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By *m83 OP Man
over a year ago

Lisburn

What is it women want to see in your first message to them

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By *ojos jugsWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

A face pic always helps get the ball rolling..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

Honestly. I don't read messages anymore. If there's a bit of banter on the forums. Then I will take a look

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

That you can write one

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By *obbym522000Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Honestly. I don't read messages anymore. If there's a bit of banter on the forums. Then I will take a look"

agreed. a bit of craic is a real turn on isnt it. imagine a divilish eye eh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of punctuation is always appreciated.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"A face pic always helps get the ball rolling.. "

Bollox to that ... face pics need to be earned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A face pic always helps get the ball rolling..

Bollox to that ... face pics need to be earned

I agree

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Just a quick hi with something that I can reply to other than hi how are you.

Also not a copy/paste of their profile text.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

A copy of your bank statement, an acceptance letter from mensa, and an invitation to your villa in Cannes....

Failing that a polite hello, an indication that you've read their profile, and a touch of humour might work...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A copy of your bank statement, an acceptance letter from mensa, and an invitation to your villa in Cannes....

Failing that a polite hello, an indication that you've read their profile, and a touch of humour might work...

Wait a minute - whatever happened to just sending a close up cock pic and asking you if you want to play with it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A copy of your bank statement, an acceptance letter from mensa, and an invitation to your villa in Cannes....

Failing that a polite hello, an indication that you've read their profile, and a touch of humour might work...

Wait a minute - whatever happened to just sending a close up cock pic and asking you if you want to play with it ?

That's the second message, silly

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"A copy of your bank statement, an acceptance letter from mensa, and an invitation to your villa in Cannes....

Failing that a polite hello, an indication that you've read their profile, and a touch of humour might work...

Wait a minute - whatever happened to just sending a close up cock pic and asking you if you want to play with it ?

Tsk... keep up man... that's sooo last week! Current trend is wearing a toolbelt and asking if you've any leaks need plumbing?

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle. "

And socks on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

Obviously white socks pulled right up is what ur really looking for

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

Obviously white socks pulled right up is what ur really looking for

If they're matching it's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

Obviously white socks pulled right up is what ur really looking for

If they're matching it's a bonus

They have to match, odd socks give the creeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi"

That's all, just the word hi. Let them take the initiative...

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

Obviously white socks pulled right up is what ur really looking for

If they're matching it's a bonus

They have to match, odd socks give the creeps

Sometimes I deliberately wear odd socks

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By *obbym522000Man
over a year ago

Galway

"A bit of punctuation is always appreciated."

so you like the punctuation eh....

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"A copy of your bank statement, an acceptance letter from mensa, and an invitation to your villa in Cannes....

Failing that a polite hello, an indication that you've read their profile, and a touch of humour might work...

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

Obviously white socks pulled right up is what ur really looking for

If they're matching it's a bonus

They have to match, odd socks give the creeps

Sometimes I deliberately wear odd socks

Oh you little rebel you. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A copy of your bank statement, an acceptance letter from mensa, and an invitation to your villa in Cannes....

Failing that a polite hello, an indication that you've read their profile, and a touch of humour might work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A copy of your bank statement, an acceptance letter from mensa, and an invitation to your villa in Cannes....

Failing that a polite hello, an indication that you've read their profile, and a touch of humour might work...

Wait a minute - whatever happened to just sending a close up cock pic and asking you if you want to play with it ?

That's the second message, silly"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"What is it women want to see in your first message to them"

Based on the couple's profile I have with C.... the one thing women do not want is cock pics. Women and couples hate unsolicited cock pics. Nothing worse than opening a message and having some raging hard on just staring me right in the face.

Also hate crude messages such as "Fancy a fuck?" or presumptuous messages like "I'm free now if you want me to come round" or "When are you free?".

We usually find the best messages are ones who say hi and a little bit about themselves. A face pic is helpful as it can save time from constant message tennis if there isn't a mutual attraction.

Also, some humour and decent spelling, punctuation and grammar earns bonus points with us. Everybody is different but this is what we prefer and like in opening messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

Obviously white socks pulled right up is what ur really looking for

If they're matching it's a bonus

They have to match, odd socks give the creeps

Sometimes I deliberately wear odd socks

It's OK when we meet I'll bring a matching socks

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

Obviously white socks pulled right up is what ur really looking for

If they're matching it's a bonus

They have to match, odd socks give the creeps

Sometimes I deliberately wear odd socks

Oh you little rebel you. Lol

I know I know I astound myself sometimes with how 'mad' I can be

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

Obviously white socks pulled right up is what ur really looking for

If they're matching it's a bonus

They have to match, odd socks give the creeps

Sometimes I deliberately wear odd socks

It's OK when we meet I'll bring a matching socks

So will I and we can swap one sock each so will both have the same matching odd pair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

Obviously white socks pulled right up is what ur really looking for

If they're matching it's a bonus

They have to match, odd socks give the creeps

Sometimes I deliberately wear odd socks

It's OK when we meet I'll bring a matching socks

So will I and we can swap one sock each so will both have the same matching odd pair

That's some serious commitment right there matching odd socks

though you'd have to my mind off the odd sock issue

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By *m83 OP Man
over a year ago

Lisburn

Is the most important part that the stocks match? Does it matter if there is a hole in them?

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Is the most important part that the stocks match? Does it matter if there is a hole in them? "

Personally I don't like to see socks at all... holes no holes

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

A cock in a sock does it for me.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

A cock in a sock does it for me.

Ewwwwwww a crusty sock or a nice fresh white sock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

A cock in a sock does it for me.

With a hole to let it peep through lol

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By *on DraperMan
over a year ago

East of Eden

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

A cock in a sock does it for me.

A recreation of the Abbey Road E.P album cover by the Red Hot Chili Peppers......

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

A cock in a sock does it for me.

With a hole to let it peep through lol "

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

A cock in a sock does it for me.

With a hole to let it peep through lol "

Noooooo...it will spit if there's a hole

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

A cock in a sock does it for me.

A recreation of the Abbey Road E.P album cover by the Red Hot Chili Peppers......

Just googled that... a few empty socks....lol

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By *on DraperMan
over a year ago

East of Eden

"They all want Cock pics from every angle and elevation preferably with some household item for reference over a toilet bowl with you undetcrackers around your ankle.

And socks on

A cock in a sock does it for me.

A recreation of the Abbey Road E.P album cover by the Red Hot Chili Peppers......

Just googled that... a few empty socks....lol"

Must have been cold....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The op asked the million dollar qiestion and got mocked by the ladys of fab !! Shame on u

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"The op asked the million dollar qiestion and got mocked by the ladys of fab !! Shame on u

Wag your finger elsewhere...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find girls love a close up of your hairy ring!! Nothing else, no introduction just straight up arse! Drives them wild!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"The op asked the million dollar qiestion and got mocked by the ladys of fab !! Shame on u

Wag your finger elsewhere...

Fun was being had(shame on us

) but in fairness nobody can tell another person what to put in a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A face pic always helps get the ball rolling..

Bollox to that ... face pics need to be earned

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very true but when you eventually receive them after to much table tennis.. Then

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By *oney_Bee_xTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Something nice and respectful always helps.

Something in response to my profile, or to show common ground to what has been written on my profile is a good start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A copy of your bank statement, an acceptance letter from mensa, and an invitation to your villa in Cannes....

Failing that a polite hello, an indication that you've read their profile, and a touch of humour might work...

PMSL...only you.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"A copy of your bank statement, an acceptance letter from mensa, and an invitation to your villa in Cannes....

Failing that a polite hello, an indication that you've read their profile, and a touch of humour might work...

PMSL...only you.

ok... ok... so I was kidding about the Cannes invite...

Daytrip to Fishguard? I can be flexible....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never compromise hun..never compromise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worst opening up and all it says "Hi" where ya from?

All I wanna say is.. none of your God damn business

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By *ellboy101Man
over a year ago

cavan

"Nothing worst opening up and all it says "Hi" where ya from?

All I wanna say is.. none of your God damn business

Heaven by any chance?

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