FabSwingers.com forum: HOW TO IDENTIFY A GENUINE FAB PROFILE

By *ojoman OP Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

A young female on fab with what appeared to be a very genuine profile recently contacted me, I’m curious to how it was so genuine when I believe I have been conned big time and lost 8+ hours of my life never to be returned, let me explain.

She contacted me, bored just saying hi, 21 and seriously hot, a couple profile and at Uni in London but home in Scotland for holidays mid term etc. Checked her profile they were a couple, admitted been involved with others but played together in London. Had 3 verified meets, pics verified etc, the 3 meets had decent verified profiles even from people I have met or know so had to think a genuine profile.

We emailed and moved onto MSN, chatted away and she sent me pics, all hot all looked genuine, well maybe 1 seemed familiar, anyway chatted away and all the usual excuses came up, couldn’t phone because her 2nd sim for naughty fun was in London as she did not think she would play at home, couldn’t cam as left cam in London for same reasons, very good and to a degree plausible reasons not to prove herself

I must have spent 8 hours or more chatting away over a 2 day period, smelling the rat I said I need prove to move on here which she promised but then disappeared, not seen her or him lol on MSN, there fab profile is no longer on the site.

Probably 2 points or questions for comment here

1) How did a seemingly genuine fab profile get through my bullshitter net? I have over 8 years experience of dealing with these fecking weirdo’s

2) What kind of weirdo spends 8 hours of their life pretending to be someone else or engaging with you for chatting and arranging a meet when it’s never going to happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just changed their/her mind??

Maybe had a row... Maybe the kids found out.. maybe a million things.. Who knows??

Blimy.. happens to everyone in some way or other... you never chatted to someone then decided maybe not??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I meet about 0.1% of the people i chat to online but im genuine

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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Oh yes, I had one from “her” too. Except mine was “I live in your town, I’m home on a reading week from Uni.”

Told her reading Fabswingers probably wasn’t what they had expected…. didn’t hear back. Looks like my dodgy comedy saved me!

Definatly a ringer.... :o(

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By *ojoman OP Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"Maybe they just changed their/her mind??

Maybe had a row... Maybe the kids found out.. maybe a million things.. Who knows??

Blimy.. happens to everyone in some way or other... you never chatted to someone then decided maybe not??

Notts yes i have but have had the decency to say no thanks, or i have changed my mind, or circumstances have changed, had she shown herself on cam or spoke on the phone then i'd have known she was genuine and if then disapeared whatever, 98% sure now it was a weirdo

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By *ojoman OP Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"Oh yes, I had one from “her” too. Except mine was “I live in your town, I’m home on a reading week from Uni.”

Told her reading Fabswingers probably wasn’t what they had expected…. didn’t hear back. Looks like my dodgy comedy saved me!

Definatly a ringer.... :o(

Yip was a reading week, i'll need to learn more dodgy comedy i think, lol

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By *lwayshorny70Man
over a year ago

Redditch

had the same too nice couple from london but was at uni in bham so wanted some fun was added to msn chatted for a while then nothing !!! seems too similar to others to be a coincedence

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"I meet about 0.1% of the people i chat to online but im genuine"

oyyyy you aint allowed to discuss serious stuff your meant to be enjoying your birthday

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Only while jay is in the bath lol, im all sprussed and ready to go out for dinner lol

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By *ighnboxCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

OK firstly its easy to fake feedback especialy if you have access to diffrent comps. Secondly seeing some one on cam dosent mean there real ither. We have softwear that will let you play a vidio dirrect from your hard drive over msn messanger web cam and you would think its live. We been at this many many years and seen every trick in the book. We ask people if that say there a couple or femail (after all what man fakes he is a man lol) To take a photo of them selves holding a bit of paper with hand writen on it " Hi Mary & Paul we are swingers and would like to meet you for fun" and send the pic. We know the site now do this but we been doing this for years stops any fakes instantly. If you see them on cam to show its live we ask some thing strange like put both hands on your head if thay cant do it there fake. Dont accept all the old soding excuses my cams broke I dont have a cam etc etc. Before you ask for the pic to prove there real get in to a conversation and casualy mention if thay have a digital camara the reply is ussaly YES then when you ask for the proof pic thay cant make excuses thay dont have a camara. We have found you offten get ok we will do it and never hear from them ever again. We know it sounds strange but all those of you who been at this as long as us will tottaly understand why we do this. Useing these methords we dont belive any one has managed to Con us yet and if your are reading this and are a con merchent and fancy the challange bring it on LOL its good sport ing them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they just changed their/her mind??

Maybe had a row... Maybe the kids found out.. maybe a million things.. Who knows??

Blimy.. happens to everyone in some way or other... you never chatted to someone then decided maybe not??

A WEIRDO!!!!!!

On the Internet ????????

Never !!!!!!!!,

hehehehhehehehehehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u say they had verifs off ppl u knew ???? why didnt u ask them if they were gen, ?? i would if i had my doubts

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By *1dKingColeMan
over a year ago

east london

LOL

Had the same last week but from Sussex!

It showed she did not know the area in her 2nd message and did not reply to my comment, so was saved the hassle.

May have been more than one profile?

Laughing and moving on.

OKC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you said they had been verified by someone you had met? why not just ask them if they a real couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"u say they had verifs off ppl u knew ???? why didnt u ask them if they were gen, ?? i would if i had my doubts "

well that'll teach me to read thro the messages before i reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you said they had been verified by someone you had met? why not just ask them if they a real couple?"

That was my thoughts too, if they are genuine to one then they must be genuine to both,.. so maybe she had a change of mind

S&A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did 'she' get through your wierdo net?

Simple.

She was chatting to your labido and not your brain.

It's easily done. A photograph of a gorgeous girl designed to get you reaching for your cock the instant you saw it and a few choice words on MSN to hook you. You just saw through 'her' little game a lot sooner than 'she' anticipated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they just changed their/her mind??

Maybe had a row... Maybe the kids found out.. maybe a million things.. Who knows??

Blimy.. happens to everyone in some way or other... you never chatted to someone then decided maybe not??

A WEIRDO!!!!!!

On the Internet ????????

Never !!!!!!!!,

hehehehhehehehehehehehe"

Yeah... Imagine pmsl...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you were a bit to exited at the prospects of a nice 21 year old who was up for it with you, and maybe your bullshit radar was not as tuned in as it might have been if she was say a 50 BBW?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you were a bit to exited at the prospects of a nice 21 year old who was up for it with you, and maybe your bullshit radar was not as tuned in as it might have been if she was say a 50 BBW?"

and whats wrong with 50 year old bbws? why is it when people go for the bottom end of the scale of women they always use big women as an exapmle? very rude lol

seriously tho i never go by verfications anyway, they don't mean that much, what i never understood about this site is why can't an un verified person verify someone? what i mean is, if they 2 new couples who have both never met anyone off this site befor and arranged a meet neither couple could verify the other to show they are genuine, un verified people could have had half a dozen meets but unless they are off people who are the verfication collectors lol they never going to be able to prove they genuine, so verfications mean sod all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slightly off topic but on the above lol... I always wondered who verified the first??

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus

"A young female on fab with what appeared to be a very genuine profile recently contacted me, I’m curious to how it was so genuine when I believe I have been conned big time and lost 8+ hours of my life never to be returned, let me explain.

Probably 2 points or questions for comment here

1) How did a seemingly genuine fab profile get through my bullshitter net? I have over 8 years experience of dealing with these fecking weirdo’s

2) What kind of weirdo spends 8 hours of their life pretending to be someone else or engaging with you for chatting and arranging a meet when it’s never going to happen?

that will teach your penis to chat to a woman nearly young enough to be your daughter!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"Maybe you were a bit to exited at the prospects of a nice 21 year old who was up for it with you, and maybe your bullshit radar was not as tuned in as it might have been if she was say a 50 BBW?"

or better still a really nice experienced feisty 50 year old BBW ..who is full of life and happy with hers .Who doesn't feel like your handling an emaciated toast rack who has been on heroin for 10 years ......to each there own eh .....BBW 's exactly what it says on the tin

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By *ojoman OP Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"u say they had verifs off ppl u knew ???? why didnt u ask them if they were gen, ?? i would if i had my doubts

well that'll teach me to read thro the messages before i reply lol"

lol, no the profiles that had verified them i checked (3 off)and 1 of those profiles was verified by someone i know/met, but now as there profile is no longer on the site i can't remembr who was bloody who, as mentioned above, moving on,lol

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By *ojoman OP Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"How did 'she' get through your wierdo net?

Simple.

She was chatting to your labido and not your brain.

Oh thats so spot on, kept thinking mmm maybe just maybe, lol

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By *ojoman OP Man
over a year ago

Loch Lomond

"Maybe you were a bit to exited at the prospects of a nice 21 year old who was up for it with you, and maybe your bullshit radar was not as tuned in as it might have been if she was say a 50 BBW?"

Another 100% spot on conclussion, not that i have anything against 50BBW's,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Im on a reading week as well pmsl

She sounds like she's done as much work as I have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe you were a bit to exited at the prospects of a nice 21 year old who was up for it with you, and maybe your bullshit radar was not as tuned in as it might have been if she was say a 50 BBW?

don't be silly you can't be happy and big you know, its against the laws of being a woman lol

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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Dawn French manages it!

Something good came of it.... I looked at the profile and then thought.. How Young?!?! that's just not right. So I put up my "minimum age" by 5 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...and beware of the newbies tarting for verifications by phone and cam - lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have been chatting to a "couple" that we really aren't sure about, we think they might be a man pretending to be a couple. they have verifications, but the female is never around. Have even appraoched the guy for a mmf but has never happened! Pity we can't put name on here but we wouldn't do that.

Lately, Mrs Stormcloud apparently spoke to "female" on phone, but we're still not sure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jesus , wot is it with u people, its simple, ask to see them both on cam, i mean, surely you wudnt meet them anyway without seeing them on cam......

if they cant cam together move on, i wouldnt waste my time or energy wondering if someone is who they say... get on cam or get lost , simple as .. its not rocket science !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"jesus , wot is it with u people, its simple, ask to see them both on cam, i mean, surely you wudnt meet them anyway without seeing them on cam......

if they cant cam together move on, i wouldnt waste my time or energy wondering if someone is who they say... get on cam or get lost , simple as .. its not rocket science !!"

just about to sat that

well said

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

As above !

Go with your gut feeling, if in doubt , reject.

If we were that unsure already, we would be saying no thanks.

There are plenty more people to choose from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"jesus , wot is it with u people, its simple, ask to see them both on cam, i mean, surely you wudnt meet them anyway without seeing them on cam......

if they cant cam together move on, i wouldnt waste my time or energy wondering if someone is who they say... get on cam or get lost , simple as .. its not rocket science !!"

Nice idea, if only it works 100% of the time.

We spoke with a couple on cam, they were all up for meeting, but let us down after we payed for the hotel room, less then 24 hours after asking if we had booked and I had replied with gonna do it shortly, message was read.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

There are some sad people about Wayne.

Obviously just verifying on cam that you are chatting to who they say they are won't make them turn up for a meet.

As they seem to be stalling now, we wouldn't take the chance to even attempt to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanx for the replies. Just wanna say that Steve and I have never cancelled a meet. We have had meets cancelled on us after we have paid out for a babysitter.

We are genuine, we are in this to make new friends and have safe fun with great people.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Thanx for the replies. Just wanna say that Steve and I have never cancelled a meet. We have had meets cancelled on us after we have paid out for a babysitter.

We are genuine, we are in this to make new friends and have safe fun with great people. "

I would make more checks then and if your gut is telling you, this isn't right, walk away.

You may well still get meets who cancel, sometimes there is a perfectly good reason , but hopefully you can out the timewasters better going with your instincts.

Good luck x

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