hint*

Haha yes! I haven’t done one for a while! Shame they’re only threads though!

Well wasn't there talk of a get together?

Yes there was to be fair then Covid arrived! x"

Well restrictions are hopefully coming to an end so I think a orgy thread is in order.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Just wondering, are all ladies suspicious when a lady from the couple says that she meets solo?

I do this, but haven't been over successful. Could this be a reason why? Having said that though,single lady profiles on here still say they struggle to find another lady."

I never thought of ladies from couples until recently and have always had them blocked. I know you quite well obviously but yes I would probably assume it would be the actual couple wanting to meet so I’ve never messaged couples.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all.

Your lady's orgy threads do rather well.

*hint*

Haha yes! I haven’t done one for a while! Shame they’re only threads though!

Well wasn't there talk of a get together?

Yes there was to be fair then Covid arrived! x"

There has been a few attempts at trying to organise an actual ladies only event, but it's never happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondering, are all ladies suspicious when a lady from the couple says that she meets solo?

I do this, but haven't been over successful. Could this be a reason why? Having said that though,single lady profiles on here still say they struggle to find another lady."

I have met ladies who are in a relationship but only if they contact from a singles account as im never sure if the male im talking to.

Might be worth having an account just for meeting women and see how you get on.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all.

Your lady's orgy threads do rather well.

*hint*

Haha yes! I haven’t done one for a while! Shame they’re only threads though!

Well wasn't there talk of a get together?

Yes there was to be fair then Covid arrived! x

Well restrictions are hopefully coming to an end so I think a orgy thread is in order. "

Yes Miss Lorna. Your wish is my command

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all.

Your lady's orgy threads do rather well.

*hint*

Haha yes! I haven’t done one for a while! Shame they’re only threads though!

Well wasn't there talk of a get together?

Yes there was to be fair then Covid arrived! x

There has been a few attempts at trying to organise an actual ladies only event, but it's never happened."

There was a ladies only social event organised a couple of years ago but I couldn't make it but I heard it went well.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

They do exists OP but you have to graft to find the genuine ones and also be prepared to travel.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Haven’t read the thread but I’m genuinely bi and looking to meet ladies one to one. I find it difficult too. They always want their man involved somehow. Not what I’m looking for at all.

Your lady's orgy threads do rather well.

*hint*

Haha yes! I haven’t done one for a while! Shame they’re only threads though!

Well wasn't there talk of a get together?

Yes there was to be fair then Covid arrived! x

There has been a few attempts at trying to organise an actual ladies only event, but it's never happened.

There was a ladies only social event organised a couple of years ago but I couldn't make it but I heard it went well. "

Ahhh yes, my mistake, there was that one. Heard it was fun

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Just wondering, are all ladies suspicious when a lady from the couple says that she meets solo?

I do this, but haven't been over successful. Could this be a reason why? Having said that though,single lady profiles on here still say they struggle to find another lady."

Unless I knew of the couple really well then I'm always skeptical as a couple of ladies I've spoken to have been fine and then dropped the oh but my partner may want to join once we've had some fun, one resulted in me getting a barrage of abuse when I said thanks but no thanks

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By *urydiceRisingWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I exist, and I think I'm still alive and kicking.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Anita meets on her own with other ladies, although she too finds it very hard to find others to meet.

Cal

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By *teveking1000Man
over a year ago

shrewsbury


"They are either very rude a but odd, or! We have a genuine connection, speak over the phone, arrange a meet, then they disappear! "

This sounds like you haha... only joking!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Just wondering, are all ladies suspicious when a lady from the couple says that she meets solo?

I do this, but haven't been over successful. Could this be a reason why? Having said that though,single lady profiles on here still say they struggle to find another lady.

Unless I knew of the couple really well then I'm always skeptical as a couple of ladies I've spoken to have been fine and then dropped the oh but my partner may want to join once we've had some fun, one resulted in me getting a barrage of abuse when I said thanks but no thanks "

It's bad when ladies drop that bombshell, makes it so much harder for the genuine ones of us.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I have a single account and I'm more than happy to do solo meets with other ladies.

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge


"

Couples, the guy always has to be involved it seems to be a prerequisite..."

Well, yes, that's what couples means, really!

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge


" a couple of ladies I've spoken to have been fine and then dropped the oh but my partner may want to join once we've had some fun, "

That is such rubbish behavior. Just as bad as "I'm single and my partner will want to join in.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Couples, the guy always has to be involved it seems to be a prerequisite...

Well, yes, that's what couples means, really!

"

Not if the lady of the couple is meeting singularly with other ladies ... but at the last minute or even at the meet drops the partner in regardless of what's been arranged beforehand!

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By *andlingswingersCouple
over a year ago

Woodbridge

No, totally agree, that is completely rubbish behaviour. It's not just dishonest - but how does anyone actually expect that to work, outside of a badly-dubbed juddery 1980s porn video???

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By *erdy NancyWoman
over a year ago

East Devon


"I have a single account and I'm more than happy to do solo meets with other ladies.

"

I think this is the best way forward as I won't speak to ladies from a couple's account anymore simply because I have no idea who I'm talking to

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Do they actually exist? I've been on fab for a long time now, still no joy, where am i going wrong? Xx"

We definitely exist, but seem to be something of a minority.

That means that it's even more difficult to find a lady you're attracted to, that doesn't live at the other end of the coutry.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"

Couples, the guy always has to be involved it seems to be a prerequisite...

Well, yes, that's what couples means, really!

"

That was my point we are a couple my partner enjoys sex with another woman, I don't expect or feel there is a requirement for me to have sex with them also because we are a couple. So does mean we are not a couple?

For most couples on this site it seems in our opinion that a BI woman/partner cannot have sex with another BI woman if she is part of a couple unless the guy can join in as well, hence it is a pre requisite.

Which means she cannot enjoy sex with the female of the couple without putting out "to use an old phrase" for the male also.

Which is the point that it is very difficult for genuinely bi females to find another bi female to enjoy one on one FF, whether that be single or part of a couple.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yep I’m real .... well the last time I looked I was

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X


"Yes they exist.....hello.....but I find it difficult to meet others who arent miles away or who will meet without their other halves.

I have, and I do meet without hubby,but only females. X"

I'm the same I'm a vixen to a stag but can meet females without hubby

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X


"Tell me about it. It's so difficult to find genuine bi ladies who want to meet me. I think many think it's a ploy and that I will bring Mr along to meets. That really is not the case. I would love the whole girlfriend experience, days/nights out, nights in, lots of lesbian sex, and Mr full supports me doing this solo. He doesn't want/need any involvement in that side. It's something I want and need, for me.

The search continues............"

This is exactly what I'm looking for and so have full support from hubby xx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"

Couples, the guy always has to be involved it seems to be a prerequisite...

Well, yes, that's what couples means, really!

That was my point we are a couple my partner enjoys sex with another woman, I don't expect or feel there is a requirement for me to have sex with them also because we are a couple. So does mean we are not a couple?

For most couples on this site it seems in our opinion that a BI woman/partner cannot have sex with another BI woman if she is part of a couple unless the guy can join in as well, hence it is a pre requisite.

Which means she cannot enjoy sex with the female of the couple without putting out "to use an old phrase" for the male also.

Which is the point that it is very difficult for genuinely bi females to find another bi female to enjoy one on one FF, whether that be single or part of a couple. "
Exactly

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Honestly I think if I met a female from a couple it would be from here (forums) to start as I've had the chance to see how you interact etc x

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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X

When I started on the scene I never played with men and hubby never played with women....we we're ff bi play and own partner play and over the last 8 years have never had a problem with meets...having said that used to go to clubs alot and that's how I met most women and couples now my hubby is a stag so he doesn't play with anyone but myself...but now as a vixen I play with single men women and couples he likes to watch and very occasionally joins in as own partner play ...I'm starting to find alot more couples where the partners are happy to leave the girls to it without any involvement and after initial few meets would then meet alone ...I'm happy to meet women alone and have full support from hubby ....and yes the whole girlfriend would be a dream come true ...I do believe clubs and socials help and it takes time but don't give up help ladies ...seems to be alot more of us out there than first thought xxx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Just wondering, are all ladies suspicious when a lady from the couple says that she meets solo?

I do this, but haven't been over successful. Could this be a reason why? Having said that though,single lady profiles on here still say they struggle to find another lady."

I think it's a common assumption. I don't even have a couples profile and my partner has a profile but I don't think he has logged on in about 8 months . He goes to clubs but isn't really that involved with fab. Yet I still often get the assumption that my partner comes to meets with me when we never meet people off here together.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

We do exist and are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gems was one, I snapped her up sharpish tho so now she’s just a typical bi lady in a couple

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By *teveking1000Man
over a year ago

shrewsbury


"Do they actually exist? I've been on fab for a long time now, still no joy, where am i going wrong? Xx"

Can we chat again please?? I’m still a bit gutted about before...

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By *JessSRosexCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Good post. We are a couple also looking for a female to play with me. May give it up on the idea and just keep our fingers crossed for when the clubs re open as not having much luck on here.

Jess x

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