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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads " Maybe we're blind. Can't see any of the behaviour you are describing | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads " It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine." Just seems like some real negative attitudes | |||
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"Yes it is. Let’s all leave the site together, that’ll learn um. I’ll just wait to make sure you all get away safely then I’ll follow " | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes " Maybe, you would be hard pressed to find somebody more negative than myself though. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes " Why do you say that? | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine." "..them.." | |||
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"I just scrolled through. I don’t see any. Where? There are loads honestly it just gets a bit old especially when we're all bundled into the same category like the one that asks for things you wouldn't see on a man's profile" That’s just a jokey thread though. Maybe it’s just different sense of humour then. | |||
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"A 45 year old man describing himself as a lad " Yeah I deserve that men, dudes, blokes etc etc | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine." This. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes " Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes " The thing is the ladies here get alot of attention. And alot (not all) is not the kind of attention the ladies are looking for. They get abusive messages for turning down guys. Unfortunately not at single guys are respectful and polite. Some thing cause its a swingers site they are somehow entitled to a shag and don't like the word no. Off the back of this the ladies get irratated and it gets vented through statuses and the forum. Don't take it personally. If you could see it first hand you'd get it. It's definitely not a power trip. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes The thing is the ladies here get alot of attention. And alot (not all) is not the kind of attention the ladies are looking for. They get abusive messages for turning down guys. Unfortunately not at single guys are respectful and polite. Some thing cause its a swingers site they are somehow entitled to a shag and don't like the word no. Off the back of this the ladies get irratated and it gets vented through statuses and the forum. Don't take it personally. If you could see it first hand you'd get it. It's definitely not a power trip. " I get you sounds about right | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand " It’s annoying but to be fair I’ve never had any messages like that from people on the forums. A lot of these threads, the people they’re having a go at and referring to won’t see it anyway probably so pretty pointless! | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand It’s annoying but to be fair I’ve never had any messages like that from people on the forums. A lot of these threads, the people they’re having a go at and referring to won’t see it anyway probably so pretty pointless! " | |||
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"A perfect example of fabicide " Lol yup | |||
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"A perfect example of fabicide " I hope he’s not into women or couples | |||
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"I just scrolled through. I don’t see any. Where? There are loads honestly it just gets a bit old especially when we're all bundled into the same category like the one that asks for things you wouldn't see on a man's profile" But that thread was started by a man..... | |||
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"For some it is. For some it just helps build confidence, even the confidence to say no, which may then come across as a power trip. Some get their power trip kicks in other ways, by trying to be 'top dog' and come between couples. Makes em think they really must be the bees knees if a man will risk his relationship to bang them, even if it's done all sly like. P" Jesus,that kind of shit is really dangerous....then if a man left for the third party,I guarantee the third party would lose interest then,as she got what she wanted,do he is of no interest anymore....can't stand then kind of people. | |||
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"For some it is. For some it just helps build confidence, even the confidence to say no, which may then come across as a power trip. Some get their power trip kicks in other ways, by trying to be 'top dog' and come between couples. Makes em think they really must be the bees knees if a man will risk his relationship to bang them, even if it's done all sly like. P" I have seen I some women’s profiles how they’re cheating on their husband. Of course guys have it as well so works both ways | |||
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"I find these types of threads so laughable, this place must be the first time a lot of men seem to have lost the power they take for granted that they have in every day life and they really don't like how it makes them feel! " | |||
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"For some it is. For some it just helps build confidence, even the confidence to say no, which may then come across as a power trip. Some get their power trip kicks in other ways, by trying to be 'top dog' and come between couples. Makes em think they really must be the bees knees if a man will risk his relationship to bang them, even if it's done all sly like. P Jesus,that kind of shit is really dangerous....then if a man left for the third party,I guarantee the third party would lose interest then,as she got what she wanted,do he is of no interest anymore....can't stand then kind of people." Yep. Show him off for a while and then realise they ain't that compatible after all and move onto the next, but ya know, she must be all that and then some. P | |||
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"For some it is. For some it just helps build confidence, even the confidence to say no, which may then come across as a power trip. Some get their power trip kicks in other ways, by trying to be 'top dog' and come between couples. Makes em think they really must be the bees knees if a man will risk his relationship to bang them, even if it's done all sly like. P Jesus,that kind of shit is really dangerous....then if a man left for the third party,I guarantee the third party would lose interest then,as she got what she wanted,do he is of no interest anymore....can't stand then kind of people. Yep. Show him off for a while and then realise they ain't that compatible after all and move onto the next, but ya know, she must be all that and then some. P" Ewww what?! No way do women like that exist on fab People baffle me. Be happy folks. Don’t try and cause destruction | |||
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"For some it is. For some it just helps build confidence, even the confidence to say no, which may then come across as a power trip. Some get their power trip kicks in other ways, by trying to be 'top dog' and come between couples. Makes em think they really must be the bees knees if a man will risk his relationship to bang them, even if it's done all sly like. P Jesus,that kind of shit is really dangerous....then if a man left for the third party,I guarantee the third party would lose interest then,as she got what she wanted,do he is of no interest anymore....can't stand then kind of people. Yep. Show him off for a while and then realise they ain't that compatible after all and move onto the next, but ya know, she must be all that and then some. P" I think she'd have real issues. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads " Sounds like sour grapes to me.. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads Sounds like sour grapes to me.." There does seem to be a lot of angry women on here lol who are looking for an argument or perhaps these forums attract people that like to argue lol | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads Sounds like sour grapes to me.. There does seem to be a lot of angry women on here lol who are looking for an argument or perhaps these forums attract people that like to argue lol " Or maybe my comment was the correct one and men just hate the fact that they just don't call the shots on here, much to their chagrin! | |||
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"Women always have the upper hand on here. It's supply and demand" For the first time it appears more women than men for a change. Maybe all married men would be spending time at home! | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine." Good man | |||
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"I think a lot gets lost in different people's humour and how they read/interpret things. " You still have fallen for mine...YET! | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads Sounds like sour grapes to me.. There does seem to be a lot of angry women on here lol who are looking for an argument or perhaps these forums attract people that like to argue lol Or maybe my comment was the correct one and men just hate the fact that they just don't call the shots on here, much to their chagrin!" Guess they don’t realise the ratio to men to women or here. They annoyed cos they’re getting no one so take it out on the women, who don’t have much control in the amount of messages they get | |||
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"I think a lot gets lost in different people's humour and how they read/interpret things. You still have fallen for mine...YET! " I'm still interpreting | |||
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"I think a lot gets lost in different people's humour and how they read/interpret things. You still have fallen for mine...YET! I'm still interpreting " I see! | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads Sounds like sour grapes to me.. There does seem to be a lot of angry women on here lol who are looking for an argument or perhaps these forums attract people that like to argue lol Or maybe my comment was the correct one and men just hate the fact that they just don't call the shots on here, much to their chagrin! Guess they don’t realise the ratio to men to women or here. They annoyed cos they’re getting no one so take it out on the women, who don’t have much control in the amount of messages they get" Plus add in the fact that they just don't know how to speak to women! For example, if you met a woman in a bar for the first time, that took your interest, would you lead the conversation with how big your cock you is? How great your bedroom antics were? Or would you expect a complete rejection or even a kick in the balls? On here? Men are practically being handed their own balls back on a plate! Go figure why that would be, or is it only women that understand that concept? | |||
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"I think a lot gets lost in different people's humour and how they read/interpret things. You still have fallen for mine...YET! I'm still interpreting I see! " I meant, you still haven't fallen for mine! Typo. My apologies. | |||
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"I think a lot gets lost in different people's humour and how they read/interpret things. " I really do believe this is true. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads Sounds like sour grapes to me.. There does seem to be a lot of angry women on here lol who are looking for an argument or perhaps these forums attract people that like to argue lol Or maybe my comment was the correct one and men just hate the fact that they just don't call the shots on here, much to their chagrin! Guess they don’t realise the ratio to men to women or here. They annoyed cos they’re getting no one so take it out on the women, who don’t have much control in the amount of messages they get Plus add in the fact that they just don't know how to speak to women! For example, if you met a woman in a bar for the first time, that took your interest, would you lead the conversation with how big your cock you is? How great your bedroom antics were? Or would you expect a complete rejection or even a kick in the balls? On here? Men are practically being handed their own balls back on a plate! Go figure why that would be, or is it only women that understand that concept? " And the women who don't know how to converse with men.. | |||
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"Definitely yes, we're not all that in 'real' life and no one gives us a second glance in the pubs. But, put us on here and we get masses of attention, and go to swinging clubs and the same there. So definitely agree with you op, but as some have said, we do get some awful messages to deal with regularly. " Good comment. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads Sounds like sour grapes to me.. There does seem to be a lot of angry women on here lol who are looking for an argument or perhaps these forums attract people that like to argue lol Or maybe my comment was the correct one and men just hate the fact that they just don't call the shots on here, much to their chagrin! Guess they don’t realise the ratio to men to women or here. They annoyed cos they’re getting no one so take it out on the women, who don’t have much control in the amount of messages they get Plus add in the fact that they just don't know how to speak to women! For example, if you met a woman in a bar for the first time, that took your interest, would you lead the conversation with how big your cock you is? How great your bedroom antics were? Or would you expect a complete rejection or even a kick in the balls? On here? Men are practically being handed their own balls back on a plate! Go figure why that would be, or is it only women that understand that concept? And the women who don't know how to converse with men.. " I can't comment about that, as they are not my democratic, I can only comment about the crass messages I receive. | |||
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"I think a lot gets lost in different people's humour and how they read/interpret things. I really do believe this is true. " I like your bum. If I was a bum man then I would be tempted to give it a good bumming. But then, I dont want to be the guy who is, the pain in your bum! | |||
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"I think a lot gets lost in different people's humour and how they read/interpret things. I really do believe this is true. I like your bum. If I was a bum man then I would be tempted to give it a good bumming. But then, I dont want to be the guy who is, the pain in your bum! " What’s my bum got to do with it? | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand " This over these last few weeks I’ve had no end of arse wipes and abuse. I’ve got my filters on too. Seems it’s getting to people too much. | |||
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"I find these types of threads so laughable, this place must be the first time a lot of men seem to have lost the power they take for granted that they have in every day life and they really don't like how it makes them feel! " You know what I've thought this soo many times but not said it! | |||
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"I think a lot gets lost in different people's humour and how they read/interpret things. I really do believe this is true. I like your bum. If I was a bum man then I would be tempted to give it a good bumming. But then, I dont want to be the guy who is, the pain in your bum! What’s my bum got to do with it? " I just saw your bum. And I lost it! | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand " I agree, tough being single female on here. We get alot abuse also. Spend time replying to messages even if its sorry not for me, then get insulting messages back. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand I agree, tough being single female on here. We get alot abuse also. Spend time replying to messages even if its sorry not for me, then get insulting messages back. " How do you decide who to talk to if you get so many. I mean from the guys who aren’t abuse? | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand I agree, tough being single female on here. We get alot abuse also. Spend time replying to messages even if its sorry not for me, then get insulting messages back. How do you decide who to talk to if you get so many. I mean from the guys who aren’t abuse? " Personally I look at the profile first. If that's blank. I just delete and block. If they're nothing like the preferences stated in my profile I'll delete and block. If they do match location/height etc and have more than 'fill in later' as profile text, then I'll read the message. I probably delete un read about 80% of 1St messages. Not that I get a huge amount, but that's because I've made good use of filters. Others may not be as ruthless. | |||
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"I find these types of threads so laughable, this place must be the first time a lot of men seem to have lost the power they take for granted that they have in every day life and they really don't like how it makes them feel! You know what I've thought this soo many times but not said it! " Not all men surely _arbells ? | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand I agree, tough being single female on here. We get alot abuse also. Spend time replying to messages even if its sorry not for me, then get insulting messages back. How do you decide who to talk to if you get so many. I mean from the guys who aren’t abuse? Personally I look at the profile first. If that's blank. I just delete and block. If they're nothing like the preferences stated in my profile I'll delete and block. If they do match location/height etc and have more than 'fill in later' as profile text, then I'll read the message. I probably delete un read about 80% of 1St messages. Not that I get a huge amount, but that's because I've made good use of filters. Others may not be as ruthless. " Hmm that’s seems a great way to go about it So if they have a good profile, location and everything in your preference apart from height, you just delete their message? Also, what do you look for in a first message? | |||
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"I find these types of threads so laughable, this place must be the first time a lot of men seem to have lost the power they take for granted that they have in every day life and they really don't like how it makes them feel! You know what I've thought this soo many times but not said it! Not all men surely _arbells ?" Definitely not! Some absolutely cracking guys on and off here. I love men but I do think some men struggle with the power shift and struggle to deal with it by reverting to abuse and tantrums. X | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads " Could you point us in the direction of these loads of threads that you are on about? | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand I agree, tough being single female on here. We get alot abuse also. Spend time replying to messages even if its sorry not for me, then get insulting messages back. How do you decide who to talk to if you get so many. I mean from the guys who aren’t abuse? " Read there profiles and verification. If they have put some effort in and fairly local then I chat and ask for face pic. And go from there. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand I agree, tough being single female on here. We get alot abuse also. Spend time replying to messages even if its sorry not for me, then get insulting messages back. How do you decide who to talk to if you get so many. I mean from the guys who aren’t abuse? Personally I look at the profile first. If that's blank. I just delete and block. If they're nothing like the preferences stated in my profile I'll delete and block. If they do match location/height etc and have more than 'fill in later' as profile text, then I'll read the message. I probably delete un read about 80% of 1St messages. Not that I get a huge amount, but that's because I've made good use of filters. Others may not be as ruthless. Hmm that’s seems a great way to go about it So if they have a good profile, location and everything in your preference apart from height, you just delete their message? Also, what do you look for in a first message? " Depends on the height. Preference is 6ft+ but if every thing else is good then if they're taller than my 5ft 8 its still good. Shorter than me is a no. First messages, a little info and pics if non public on profile. Not 12 cock pics from slightly different angles over an open toilet. Yeah that happens. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads " On here, there are 50 "single" guys trying to get the attention of every single lady. They can afford to pick and choose, if you're not what they want they'll move on. Cal | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads On here, there are 50 "single" guys trying to get the attention of every single lady. They can afford to pick and choose, if you're not what they want they'll move on. Cal" You could probably treble that number if you take out the fakes and the fantasists | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes Think it doesn't help when females get sent abuse for pretty much any reason. Expecting us to drop our pants instantly and not being grateful we received a 'hi' or 'wanna meet now' message from a blank profile. If you deal with that on a daily basis you'd probably understand I agree, tough being single female on here. We get alot abuse also. Spend time replying to messages even if its sorry not for me, then get insulting messages back. How do you decide who to talk to if you get so many. I mean from the guys who aren’t abuse? Personally I look at the profile first. If that's blank. I just delete and block. If they're nothing like the preferences stated in my profile I'll delete and block. If they do match location/height etc and have more than 'fill in later' as profile text, then I'll read the message. I probably delete un read about 80% of 1St messages. Not that I get a huge amount, but that's because I've made good use of filters. Others may not be as ruthless. Hmm that’s seems a great way to go about it So if they have a good profile, location and everything in your preference apart from height, you just delete their message? Also, what do you look for in a first message? Depends on the height. Preference is 6ft+ but if every thing else is good then if they're taller than my 5ft 8 its still good. Shorter than me is a no. First messages, a little info and pics if non public on profile. Not 12 cock pics from slightly different angles over an open toilet. Yeah that happens. " That’s fair enough. Like info about them in general and what they like to do? wow that’s crazy why some think you need so many tbh. That’s nuts | |||
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"If you were a woman and read through some of the messages we get in our inbox you'd understand why we rant about men. It's nothing to do with women having power, it's to do with men thinking they are special because they have a penis. It's not all negative though, and nowhere as much as you are making out. I see comments on the forums every day where the women of fab say nothing but good things about some of the men on this website. You see amazing friendships, banter and respect between a man and a woman. If you stop focusing on us being on a power trip and open your eyes you'll see it too." Yes. While there are many wonderful things that come from Fab, which is why I stay, it's certainly not empowering to sort through the horrendous entitlement and abuse that can come my way. It's actually depressing at times. And then people think I'm on a power trip because I get to choose who I want to talk to... | |||
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"I think that so many men who are bitter about women having control of whi they speak to, who they meat and who they have sex with says far more about male privilege and entitlement more than anything else " Thank you. | |||
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"I think that so many men who are bitter about women having control of whi they speak to, who they meat and who they have sex with says far more about male privilege and entitlement more than anything else " When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression | |||
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"I think that so many men who are bitter about women having control of whi they speak to, who they meat and who they have sex with says far more about male privilege and entitlement more than anything else When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression " I'll never not love that quote. | |||
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"I think that so many men who are bitter about women having control of whi they speak to, who they meat and who they have sex with says far more about male privilege and entitlement more than anything else When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression " Love both these posts, so so true | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads It's only the dickheads they tend to rip into. Treat them like human beings and you will be fine. Just seems like some real negative attitudes The thing is the ladies here get alot of attention. And alot (not all) is not the kind of attention the ladies are looking for. They get abusive messages for turning down guys. Unfortunately not at single guys are respectful and polite. Some thing cause its a swingers site they are somehow entitled to a shag and don't like the word no. Off the back of this the ladies get irratated and it gets vented through statuses and the forum. Don't take it personally. If you could see it first hand you'd get it. It's definitely not a power trip. " When I turn down a guy I block him straight away so he can’t contact me again and it stops any potential abuse from him. | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads On here, there are 50 "single" guys trying to get the attention of every single lady. They can afford to pick and choose, if you're not what they want they'll move on. Cal You could probably treble that number if you take out the fakes and the fantasists " To be fair it was an arbitrary figure just to make a point... I don't know the real ratio. The point is valid though. Cal | |||
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"Just wondering as loads of these threads seem to be ladies just totally slating lads " I don't see it that way. If the women have a problem, its their problem and their issue. Block them. Move onto someone else without issues. | |||
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"I think that so many men who are bitter about women having control of whi they speak to, who they meat and who they have sex with says far more about male privilege and entitlement more than anything else When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression " Wonderful | |||
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"I think that so many men who are bitter about women having control of whi they speak to, who they meat and who they have sex with says far more about male privilege and entitlement more than anything else When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression Wonderful " What are the privileges men have been given? | |||
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"I think that so many men who are bitter about women having control of whi they speak to, who they meat and who they have sex with says far more about male privilege and entitlement more than anything else When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression Wonderful What are the privileges men have been given? " The roll eyes says you don’t believe it. I’m far from an expert on this but I’ll start with more financial independence due to 20% higher salary and much better career prospects. There’s the addition of more physical strength too, so whenever you go into an encounter, you don’t have to be scared. One woman in a room with 10 blokes and it’s frightening. One man in a room of 10 blokes or women and he’s fine. There are lots of others that come from these but you can look it up if you want | |||
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"I think that so many men who are bitter about women having control of whi they speak to, who they meat and who they have sex with says far more about male privilege and entitlement more than anything else When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression Wonderful What are the privileges men have been given? The roll eyes says you don’t believe it. I’m far from an expert on this but I’ll start with more financial independence due to 20% higher salary and much better career prospects. There’s the addition of more physical strength too, so whenever you go into an encounter, you don’t have to be scared. One woman in a room with 10 blokes and it’s frightening. One man in a room of 10 blokes or women and he’s fine. There are lots of others that come from these but you can look it up if you want" Men's careers tend to benefit from the fact they don't give birth, but then they never get to be a mother! Time with kids or time at a desk, I'd prefer being the mother! Guys can beat up more people? Says who lol which decade you in! she can wound with her eyes and ruin your faith with her casual lies, blame it all on yourself coz she's a woman to me ..... It's from a billy Joel song ...... Women have strength might not be the same strength as men, but they have it ! We have different attributes, Delilah fucked Samson | |||
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"Yes it is. Let’s all leave the site together, that’ll learn um. I’ll just wait to make sure you all get away safely then I’ll follow " This was two days ago. I thought more would of gone unlos by now | |||
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"One or two more: If you have a bad day or are in a bad mood, people aren’t going to blame it on your gender. You can be careless with your money and not have people blame it on your gender. You can be a careless driver and not have people blame it on your gender. You can be confident that your coworkers won’t assume you were hired because of your gender. If you are never promoted, it isn’t because of your gender. You can expect to be paid equitably for the work you do and not paid less because of your gender. If you are unable to succeed in your career, that won’t be seen as evidence against your gender in the workplace. A decision to hire you won’t be based on whether the employer assumes you will be having children in the near future. You can generally work comfortably (or walk down a public street) without the fear of sexual harassment. You can generally walk alone at night without the fear of being r*ped or otherwise harmed. You can go on a date with a stranger without the fear of being r*ped. You can dress how you want and not worry it will be used as a defense if you are r*ped. If you are straight, you are not likely to be abused by your partner nor be told to continue living in an abusive household for your children. You can decide not to have children and not have your masculinity questioned. If you choose to have children, you will be praised for caring for your children instead of being expected to be the full-time caretaker. You can balance a career and a family without being called selfish for not staying at home (or being constantly pressured to stay at home). If you are straight and decide to have children with your partner, you can assume this will not affect your career. If you rise to prominence in an organization/role, no one will assume it is because you slept your way to the top. You can seek political office without having your gender be a part of your platform. You can seek political office without fear of your relationship with your children, or whom you hire to take care of them, being scrutinized by the press. Most political representatives share your gender, particularly the higher-ups. Your political officials fight for issues that pertain to your gender, or at least don’t dismiss your issues as “special interest.” You can ask for the “person in charge” and will likely be greeted by a member of your gender. As a child, you were able to find plenty of non-limiting, non-gender-role-stereotyped media to view. You can disregard your appearance without worrying about being criticized at work or in social situations. You can spend time on your appearance without being criticized for upholding unhealthy gender norms. If you’re not conventionally attractive (or in shape), you don’t have to worry as much about it negatively affecting your social or career potential. You’re not expected to spend excessive amounts of money on grooming, style, and appearance to fit in, while making less money. You can have promiscuous sex and be viewed positively for it. You can go to a car dealership or mechanic and assume you’ll get a fair deal and not be taken advantage of. Colloquial phrases and conventional language reflect your gender (e.g., mailman, “all men are created equal”). Every major religion in the world is led by individuals of your gender. You can practice religion without subjugating yourself or thinking of yourself as less because of your gender. You are unlikely to be interrupted in conversations because of your gender." All of that is not fact, it's an opinion and could be countered with the opposite for men... I.e as a male child I was told dolls were for girls, pink for girls, cooking for girls, man had to fight, man up, big boys don't cry....... Etc etc etc Both genders can whine lol if we've really moved on we should be seeing past this sort of thing | |||
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"Nope. Not interested in the men on here." Like it and me neither, well only the cute ones and some of the tvs....... And a nice solid butt but shaven.... Maybe oh and ....... | |||
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"Not a power trip in the slightest, i have no feelings of granduer, i know a large amount of men on fab would compliment a potato if they thought they could shag it." This | |||
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"Not a power trip in the slightest, i have no feelings of granduer, i know a large amount of men on fab would compliment a potato if they thought they could shag it." You can shag a potato, bake it and fill with butter, 3 mins before it cools! | |||
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"Not a power trip in the slightest, i have no feelings of granduer, i know a large amount of men on fab would compliment a potato if they thought they could shag it." Potato is such a cute word isn’t it | |||
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"Not a power trip in the slightest, i have no feelings of granduer, i know a large amount of men on fab would compliment a potato if they thought they could shag it." Yeah. If anything it's just annoying Oh look another cock over an unflushed toilet. Delightful. | |||
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"Not a power trip in the slightest, i have no feelings of granduer, i know a large amount of men on fab would compliment a potato if they thought they could shag it. Potato is such a cute word isn’t it " And so versatile | |||
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"Very old spuds at this stage though" It's rude to ask a potato her age | |||
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"What power have men got in everyday life? It’s very laughable that you use a site like her to feel powerful over the opposite sex" It's laughable that you feel that we do, so much so that you resurrected an ancient thread. | |||
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"What power have men got in everyday life? It’s very laughable that you use a site like her to feel powerful over the opposite sex" What kind of power we got? Soul power! | |||
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"Is it too late for potato waffles?" Nope...throw a poached egg on top, a sprinkle of cheese... we'll be onto a winner. | |||
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"Not a power trip in the slightest, i have no feelings of granduer, i know a large amount of men on fab would compliment a potato if they thought they could shag it. Potato is such a cute word isn’t it " When the chips are down, shag a potato | |||
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"What power have men got in everyday life? It’s very laughable that you use a site like her to feel powerful over the opposite sex" What on earth did you search for to resurrect this? | |||
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"What power have men got in everyday life? It’s very laughable that you use a site like her to feel powerful over the opposite sex What on earth did you search for to resurrect this? " Pretty sure someone did a post about bringing back old threads and getting them to 175 | |||
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"What power have men got in everyday life? It’s very laughable that you use a site like her to feel powerful over the opposite sex" It's the babe with the power... | |||
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"What power have men got in everyday life? It’s very laughable that you use a site like her to feel powerful over the opposite sex" "So what are we going to do tonight Brain?" -"Well Pinky, tonight we're going to take over the world!!" | |||
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"https://youtu.be/nm6DO_7px1I?si=EcDRpOCff-k0j_yE (Snap! - The Power)" Thanks for that earworm just as I go to bed... | |||
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"https://youtu.be/nm6DO_7px1I?si=EcDRpOCff-k0j_yE (Snap! - The Power) Thanks for that earworm just as I go to bed..." Sharing is caring? | |||
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"What power have men got in everyday life? It’s very laughable that you use a site like her to feel powerful over the opposite sex It's the babe with the power..." Power of voodoo... | |||
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