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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

I’ve tried giving it up a few times, but the draw of wearing lingerie is such a nerve tingling experience...

Has any of you tried giving up but couldn’t resist the lure of the lingerie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's not just about lingerie. My feminine side is a part of me. I have tried supressing her in the past, (several times) but eventually I give in and she gets her own way.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"For me it's not just about lingerie. My feminine side is a part of me. I have tried supressing her in the past, (several times) but eventually I give in and she gets her own way."

Awww xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you want to give it up?

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By *ala40TV/TS
over a year ago

motherwell

inly get occasional chance to dress but enjoy when i do still

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By *andyMinx_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Being honest, the lingerie aspect of dressing does nothing for me. It's just part and parcel of how I choose to dress. And the main reason I dress is to satisfy an overwhelming urge to express my feminine side, an urge that has been there from the age of 11.

Has it been suppressed? Yes, because I was married and at that time I chose to keep my femininity locked away. But it never leaves you if it's the overriding reason why you feel the need to express yourself. For me it's always been about much more than the clothing you wear.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Had the purge several times, got rid of all my clothes and stuff and managed 4 years before the urge grew again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the need is strong enough sooner or later it takes over ,a good indicator is having to renew lots of your wardrobe ,ie fav ballet flats ,cardies ,wigs .

Shopping ,work gardening socialising banking etc become normal eventually,Different for everyone .

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By *harisajidanWoman
over a year ago

london

"For me it's not just about lingerie. My feminine side is a part of me. I have tried supressing her in the past, (several times) but eventually I give in and she gets her own way."

Hallelujah, someone who finally knows and uses the term heteromantic. Someone who has taken the time to research sexuality

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By *mmaCD1029TV/TS
over a year ago

Bangor NI

"I’ve tried giving it up a few times, but the draw of wearing lingerie is such a nerve tingling experience...

Has any of you tried giving up but couldn’t resist the lure of the lingerie?"

Did a purge once about 3 yrs ago and lasted 4 months lol, I had way too much an most I didn't wear so I cleared out some stuff but still have a large collection with more on the way

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By *aulaxd2020TV/TS
over a year ago

dudley

Giving up would mean not seeing all the fabulous friends I’ve made over the few years, I’ve missed the social interaction during the lockdown, I could dress every day if I wanted too but I don’t sometimes I don’t dress for months but the urge always returns in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't stamp out that fire in you.

Embrace your loves, you only live once, do what makes you happy (as long as nobody is breaking any laws

)

For every reason you think of to stop, there is probably twice as many to carry on.

Like:

"I shouldn't want to do this, maybe I should stop"

BUT

"Omg look how beautiful I would look in THIS!"

The feeling that it gives you? Take it and run with it

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Giving up being Polly would be giving up being myself. Or at least part of myself. I basically identify as bi-gender, though Polly is the one that gets the fun social life, and he is the one that gets the short end of the stick. Work - yup, that's his job. If I'm ill? Most definitely him that gets to be ill. And yes, almost all of the crapness of this last twelve months plus has been his to deal with. But Polly hasn't gone away or been suppressed, and she's not anything for me to be ashamed of. She is the best part of me, the part that has taught me a lot about tolerance and humanity and respect for difference. She's also got much better dress sense than he has, is more outgoing, and a damn sight better looking

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes tyed but allway go back to it as it feels so good when dressed

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By *rluckyknightMan
over a year ago

marske by sea

Yes love iv been trying all my life and still buy clothes

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I completely understand, I love my lingerie too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't stamp out that fire in you.

Embrace your loves, you only live once, do what makes you happy (as long as nobody is breaking any laws

)

For every reason you think of to stop, there is probably twice as many to carry on.

Like:

"I shouldn't want to do this, maybe I should stop"

BUT

"Omg look how beautiful I would look in THIS!"

The feeling that it gives you? Take it and run with it

All of this!

Life's too short!

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By *andybigboiMan
over a year ago

Mount Pleasant

I’ve dabbled dresssing up, done so several times. But never had my hair/nails/makeup done yet.

Would love to to fulfil that fantasy fully!

Watching ru Paul drag race turns me on, which amazing hair/nails/makeup/heels.

Though I do love wearing lace lingerie to work under my uniform.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think we all have from time to time

I know I have in the past meny a times

Mostly due to being stood up

Took me a very long time to just accept myself for myself and screw anyone who dosent like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What.... give up all of those bras, knickers, skirts, tights, dresses, blouses, suspenders and men.....

No way..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, I agree & relate to so many of these messages.

For years I’ve tried to suppress it, due to not wanting to hurt those close to me.

Still live every day as very much an alpha male.

Always been attracted to feminine, sophisticated, sassy, sexy but classy women. I’ve found that as the amount of sex as really reduced in my relationship, my urges to CD have become stronger & I want to dress & play the part of the type of woman I’ve always been attracted to.

It’s not just the lingerie for me, it’s the whole outfit, hair, makeup, nails, heels etc. The feeling of knowing that a guy finds me attractive as a woman is so fulfilling & the biggest turn on I ever have.

Still no-one has any idea that I dress & opportunities are rare, but amazing when I do get the chance x

Only progressed to hair, makeup, nails etc in the last 7 months. Would love to make more friends with other likeminded people, for advice & guidance.

Lauren xxx

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By *hrissycox66TV/TS
over a year ago

watford

I have given up trying suppress Chrissy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not dresses in over 18 months now.

Thinking of throwing the lot out

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By *exyangietgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

We've probably all purged at one time or another but I think we all return because it's part of who we are and it's just so nice to be a girl.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Giving up being Polly would be giving up being myself. Or at least part of myself. I basically identify as bi-gender, though Polly is the one that gets the fun social life, and he is the one that gets the short end of the stick. Work - yup, that's his job. If I'm ill? Most definitely him that gets to be ill. And yes, almost all of the crapness of this last twelve months plus has been his to deal with. But Polly hasn't gone away or been suppressed, and she's not anything for me to be ashamed of. She is the best part of me, the part that has taught me a lot about tolerance and humanity and respect for difference. She's also got much better dress sense than he has, is more outgoing, and a damn sight better looking

When l get in my car as Steff l bitch about the mess its in ,when l get in it as Steve l say the bitch hasnt put fuel in it, not easy being two people

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I just wanted to say that, although i am sure no-one posts for this reason, I am so grateful for the openness of people on this forum. This is outside of my scope of experience so I really appreciate the glimpse into what is a daily experience for so many. I always try to seek to understand all my fellow humans better and its only by the generosity of people sharing their journeys that i can hope to do this.

So thank you all that share whether its this, or coping with loss or whatever.

Kat

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By *oney_Bee_xTV/TS
over a year ago

Teesside

"Don't stamp out that fire in you.

Embrace your loves, you only live once, do what makes you happy (as long as nobody is breaking any laws

)

For every reason you think of to stop, there is probably twice as many to carry on.

Like:

"I shouldn't want to do this, maybe I should stop"

BUT

"Omg look how beautiful I would look in THIS!"

The feeling that it gives you? Take it and run with it

Exactly this !!!

Well spoken Ivy xx

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By *teve CDMan
over a year ago

hull villages

Just something I like doing

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By *rossdressingsubTV/TS
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

I've also given up dressing several times. In the past I've gone years without dressing, and have thrown away my wardrobe of female clothes on more than one occasion.

But, it's a part of me that I can't completely deny, so I eventually return.

"I’ve tried giving it up a few times, but the draw of wearing lingerie is such a nerve tingling experience...

Has any of you tried giving up but couldn’t resist the lure of the lingerie?"

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By *nDNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We both love dressing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wanted to try dressing and would love a woman or a CD to dress me up sometime so I can experience it

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

"Always wanted to try dressing and would love a woman or a CD to dress me up sometime so I can experience it "

Get yourself on Amazon to find a cheap outfit you like. It’ll snowball from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve tried giving it up a few times, but the draw of wearing lingerie is such a nerve tingling experience...

Has any of you tried giving up but couldn’t resist the lure of the lingerie?"

It may be an important part of who you are and trying to give it up could be like trying to hold a ball underwater- eventually it will spring back to the surface.

Love and fully embrace that side of you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always wanted to try dressing and would love a woman or a CD to dress me up sometime so I can experience it "

I must admit to have had similar thoughts in the past which reoccur occasionally.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

While it's not my thing, I've often wondered why there seems to be a stigma about men cross dressing, but nobody bats an eyelid if a woman wears mens style clothing.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

You'd think in this day and age the stigma around cross dressing would have died.

But is part of the thrill of dressing also because it is still see as taboo?

If it was mainstream would it lose a bit of its appeal?

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport

I once denied my desire to dress up and disposed my wardrobe many years ago, however I soon realized that it just wasn't the clothes, Teanna is part of me and will never leave

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

"Always wanted to try dressing and would love a woman or a CD to dress me up sometime so I can experience it

Get yourself on Amazon to find a cheap outfit you like. It’ll snowball from there.

Doesn't it just!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'd think in this day and age the stigma around cross dressing would have died.

But is part of the thrill of dressing also because it is still see as taboo?

If it was mainstream would it lose a bit of its appeal?

People dont bat an eyelid when l'm shopping or in a bar or restaurant ,they got more stuff going on than seeing a trans gal .l do avoid working men's clubs though ,a nitemare

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By *amantha TSWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I can relate to do many posts on here! Have guilt purged so many times only to pick it up again, tried to leave her behind for a relationship and the itch was to much to bare and had to be scratched.

It's not lingerie for me either, it's just being me. The last part of me. I may only get to be her every now and again, but I have to let her out. O know that now, and embrace it.

And if any girls are reading this and feel they want to purge, get in touch. Not because I want your stuff, but it's better to have someone look after it so it's there when you want to come back. Not storing it to hide it from your wife though!

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By *aura4ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

"You'd think in this day and age the stigma around cross dressing would have died.

But is part of the thrill of dressing also because it is still see as taboo?

If it was mainstream would it lose a bit of its appeal?

For me it would be wonderful if there was no stigma. Unfortunately as you know that is not the case and is still very much taboo for society. Such a shame but it is something we need to live and deal with.

Good question though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I haven’t I just enjoy wearing it it’s too kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'd think in this day and age the stigma around cross dressing would have died.

But is part of the thrill of dressing also because it is still see as taboo?

If it was mainstream would it lose a bit of its appeal?

Im not sure lfeel any stigma when lm out and about' unless l put myself in a dodgy situation such as a monday club pissup. I just get on with my day /nite 'dont get hardly any negativity 'the opposite l find .

Good question though xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a purge 6 months ago worst thing I ever did.....

New wardrobe bought and being added to pretty much daily plus make up and wigs as I'm happiest when I'm Penny, my feminine me is the true and best me. Love to have someone to meet her one day,

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By *amanthaJonesTrans1966TV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I’ve tried giving it up a few times, but the draw of wearing lingerie is such a nerve tingling experience...

Has any of you tried giving up but couldn’t resist the lure of the lingerie?"

I've purged 3 times, the urges come back even stronger, and my sexuality has changed from being bi to totally gay, I've not had sex with a woman for over 4 years now and the lust for a cock or 2 in my holes has grown so much, that, I've nearly completed my vast list of fantasies, that I only have 5 left to do, which hopefully 2 are easy to fulfill, one possibly, but I'll need to chat to a club owner in regards to it being done, another one is possible if someone has both a log fire and a large fur rug, but the last one, involves a plane, so not sure about that one, but all are possible.

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By *amanthaJonesTrans1966TV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I just wanted to say that, although i am sure no-one posts for this reason, I am so grateful for the openness of people on this forum. This is outside of my scope of experience so I really appreciate the glimpse into what is a daily experience for so many. I always try to seek to understand all my fellow humans better and its only by the generosity of people sharing their journeys that i can hope to do this.

So thank you all that share whether its this, or coping with loss or whatever.

Kat"

In all my 21 years of being Samantha and out in the publics eyes, I have met some wonderful people, both guys and girls who have given me boosts of confidence by paying me such lovely compliments, lately since the lockdowns have been eased off, I have been arranging dates with guys on the last 5 Friday's and Saturday's, sadly only 2 showed up at the HB Bar in Portsmouth for, but I dont mind because I've been invited to join other groups of mostly women, who have said beautiful things about my outfits and heels and make up, some even thought I had used a professional make over person, but being Samantha is not just about the sexual side of life, but more recently in the last 2 years, I am being Samantha more and more, day and night, going out for a walk, or drive, shopping, lunch, coffees, bars or clubs and now the hotels and restaurants are opening then I'm going to be in there too, it's so exciting to be accepted as Samantha and as a woman.

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By *amanthaJonesTrans1966TV/TS
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I’ve dabbled dresssing up, done so several times. But never had my hair/nails/makeup done yet.

Would love to to fulfil that fantasy fully!

Watching ru Paul drag race turns me on, which amazing hair/nails/makeup/heels.

Though I do love wearing lace lingerie to work under my uniform.

Maybe you might find a woman or trans etc who might help you in your fantasy, I have helped 5 cross dressers or transvestites in their quest by giving them a make over, they use their clothes, undies, heels and hair piece, I just use my make up and brushes etc, they were all surprised on how it went, and as I apply it, I'm taking pictures so they see what I'm doing, I do a video at the end so they can clearly see what I've done, but as I'm doing it, I'm explaining the technique that I'm using, and then I give them a list of makes etc for the products used, the type of brush used for the application so they know what to shop for themselves.

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

Tried and failed

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By *iAbbyTV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I love dressing up.

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By *ypsy Daisy LeeTV/TS
over a year ago

Warwick

I’ve recently got into CD and I love it, as said at the top, wearing lingerie is such a tingling experience

I’m really struggling to put out fits together, and get sizes right. Could anyone give me some tips?

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By *aviniaCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds (close to GAP)

Have a look through others profile galleries for ideas, decide on a style you think you'd like and go from there

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By *ypsy Daisy LeeTV/TS
over a year ago

Warwick

"Have a look through others profile galleries for ideas, decide on a style you think you'd like and go from there

I guess I have an idea of my look, for example I’m struggling to find a good mini skirt, one that shows my ass. The ones I’ve bought are too long. Also the sizes, and brands that are good for CDs?

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By *helleyj69TV/TS
over a year ago

everywhere!!

I’ve recently had yet another clear out. I had enough of people not turning up when a meet is arranged and lost interest. I’ve not missed it, until today…

I can’t ignore the thought of getting all pretty, and finally slipping into a lovely pair of heels and heading off out as Shelley xxx

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