FabSwingers.com forum: Is it so frowned upon a married man cheating

By *arried1000 OP Man
over a year ago

poole

Is it really frowned upon

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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago

Not all that North of North London

Yes. By society as a whole. And swingers tend to adhere to that social norm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would guess you’re about to find out

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

"Is it really frowned upon "

Why dont I fuck your wife behind your back and you can tell us how you feel about it?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I invite you to read my profile text and maybe just maybe, it will make a little sense as to why some feel so passionately about it.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

"Is it really frowned upon

Why dont I fuck your wife behind your back and you can tell us how you feel about it?"

Well put

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Sorry mate

But do you know that old saying

There’s no such thing as a stupid question.

Well in the fab forums there often seems to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By some, yes.

By others, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really frowned upon

Why dont I fuck your wife behind your back and you can tell us how you feel about it?"

Mmf?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shall i go and put all the worms back in your can?

OP, I think it's the same with anything in life.. Some people will like it, some people won't.

Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really frowned upon "

If you have to then I wouldn't go around seeking pity for it tbh fella....

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I invite you to read my profile text and maybe just maybe, it will make a little sense as to why some feel so passionately about it."

You have said how i feel.x

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By *arksxMan
over a year ago

Leicester / London

"Is it really frowned upon

Why dont I fuck your wife behind your back and you can tell us how you feel about it?

Mmf?

A devil's threesome... Eiffel tower? I'm in if you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think society is more accepting of a man if he cheats but not a woman. I think people expect men to cheat rather than women.

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By *cooby6969Man
over a year ago

Gosport

But most guys on her will fuck a married woman its not the same its sexest but who gives a fuck

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By *verage JosephMan
over a year ago

Grays & London

"I invite you to read my profile text and maybe just maybe, it will make a little sense as to why some feel so passionately about it."

Wow that’s some read!!

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

So leading on from married 1000’s post why is it then acceptable for ladies to do it behind their partners back? I ended up on here and finding out about fab because my now ex was on here fucking guys while I was away working abroad in 3-6 month stints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really frowned upon

If you have to then I wouldn't go around seeking pity for it tbh fella....

Really though, this^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So leading on from married 1000’s post why is it then acceptable for ladies to do it behind their partners back? I ended up on here and finding out about fab because my now ex was on here fucking guys while I was away working abroad in 3-6 month stints. "

Most things that are acceptable to some, are not acceptable to others. That's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been with a few married women, best shag ever, 110% descreet and I got to shoot my hot sticky load all over their filthy faces

Broccoli anybody?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

It isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"I invite you to read my profile text and maybe just maybe, it will make a little sense as to why some feel so passionately about it.

You have said how i feel.x"

I've had many messages off men saying the same thing. They feel like I've given them a voice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to try and stay away from married guys don’t need some idiots wife turning up at my door ranting and raven to the full street about how I am bang her husband because sed idiot left his fab account loged in or didn’t clear his browsers history or tryed to sneek a fly message in while wife’s in toilet and got cought

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Personally I don't care if male, female or anything else cheating is cheating and I don't want to be involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s really clowned upon

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By *ister_sMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

There should be a tick box in search for those who are fine with married people/ searching for them etc. It would clear up confusion for all.

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By *otstuffbabeCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

By most i suspect, how would you feel if you saw your wife's profile here? Would you be happy that she's cheating on you?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I invite you to read my profile text and maybe just maybe, it will make a little sense as to why some feel so passionately about it."

Yes and a second YES !!

Been through it myself and certainly the best description of how I feel as well, after my Wife cheated. As they say in the good ole USA you’re Awesome

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

"Is it really frowned upon

Why dont I fuck your wife behind your back and you can tell us how you feel about it?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is by some, not by others. As always it depends on who you're asking.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

"Is it really frowned upon

Why dont I fuck your wife behind your back and you can tell us how you feel about it?"

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By *lasphemouscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

For us yes, it's a huge turn off to us if there's the chance someone else could be hurt emotionally by your actions.

It's one of our very few rules... permission to play.

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By *tokeman4str8funMan
over a year ago

clayton, newcastle

Well, yes

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Is it really frowned upon "

Why wouldn't it be frowned upon? The person you made vows to, who you promised to love and cherish, would be sitting at home while you, without any thought for her feelings, are out shagging. Not to mention the lies, the potential health risks of you catch something and pass it on to her and the general disrespect you're showing her.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I invite you to read my profile text and maybe just maybe, it will make a little sense as to why some feel so passionately about it."

I wuv you my little pocket rocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bobbit-nashers-bit it off -the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it seems to be more acceptable if a woman does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is frowned up and you will be heavily judged in the Forums. I've always thought that no matter what, a partner doesn't cause their spouse to cheat. Even if they are doing it as cry for help or a means to get revenge after being cheated on themselves. The cheater alone is responsible for cheating.

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating"

Not if it’s your sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating"

I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.

Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.

'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously

Just the same as if a woman was cheating.

Why OP, did you want some reassurance that because you’re on a swingers site that it’ll be ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Obviously

Just the same as if a woman was cheating.

Why OP, did you want some reassurance that because you’re on a swingers site that it’ll be ok?"

Wait, what?

This isn't instashag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.

Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.

'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !"

OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.

Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.

'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !

OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating"

If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.

A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I can read the epitaph now

Here lies the OP

Cut down on his prime

Asking "that question"

Wasn't his only crime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.

Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.

'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !

OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating

If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.

A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone will have their own opinion on the subject and everyone is entitled to make their own choices. What you do is up to you but you can't expect everyone to agree with it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.

Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.

'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !

OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating

If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.

A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?

I knew a woman who had an affair with a snake and she took it up the asp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's always a sticky subject but don't think you can judge a situation you nothing about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it's always a sticky subject but don't think you can judge a situation you nothing about

This is my opinion too

Not sure why people need the opinions of a bunch of strangers. Just do what you’re gonna do. Never really understood the reason for these kinds of posts other than to cause unrest!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"it's always a sticky subject but don't think you can judge a situation you nothing about

I bloody can

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"it's always a sticky subject but don't think you can judge a situation you nothing about

No, but you can draw on your own hurts, betrayals, breaches of trust or mere humanity to know you don't want to be party in aiding, abetting and allowing another to crush someone else the way you were crushed.

My question is this to anyone cheating.

If your partner died before you, can you sit front and centre at their funeral knowing what you did with a clear conscience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it really frowned upon

Why dont I fuck your wife behind your back and you can tell us how you feel about it?"

Married or not married. Even in a 'meaningful' relationship it's the worst kick in the 'goolies' that one can experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Society condemns married swingers.

Swingers condemn cheaters.

Cheaters condemn prostitutes and punters.

Prostitutes and punters condemn rapists.

Rapists condemn paedophiles.

Paedophiles condemn the church.

The church condones society.

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By *ouanna JoWoman
over a year ago

A little village

"I think society is more accepting of a man if he cheats but not a woman. I think people expect men to cheat rather than women. "

I wouldn’t be very accepting of my man if he cheated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But most guys on her will fuck a married woman its not the same its sexest but who gives a fuck

I suppose calling it sexist is different to double standards (which it isn't).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's acceptable by different people, especially by those who benefit out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your only cheating ya self at the end of the day !

The fool will be the cheat!

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By *abonWoman
over a year ago

L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham

Too many posts to comment on here

When can we get a like button?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean if I go to the effort of having a wedding and swearing a vow infront of all our friends and family and then break it in probably the most hurtful way to the other person..... then ya some element of society is going to have a negitiave _iew of me right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has reminded me of one of my more complicated relationship(s).

I was seeing a girl who was cheating with me on a long term boyfriend (I didn't know straight away).

I then met another girl and started seeing her (she didn't know I had a girlfriend and my current girlfriend didn't know I'd met someone else).

So I was cheating on someone who was cheating on someone.

In the end neither relationship worked out but the two girls did become friends - and we all went on a double date once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think society is more accepting of a man if he cheats but not a woman. I think people expect men to cheat rather than women.

I wouldn’t be very accepting of my man if he cheated!

I'm more surprised to find out a man hasn't cheated at some point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's thankfully not my drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I don't care if male, female or anything else cheating is cheating and I don't want to be involved"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK last question, what if my wife said OK dash you can have sex with a horse, only to find out it is only a pantomime horse, and the back end is a woman with a strap on who is actually pegging me!! Is that cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK last question, what if my wife said OK dash you can have sex with a horse, only to find out it is only a pantomime horse, and the back end is a woman with a strap on who is actually pegging me!! Is that cheating"

Follow your heart....

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

Not if it’s your sheep

As long as its a female sheep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

Not if it’s your sheep

As long as its a female sheep"

Ewe what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging isnt about cheating, its about sharing fun with your pertner

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Please debate but keep it civil, without any personal attacks.

Thank you

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.

Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.

'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !

OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating

If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.

A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?

That would be a mare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please debate but keep it civil, without any personal attacks.

Thank you"

Woahhh how long g have you been a mod? Iv missed something

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I meet married guys, it's not my business what his home life is like. I just want his big cock to suck.

If I was ever asked by any partner if I had met him, I wouldn't lie.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Please debate but keep it civil, without any personal attacks.

Thank you

Woahhh how long g have you been a mod? Iv missed something

A wee while on Fabguys, it's a quieter forum over there so I pop over to help out

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

Not if it’s your sheep

As long as its a female sheep

Ewe what? "

I'll tee em up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Please debate but keep it civil, without any personal attacks.

Thank you

Woahhh how long g have you been a mod? Iv missed something

A wee while on Fabguys, it's a quieter forum over there so I pop over to help out

Awwwww your a nice chap, can I have free site support now?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Please debate but keep it civil, without any personal attacks.

Thank you

Woahhh how long g have you been a mod? Iv missed something

A wee while on Fabguys, it's a quieter forum over there so I pop over to help out

Awwwww your a nice chap, can I have free site support now? "

think you have me mistaken, a nice chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if the husband got caught fucking a sheep? Is that cheating

I believe the term is 'Sheeting'.

Never a good idea, especially when ewe do it with a local sheep.

'Sheeting on your own doorstep' often has negative ramifications !

OK, what if she said it's OK to shag sheep then caught me shagging a horse? Is that cheating

If she knows and permits you playing with sheep then that's not sheeting but rather consensual bleating.

A horse is a different matter. Have you ever discussed having a ponyamorous relationship ?

I knew a woman who had an affair with a snake and she took it up the asp!"

Not many snakes on here anymore. Most serposexual women on here only meet BBBCs ( Big Brown Boa Constrictors ). Most snakes are average size and compensate by saying they have long tongues and can eat pussy all night long. Eventually they meet up. She gets the hump because he is shorted and has less girth than she imagined.

He is disappointing cause she has only one medium-sized moggy and it's all over in a meow.

He slithers away dejected, she's left devastated knowing she'll never stroke her pussy again and her dog is the only one smiling