FabSwingers.com forum: Why did you join Fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 and 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A combination of 2 and 3 when I first joined, but has now changed to mostly 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on for 5 yrs..

Guess all of the above.

Always wanted to go to a club.. So Visited over 3 yrs ago.. Never looked back

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Not sure but still here not found what we where looking for in 5 years..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos im a picture whore and love the attention.

Forums were a great touch and plus meeting men has a tiny thing to do with it also lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was the radio jingle that dragged me in with the promise of unlimited vagina and having men ogle my beautiful penis.

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By *ut4fun6969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

all but 1 at the moment

Been here on and off for about 8 years with couple and single profiles. I keep comimg back

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined first time about 18 months ago, I left a sexless marriage and looking for option 2.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Horny

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

100% 2

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

We came for option 3

didn’t realise this place would generate so many more fantasies so now we are stuck here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 and 4. But I'm easy and happy to see what, or who, comes my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have joined for number 3., number 1. has happened instead and now I'm slowly returning to my original plan :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly?

I was 18 and hooking up with guys I'd meet on nights out, a friend and fuck buddy at the time suggested fab would be a safer way to have casual sex with him as my safety buddy (always knew who and where I was meeting in case of any wronguns).

I signed up, had a few uncomplicated meets, went to a club night a few weeks later And never looked back

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Also looking for friends with benefits.

Done a few of number 2....certainly want to experience more of that

Made some good friends too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have joined for number 3., number 1. has happened instead and now I'm slowly returning to my original plan :D "

Available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the sex

I got some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking to live out our Hotwife fantasies

John

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Sex!

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

For a mfm threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have joined for number 3., number 1. has happened instead and now I'm slowly returning to my original plan :D

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She doesn't seem very interested though :D or maybe I'm just overthinking as usual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its mainly 4 now. Neither of the replies suits why I actually joined.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came on here after suggested to me by a male friend at the time thought why not single after 9 years so gave it a go. To meet new people, chat with others who have the same mindset and these wonderful forums, a few breaks away from here but FAB always draws you back in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/08/20 09:57:18]

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By *ntrigue me 2019Woman
over a year ago

Leicester

I wanted to explore my sexual needs with likeminded people, would be amazing to find love as think the experience would be mind blowing within a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy, curiosity and seeking thrills. Its eye popping when you first join!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have joined for number 3., number 1. has happened instead and now I'm slowly returning to my original plan :D

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She doesn't seem very interested though :D or maybe I'm just overthinking as usual

You’re as daft as she is

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t know why, there’s been some horrible, dreadful mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have joined for number 3., number 1. has happened instead and now I'm slowly returning to my original plan :D

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She doesn't seem very interested though :D or maybe I'm just overthinking as usual

You’re as daft as she is

I think this is the most sincere compliment I have ever received on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wanted to explore my sexual needs with likeminded people, would be amazing to find love as think the experience would be mind blowing within a relationship."

I'd be willing to intrigue you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t know why, there’s been some horrible, dreadful mistake

This isn't the dating site you were looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2,3,and 4..

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

NSA, I had already done the other stuff elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It started as 2 a long while ago. Perspective has changed down the years.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Acting on fantasies, kinks and finding hot husbands to play with

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

4. I know as a single man there is no point in hoping for more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 3 and 4.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

To fulfill my fantasies and making mischievous friends for NSA fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully 4 will lead to 1.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Single over 5 years looking for someone who is as naughty and open-minded in the bedroom like me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make friends and have sex hoping to find someone to go to a ckub

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By *irsty bTV/TS
over a year ago

blackpool

Number 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 and definitely 3

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By *SuperbMan
over a year ago

now in Germany

2 and 3 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t lie.....I just love sex with likeminded people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks everyone, it’s good to know. 2, 3 and 5 for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

4 aswell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

2,3 & 4 for me.

Been on and of here for 5 years, great to talk to people with same things in common, and the naughtiness is always a bonus

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

2 & 3 for me, but only managing 5

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Originally fantasy.. then casual meets, these days none of the above. Just loiter for friendship.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

Very much 4,but in an environment where if we hit it off with the right people then 3 becomes possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 4 for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get the rideeeeeeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be balls deep in clunge town.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Originally fantasy.. then casual meets, these days none of the above. Just loiter for friendship. "

I do like the succinct way in your profile to encourage fab friends not to be a nuisance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

2 & 4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was clearly on the wrong dating site to find copious amounts of sex pre fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 originally but now I also want to make new friends too.

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By *ovelock4Man
over a year ago

Croydon

I had all these spare naked photos doing nothing and needed somewhere to keep them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me (Gem) it was to try sleeping with a woman and just escalated to me finding out I have veru few limits

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

2 & 3.im bi so looking for someone and something special to fulfil what the Mrs won't do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some nice fun meet new people

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Fucked if I can remember...or to be more precise, not fucked & can’t remember...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 and if the chemistry is there then 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unsuccessfully 2

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Dick but found a lot more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2&3

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

Wow after going through all 70 (as it currently is) number of messages here I think I may be the only one and ill be brave and upfront about it.

I joined here 6 years ago (approx) in the hope of 1. To find the ONE!

I can share this here since the vast majority of users here wont read this thread or come to the forums and so im safe.

Im safe because I didnt specify this intention of finding the ONE out right and blatantly on my profile to avoid it being used against me.

Why love/relationship? I had met my ex on a sex site that no longer exists. That relationship ended for reasons beyond our control however it taught me a lesson in that finding someone out there I could connect with who had the same open mind as me would be tricky and rare.

So I joined here to find here.

After 13 or so meets during this time, what I have found is sex and banter and some friendships but have I found the love I seek, no but im patient and optimistic.

Guess ill be trolled now so go ahead have your kicks lol

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

Pretty much 2 & 4, 1 could happen, you never know

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

Originally it was # 2 & 3

Now # 1 & 4

Always # 5

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By *sianMancMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

Originally it was # 2 & 3

Now # 1 & 4

Always # 5

Finally someone else looking for 1 - very rare indeed

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It coincided with our first foray into a club.

Up until then we tended to do our own thing and had just left another site.

After chatting to another couple at Chams, they suggested we try Fab and here we are.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"It coincided with our first foray into a club.

Up until then we tended to do our own thing and had just left another site.

After chatting to another couple at Chams, they suggested we try Fab and here we are.

Would say 2 if we had to choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined fab to make new friends and explore my own sexuality and desires.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Recommended. And now i can't get away

Although, enjoy the flirt and has broadened my experiences meeting equally perverted like-minded people

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

Originally 2. After being badly treated I decided I didn’t need a man in my life all the time. Then I met T 3 months later & couldn’t get rid of him

5 years on & we’re happily married

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

I'm 2 (horny), 3 (broaden experiences) and 4, always handy to have friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1. Looking for love?

2. Looking for NSA?

3. Try to live out your fantasy?

4. Make friends and chat online?

5.Are you just looking at the pictures and Videos?

As this is fab I would like your honest observations but it’s not compulsory!

Originally 2. After being badly treated I decided I didn’t need a man in my life all the time. Then I met T 3 months later & couldn’t get rid of him

5 years on & we’re happily married

J x"

Lovely

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By *ocksuckerLeedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

To suck big cocks, love being in my knees for men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on and off fab 10 years to start with it was 2 then 3 came and pritty much went box list is close to done now hear for 1-2-3 but with this lock down and stuff 4 has become a thing xxx

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By *onkyLemonsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

2,3,4&5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To discover / explore my desires, kink and D/s.. And hopefully have sex lol

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By *n080971Man
over a year ago

Tower Bridge Rd

None the categories mentioned. I simply enjoy havIng fun and discreet mutually enjoyable sexual adventures with relative strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always just 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 and 4

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Shit at relationships

Hyper sexed

Kinky

Don’t think there was anywhere else to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Originally mainly just out of curiosity and escape and probably 2. But these days I'd say all five with the addition of 6.) Learn from others and grow myself as a person.

But actually not the love bit right now if I'm honest, maybe in the future....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a like minded genuine partner. No luck so far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

2 and 3 for me.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just migrated from another site years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just chatting and meeting new folk really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably a combination of 3 and 4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck. That's it.

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By *r.HMan
over a year ago

A gentleman never tells

2,3,4,5 & Busty Belle

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By *ouno2muchMan
over a year ago

Disneyland

"Fuck. That's it. "

I would add 3 & 4 to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet other people for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly for new experiences, explore my bi side, have some threesomes, parties, clubs, gangbangs. Was hoping to make one or two longer term FWB/BF/GF too. And I won't lie, I am here for numbers as well, although I'm still picky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get my brains fucked out by guys that can have a conversation too.

If the conversation is lacking, then just get my brains fucked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex at home and had fantasies I wanted to try and to explore and push my boundaries.

Someone on my NSFW Twitter account suggested fab so took the plunge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a mix of 2 and 3

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

To travel the world and meet lots of new and interesting people

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

So I could have sex with a woman who was a member but her partner only let her have sex with people that were on the site.

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I was suggested it by a friend who I knew was on because I wasn't having any luck finding what I was after on 'normal' dating sites etc

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

"Mainly for new experiences, explore my bi side, have some threesomes, parties, clubs, gangbangs. Was hoping to make one or two longer term FWB/BF/GF too. And I won't lie, I am here for numbers as well, although I'm still picky xx"

Damn these age filters lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get laid

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By *irChefMan
over a year ago

Great dunmow

2+5 but not having a lot of luck on either front.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No2 and no3 for me

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

2, 3 and 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was looking for a man who lied about his age, cocksize and and was desperate to cheat with me on his partner but not let me know that is what he was doing Ideally I would like a man who did all the above one who would expect me to accommodate him turn up at mine a quick fuck him dump his spunk and run. Its hard finding this sort of man in life but was told I could find lots here. Thats why I joined fab.

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By *heQueenOfSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

2+3 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I was looking for a man who lied about his age, cocksize and and was desperate to cheat with me on his partner but not let me know that is what he was doing Ideally I would like a man who did all the above one who would expect me to accommodate him turn up at mine a quick fuck him dump his spunk and run. Its hard finding this sort of man in life but was told I could find lots here. Thats why I joined fab. "

That's me out of the reckoning then.

I'd tell you I had a partner

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